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motymop:
I don't get this

We all are depending on others for our lifestyle..this is fact

We depend on our employers for salaries
We depend on customers for our business revenue
We depend on families for gift
Women depends on men to live their lifestyle
Men depends on other men to live their lifestyle

The world works in a way that you have to depend on someone to live your lifestyle

I think at the end of the day what matters is that you have to save for the low times

Be reasonable, what you're saying is totally different from the topic

free2ryhme:
at ur age you need someone to tell fabricate stories to tell you this


you think life is nollywood script

But most movies and novels are fabricated (fiction) but there is are interesting lesson they're teaching us to learn.

herich:
But most movies and novels are fabricated (fiction) but there is are interesting lesson they're teaching us to learn.

Why is yours not fabricated

herich:
Be reasonable, what you're saying is totally different from the topic

I am being reasonable

Why do you guys always think you can build your ideal world when in reality you can't

QuinQQ:
It all depends. If you have a gun...

All the young lady has to do is threaten to expose the politician if he steps an inch. Show him pictures your lawyer will send to his wife and newspapers if anything happens to her

People with guns also get gunned down, go watch John Muir video by Schoolboy Q. Two guys were riding around robbing and bullying people until they met two other sleeker gangstas that gunned them down.

pigmania:
People with guns also get gunned down, go watch John Muir video by Schoolboy Q. Two guys were riding around robbing and bullying people until they met two other sleeker gangstas that gunned them down.

In this case the girl is in the right. Anything happens to her and her lawyer sends the photos and letters to the politician's wife and newspapers

motymop:
I am being reasonable

Why do you guys always think you can build your ideal world when in reality you can't

Is obvious you're a lazy fellow, who depends on others for survival.

Your joy and happiness depends on others.

free2ryhme:
Why is yours not fabricated

Fabrication be the only problem you have in the topic,

That's your problem.

herich:
Fabrication be the only problem you have in the topic,

That's your problem.

You have a problem cos your fabrication has been detected

herich:
Is obvious you're a lazy fellow, who depends on others for survival.

Your joy and happiness depends on others.

You don't even know how the world works.

We are all depending on others for our survival

You that is "hardworking" who pays your salary

If they stop paying you, na depression you go enter

Ushame:
All these ona advise here can be very confusing sometimes


Anyways, i build websites and apps

bro try do business.

Degolden25:
bro try do business.

which one ?

motymop:
You don't even know how the world works.

We are all depending on others for our survival

You that is "hardworking" who pays your salary

If they stop paying you, na depression you go enter

Guy you're not smart, honestly.

At least I'm working for my money.

I'm not waiting for... Or depending on one uncle, elder brother in abroad, one Nigerian politician, one alhaji, one yahoo boy, one childhood friend, one sugar momma to send me monthly alawee before I could feed, wear clothes, shine and have joy.

I guess, you're getting the message now and you're also seeing the difference.

We all depends on each other sometimes, but it shouldn't be 100% dependency.

Depending on others should be once in a blue moon and should be 10%

free2ryhme:
You have a problem cos your fabrication has been detected

What matter most is the message being passed.

Fables and folklore are never real.
Even the parables of Jesus Christ were never real but the lesson that need to be learnt from the message is what matter most.

herich:
Guy you're not smart, honestly.

At least I'm working for my money.

I'm not waiting for... Or depending on one uncle, elder brother in abroad, one Nigerian politician, one alhaji, one yahoo boy, one childhood friend, one sugar momma to send me monthly alawee before I could feed, wear clothes, shine and have joy.

I guess, you're getting the message now and you're also seeing the difference.

We all depends on each other sometimes, but it shouldn't be 100% dependency.

Depending on others should be once in a blue moon and should be 10%

It is true that I am not smart but I doubt if you even comprehend what I wrote.

You are working for your money right?

But the money is not magically appearing into your pocket

Whatever you are doing,someone has to pay for the service for you to have money.

You leave in a poor country obviously you wouldn't even understand how money moves around

Even if you are not depending on any uncle, aunty or yahoo boy etc, money has to exchange hands when you offer a service and it can come from any source and it will change hand millions of time

That is why I said, you think the world works in your ideal way but it does not work like that

Everyone depends on each other to make money.

If you don't get it, you can never get it

herich:
What matter most is the message being passed.

Fables and folklore are never real.
Even the parables of Jesus Christ were never real but the lesson that need to be learnt from the message is what matter most.

I saw what you did there red herring style


Wetin concern Jesus for your concerted hula balu 🤣🤣🤣

motymop:
It is true that I am not smart but I doubt if you even comprehend what I wrote.

You are working for your money right?

But the money is not magically appearing into your pocket

Whatever you are doing,someone has to pay for the service for you to have money.

You leave in a poor country obviously you wouldn't even understand how money moves around

Even if you are not depending on any uncle, aunty or yahoo boy etc, money has to exchange hands when you offer a service and it can come from any source and it will change hand millions of time

That is why I said, you think the world works in your ideal way but it does not work like that

Everyone depends on each other to make money.

If you don't get it, you can never get it

I've tried to correct you that what your submission is totally different from the topic.

The topic stated that the lady depends solely on the politician for house rent, medical, feeding and her general wellbeing.

If I should depend on others, I should be depending on them to pay me on the service I rendered them and they also depends on me, on my service I'll render them.

That is transactional dependence, as an exchange.

The lady in quote is a leech and such character should not be emulate.

Reason why I said, what you're saying is off the topic.

herich:
I've tried to correct you that what your submission is totally different from the topic.

The topic stated that the lady depends solely on the politician for house rent, medical, feeding and her general wellbeing.

If I should depend on others, I should be depending on them to pay me on the service I rendered them and they also depends on me, on my service I'll render them.

That is transactional dependence, as an exchange.

The lady in quote is a leech and such character should not be emulate.

Reason why I said, what you're saying is off the topic.

What I wrote still directly relates to the topic, you just aren't seeing the connection because of your moral bias

You are imagining an ideal world where nobody relies on anyone else for their lifestyle, but that’s not reality. Even in traditional households, many women depend entirely on their husbands for their lifestyle. Is that also leeching or do we only apply that label when we morally disapprove of the dynamic?

The lady in question is not a leech. While her path isn't one to emulate, she is rendering a service. You just can’t see it because your moral uprightness is blocking the view. If she weren't providing value that the politician highly prizes, he wouldn't be paying her rent, medical bills, and lifestyle expenses just to keep seeing her regularly.

It is still a transactional exchange of value, it’s just one that makes you uncomfortable.

motymop:
What I wrote still directly relates to the topic, you just aren't seeing the connection because of your moral bias

You are imagining an ideal world where nobody relies on anyone else for their lifestyle, but that’s not reality. Even in traditional households, many women depend entirely on their husbands for their lifestyle. Is that also leeching or do we only apply that label when we morally disapprove of the dynamic?

The lady in question is not a leech. While her path isn't one to emulate, she is rendering a service. You just can’t see it because your moral uprightness is blocking the view. If she weren't providing value that the politician highly prizes, he wouldn't be paying her rent, medical bills, and lifestyle expenses just to keep seeing her regularly.

It is still a transactional exchange of value, it’s just one that makes you uncomfortable.

You're probably a leech.

This is how you live your luxurious lifestyle from pockets of others