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You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by Bsssss(op): 6:54am On Jul 26
The best marriage to have as a man is a marriage where:

1. You're more educated and enlightened than your wife.

2. You're richer than your wife.

3. You're older than your wife.

4. Your wife is not from a family that depends on you for their survival.

5. Your wife is not religious and seldom keeps friends.

6. Your wife is a housewife or works where she still has time to be a present mother.

7. Your wife is from a stable home where the parents are still together, but it's not her mother that is the main provider or the one that calls the shot.

8. All her sisters (especially elder sisters) are married.

9. She spends time to teach the children and takes pride in their achievement.

10. She doesn't deprive you of sex and makes sure that her vagina and home is always clean for you.

11. She doesn't have an ex or she doesn't keep in touch with her exes.

12. She doesn't enable you as her husband and wishes to push you further than she has gotten to.

13. She puts you on your toes and you cannot afford to fail her because of the value that she brings to your life.

14. She knows that you have cheated on her, but turns a blind eye, as long as you're not rubbing it on her face and you put your family first in all thy doings.

15. She knows who you are, but will never use your secrets against you. And even if the marriage doesn't work out, she'll always speak good of you because she believes and trusts that you'll always speak good of her.
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by keemsleek(m): 7:05am On Jul 26
You for kuku go buy slave put am for house.
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by Jakarta: 7:18am On Jul 26
Na small children they always think like this, na so gheghe use Una cash out, untill him hide go marry. No surprise say him go dey hide watch him wife clothes for house.
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by WatchYourSix:
A marriage where u hurt the the wife by sleeping around and expect them to be supportive, loyal,…….. be less accomplished, less richer, and less than you in every way to fuel your superiority complex and ego, yet u will not spend money on her family, and she will still work to care for many of her bills herself is what u count as an ideal marriage …

Baba….U nor fit make heaven ….

Try Do to others what you expect them to do to you…
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by WatchYourSix:
Jakarta:
Na small children they always think like this, na so gheghe use Una cash out, untill him hide go marry. No surprise say him go dey hide watch him wife clothes for house.
Why yall keep saying ghe ghe hide marry ?? …:
The guy never preached against marriage and he certainly never said u shouldnt wash your wife’s clothes …..Yall just like to twist context
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by Jakarta: 8:04am On Jul 26
WatchYourSix:
Why yall keep saying ghe ghe hide marry ?? …:
The guy never preached against marriage and he certainly never said u shouldnt wash your wife’s clothes …..Yall just like to twist context
Ogbeni experience don show us say people like am na him dey mumu for woman pass for marriage. Good luck finding the woman with the attributes the op stated below, or those of gheghe, you are better off not being married.
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by WatchYourSix: 8:36am On Jul 26
Jakarta:
Ogbeni experience don show us say people like am na him dey mumu for woman pass for marriage. Good luck finding the woman with the attributes the op stated below, or those of gheghe, you are better off not being married.
What are u even saying?? U comment is just all over the place…
pls .try calm down Dey read…..did u even see my comment on the Op’s topic??

Show me where ghe ghe preached against marriage or he told u not to love your wife or help your wife wash clothes??
Many of u dont even to get half of what ghe ghe said so u fabricate your own version cos I dont know how u arrived at not getting married
Besides…. Pple wey Dey hide marry dont do elaborate weddings, they just go to registry and avoid the rest..
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by Samantha125(f): 10:56am On Jul 26
So basically you want a wife who doesn't have a life, how will you engage in intellectual conversations with someone you just want caged up in the house?

And if I know that you've cheated and I turn a blind eye, just know that I'll be opening a life insurance policy in your name... Because why cheat when you can just sit me down and suggest that we change our marriage status into an open marriage?
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by AllBlack: 11:32am On Jul 26
Bsssss:
The best marriage to have as a man is a marriage where:
Are you married? Yes or NO
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by AllBlack: 11:35am On Jul 26
Samantha125:
how will you engage in intellectual conversations with someone you just want caged up in the house?
Maybe he wants to get married to a female lecturer and somehow still manage to have greater IQ than her. Cage her and talk to her
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by Samantha125(f): 12:47pm On Jul 26
Many lecturers have other sources of incomes and not fully reliant on their lecturing job... I remember some of my lecturers back in varsity used to refer to their lecturing jobs as community service.

And how will the wife then sustain the family with a lecturing job if it happens that he meets his demise first? Your insecurities are the reasons why many of your wives and children get left stranded when you guys are no more, you're always looking out for your fragile egos with your shallow minds instead of considering any future probabilities.
AllBlack:
Maybe he wants to get married to a female lecturer and somehow still manage to have greater IQ than her. Cage her and talk to her
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by LordIsaac(m): 12:53pm On Jul 26
Great points, but I'd rather have her "religious" and godly!
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by Goo0dHardDick: 2:46pm On Jul 26
Jakarta:
Na small children they always think like this, na so gheghe use Una cash out, untill him hide go marry. No surprise say him go dey hide watch him wife clothes for house.
U really believe that highly deep doctored Ai generated video?

If you can believe that, it means you're not yet a man and you can be easily manipulated
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by VenExchangee: 8:30pm On Jul 26
Jakarta:
Na small children they always think like this, na so gheghe use Una cash out, untill him hide go marry. No surprise say him go dey hide watch him wife clothes for house.
geh geh act film, he no marry... Big man wey no fit verify something
Re: You're Free To Argue This, But Let Me Say It. by VenExchangee: 8:31pm On Jul 26
keemsleek:
You for kuku go buy slave put am for house.
How's this slavery?
I hope nor be you they do the washing, cooking, sweeping for your girlfriend? Because you don't sound married
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