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Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. - Romance (4) - Nairaland

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Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Dshocker(m):
tensazangetsu20:
Bros its just that I want to remain anonymous on Nairaland but even me sef dey fear the kind of women I have now. If anyone had told me that I can have such women like a year ago, I for say na lie. It can never happen grin grin grin
You can't live such life in Europe
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Dshocker(m): 6:46pm On Jul 10
tensazangetsu20:
Bros I still believe that my case will be different. There are Nigerians in this Chile who are happy making 450 thousand pesos a month. The taxes I pay is more than that. I remember before I came here a Nigerian guy in Santiago told me to go and Bleep as much as possible before I leave Nigeria say the women here hate black men. This same person ran to marry a lady he met on Facebook from Nigeria without even dating or knowing her. I came and everything they told me has been a lie. I still believe if I was in Germany or Canada or where ever I will still be rich and successful grin grin grin

Even as horrible as Nigeria was, I wasn't doing badly financially in Nigeria.
An average Chilean don't make up to 450k pesos monthly, their standard of living is slightly different from that of Nigerians, unless you are selling drugs over there.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Dshocker(m): 7:05pm On Jul 10
optimusprime2:
I understand where you are coming from, but quite frankly the OP is not exaggerating.

I can attest to it 101% both from a personal point of view and from a 3rd person point of view.

In the US, Nigerian guys are in extreme demand currently, and thats due to a whole host of reasons, that is to be spoken about another day.

However, the average Nigerian guy is a hot commodity for women on a wide scale globally.

Even Arab women and Asian women that used to be mostly homogeneous, have recently joined the bandwagon- for Nigerian guys.

FYI Nigerian guys have a very wide mix of those traits you mentioned;
1. Most are smart- Most naija guys abroad have multiple advanced qualifications i.e triple Masters, double phds etc (which is not the norm to men these days)

2. Most are social live wires... they can sing, dance, gist and will not give a dull moment in any social demography.

3. Most are respectful... I mean super respectful (a trait that is getting lost in this modern era)

4. Most are Hardworking, ambitious and goal focused (the average Nigerian guy is a hussler)

5. Most are Godfearing (regardless of the religious orientation, the average Nigerian guy no dey carry spiritual matter play)

6. Most are Physically very good-looking (and this is what many Foreign women keep saying)

7. Most are Sweet talkers, can rizz women very easily and can also easily lavish wealth on women (a rare trait in men these days, but very common & normal with naija guys) in fact this one alone, is what makes many Foreign women to go bananas for Nigerian men

8. Most are business savvy(Heebo Kwenu grin)

9. Most are family oriented and can take care of a home

10. Most have big Willie's... infact a foreign lady once told me point blank that she likes only Naija gbola...

In these 10 things I listed, most Nigerian guys can have all traits individually. And the world is coming to know this gradually but steadily.

So the op is not exaggerating at all...
As soon as you mentioned Arab women, i knew you don't know what you are saying.

Asking a girl for direction in an Arab country can put you in serious danger, talk more of dating her.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by optimusprime2(m): 11:14pm On Jul 10
Dshocker:
As soon as you mentioned Arab women, i knew you don't know what you are saying.

Asking a girl for direction in an Arab country can put you in serious danger, talk more of dating her.
Are you kidding me shocked

Fam,

Except Lebanon is not considered an Arab country, ask the brotherhood about the legend of Lebanese ladies and their undying crush for Naija guys... infact them fit follow you come bongo.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Dshocker(m): 12:11am On Jul 11
optimusprime2:
Are you kidding me shocked

Fam,

Except Lebanon is not considered an Arab country, ask the brotherhood about the legend of Lebanese ladies and their undying crush for Naija guys... infact them fit follow you come bongo.
Dey play
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by optimusprime2(m): 2:15am On Jul 11
Dshocker:
Dey play
E shock you
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