Due to the little misunderstood we had, she went ahead to destroy the TV, and later begging me but I refuse to listen becos am afraid she can kill me. so i want her out of my life. Can someone advise me what I should do?

Yes, GOOD!

Send her packing. She just abused you physically and emotionally.

Imagine smashing your TV!

Infact, divorce her . . . violence against men has got to stop! This a new age and we need to kick the whole female/feminist shenanigans to the gutter!

_{shebi na wetin una wan hear?}

@Ujujoan I can't stop laughing '@ Imagine smashing your TV!' cos I'm sure you're making a joke out of the situation,

@poster, Have patience with all things;it's just a TV you may cherish it but wait until she smashed your car windshield before you send her packing.
Please!!!

@OP
very simple, make HER pay for a new TV out of anything she got (go sell her damn shoes if you have to) to raise the money for the new one. that will teach her a lesson.
now, if the tv was the source of the argument then i would understand
example: if you dont desire/cherish/care about your wifey any longer and stay in front of tv all damn day and night!

hope it wasnt your spelling and grammar that annoyed her.

^ ^ lol

@ MBJ
what if she refuses to pay for it, what should he do? Beat her?

Nobody asked what caused the argument and why she went that far to smash the TV oh. Soon Harakiri and his gang will come in here and talk about the dangers of marriage. Na wah!

You still dey ask what you should do abi?
Wait and enjoy it all until she smashes your head and begs you on your graveside for forgiveness.

@Odunnu&tpia;u both are hilarious.lol

Buy another TV, a bigger one.

But seriously, why will a sane woman do that? That is a destructive spirit in her and you have to watch it.

Just ask her to replacce it.And give her a time frame to do that

I just don't fancy people that cannot control there temper.U re angry and u lose ur senses.Mtchew

Just ask her to replacce it.And give her a time frame to do that

I just don't fancy people that cannot control there temper.U re angry and u lose ur senses.Mtchew
And pls dats not a good reason to end your marriage.
Na wah,i don't know what u people think marriage is.U think u can walk in and out,begin and end whenever u feel like it.
Mschew

@OP: jus leave her alone and this time get a 42'' plasma screen, start a fight and lets see if she wud break this one

And if she does,wetin go happen?

baby.me:

Buy another TV, a bigger one.

But seriously, why will a sane woman do that? That is a destructive spirit in her and you have to watch it.

Watch it as AIT or African Magic?

@ 702
lol are u sure she will not break it again?
This time, she might accuse the Devil of taking charge of her
You guys can have ur share of quarrels but for crying out loud, you do yoy have to go destructive?A property that you should protect

m tellin u that she wont break it and wud look for a semi-valuable thin t destroy. The sittin rm were the plama is kept wud be a Restricted Zone No quarellin, then , they wud start 2 fite in the kitchen or room. when that happens, we will now see the need 2 place similar items of high value around d house!

702:

@OP: jus leave her alone and this time get a 42'' plasma screen, start a fight and lets see if she wud break this one

Ujujoan:

Yes, GOOD!

Send her packing. She just abused you physically and emotionally.

Imagine smashing your TV!

Infact, divorce her . . . violence against men has got to stop! This a new age and we need to kick the whole female/feminist shenanigans to the gutter!

_{shebi na wetin una wan hear?}

Lmao

For one’s wife to destroy one’s TV is totally unacceptable. Sue her for punitive damages man!

Reminds me of a friend’s girlfriend who after a spat went outside to smash the guy’s windscreen. Unthinkable horror!!

@Uju
if wifey is WRONG and refuses to pay for the TV then i will make sure that she every dime i am suppose to pay ON/FOR her is spent on savings to repay the new tv that i would have bought back.

life at home would definitely be VERY tensed because living with such an unstable person would be CONFUSING and DANGEROUS to say the least. you wouldnt know what will happen next in that "deranged" person´s mind?

as i said earlier, there could be a plausible reason for smashing the TV.

oh dear poster it was only a tv now , if she soaks ur laptop and phone in bleach den come bck and open a thread den we can determine if its a crime or not

^^^

that's really not funny.


to all saying that she should be made to pay for it, where is she goin to get the money from?? wont it be from some money that would have gone towards some other useful stuff?

She broke your tv to inflict pain on you, the same way others break cars. This is just the same as being physically abused by a man.

Dont touch her o.

But make her feel the pain until you are sure she has repented. The silent treatment and not eating her food works.

You need to see she can control her anger. Or one day, she might throw your child at you.

And if it happens again, yes, she can kill you.

^^so are you saying that she should go unpunished for her crazy action?! and that they should live happily ever after (till her next crazy stunt)?!

^^^

kokoye:


Dont touch her o.

But make her feel the pain until you are sure she has repented. The silent treatment and not eating her food works.

You need to see she can control her anger. Or one day, she might throw your child at you.

And if it happens again, yes, she can kill you.

^^LOL, what a funny reply!!!!!
may i ask:
- how do you make someone "feel the pain until she has repented"? if she didnt have any respect for your TV then why would she give a damn about anything else coming from you?!

- i am sorry to say that the silent treatment is the most childish act that anyone can do. what would that solve? and if you are paying for the food in the house then dont you think that not eating her food a waste of YOUR money therefore just like punishing your own self?!

the wifey did something wrong and therefore should pay for her negative actions right away(one way or another) not saying or doing anything worthy will just have her disrespect you even more. god forbid if you wait until she does something crazier!

not good when pple fight and start destroying material things in their house/home. a very bad habit and waste of money.
OP, she has to replace it.

I think blowjobs 3 times a day for the next three weeks is in order. Make sure she also says "thank you sir" after each session.

Your property? So she's just a squatter?

Anyway, she has to pay for it and replace it. Is that how she was breaking TVs in her father's house?

@ poster! The complete story
We had a little quarel and since then we had not been taking as wife/husband. I did eat then. After some weeks, she move to other rooms whre she decide to install a fan without my knowledge and this fan has caused serious quarel/argument b4 which she packed and keep inside the room whre her sister is living. note that we have 3bedroom flat.
On dat day, I went to give our son to her for feeding and get to knw dat she has installed d fan in the room whre am planing to use for mysef as library. I told her to leave d room dat she can go and install/stay in d room with her sister if want to. But she said no and I removed the fan control. she if i destroy d fan that she will destroy the TV. I only removed d fan control frm d wall not to destroy it.
To my greatest suprise she went inside and took hammer and nag it to the TV and our Son is in the sitting room. I just tank God dat the TV was not a tube type which can kill someone. So i quickly took d TV outside mysef.
since den we have not been doing as husband/wife.

Stotle:

@ poster! The complete story
We had a little quarel and since then we had not been taking as wife/husband. I did eat then. After some weeks, she move to other rooms whre she decide to install a fan without my knowledge and this fan has caused serious quarel/argument b4 which she packed and keep inside the room whre her sister is living. note that we have 3bedroom flat.
On dat day, I went to give our son to her for feeding and get to knw dat she has installed d fan in the room whre am planing to use for mysef as library. I told her to leave d room dat she can go and install/stay in d room with her sister if want to. But she said no and I removed the fan control. she if i destroy d fan that she will destroy the TV. I only removed d fan control frm d wall not to destroy it.
To my greatest suprise she went inside and took hammer and nag it to the TV and our Son is in the sitting room. I just tank God dat the TV was not a tube type which can kill someone. So i quickly took d TV outside mysef.
since den we have not been doing as husband/wife.

lol. This all sounds very petty; you remove her fan controller and she smashes your TV.

Your son must probably be amazed at the kind of behavior his parents are displaying. You people need to resolve this issue, it's shameful.

MRbrownJAY:

^^LOL, what a funny reply!!!!!
may i ask:
- how do you make someone "feel the pain until she has repented"? if she didnt have any respect for your TV then why would she give a damn about anything else coming from you?!

- i am sorry to say that the silent treatment is the most childish act that anyone can do. what would that solve? and if you are paying for the food in the house then dont you think that not eating her food a waste of YOUR money therefore just like punishing your own self?!

the wifey did something wrong and therefore should pay for her negative actions right away(one way or another) not saying or doing anything worthy will just have her disrespect you even more. god forbid if you wait until she does something crazier!

So tell me. How exactly do you intend to make her pay? be careful with your response o . . abeg

You call the silent treatment childish . .OK. . .I have been married for over 5years and I am still happily married. I know what my wife cannot stand . .so, whatever rocks your boat.

The silent treatment (and there are variants) may not work for you or anyone you know. But it works for me . . cos my wife hates it with a passion.

What are your options . .make her pay for it right . . what if you take money from the same pocket?

Like i said, whatever rocks your boat man. Just dont criticize my methods cos they may not work for you.

kokoye:

So tell me. How exactly do you intend to make her pay? be careful with your response o . . abeg

You call the silent treatment childish . .OK. . .I have been married for over 5years and I am still happily married. I know what my wife cannot stand . .so, whatever rocks your boat.

The silent treatment (and there are variants) may not work for you or anyone you know. But it works for me . . cos my wife hates it with a passion.

What are your options . .make her pay for it right . . what if you take money from the same pocket?

Like i said, whatever rocks your boat man. Just dont criticize my methods cos they may not work for you.

Don't mind MBJ, what does he know about marriage   

I can break as much TVs as possible if I know all I have to do is replace it. But when he starts ignoring me and keeping late night, I swear, I'll NEVER touch any of his properties again!   

Stotle:

@ poster! The complete story
We had a little quarel and since then we had not been taking as wife/husband. I did eat then. After some weeks, she move to other rooms whre she decide to install a fan without my knowledge and this fan has caused serious quarel/argument b4 which she packed and keep inside the room whre her sister is living. note that we have 3bedroom flat.
On dat day, I went to give our son to her for feeding and get to knw dat she has installed d fan in the room whre am planing to use for mysef as library. I told her to leave d room dat she can go and install/stay in d room with her sister if want to. But she said no and I removed the fan control. she if i destroy d fan that she will destroy the TV. I only removed d fan control frm d wall not to destroy it.
To my greatest suprise she went inside and took hammer and nag it to the TV and our Son is in the sitting room. I just tank God dat the TV was not a tube type which can kill someone. So i quickly took d TV outside mysef.
since den we have not been doing as husband/wife.

So actually you started it by removing the fan control