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Everyday I keep seeing different species of Men on the internet… what’s ur say on what he’s saying ?? pic.twitter.com/VxoZzF11vn

— CHIZZY_BB (@CHIZZY_BB) July 23, 2026

do not want to spend on your kids and you do not want to love them unconditionally. How would you cope with singleness for life ?

Samantha125:
Nope, I learnt the word from somewhere else.

Hmmm oya tell me more...

ibroyal:
Hope you won’t send other people’s kids on errands when you grow old?

When you're financially good. That is sorted out... You have workers even till ya dying night

Samantha125:
Well, his reasons are reasonable... If you're not gifted with the gift of parenthood, don't force it... But he was gonna make one hell of cute babies.

Come to think of it, I've been meaning to ask this question, how do parents maintain their sex life with children under the same roof? Especially if you're those type of parents that usually make a lot of noise during shaboinky?

Exactly.

If you feel up to it do it, if you don't, don't.

About your last paragraph, that's part of what the dude was saying. Kids are inconveniencing.

Unless you have loads of cash that lets you have a big whole house where y'all can be in the penthouse where nobody can hear nothing.

To him now, he know what he is doing


I just hope and pray he won't regret in future.
Ko tie si

chicfarmer:
This one go think say im wise.
No worry, by the time you realize your foolishness e go don late for you

Is he really foolish though?

U dey reason hin old age abi. The thing is just make sure you have money in your old age if you want to go his way.

People can potentially be miserable at old age even if they have kids. We've seen a lot of that.

ibroyal:
Hope you won’t send other people’s kids on errands when you grow old?

By the time you're too old to do your own errands, your kids are probably also too old to be around to run your errands.

They're also probably married by then or busy at a job trying to survive

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140121024]

Everyday I keep seeing different species of Men on the internet… what’s ur say on what he’s saying ?? pic.twitter.com/VxoZzF11vn

— CHIZZY_BB (@CHIZZY_BB) July 23, 2026

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Samantha125:
You can't be comparing our old fashioned parents to some of us.

Those ones view things like moaning and exploring during shaboinky as a taboo.

Seems you are the loud moaning type? You seem to have a solid defence for the act.

why are all of you crying over his decision?it isn't as if almost every parents making babies can even fend for them properly oh yeah deadbeat parents! bringing kids to the world to suffer!

Not of everyone must be a conformist a d participate in group in-thinking we can also deviate too

Me? The what? I have no idea what you're talking about...🤣🤣🤣... I was just asking on behalf of those voiceless struggling parents who are struggling to maintain balance between parenthood and their shaboinky life...😌😌😌

socoharley:
Seems you are the loud moaning type? You seem to have a solid defence for the act.

see all the other nairalanders crying over another man's decision?it isn't as if many of you bringing kids to the world can even fend for them properly breeding kids and making them suffer the only thing in the black man's brain is to eat,knack and breed kids no technological and scientific innovations, manufacturing etc.

Oh yeah deadbeat parents not everyone must be a conformist and participate in group in-thinking we can also deviate!

Samantha125:
Me? The what? I have no idea what you're talking about...🤣🤣🤣... I was just asking on behalf of those voiceless struggling parents who are struggling to maintain balance between parenthood and their shaboinky life...😌😌😌

...so it's true?
You are the sex activist.

Well, for some couples they do get in the way, but more often having children magnifies any underlying issues a couple is already having. If communication was a problem, it only gets worse. Same with intimacy.

Samantha125:
And judging by everyone's silence, I think their experiences are also not so good... Children basically get in the way of most couple's romance.

ibroyal:
Hope you won’t send other people’s kids on errands when you grow old?

You want children to be your servants?

gigabyte13:
Imagine if his father have reasoned this way
How will he come into existence......
Some people are just born fo br foolish.
Na people like this make them invent condom

What's great about coming into existence? Tell me how it is a blessing to be born to go through suffering?

Samantha125:
There's nothing wrong with being self centered and prioritizing your own mental health over others.

Oh my

chicfarmer:
This one go think say im wise.
No worry, by the time you realize your foolishness e go don late for you

Na mumu man him be.
Make him brain dey still go on kilos and later expire

ibroyal:
Hope you won’t send other people’s kids on errands when you grow old?

A reverend father or sister and this man shows the same perspective.

Samantha125:
Well, everything has an end just like many animal species who've gone extinct.

Haa, okay! I didn't know that something was wrong somewhere, I do now.

Samantha125:
Well, his reasons are reasonable... If you're not gifted with the gift of parenthood, don't force it... But he was gonna make one hell of cute babies.

Come to think of it, I've been meaning to ask this question, how do parents maintain their sex life with children under the same roof? Especially if you're those type of parents that usually make a lot of noise during shaboinky?

these are demons talking through these generations. They sound logical like their master satan

I don't understand, why are you offended by another person's personal choice when no one is stopping you from having your own children?

Bonapart:
these are demons talking through these generations. They sound logical like their master satan

Nefort:
What's great about coming into existence? Tell me how it is a blessing to be born to go through suffering?

If you are not happy being alive you can unalive yourself.
If being alive is a punishment for you
You can do the needful please.
I can tell you categorically except your biological parents, nobody cares.

I hope he hate his mum. . Social media idiot

Samantha125:
I don't understand, why are you offended by another person's personal choice when no one is stopping you from having your own children?

offence keh. I am not a political correct fella neither do I support any left and leftism. Just being blunt with the truth

Mind your children and leave others to choose their own paths.

Bonapart:
offence keh. I am not a political correct fella neither do I support any left and leftism. Just being blunt with the truth

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140121024]

Everyday I keep seeing different species of Men on the internet… what’s ur say on what he’s saying ?? pic.twitter.com/VxoZzF11vn

— CHIZZY_BB (@CHIZZY_BB) July 23, 2026

[ check this man pen*a well, it may not be smart enough. Me that gives woman belle on a single z€x.]

Gerrard59:
Nothing wrong with this. It's paying for a service. What do you say about Nigerian parents whose children all reside in the abroad?

I support the lad. Everyone shouldn't have children. Some people's genes are terrible and they should die with them.

will u have kids

ibroyal:
you’re correct but at least the person that will get paid to serve me will be more intentional because they know Iv got children to monitor the process, plus knowing that i have genuine love will make my aging process fulfilling and happy. Have you asked yourself how it will be like if everything stops procreation including animals? You no want pikin but you wan associate yourself with other people when human being like you born.

is polygamy ok to try

pocohantas:
Born your own and impact wisdom in them.
I wouldn't know why this triggers you to the point of insulting him.

It's also important to block off their possible entry points e.g. poorly installed windowsills, doorsills, pipes that lead outside, nets on the kitchen doors & everywhere else