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If you guys have issues (children) together, that is completely normal. Otherwise, just pull out the way you used to "Pull out".

HacheNoire:
What’s the business of Nairaland with you and your Ex?
Did you create a topic when you met your Ex? Why should we now be responsible for deliberating on how you will put out?

Good question, when karma start now you will call satan different names. The biggest mistake a man can make is to "befriend " a married woman. Heaven will just be completely locked for him. Things that ought to take him a year to achieve will be done in 10 years. Unfortunately, he may not know this. So life and hardship goes.

showboy2301:
You sure say na only advice you dey give her? 😏😏😏

..also gives her advice in the other room 🙄

YourGFsnatcher:
My ex married a very nice man.
But she's still loyal to me. She doesn't take any major decision without consulting me.
She completely believes in my judgement.
Thought I always give her sound judgement, but I think it's time for her to look unto her husband.

I wouldn't want my wife to rely on her ex before taking any major decision.

How can I pull out?

If I tell you that you are wrecking a home, you wouldn't believe it.
And most importantly, if I tell you that your Ex is actually a "fish-brain" lady, you wouldn't believe it -- because you still have some flames of love left in your heart for her.

YourGFsnatcher:
My ex married a very nice man.
But she's still loyal to me. She doesn't take any major decision without consulting me.
She completely believes in my judgement.
Thought I always give her sound judgement, but I think it's time for her to look unto her husband.

I wouldn't want my wife to rely on her ex before taking any major decision.

How can I pull out?

Just be busy with yourself. because you ve enough spare time to listen and advise. Do better things with the abundant time.

Both of you, that is you and her, are messed up modafokas, she's really only just looking for outside dick while you are a delusional sociopath relishing this imaginary control u think u've got on her, it's all just very petty stuff u got going on really. Grow up! Remember karma doesn't need your address, you'll 100percent reap what you're foolishly sowing. Respect marriage, fear God.. mumu feeling funky

Guy man, na cruise you dey catch. Keep on enjoying your married ex; but sure, e go cast. Na the mind wey you get, to even come proudly tell us.

Are you feeling like you are dominating her marriage or you are feeling like it is wrong.
Comot mouth for people marriage
If not, wait for your turn too
E go soon reach you too.
Pull out the way you pull in
I talk to my married exes too but
If dem carry mouth put for marriage
I go tell them straight
Na your cross carry am
Dem den tire, dem no dey carry talk go there if we dey talk.

Pull out the way u pull out from her punany.

YourGFsnatcher:
My ex married a very nice man.
But she's still loyal to me. She doesn't take any major decision without consulting me.
She completely believes in my judgement.
Thought I always give her sound judgement, but I think it's time for her to look unto her husband.

I wouldn't want my wife to rely on her ex before taking any major decision.

How can I pull out?

Simple

Just cut off all contacts

You are one of the few reasonable ones out there, most won't think like this
You clearly don't want someone doing that with your wife , so cut her loose
She won't like it
And may not want to go away easily
But be matured and consistent once you make your move, not that you will have it at the back of your mind to be seeing her from time to time , do a totally cut off

Wish you luck cos you need it, such woman can at times be difficult to cut lose
I believe she will move on without you
She hasn't moved on cos you are still in touch, cut her off totally

Continue

The op doesn't know yet that he is being used. Smart woman. She has two male characters in her life, the main character and the backup, with both parties none the wiser.
Devious

ReluctantAdult:
It's a power trip; the sort that con religious leaders crave; hence the 'Daddy' title they demand to be addressed as

Satan get power o

^^^

YourGFsnatcher:
My ex married a very nice man.
But she's still loyal to me. She doesn't take any major decision without consulting me.
She completely believes in my judgement.
Thought I always give her sound judgement, but I think it's time for her to look unto her husband.

I wouldn't want my wife to rely on her ex before taking any major decision.

How can I pull out?

Just pull out by maintaining a safe distance from the couple. You may have to live through a similar experience either Now or in your next Life…if you cannot understand how the husband of your ex would feel if he knew what is happening. The Golden Principle is: Do Unto Others As You Would Have Others Do Unto You!

nifemi25:
Karma is real

If you know, you know.

YourGFsnatcher:
My ex married a very nice man.
But she's still loyal to me. She doesn't take any major decision without consulting me.
She completely believes in my judgement.
Thought I always give her sound judgement, but I think it's time for her to look unto her husband.

I wouldn't want my wife to rely on her ex before taking any major decision.

How can I pull out?

first book appointment with a therapist that you want factory reset

Then come back and ask for our opinion

YourGFsnatcher:
My ex married a very nice man.
But she's still loyal to me. She doesn't take any major decision without consulting me.
She completely believes in my judgement.
Thought I always give her sound judgement, but I think it's time for her to look unto her husband.

I wouldn't want my wife to rely on her ex before taking any major decision.

How can I pull out?

The same way you went in

shinealight:
Just pull out by maintaining a safe distance from the couple. You may have to live through a similar experience either Now or in your next Life…if you cannot understand how the husband of your ex would feel if he knew what is happening. The Golden Principle is: Do Unto Others As You Would Have Others Do Unto You!

You to need doctor

For been this gentle
You think is brain is not telling him this yet

.that man need to be confined in a zoo

"When you consider the significant risks you are essentially setting yourself up for, risks no woman can ever acknowledge, empathize with or appreciate, the single most important thing you can do is vet her according to that woman’s sexual past." - Book 3, Positive Masculinity

"Most men never vet women for anything like long term acceptability." - Rational Male

You better block that serpent ASAP

Your wife's Ex and many Men will definitely advice her right in your nose, whatever you do will come 10fold back to you

I've been on Nairaland since January 2007......and one thing I have noticed is that most of the unintelligent posts like this one here come from the guys...my gender why

You still control your ex from her husband house and you are happy ba?🙄

I came across this kind of case on agidigbo fm in Ibadan , whereby a married woman presented her ex as a brother to her husband, and the woman is taking order from him and report everything that is happening in her home to the so called ex , even the guy is giving a specific time to have sex with her husband with evidence of voice note provided during the program.your own time is coming to put mouth on mic 🎤 in agidigbo for more explanation

thorpido:
What do you mean by pull out?

He doesn't want to impregnate another man's wife

rickpat:
One day una go ask us whether this sweet jollof rice,should be eaten through the nose or eyes or mouth...

Oga,tell her to focus on her marriage...if she continues telling you things,then BLOCK HER...abi your phone no get block?

Or you are even enjoying the ride with her sef

He’s enjoying playing god over the lady. She’s as senseless he is

He’s not here to see advise but to brag

YourGFsnatcher:
My ex married a very nice man.
But she's still loyal to me. She doesn't take any major decision without consulting me.
She completely believes in my judgement.
Thought I always give her sound judgement, but I think it's time for her to look unto her husband.

I wouldn't want my wife to rely on her ex before taking any major decision.

How can I pull out?

Do you still relate with her sexuality?

Pull out method ba? e nor dey work for rainy season ooo 😜