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Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Goo0dHardDick(op): 2:19pm On Jul 13*

I'll go first.

1. The more you invest on her, the more she loses interest in you. Women chase after men who invest in themselves and not in them.

2. She doesn't want you to solve her problems at all. She wants u to listen to her and don't ever give her any solutions. Be it monetary, advise or whatsoever.

3. They have short time memories. Your sacrifice is a joke to them. A woman's brain is wired to seek for "what's next"? And not remembering "what he has done before". Your sacrifices means absolutely nothing.

Share yours below

CC seun farano justwise nlfpmod mynd44

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Wealthyonos(m): 2:36pm On Jul 13

She loved me so much, yet she got married to someone else. Now she wants my dick back while still married. Nor be juju be that?

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by WatchYourSix: 2:42pm On Jul 13*

Goo0dHardDick:
I'll go first.

1. The more you invest on her, the more she loses interest in you. Women chase after men who invest in themselves and not in them.

2. She doesn't want you to solve her problems at all. She wants u to listen to her and don't ever give her any solutions. Be is monetary, advise or whatsoever.

3. They have short time memories. Your sacrifice is a joke to them. A woman's brain is wired to seek for "what's next"? And not remembering "what he has done before". Your sacrifices means absolutely nothing.

Share yours below

1)u are right, women chase after men who improve themselves…so while u are investing in her invest more in yourself…. There are good women who match kindness for kindness….

2) u are right about number 2 in the proper context.. sometimes they just want you to listen… if u play hero at that time u will just enter their mumu list and shift the leverages of the relationship to them…
and sometimes they need your help for real…… u just need to strike a balance .

3)u are almost right…. some .can be appreciative but many times… ur kindness to them is seen as a booster to their natural female charm that they are able to get men do what they want rather than see your effort as a sacrifice

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Diamond098454(f): 3:28pm On Jul 13

Hahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is not juju
Na love, swear you don't have feelings for her anymore

Wealthyonos:
She loved me so much, yet she got married to someone else. Now she wants my dick back while still married. Nor be juju be that?

Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Goo0dHardDick(op): 4:18pm On Jul 13

Wealthyonos:
She loved me so much, yet she got married to someone else. Now she wants my dick back while still married. Nor be juju be that?

Married women cheat most.

we're not ready for this discussion

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Northernblood8(m): 4:44pm On Jul 13

Goo0dHardDick:
I'll go first.

1. The more you invest on her, the more she loses interest in you. Women chase after men who invest in themselves and not in them.

2. She doesn't want you to solve her problems at all. She wants u to listen to her and don't ever give her any solutions. Be it monetary, advise or whatsoever.

3. They have short time memories. Your sacrifice is a joke to them. A woman's brain is wired to seek for "what's next"? And not remembering "what he has done before". Your sacrifices means absolutely nothing.

Share yours below

CC seun farano justwise nlfpmod mynd44

All you said is true. 95 percent of females are like this.

A lesson I learnt is most young women has STI. They do deceive themselves that it is just toilet infection but don't believe them.

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Wealthyonos(m): 5:03pm On Jul 13

Diamond098454:
Hahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is not juju
Na love, swear you don't have feelings for her anymore

I slept with her once before relocating to Lagos.. As for love, it doesn't exist. The only genuine love I have is for my Mom, siblings and for my future offsprings.

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by NaijaLandGuy(m): 6:14pm On Jul 13

She doesn't love you as she say

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Diamond098454(f): 7:34pm On Jul 13

What........? No love for your girl and your future wife?Hmmmm

Wealthyonos:
I slept with her once before relocating to Lagos.. As for love, it doesn't exist. The only genuine love I have is for my Mom, siblings and for my future offsprings.

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by ThinkSmarter: 9:03pm On Jul 13

Use love to get sex and after getting the sex, stay emotionally detached.
Else, they will hurt you if you continue to love them like being clingy.
Prioritize yourself, your health, growth and development.
Women hypergamy is real, no matter how rich or handsome you think you are, once someone that is richer of more handsome than you shows up, they will monkey branch.
Most importantly; Learn to fvck so good and get detached after.
They will chase you and seek for your validation...
Don't argue with a woman.
Learn to walk away.
Be selfish, eat good food, buy good clothes for yourself.
Upgrade in all ramifications, cuz if you upgrade a woman, hypergamy will set in and she will despise you and ditch you.
Don't hate women for rejecting you.
Don't treat them bad for rejecting you and don't be nice to them either.
Be neutral.

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Goo0dHardDick(op): 10:39pm On Jul 13

NaijaLandGuy:
She doesn't love you as she say

Women are incapable of loving a man. they only love what he is providing for them at that moment

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Goo0dHardDick(op): 10:40pm On Jul 13

Diamond098454:
What........? No love for your girl and your future wife?Hmmmm

He is right.

His wife might give him another man's kids and he might not know. Also his wife can wake up one morning and decide to walk away from the marriage for whatever reasons.

Again, he is right

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Goo0dHardDick(op): 10:41pm On Jul 13

ThinkSmarter:
Use love to get sex and after getting the sex, stay emotionally detached.
Else, they will hurt you if you continue to love them like being clingy.
Prioritize yourself, your health, growth and development.
Women hypergamy is real, no matter how rich or handsome you think you are, once someone that is richer of more handsome than you shows up, they will monkey branch.
Most importantly; Learn to fvck so good and get detached after.
They will chase you and seek for your validation...
Don't argue with a woman.
Learn to walk away.
Be selfish, eat good food, buy good clothes for yourself.
Upgrade in all ramifications, cuz if you upgrade a woman, hypergamy will set in and she will despise you and ditch you.
Don't hate women for rejecting you.
Don't treat them bad for rejecting you and don't be nice to them either.
Be neutral.

Pure and raw truth.

This is reality every man must have experienced.

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Wealthyonos(m): 10:46pm On Jul 13

Diamond098454:
What........? No love for your girl and your future wife?Hmmmm

There is much more love for her. But, I can't hurt myself in the process of loving someone. I'll just keep it simple. I'm not in for the 'it's complicated' anthem.

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Premiumbuy(m): 11:14pm On Jul 13

ThinkSmarter:
Use love to get sex and after getting the sex, stay emotionally detached.
Else, they will hurt you if you continue to love them like being clingy.
Prioritize yourself, your health, growth and development.
Women hypergamy is real, no matter how rich or handsome you think you are, once someone that is richer of more handsome than you shows up, they will monkey branch.
Most importantly; Learn to fvck so good and get detached after.
They will chase you and seek for your validation...
Don't argue with a woman.
Learn to walk away.
Be selfish, eat good food, buy good clothes for yourself.
Upgrade in all ramifications, cuz if you upgrade a woman, hypergamy will set in and she will despise you and ditch you.
Don't hate women for rejecting you.
Don't treat them bad for rejecting you and don't be nice to them either.
Be neutral.

Premium peace Be Unto You

When you talk about not upgrading a woman does that apply to someone's wife?

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Mariangeles(f): 11:27pm On Jul 13

Wealthyonos:
I slept with her once before relocating to Lagos.. As for love, it doesn't exist. The only genuine love I have is for my Mom, siblings and for my future offsprings.

You slept with a married woman?
Una get mind o.

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by cr7lomo: 12:35am On Jul 14

Women are only loyal to their feelings...

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Makavelli001: 1:09am On Jul 14

Northernblood8:
All you said is true. 95 percent of females are like this.

A lesson I learnt is most young women has STI. They do deceive themselves that it is just toilet infection but don't believe them.

True.

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by ThinkSmarter: 1:23am On Jul 14

Premiumbuy:
Premium peace Be Unto You

When you talk about not upgrading a woman does that apply to someone's wife?

Yes, especially at the initial stage of the marriage when she's still young.
Only upgrade her when she has birthed up to two kids or more, and then be emotionally ready to face whatever that comes.
Cuz, she may change.
She may start disrespecting your authority and she may start diverting resources to her family.
Except, she is an exceptional good wife, which you should be able to know from the few years you have lived together.
Cuz, few good wives still exist regardless of the high number of bad ones.
And while upgrading your wife, make sure the wealth control is 70:30.
Cuz, anything close to 50:50 will make her to see you as her equal or less.
But, if she's exceptional like I pinpointed.
Cuz, some women are human builders and good in managing wealth.
You can fully empower her and maker her the CEO of your family wealth.
Cuz, deep down wise women knows that the family wealth belongs to their kids, so they get careful in its management.

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Diamond098454(f): 5:03am On Jul 14

Remove that from your mind women are not like that.

Goo0dHardDick:
He is right.

His wife might give him another man's kids and he might not know. Also his wife can wake up one morning and decide to walk away from the marriage for whatever reasons.

Again, he is right

Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Premiumbuy(m): 5:52am On Jul 14

ThinkSmarter:
Yes, especially at the initial stage of the marriage when she's still young.
Only upgrade her when she has birthed up to two kids or more, and then be emotionally ready to face whatever that comes.
Cuz, she may change.
She may start disrespecting your authority and she may start diverting resources to her family.
Except, she is an exceptional good wife, which you should be able to know from the few years you have lived together.
Cuz, few good wives still exist regardless of the high number of bad ones.
And while upgrading your wife, make sure the wealth control is 70:30.
Cuz, anything close to 50:50 will make her to see you as her equal or less.
But, if she's exceptional like I pinpointed.
Cuz, some women are human builders and good in managing wealth.
You can fully empower her and maker her the CEO of your family wealth.
Cuz, deep down wise women knows that the family wealth belongs to their kids, so they get careful in its management.

Premium peace Be Unto You

Thank you for the response.

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Baronthecelebri(m): 7:34am On Jul 14

All you said is true

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by aswani(m): 6:53pm On Jul 14

Goo0dHardDick:
I'll go first.

1. The more you invest on her, the more she loses interest in you. Women chase after men who invest in themselves and not in them.

2. She doesn't want you to solve her problems at all. She wants u to listen to her and don't ever give her any solutions. Be it monetary, advise or whatsoever.

3. They have short time memories. Your sacrifice is a joke to them. A woman's brain is wired to seek for "what's next"? And not remembering "what he has done before". Your sacrifices means absolutely nothing.

Share yours below

CC seun farano justwise nlfpmod mynd44

All true.

The main thing a man should realise is that women are not built for loyalty. Forget all the lovey dovey stuff, it's just not in their DNA.

Remember in the wild, the male lion will kill any cubs they find in the pride, almost immediately the female will be on heat and start mating with the one that Judy killed their cub.

Nothing loyal can ever come out of them!

Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by sterlingD(m): 1:50pm On Jul 17

ThinkSmarter:
Use love to get sex and after getting the sex, stay emotionally detached.
Else, they will hurt you if you continue to love them like being clingy.
Prioritize yourself, your health, growth and development.
Women hypergamy is real, no matter how rich or handsome you think you are, once someone that is richer of more handsome than you shows up, they will monkey branch.
Most importantly; Learn to fvck so good and get detached after.
They will chase you and seek for your validation...
Don't argue with a woman.
Learn to walk away.
Be selfish, eat good food, buy good clothes for yourself.
Upgrade in all ramifications, cuz if you upgrade a woman, hypergamy will set in and she will despise you and ditch you.
Don't hate women for rejecting you.
Don't treat them bad for rejecting you and don't be nice to them either.
Be neutral.

ThinkSmarter:
Yes, especially at the initial stage of the marriage when she's still young.
Only upgrade her when she has birthed up to two kids or more, and then be emotionally ready to face whatever that comes.
Cuz, she may change.
She may start disrespecting your authority and she may start diverting resources to her family.
Except, she is an exceptional good wife, which you should be able to know from the few years you have lived together.
Cuz, few good wives still exist regardless of the high number of bad ones.
And while upgrading your wife, make sure the wealth control is 70:30.
Cuz, anything close to 50:50 will make her to see you as her equal or less.
But, if she's exceptional like I pinpointed.
Cuz, some women are human builders and good in managing wealth.
You can fully empower her and maker her the CEO of your family wealth.
Cuz, deep down wise women knows that the family wealth belongs to their kids, so they get careful in its management.

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by kenuoyibo(m): 3:15pm On Jul 17

Diamond098454:
Remove that from your mind women are not like that.

Dey play. Nigeria is the 2nd highest in paternity fraud, google it, but we are not ready for that discussion

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Diamond098454(f): 4:02pm On Jul 17

There must be a mistake somewhere.
You can't tell me 70 percent of married women cheat on there husband

kenuoyibo:
Dey play. Nigeria is the 2nd highest in paternity fraud, google it, but we are not ready for that discussion

Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Manaty2nice(m): 4:20pm On Jul 17

🙄 You slept with a woman who's married..🤔. Your entire lineage is cursed. Go for cleansing.

I slept with her once before relocating to Lagos.. As for love, it doesn't exist. The only genuine love I have is for my Mom, siblings and for my future offsprings.[/quote]

Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Sirhush(m): 4:26pm On Jul 17

ThinkSmarter:
Yes, especially at the initial stage of the marriage when she's still young.
Only upgrade her when she has birthed up to two kids or more, and then be emotionally ready to face whatever that comes.
Cuz, she may change.
She may start disrespecting your authority and she may start diverting resources to her family.
Except, she is an exceptional good wife, which you should be able to know from the few years you have lived together.
Cuz, few good wives still exist regardless of the high number of bad ones.
And while upgrading your wife, make sure the wealth control is 70:30.
Cuz, anything close to 50:50 will make her to see you as her equal or less.
But, if she's exceptional like I pinpointed.
Cuz, some women are human builders and good in managing wealth.
You can fully empower her and maker her the CEO of your family wealth.
Cuz, deep down wise women knows that the family wealth belongs to their kids, so they get careful in its management.

deep down wise women knows that the family wealth belongs to their kids, so they get careful in its management.

Well said cool

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Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Manaty2nice(m): 4:32pm On Jul 17

🙄 A guy said he slept with a woman who's married..🤔. His entire lineage is cursed. Go for cleansing now.

Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Manaty2nice(m): 4:33pm On Jul 17

🙄 You slept with a woman who's married..🤔. Your entire lineage is cursed. Go for cleansing.

Wealthyonos:
I slept with her once before relocating to Lagos.. As for love, it doesn't exist. The only genuine love I have is for my Mom, siblings and for my future offsprings.

Re: Men, What Is The Hardest Lesson A Woman Has Ever Taught You? by Adeoye11(m): 6:18pm On Jul 17

Wealthyonos:
She loved me so much, yet she got married to someone else. Now she wants my dick back while still married. Nor be juju be that?

Pls dont do it! Please don't do it ! Please don't do it.
Collect all the money yiu've spent on her instead of giving her dick

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