₦airaland Forum

RolexOfGeneva:
You must choose one for marriage (you can't choose neither) - A virgin with bad character or a non-virgin with good character, which would you choose?

RolexOfGeneva:
You must choose one for marriage (you can't choose neither) - A virgin with bad character or a non-virgin with good character, which would you choose?

Amovingman:
As long as na me disvirgin her that's not a problem for me

Gbadugbakun:
I'll disvirgin the virgin with bad character then marry the non virgin with good character. A win win for me.

RolexOfGeneva:
You must choose one for marriage (you can't choose neither) - A virgin with bad character or a non-virgin with good character, which would you choose?

Dzzzz:
So far say the virgin no cheat but get bad character,we go both get bad character together..

Nnamdipapa:
I honestly do not understand the obsession in 2026 of men with the hymen membrane in a lady's vagina. It means NOTHING in the short and long run. It does not guarantee virtue or success in a marriage or relationship. Most of you date and sleep with ladies you never intend to marry. tommorow you are looking for a virgin lady. Are we not also concerned with virginity for men, or do you think all men are perpetual virgins?

owobokiri:
Don't listen to this guy. He's so full of it.
We have this sort of men in abundance these days. Totally browbeaten by the female folks, they are always inventing all sorts of excuses to overlook all sorts of female acts of infamy
It is this kind of outbursts that have been used to normalise iniquitous living amongst our females in this country. This warped idea that a lady can sleep with a thousand men and still be allowed to function seamlessly as a bona-fide member of the society is evil. Trying to tuck in the notion that men sleep with lots of gals too and so should not conplain, do not cut it..

Evil is Evil.

Every man determined to have some peace in his home after marriage must know that it all begins and ends with the kind of woman you marry. If in your liberal stupor, you import a karashiikaa with a thousand body count into your house as a wife, do realise that what you have done is to give out your abode as a refuge to a lady that has been repeatedly abused by all sorts of vicious men. If in the long run she starts showing all signs of mental collapse/despair, do realise that you brought this very omen to yourself.

A vigin with her immature gra gra is far better than the matured mayhem that ab ex runs gal comes in with..

RolexOfGeneva:
You must choose one for marriage (you can't choose neither) - A virgin with bad character or a non-virgin with good character, which would you choose?

Hungrychicken:
Wetin una dey even use virgins do sef?

RolexOfGeneva:
You must choose one for marriage (you can't choose neither) - A virgin with bad character or a non-virgin with good character, which would you choose?

RolexOfGeneva:
You must choose one for marriage (you can't choose neither) - A virgin with bad character or a non-virgin with good character, which would you choose?

Gbadugbakun:
I'll disvirgin the virgin with bad character then marry the non virgin with good character. A win win for me.

RolexOfGeneva:
You must choose one for marriage (you can't choose neither) - A virgin with bad character or a non-virgin with good character, which would you choose?

SixSeven:
Death is the only constant thing in life that equals all human beings.

Tradition that feeds on fear will one day starve on truth because a home that threatens death cannot teach loyalty but fear. As much as I want to be ethical and tell you it's wrong for anyone to cheat, the reality is that life is not fair and we know who is affected the most. Some of these laws were written for inheritance, not for fairness. It's just like someone who says a man should live in his in-laws house when there are proverbs that warn against it. So if that his wife dies, what does her family do the man (widower)? Send him back? Customs and traditions protect the future first, even when the present bleeds. We all want order, that's why they had many of these things as deterrent to prevent people from the disruption of social order.

When a child is born, the mother is known but the father must be proven. Our people were not ready for confusion, no DNA so they came up with another proverb that only a mother knows the father! This is still true today if you watch paternity cases, despite DNA and advancement in tech. The elders punished where they were certain, not where guessing began because lineage fears confusion. Some of the judgment they served then is now called jungle justice. Bear in mind that we have a lot of traditional families and they didn't want a bastaaard to inherit the throne.

There is a popular case on Justice Funmi's show. You now understand why they say only a mother knows the father. If you listened to the woman alone, you would have made your own wrong conclusions and convicted the guy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bfy9hr-zf_I

But when the guy came to give his story, you now understand the wisdom of our fathers that it's only an old foooool who judges by listening to one side alone

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPjKmVkw-jU

I am just trying to remind women that the reality of their promiscuity is more dangerous than the reality for men. Call it unfair but that's the reality.

Have we thought of why parents focus on the girl child more than the boys? The womb is the doorway of ancestry, so it bears the heaviest lock. The best way mothers knew then was fear that's why they said if you slept with a boy you will die

What enters the house through the woman stays for generations. A man’s mistake shames him but a woman’s mistake reshapes the clan. That's why even if a man did OS, by the time he repents, he will find a virgin to marry. Same cannot be said of a woman. Call it double standards but its the reality of life. That's why I said there's ethics, there's reality of the morality and there's understanding of why we do things because....

A man’s doubt sleeps in his mind but a woman’s doubt sleeps in the child.
Everything is just to protect women from giving us children we are not sure who the father is or causing confusion by breaking social order