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Anyway I have been eating only Jollof Rice for the past 9years but right now, the temptation to eat pound yam is crazy high.

AbuAeesha:
You just mentioned sets of qualities that even you can't meet...

Sorry bro, but I still meet all those qualities.

Those qualities are not hard to have as a man who knows himself.

OnyeObowo1:
Reason am taking my time to marry..

But must she be a graduate?

Obviously, you don't want to marry wrong.

Being a graduate is an added advantage, but not necessarily compulsory (to some men, it is). But the said lady must have a form of basic education in school, max is secondary.

I can't marry a woman who didn't go to school at all or stopped at primary education.

ebubeson:
Weigh yourself genuinely. Can you stay throughout marriage without cheating even once? Can you stay with your wife or husband and have sex with only them throughout your marriage lifetime, before death do your part? How many couples stay throughout their lifetime with none of them cheating even once?

It is possible to stay faithful throughout marriage, and till death do you part, without cheating for once. It is by God's grace.

why not...same hole, same digging

LilMissFavvy:
Do you deserve these qualities you listed? Would you bring in same qualities to satisfy her...

Not every man is a narcissist. Those qualities are just bare minimum that I too have and can give out, so I expect that same bare minimum.

If my "wife" can satisfy me with all those qualities and the ones I didn't mention too, why can't I satisfy her too.

It's from bare minimum a man can get king treatment.

What do you mean by cheating?

If you mean loving another person besides my partner. I will say NEVER.

But if you mean having sex with with another babe apart from my partner. That I cannot promise. And she knows and love me like dat.

ebubeson:
Weigh yourself genuinely. Can you stay throughout marriage without cheating even once? Can you stay with your wife or husband and have sex with only them throughout your marriage lifetime, before death do your part? How many couples stay throughout their lifetime with none of them cheating even once?

It is possible to stay faithful throughout marriage, and till death do you part, without cheating for once. It is by God's grace.

18years going to 19yrs, yet nothing like cheating in my life. Really a gift. I intend taking it to my next world. Not easy though seeing bigger, smaller, richer, nicer etc than your, yet I stood my ground.

ManknowThyself:
Marriage is sacred and partners must bring integrity and fidelity to the table forever in their home cos that's the priority for peaceful and happy family.

Haven’t said that, in my personal opinion and choice of life.

I must get only one side chick after enough due diligence but must and will place and put my personal family "wife and kids" in pedestal above her. I will be kind to her as real authentic man but she can't ever access or know my family.

Then keep it as life oxygen secret from my wife forever and that's decipline in real case.

You're werey
That's not an insult man!

Secretly every man is nursing this your desire but most will always pretend.

The topic of sex and marriage cannot be discussed in day. It's very deep

Babastrong:
Anyway I have been eating only Jollof Rice for the past 9years but right now, the temptation to eat pound yam is crazy high.

It's not worth it. Channel it into another thing.

You speaking as the Bwala (PA) of God?

Dtruthspeaker:
Sorry, brother to tell you the sharp Truth, you are not going to get mercy from God for you have already purposed in your heart to commit adultery. And adultery is one of the capital offences that cannot be forgiven. So you are not doing anything different from those who are unfaithful. Having a side thing is over far from the way of overcoming,

Love thyself bro, men who commit adultery are no different from those who put sniper in Fanta and drink it with barbecue fish

Guys prostrate enlargement is real, discharging regularly is the solution, if your wife can meet the quota then no wahala, if not find way oo

I did for 8yrs till I found out my partner was cheating.

saintruky:
You speaking as the Bwala (PA) of God?

Yes. 1 Peter 4:11

Nnamdipapa:
Not possible, even David, the most favourite of the Christian God, had to murder Uriah to shift the panties of Bathsheba. Me, I have not even killed anyone so ?

Answer the question directly, Sir.

Eniolohunda:
So Satan has poisoned many Nigerian mind to believe it's not possible to be married and stay faithful. God that warn human beings from adultery and fornication knows that it has consequences. The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.

You mean you own concept of god right?.

Dexlomo:
Answer the question directly, Sir.

No, I can't. It's not habitual though

You can only see 10% of such on earth ooh.
Either the cheating will come from the man or the woman.
#No body holy pass my brother

Like I do say , it takes commitment and a heart that has proposed in his heart not to defile his body .
I am an Example and I am still praying and committed to hold unto my wedding vows.
Their is nothing like I mistakenly cheat , cheating or adultery is a deliberate attempt . Let us call a spade A SPADE, once you are married before you do anything think about what if i am the one that this is done against how will i feel . This will make us to be guided.

Mrsoft3:
A woman was not built for many men, society will judge her.

A man can never be shamed for having other ladies, he is praised for keeping them.

A man can be dragged for being irresponsible but a woman can never be dragged for being irresponsible.

Don’t do to your partner what you will not accept from them- otherwise you are a selfish person

marlow1962:
Obviously, you don't want to marry wrong.

Being a graduate is an added advantage, but not necessarily compulsory (to some men, it is). But the said lady must have a form of basic education in school, max is secondary.

I can't marry a woman who didn't go to school at all or stopped at primary education.

God bless you
This girl loves me alot but she was a dropped out from university..
She speaks well and have sense..
But I always wanted to marry a graduate so I can help her get job..
But who knows what God have in stocks

Women Are Told To Wait Longer Before Marriage... Here's What They Don't Talk About

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZPIoy5wvBg

OnyeObowo1:
God bless you
This girl loves me alot but she was a dropped out from university..
She speaks well and have sense..
But I always wanted to marry a graduate so I can help her get job..
But who knows what God have in stocks

Does she's have the zeal to go back to school if the opportunity comes?

marlow1962:
Does she's have the zeal to go back to school if the opportunity comes?

She does
But u know it's not guarantee cos of situations may not allow it financially and otherwise

Thank you.

twosquare:
It's not worth it. Channel it into another thing.