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Bobxin:
lol I remember that guy. Heaven will come down if he sees this.

Reloadedisraelp:
see wetin dis dey type. ..

Jmichael1:
Dats my own opinion bro,I can't marry a virgin...I don't like it.

Mattswaggz:
If that's the case...the days of billings and paying bride price on top person way dem disvirgin with indomie and coke should also be behind us too.

Reloadedisraelp:
why ? 🙄

Jmichael1:
I no even know wetin una see inside dis virginity....

I see still dey talk am,I can not marry a virgin because I don't like stress..

SeeWahala:
Op is unfortunately right

If only we men could accurately measure body counts

Hezmatosky210:
Any man looking for a virgin to marry is not social. He's timid, local, and backward
Yours faithfully

Jmichael1:
I hate virgin from the 1st day I disvirgin a grl..
I don't want to experience it again...

Babatunjo:
Just wondering.

If, in many places, the average age of first sex is below 20, should virginity still be a major deciding factor?

After all, it's men like you and me who are having sex with these women. It doesn't automatically mean they're sleeping around.

TheStoriesOfMan:
Partially. I disagree with you, but traditionally, the purity construct enables that we get virgins to marry so as we can bear pure children.

I agree with you because this is the 21st century: realism, brutal worldview and dwindling social/economic traits.

Babatunjo:
Call it good or bad, but society has changed.

Women marry later, date longer, and are far more sexually liberated than they were a generation ago. It's no longer something limited to the "wild girls." Even your regular, educated, career-focused, church-going lady may have a sexual past.

Because of that reality, many men have adjusted their expectations.

These days, the questions are different.

Is she loyal?

Can she bring peace?

Is she emotionally mature?

Can we build a stable home together?

A woman's past may still matter to some men, but for many others, her character, values and how she treats you now carry more weight.

You don't have to like the change. But pretending it hasn't happened won't change reality.

LordIsaac:
It is not, and it will never be!
Opening the matrix is non-negotiable; I do not entertain boreholes. Personally, I have (by the grace of God), all it takes to be with a virgin (I'm surrounded by them), so why should I go into other men's leftovers?

Hezmatosky210:
Virginity of woman organ is different from her heart. Besides, when the line is crossed can you undo it again? You mentioned bearing of pure children right? When you sacrifice the Virginity for the sake of the first, then, the other ones nko? Are they also pure? I will prefer to marry a woman with virgin heart than a full grown woman still a virgin. Virginity does not guarantee success in marriage.
Yours faithfully

Gerrard59:
Nice to read such words by another male Nairalander. I'm not alone.

Women have changed. My own is bride price should be scrapped since the probability of getting a virgin is low. I've never understood that concept in an age of sexual liberation.

Successsearch90:
Na small girl you wan marry be that

TheStoriesOfMan:
Like bro? Worrying myself over a piece of skin and some warm red liquid staining my bedsheet?

Abegi!

Babatunjo:
Call it good or bad, but society has changed.

Women marry later, date longer, and are far more sexually liberated than they were a generation ago. It's no longer something limited to the "wild girls." Even your regular, educated, career-focused, church-going lady may have a sexual past.

Because of that reality, many men have adjusted their expectations.
OYO

These days, the questions are different.

Is she loyal?

Can she bring peace?

Is she emotionally mature?

Can we build a stable home together?

A woman's past may still matter to some men, but for many others, her character, values and how she treats you now carry more weight.

You don't have to like the change. But pretending it hasn't happened won't change reality.

tuoyoojo:
Virginity gives a clue of the woman's self will

Once the hymen is removed, the seal is broken and she may have no reason to hold on

How many people have had intercourse with virgins......I am sure they can testify that is very unsatisfying

Virginity is not the test for loyalty

If you see a girl and she happens to be a virgin fine and good

What you should bother yourself with is, is the woman compatible with you, does she make you feel like the man, is she submissive, is she a wife material, can she handle a home.

These are the issues

Jman06:
Stop typing jargons here! Women have multiple suitors but many of them miss the good guys by setting unrealistic expectations for themselves and by the time they realise they can't attract the kind of men with those frivolous expectations, they're too old to attract decent men. That's when they start cutting down on expectations and many end up marrying any available man while many others end up unmarried. So, don't blame it on men, it is women and their unrealistic choices that keep themselves unmarried.

tuoyoojo:
Virginity gives a clue of the woman's self will

Once the hymen is removed, the seal is broken and she may have no reason to hold on

How many people have had intercourse with virgins......I am sure they can testify that is very unsatisfying

Virginity is not the test for loyalty

If you see a girl and she happens to be a virgin fine and good

What you should bother yourself with is, is the woman compatible with you, does she make you feel like the man, is she submissive, is she a wife material, can she handle a home.

These are the issues

Babatunjo:
Call it good or bad, but society has changed.

Women marry later, date longer, and are far more sexually liberated than they were a generation ago. It's no longer something limited to the "wild girls." Even your regular, educated, career-focused, church-going lady may have a sexual past.

Because of that reality, many men have adjusted their expectations.

These days, the questions are different.

Is she loyal?

Can she bring peace?

Is she emotionally mature?

Can we build a stable home together?

A woman's past may still matter to some men, but for many others, her character, values and how she treats you now carry more weight.

You don't have to like the change. But pretending it hasn't happened won't change reality.

mayor1814:
As much as I hate this topic, it's d bitter reality... Girls as young as 14/15 have explored different sexual experiences.


We see d videos and pics of some secondary girls and boys recently celebrating their signing out from school. We see what they were doing that went viral. Hugging, touching sensitive parts etc even in public not to talk of what they do in private...

motymop:
that is true, i dont know this fuss about marrying a virgin

marrying a virgin does not prevent cheating, they still look out when bored.

Babatunjo:
Call it good or bad, but society has changed.

Women marry later, date longer, and are far more sexually liberated than they were a generation ago. It's no longer something limited to the "wild girls." Even your regular, educated, career-focused, church-going lady may have a sexual past.

Because of that reality, many men have adjusted their expectations.

These days, the questions are different.

Is she loyal?

Can she bring peace?

Is she emotionally mature?

Can we build a stable home together?

A woman's past may still matter to some men, but for many others, her character, values and how she treats you now carry more weight.

You don't have to like the change. But pretending it hasn't happened won't change reality.

Babatunjo:
Call it good or bad, but society has changed.

Women marry later, date longer, and are far more sexually liberated than they were a generation ago. It's no longer something limited to the "wild girls." Even your regular, educated, career-focused, church-going lady may have a sexual past.

Because of that reality, many men have adjusted their expectations.

These days, the questions are different.

Is she loyal?

Can she bring peace?

Is she emotionally mature?

Can we build a stable home together?

A woman's past may still matter to some men, but for many others, her character, values and how she treats you now carry more weight.

You don't have to like the change. But pretending it hasn't happened won't change reality.