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The old boy dey talk true but as I no come like am and the platform e dey use dey talk am. Make I begin join those wereys wey go speak against him? No way..


But no dull, I sure say e dey collect wotoporiously .,

cunny88:
is this the gospel he should be preaching??

The gospel is the good news.
Good news of Salvation
Good news of how to live a good and stress free life which has fast become a skill to be learnt.
Good news of deliverance : spiritual and mental.

The pastor is doing a very good job of delivering his members mentally while helping them acquire the necessary skill to live a stress free life , stress imposed on them by the daugjters of Eve.

Don't be deceived that pastors are only expected to preach using the Bible for an entire 2 hrs message.

Abeg is there anything you havent heard or any topic you havent being taught from the scriptures, messages wey you don dey hear from childhood till adulthood?
All pastors do every sunday us to regig old messages, coin new topics and re-preach them.

Hearing messages like this once in a while is not a bad idea.

Lol 😂😂😂if it your first time... It definitely not for your taste buds exploiration too 😂😂😂😂 unless it's an anniversary

cyberbro:
There is nothing "worldly" about this. Relationships are part of Christianity cos Christian go on dates too, so if you don't like his message, don't listen to it. Even the Bible warns against gluttony so a pastor can choose to educate women in his church on modest behaviour, it is within his duties as a shepherd.

You do not know the Bible then. The Bible covers every single area of Life but you are lazy to read and confirm this.

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Why don't Nigerians copy anything progressive from the Western cultures? It may start out well over there but once Nigerians get into the mix, they abuse the hell out of it. The whites have coffee dates and movie dates. But it is the blacks that started bitching about the kind/class of restaurants they expect to be taken on a date. As expected, the copycat Nigerians are towing the same line.

In all, I still blame the men. A woman saying NO to advances should be seen as a blessing in disguise.

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Truth!!!! Some ladies turn it to relief opportunity where they eat-in, takeaway and strain your bank account.

Gbadugbakun:
Like this boy. He took a girl out, she came with her friend to eat free food. He couldn't even afford to buy food for himself. Just sat there like chicken way rain beat while they eat to their satisfaction. I'm sure they even ordered take away.

The boy doesn't look like he can afford the place.

In addition, a boy/guy looking to start a relationship with a girl he likes should be able to tell her his budget, and take care of the ordering since she came with her friend.

But because most guys see relationship as a means to cure konji, they will keep quiet in the hope to get returns aka sex on their investment.

tuoyoojo:
The problem we have is something that men have been subconsciously fed with over the years

Some men in an attempt to create facade of wealth and affluence would want to impress the girl so he can quickly smash and go

The girl on her part seeing thru the man would want to "eat his money and clean mouth".

The one when vex me na when one girl go carry a squad of 6 to 7 hungry girls to go on a date as "security" who would order everything on the menu and add take away to chop the guy money

But men don dey wise up. Any girl when start to exhibit tendencies of a hungry girl, na to jump am pass sharply.

If you call a girl and you ask how she is, and she responds "I am not feeling fine", just cut the call, na billing wan start

Know this "girl when like you nor go stress you"

Girls make rule for guys they don't like and break rules for the ones they like

Na when girl like u, u go realize say them get transport fee to come your house, that they have data and credit on there fones and can buy gifts for their man

I go lie for you?

Thank you!

The bushmeat and the hunter are trying to outsmart themselves.

Omenapounds:
Ladies if a friend invites you on a date, except the location looks unfamiliar and shady, you don't need to go with your friend,
Guys if you are not ready to foot the bill of your girl, there's no point taking her to an expensive restaurant, you can take her to any affordable place, simple!!!

Well said.

In addition, a girl can take her friends along on a date (one cannot be too cautious). However, let them seat a table across her & foot their bill or the girl they are 'protecting' foots the bill.

Why I come miss service

ibroyal:
I blame the men for this,I was arguing with my husband the other day about this,why ask a girl out on a date to a restaurant when you know it will pain you if she requests for takeaway? Simply ask her for a walk, sight seeing at the beach or even to a church, if she accepts no wahala,if she doesn’t you rest.

So many ladies decline on dates but you men keep buzzing their phones to accept,later you cry fowl, na you wan show yourself.

I agree with your points, but the question is why take away. 😂 Them no get food for house?

TELL them oo, Turned relationship and marriage to POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGAMME, but still na CHIKE dey CHOW dem PROGRAMME

Sheuns:
Can these guys face sermon and leave worldly discourse?

But if they preach against Tinubu and ask you to vote right, I'm sure it won't be worldly discourse

Probably why i married her.....
She would make us eat her order together....saying why should I want to spend so much eating out....?

Omenapounds:
Ladies if a friend invites you on a date, except the location looks unfamiliar and shady, you don't need to go with your friend,
Guys if you are not ready to foot the bill of your girl, there's no point taking her to an expensive restaurant, you can take her to any affordable place, simple!!!

Its not only about taking a girl to an affordable place. Its what she orders in the affordable place.

You might say Mr Biggs is affordable, with expectation that the girl will order sesnisble - like rice and chicken with soft drink.

When the girl now orders fried rice and salad with chicken and turkey and then 4meatpie, 4 do nut and 4 scotch egg with 4 drinks for take away, that one is unafordability in an affordable place.

Goo0dHardDick:
Alot of women commented on this video and said why must a man ask a woman out in the first place if he doesn't have money, despite the pastor's explanation.

I have said it several times before, Nigeria girls don't see themselves as broke. They don't see anything wrong with themselves when they are broke, they believe the guy they are with is the cause of their brokeness.

One man somewhere is hustling right now and saving money he'll spend and impress on a girl he just met. My condolences to you.

LoL 😆 at my condolences to you ooooooooo mucheche Hahaha 😂

It’s why I’ve removed restaurants from my list of first date ideas. Ice cream parlours, recreation parks and cafes are my spots. Hungry girls are the ones who want to explore new food spots on your pocket.

Samuels90:
I agree with your points, but the question is why take away. 😂 Them no get food for house?

That’s where I don’t also agree with these girls,you see, women do things to pepper each other and intimidate other women,that’s why a woman would lie that her husband bought her things,buy hair,do bbl,I tell you for free it’s not to impress men,it’s their fellow women.

Now back to your question,that’s to show off to their friends that they’re beautiful enough to have a man that’s ready to spend on them,most times they even give it to same girls to eat lol. Back in school,you dare not go on a date and return without any package for your rommies,they will finish you with mockery that you won’t tell them next time your going out.

Courtesy is for well-fed ladies, poor Nigerian girls can't relate

The painful part is that the learned ones and even those girls who have a job think it is a culture not knowing it is being irresponsible

talking over an Ice cream and a snack is enough for a dinner date.

COMPAQ:
Its not only about taking a girl to an affordable place. Its what she orders in the affordable place.

You might say Mr Biggs is affordable, with expectation that the girl will order sesnisble - like rice and chicken with soft drink.

When the girl now orders fried rice and salad with chicken and turkey and then 4meatpie, 4 do nut and 4 scotch egg with 4 drinks for take away, that one is unafordability in an affordable place.

You must be a carpenter, cus you nailed it!🤣

cunny88:
is this the gospel he should be preaching??

Jesus have teachings on several topics outside the gospel

Sheuns:
Dating is not part of Christianity, neither is relationship as you mentioned.

The bible clearly stated marriage and how you should go about it.

Even Joseph and Mary (the father of our Jesus Christ) dated . Kuku say the message meet you for where no good for your body

ibroyal:
That’s where I don’t also agree with these girls,you see, women do things to pepper each other and intimidate other women,that’s why a woman would lie that her husband bought her things,buy hair,do bbl,I tell you for free it’s not to impress men,it’s their fellow women.

Now back to your question,that’s to show off to their friends that they’re beautiful enough to have a man that’s ready to spend on them,most times they even give it to same girls to eat lol. Back in school,you dare not go on a date and return without any package for your rommies,they will finish you with mockery that you won’t tell them next time your going out.

😂😂👍, you are so right. It is to make themselves look better than each other. Some ladies do it modestly and men don’t have problem with that.

cunny88:
is this the gospel he should be preaching??

No! Is Devilple

bukatyne:
Well said.

In addition, a girl can take her friends along on a date (one cannot be too cautious). However, let them seat a table across her & foot their bill or the girl they are 'protecting' foots the bill.

Foot bills ke!, They'll come with their see finish mentality .

Gbadugbakun:
Like this boy. He took a girl out, she came with her friend to eat free food. He couldn't even afford to buy food for himself. Just sat there like chicken way rain beat while they eat to their satisfaction. I'm sure they even ordered take away.

The girls look like bandits in the pictures. Very hungry chickens

COMPAQ:
Its not only about taking a girl to an affordable place. Its what she orders in the affordable place.

You might say Mr Biggs is affordable, with expectation that the girl will order sesnisble - like rice and chicken with soft drink.

When the girl now orders fried rice and salad with chicken and turkey and then 4meatpie, 4 do nut and 4 scotch egg with 4 drinks for take away, that one is unafordability in an affordable place.

When the girl now orders fried rice and salad with chicken and turkey and then 4meatpie, 4 do nut and 4 scotch egg with 4 drinks for take away, that one is unafordability in an affordable place.


Iffa no pursue you

eepeepook:
It’s why I’ve removed restaurants from my list of first date ideas. Ice cream parlours, recreation parks and cafes are my spots. Hungry girls are the ones who want to explore new food spots on your pocket.

Ice cream parlours ain't cheap oOoOO

ibroyal:
That’s where I don’t also agree with these girls,you see, women do things to pepper each other and intimidate other women,that’s why a woman would lie that her husband bought her things,buy hair,do bbl,I tell you for free it’s not to impress men,it’s their fellow women.

Now back to your question,that’s to show off to their friends that they’re beautiful enough to have a man that’s ready to spend on them,most times they even give it to same girls to eat lol. Back in school,you dare not go on a date and return without any package for your rommies,they will finish you with mockery that you won’t tell them next time your going out.

Your gender no get chill

bukatyne:
Thank you!

The bushmeat and the hunter are trying to outsmart themselves.

As men have learnt to shoot without missing to birds have learnt to fly without perching