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The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by CianaJoy(f): 5:59pm On May 03
Sometimes ago, one of my social media pages, I made a sample post "How will you feel if someone says the words I LOVE YOU to you" to determine what matters more to people between the words and the personality behind the words. The responses I got showed that although the words matters and can have effect, the personality behind the words matters more. This has always being my believe.

An undeniable fact is that words are powerful and can mar or make an individual. But more powerful is the person behind the word. Take for instance, your boss at work tells you that you're dumb and lazy. You feel bad. Then, you told your partner about it, and he or she confirms it again and tells you the same thing. You will feel more hurt that your partner calls you dumb and lazy because you hold your partner in high esteem than your boss. Your partner's words will have more effect on you than that of your boss at work.

In essence, it is factual to conclude that "the person behind a word will determine how much effect the word will have on you"

As individuals, it is pertinent to note that we have to be careful with our words. It is lack of wisdom to throw words casually. Never say something you don't mean. Never reduce someone's self-worth with your careless usage of words too. Say words that encourage, inspire, and edify.

Also, your whole personality can be measured with the words of your mouth. If you've spoken some words in the past that you weren't sincere and committed with, overtime, your words will stop carrying any weight or impact.. For instance, you've been telling someone you love him/her and there was no corresponding actions to back up your words; overtime, whenever you say such words again, it will lose credibility and would therefore have no effect on the person anymore. "Integrity start from you being able to stay loyal and committed to the words that comes out of your mouth". When you say something, live up to it!

Always remember, although words are powerful, the extent of the effect of the words depend largely on the person behind the words.

Happy new month fam..

Here is my counsel for you this month,

IF YOU DON'T MEAN IT, DON'T SAY IT. IF IT WILL HURT, DON'T SAY IT. YOU ARE AS POWERFUL AS THE WORDS OF YOUR MOUTH"

©Ciana Joy.

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Xenry: 6:03pm On May 03
Love is more than feelings. True love is built on the values that you see in others.
(When I say values, money is included).

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by danietohbadt(m): 7:13pm On May 03
See these funny people.

In the Nigerian context, I LOVE YOU has lost its value a very long time ago.

Na like 10 years ago boys dey shout I love you up and down, these days, no one gives a Bleep.

You see a girl you like, you chat her up and if she suites you, the word now is "We VIBE well".

Love done suffer for Nigerians hand, dem no dey use am again.

Can't even remember the last time I said that to a lady.

Taar

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by tnerro1(m): 7:16pm On May 03
Those words dey open legs quick quick in those days but now e no work again, na size of wallet Dey open dem quick quick these days now grin

Isa Pantami fall on Buhari.......,.spits

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by NickNyce: 7:20pm On May 03
Action speaks louder than words. Don't say it always act it.

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Kobicove(m): 8:51pm On May 03
tnerro1:
Those words dey open legs quick quick in those days but now e no work again, na size of wallet Dey open dem quick quick these days now grin

Isa Pantami fall on Buhari.......,.spits

grin

Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Bola146(f): 9:12pm On May 03
Bitter truth
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by dannyrhymes600(m): 10:51am On May 04
CianaJoy:
Sometimes ago, one of my social media pages, I made a sample post "How will you feel if someone says the words I LOVE YOU to you" to determine what matters more to people between the words and the personality behind the words. The responses I got showed that although the words matters and can have effect, the personality behind the words matters more. This has always being my believe.

An undeniable fact is that words are powerful and can mar or make an individual. But more powerful is the person behind the word. Take for instance, your boss at work tells you that you're dumb and lazy. You feel bad. Then, you told your partner about it, and he or she confirms it again and tells you the same thing. You will feel more hurt that your partner calls you dumb and lazy because you hold your partner in high esteem than your boss. Your partner's words will have more effect on you than that of your boss at work.

In essence, it is factual to conclude that "the person behind a word will determine how much effect the word will have on you"

As individuals, it is pertinent to note that we have to be careful with our words. It is lack of wisdom to throw words casually. Never say something you don't mean. Never reduce someone's self-worth with your careless usage of words too. Say words that encourage, inspire, and edify.

Also, your whole personality can be measured with the words of your mouth. If you've spoken some words in the past that you weren't sincere and committed with, overtime, your words will stop carrying any weight or impact.. For instance, you've been telling someone you love him/her and there was no corresponding actions to back up your words; overtime, whenever you say such words again, it will lose credibility and would therefore have no effect on the person anymore. "Integrity start from you being able to stay loyal and committed to the words that comes out of your mouth". When you say something, live up to it!

Always remember, although words are powerful, the extent of the effect of the words depend largely on the person behind the words.

Happy new month fam..

Here is my counsel for you this month,

IF YOU DON'T MEAN IT, DON'T SAY IT. IF IT WILL HURT, DON'T SAY IT. YOU ARE AS POWERFUL AS THE WORDS OF YOUR MOUTH"

©Ciana Joy.

if I tell you say I love you oh...... my money my body na your own oh baby...... 30naira for the account iyoooooooo

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by vincentjk(m): 3:06pm On May 04
I love you to Nigerian girls mostly mean two things;

1. When a guy is either cute, tall or attractive in general then he loves them

2. When a guy is financially loaded, then he's attractive and his love for them seems real

Check the comment below me if you think I'm joking.

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by slawormiir: 3:06pm On May 04
Dmnnnnnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Fuckeveryday2: 3:06pm On May 04
Girls love when you lie to them instead

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by bigdammyj: 3:07pm On May 04
Noted
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Fuckeveryday2: 3:07pm On May 04
dannyrhymes600:

if I tell you say I love you oh...... my money my body na your own oh baby...... 30naira for the account iyoooooooo
I love you, I love you
I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you
There's nothing above you
There's nothing above you, above you above you
Bridget eh, I like your mini skirt io
Oh girl you carry sense io

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by espn(m): 3:07pm On May 04
Love don die teytey...

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Alejobs: 3:07pm On May 04
grin
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Kingsuave(m): 3:08pm On May 04
Who cum be this one aqain? undecided

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Dianeetdiana(f): 3:08pm On May 04
forget it, i love you for naija no mean anything. may Love with casheeeeee

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by MikeMicheal(m): 3:08pm On May 04
HOW ELSE SHOULD WE GET FREE SEX?

I will keep saying "I LOVE YOU" provided there are chances of free knacking.

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Kennitrust(m): 3:08pm On May 04
The word I LOVE YOU does really work in Nigeria because it a mantra here.
Imagine giving a girl flower and she look at you as dumb that does not understand Nigeria girls.


To me, I love you have no meaning except what you do to prove it that have meaning in this part of the world.

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by ecomalchemist(m): 3:08pm On May 04
Tell them i love you but don't ever mean it, don't fall for that trap.

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by SmellySperm(m): 3:09pm On May 04
tnerro1:
Those words dey open legs quick quick in those days but now e no work again, na size of wallet Dey open dem quick quick these days now grin

Isa Pantami fall on Buhari.......,.spits
lol e still dey open legs quick till now my guy...

na ur coordination and lamba go do the magic grin
if not wetin broke boys for the use knack kpekus? na lamba we dey use kill konji for area jare cheesy

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by RedChiefPriest: 3:09pm On May 04
I love you
I miss you
I'm only dating you
All of them na lie

The only one that is real is "I need your help"

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by paulolee(m): 3:10pm On May 04
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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by heartbraker(m): 3:10pm On May 04
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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by infogenius(m): 3:10pm On May 04
Lust is the majority of the trash we call love that is y there are no sustainable relationships.

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Johnchrix(m): 3:11pm On May 04
Xenry:
Love is more than feelings. True love is built on the value that you see in others.

Monetary value grin
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by VoicePOND: 3:11pm On May 04
tHis is very important
Thanks Op
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by ictjobber: 3:11pm On May 04
I've never said it to anyone.. Ever.
Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by design107: 3:11pm On May 04
cheesy

Anty, just grow a thick skin if not you go get depression tire.
Also, if you're boss says you're stupid and your partner confirms it, my dear check well. They both can't be wrong.

I don't even advise people to use the words I LOVE YOU.
Cos when you go get heartbreak na when you realize say them no even know wetin d words mean. At all.

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Drabeey(m): 3:12pm On May 04
oga oo, It's not only sick to think 'I love you' has anything to do with sexual or relationship feelings... weakish too!

I love you... (because you just made me happy)
mind you, it's still sick of humans to think you can't say 'i love anyone' just to express your natural feelings at that point in time. Too many do and don't do just to prove points that may not work for everybody.

I visited a local beer station and the waiteress gave me one haggard and dirty looking unfreezed Legend.. I walked away hating that parlour and hence avoided the plagued place angry

I went straight to the second beer station just stationed opposite the former. The guy's courtesy was bad, maybe because they were beating his club. A Chelsea fan with his anger forehead bearing 'V' shape BUT he came with a chilled bastardized legend stout... and i said to him 'I LOVE YOU'...

To you OP, should i have said i hate the former lady because only two words defines original feelings
Love and its brother Hate

Don't mind me OP, you see something about life is that 'live and let others live' so far their living is in tandem with your breathing. Please embarassed

I have friends we cuss and curse each other, demm, we no mean am.
I gat friends i can't use foul langua with, they'll para but me .... Anything goes, so far na still play, even if na fight, I'll still tell you I LOVE YOU... Love is a word of all seasons, na who sweet my belle i love and will never use HATE. undecided

Meanwhile, your point is very clear grin

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Re: The Words "I Love You". Don't Say It If You Don't Mean It. by Born2winnx: 3:12pm On May 04
Better style.. Love is sweet when your with the right pucsy

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