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JoeEeL:
This man has looked for serious trouble. That gender hates truth like mad.

They will soon begin calling him fake man of God. Watch.

No trouble anywhere.
He already has their Brains & Antidotes.
Just by announcing that he would be giving out husbands his church will fill up to the brim

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140199707]Why you must not invest in a woman — Evangelist Ebuka Obi reveals

A viral video of popular cleric Evangelist Ebuka Obi has stirred widespread reactions on social media after he shared his views on the difference between investing in men and women.

In the video, the evangelist claimed that men are more likely to remember people who supported them during difficult times, while women often move on after entering new relationships.Video Sharing

Evangelist shares controversial opinion

Speaking in the viral clip, Ebuka Obi said: “Invest in a fellow man there is possibility that he will remember. But when you invest in a woman, when she will remember you is when she’s in need again.

Men hardly forget. One day they will remember that this man helped them when they were in secondary school.

But women, if they meet another relationship, they have moved on. If she even see you in a vehicle, she will do like this (waving).

When a woman move, when a woman meets another man, she forgets everything you have done for her. But a fellow man cannot even forget easily.”

The comments quickly gained attention online, with many users expressing differing opinions on whether the cleric’s statement reflected reality or unfairly generalised women.

Social media users react

The video triggered mixed reactions, with some agreeing with the evangelist’s observations, while others argued that gratitude depends on an individual’s character rather than gender.

Reacting to the video, Ugoo wrote: “We might call this generalisation, but this is commonly true. Do something for a man today, it could be a favour or a gift, instantly, the man feels like he is indebted to you. Everything going on in his head is how he can better repay you, but I can’t say the same for women.”

Chinemeluma commented: “I believe he’s coming from the angle of people investing on their girlfriends, female friends and male friends. Because there’s nothing wrong investing on your daughter or sisters.”

Another user, Eby’s Lady, disagreed with the cleric’s position, writing: “It’s not true man of God. Investing in a woman it’s not only in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. Women don’t forget who invested in their lives no matter where she finds herself period!”

Mazi Okwuoma also challenged the statement, saying: “This isn’t a gender issue, it’s a character issue. There are plenty of ungrateful men who eat your money and act like they don’t know you, and plenty of loyal women. People just need to stop investing in the wrong individuals.”

EM added: “A man will remember who stood by him when he had nothing even 10 years later. Loyalty isn’t forgotten easily.”

“When You Invest in a Man, He Doesn’t Forget It Easily. When You Invest in a Woman, She Forgets Everything Once She Moves On With Another Man.” ~ Evangelist Ebuka Obi Reacts pic.twitter.com/DeKu2iN3kC

— Somto Okonkwo (@General_Somto) July 31, 2026

as e resemble one of my patients for Yaba Left here. My patient wey no dey gree come for hin regular clinic visit or take hin drug.

Weyrey ponbele.

APOPTOSIS:
No trouble anywhere.
He already has their Brains & Antidotes.
Just by announcing that he would be giving out husbands his church will fill up to the brim

Haha, una don start again.

FX:
Even if you invest in your daughter or sister. She will still forget you the man. Go and check statistics. One she marries, she's gone. She won't remember all the sacrifices. Better invest in a man. He will never forget you in a haste. He will forever somehow remain loyal and grateful. Though there are one or two good women out there, but 99% of women forget easily whether your girlfriend, sister or even daughter. You're better off investing in a man.

All that na crap, all women and all men are never and will never be the same....

Gotocourt:
Women see things as miracles, na god oooooo . Just think like them when dealing with them. Very greedy.

You will sacrifice your comfort to help a woman. She will thank you once or twice, that's it.

But she will go to her whatsapp status to thank God for meeting her at the point of her needs. On her status she will say something like, always trust God. He will always use someone to bless her. And if that someone (you) is not available, God will use another person.

In other words, you are just a "tool" for her blessings. You are simply a vessel; she doesn't sit down to picture that sacrifice you made.

FX:
Even if you invest in your daughter or sister. She will still forget you the man. Go and check statistics. One she marries, she's gone. She won't remember all the sacrifices. Better invest in a man. He will never forget you in a haste. He will forever somehow remain loyal and grateful. Though there are one or two good women out there, but 99% of women forget easily whether your girlfriend, sister or even daughter. You're better off investing in a man.

Lies bro

cr7lomo:
See this one... men have and are experiencing what he said life ... is it because men dont talk ... have u ever helped a man in ur life without u benefiting from him or expecting to benefitfrom him? It's a rhetorical question,.. its a question u should ask urself

Take your negativity out of my sight!

You know nothing about me.

SmartMaster001:
There is nothing bad about investing on a woman who is very serious with you and is showing effort. Don't abandon your own life and purpose. If you are the only one giving and there is no reciprocity from her then it is a red flag.

Invest in her but more in your children.

Them say I nor get sense for playing bet naija
What of ona wen dey train babe dey go school

Kalulu44:
I keep telling my fellow men, all the money we are working for are majorly for women.
But they keep calling me sissy

Speak for urself. Defeated man

Nothing but the bitter truth. Only time a woman you've helped before will remember you is when she want to ask for more.

JoeEeL:
Speak for urself. Defeated man

One of them deceiving themselves

Kalulu44:
One of them deceiving themselves

Comot for here abeg

FX:
Even if you invest in your daughter or sister. She will still forget you the man. Go and check statistics. One she marries, she's gone. She won't remember all the sacrifices. Better invest in a man. He will never forget you in a haste. He will forever somehow remain loyal and grateful. Though there are one or two good women out there, but 99% of women forget easily whether your girlfriend, sister or even daughter. You're better off investing in a man.

I knew we would get here, You have taken the hate on women to another level, Involving your daughters and sisters, very soon you will ask people to hate their mothers also.

This culture of hating women won't take us anywhere because Men are the problem of our society!!

Men are the Killers, Terrorists, Bandits, IPOB, Ritualists, etc

W

FX:
Even if you invest in your daughter or sister. She will still forget you the man. Go and check statistics. One she marries, she's gone. She won't remember all the sacrifices. Better invest in a man. He will never forget you in a haste. He will forever somehow remain loyal and grateful. Though there are one or two good women out there, but 99% of women forget easily whether your girlfriend, sister or even daughter. You're better off investing in a man.

You are 100% wrong. Go and check, it is the girl child that is taking care of most of their aged parents. Your biological child won't forget You at old age. That is not what Ebuka is saying. He is talking about two people in a relationship

Diamond098454:
They knew you are saying the truth but trust Nigerians they will definitely denied it because we are living in self denial in this country.

They spend on women cos of sex and child bearing ..
May be on the female blood relatives.
No sane man spends on a woman as an investment...
If I send money to my babe is not an investment is to make her be happy to open her legs wjen I wan pussy...

Theres nothing wrong and giving money to a woman. But dont treat it as an investment. so u wont be disappointment.

Diamond098454:
But every man get a woman that enjoy their money including the preacher

There's a woman somewhere living large enjoying your wealth.

We pretend a lot in this country

he is not saying Man should not give money to women but dont even think these women have any sort of memory ..
If I wan Bleep yansh I go spend money but I can never see that as an investment

cr7lomo:
He is absolutely right ... men will remember u ...women will say " did i force u"... naturally, men are more compassionate and considerate....u hardly see a woman that helps , unless she is seriously emotionally involved and that she knows she is benefiting from u .... most donors are men ... women are naturally selfish

Fact

shortgun:
The problem is many men don't understand women psychology. If she gave you the pussy, even just once she has repaid you whatever you spent on her.

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Everyone understands the simple statement except rabble-rousers who are seeking attention.

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This man should keep his mouth shut!

Showing gratitude has nothing to do with gender. What you should pray against is investing in the wrong people.

Sometimes, it's better to spend your money feeding stray animals than to waste it on some so-called humans.

Kalulu44:
I told one the other day. Except you don't want to do anything with women which is impossible is where you're not working for them.
If you want to have s*x, you need them and you must spend. You want to have a companion, you need them and you must spend. You want to start a family and have children, you need them and must spend money.
For you to keep her and your children happy, you must continue to work hard and spend.
You can see all what we're working for is for them women.
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You know the funniest part. Just like a woman that cries and asked herself question if she goes a day or two without a man whispering to her. So a rich dude also react when he has all the money in the world and no women looks his way.
See, I am a realist and not all these men claiming alpha male or whatever.
I have once been asked, will I stop having s*x or have anything to do with women if giving #1b. I decline immediately.
What's life without s*x and women.
When that money comes, that's when the temptation of women flocking around you will start. Any resistance bcus of the condition you have been given, will lead to a boring and secluded life which is even worse and can lead to depression and suicide.
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So my fellow guys are just deceiving themselves if they say they're not working for women.

It is a simp that live for a woman.
You should only care for them.
A man without purpose, works for a woman.
Powerful men see women as entertainment and not a job.

Fallacy of hasty generalisation

The leave preaching and start talking out of context.

Na like so one deceive Wilson Oruma, that one come invest in him thinking say na business him dey invest in being a Pastor.

Individual character matters. Better to give the little you can afford if you don't have the heart to stand human betrayal.

It's mostly true
But there are women who will never forget too, they are just few.
And there are men who will forget too but they are few too.

Mariangeles:
If it is not written in the Word, it is the doctrine of man.

Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

Ye shall know them by their fruits.

What he said was common sense truth and life lesson. He didnt say its biblical instruction or law. But the bible supports commin sense most times.

The best decision is not to marry at all; or, if you do, choose wisely.

One of the worst decisions you can make is marrying someone solely because they are beautiful, handsome, influential, or possess any other attractive quality.

Don't marry someone who could conspire with your enemies to harm or even kill you.

Marry someone who seems to have a good conscience. Such a person is far less likely to betray you and is more likely to be your protective shield. Even if the relationship is no longer working, they would rather choose separation than betrayal.

I can't help but wonder how some human beings can act so viciously toward another human being. A recent incident reminded me that character is still one of the most underrated qualities to look for in a spouse.