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How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Toolegit123(op): 2:40pm On Aug 06
Good day everyone.

Hey,it's me ,your favourite Nairalander whose heart just got recently broken. But thank God I've healed up cheesy

So lately I ran into an old female friend of mine whom I used to crush on in the past. Back then in school,she was the most pretty girl in my faculty and I was really into her. And of course many male lecturers and other male students were running after her because her backside was very huge then cheesy. Yes,you can call her the baddie in our class then because that was what she was cheesy

It's been over 15 years since we left school and we met last week in a mall. After exchanging pleasantries and reminiscing on our past moments,she asked me about my relationship life and i did hers,too. Unfortunately the pretty girl whom I used to crush on turned out to be single,and of which I took to be a great sign to mine grin. But before I could say hey,I remembered the popular line she used to tell me back then when was a hot girl in campus sad. Which was--"Men are everywhere". And "Do you know how many men who are asking me to date them?" sad.

We exchanged numbers and went our different ways. So on Monday,I called her and we were really vibing well on the phone cool. But I so much wanted to remind her of what she did to me back then in school. Then ,i dropped the bombshell cool. --"So what about the men that were everywhere?". And what about those men that were asking you to date them?". Aren't they ready to date you again?" sad. On the other side,I could feel her silence sad. The next thing,was her hanging the call on me sad

Since then,I have been calling her but she had blocked me both on call and on Whatsapp. I even tried calling her with my other line ,but immediately she heard my voice,she hung up and blocked the line too sad

My brethren,did I do wrong by asking her that question? Please mind you, I did what I did just to bruise her ego and to teach her a lesson that as a woman, you don't have much time to be doing Shakara for the man that truly loves you simply because plenty men are asking you out sad.

Nlfpmod obembet Dominique mynd44 Seun Dominique
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by WhiteIverson: 2:47pm On Aug 06
Over 15 years since you left school. That means you are either in your late 30s or early 40s, yet you still act like a kid.

Grow up man and start acting your age.
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Toolegit123(op): 2:48pm On Aug 06
WhiteIverson:
Over 15 years since you left school. That means you are either in your late 30s or early 40s, yet you still act like a kid.

Grow up man and start acting your age.
. And what correlation does my age has to do with my post?
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by brain54(m): 3:00pm On Aug 06
:::


Men are everywhere. Women are everywhere. But life happens to people.


I see no reason why you had to bring that up to bruise her ego apart from your low self esteem.


You yourself are you not still single?


Is she supposed to have dated you, all the lecturers and everyone else that asked her out when she was hot because of her big backside.


All I see is a man with a bruised ego that hasn't healed after 15 years.



Some people are sharp. She was smart enough to sense your negative energy and cut you off immediately.


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Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by johnbuck81(m): 3:08pm On Aug 06
YOU F**KED UP BIG TIME. BIG TIME.
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Koppaguard(m): 3:12pm On Aug 06
You for just collect your own turn and ghost her, your impulsive reaction came too early to the game cheesy
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by A4alpha: 3:15pm On Aug 06
SIMP
You don't have game and I', sure in you 40s you are still single because you ain't gat game.
Grow up big man!!
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by eepeepook(f): 3:42pm On Aug 06
You dodged a bullet. Life continues.

Toolegit123:
Good day everyone.

Hey,it's me ,your favourite Nairalander whose heart just got recently broken. But thank God I've healed up cheesy

So lately I ran into an old female friend of mine whom I used to crush on in the past. Back then in school,she was the most pretty girl in my faculty and I was really into her. And of course many male lecturers and other male students were running after her because her backside was very huge then cheesy. Yes,you can call her the baddie in our class then because that was what she was cheesy

It's been over 15 years since we left school and we met last week in a mall. After exchanging pleasantries and reminiscing on our past moments,she asked me about my relationship life and i did hers,too. Unfortunately the pretty girl whom I used to crush on turned out to be single,and of which I took to be a great sign to mine grin. But before I could say hey,I remembered the popular line she used to tell me back then when was a hot girl in campus sad. Which was--"Men are everywhere". And "Do you know how many men who are asking me to date them?" sad.

We exchanged numbers and went our different ways. So on Monday,I called her and we were really vibing well on the phone cool. But I so much wanted to remind her of what she did to me back then in school. Then ,i dropped the bombshell cool. --"So what about the men that were everywhere?". And what about those men that were asking you to date them?". Aren't they ready to date you again?" sad. On the other side,I could feel her silence sad. The next thing,was her hanging the call on me sad

Since then,I have been calling her but she had blocked me both on call and on Whatsapp. I even tried calling her with my other line ,but immediately she heard my voice,she hung up and blocked the line too sad

My brethren,did I do wrong by asking her that question? Please mind you, I did what I did just to bruise her ego and to teach her a lesson that as a woman, you don't have much time to be doing Shakara for the man that truly loves you simply because plenty men are asking you out sad.

Nlfpmod obembet Dominique mynd44 Seun Dominique
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Tenrack: 4:04pm On Aug 06
Toolegit123:
. And what correlation does my age has to do with my post?
Guy you did well jare. But you too dey in a haste. You for just gba scores first. She suppose don use am learn a lesson or two now. No call her again.
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Tenrack: 4:05pm On Aug 06
Koppaguard:
You for just collect your own turn and ghost her, your impulsive reaction came too early to the game cheesy
wahlai. E too dey in a haste. E for don chop her several times then remind her. Some of these women deserve the worse treatment.
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Anabosee(m): 5:02pm On Aug 06
The pie was there for the taking, but you quickly showed your card? Seems you are not emotionally intelligent.
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Jman06(m): 5:02pm On Aug 06
That question was completely off and every sensible lady would do the same thing she did. You don't ask ladies that kind of question, you allow them live with the consequences of their wrong choices.
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by zoghys: 6:07pm On Aug 06
Toolegit123:
Good day everyone.

Hey,it's me ,your favourite Nairalander whose heart just got recently broken. But thank God I've healed up cheesy

So lately I ran into an old female friend of mine whom I used to crush on in the past. Back then in school,she was the most pretty girl in my faculty and I was really into her. And of course many male lecturers and other male students were running after her because her backside was very huge then cheesy. Yes,you can call her the baddie in our class then because that was what she was cheesy

It's been over 15 years since we left school and we met last week in a mall. After exchanging pleasantries and reminiscing on our past moments,she asked me about my relationship life and i did hers,too. Unfortunately the pretty girl whom I used to crush on turned out to be single,and of which I took to be a great sign to mine grin. But before I could say hey,I remembered the popular line she used to tell me back then when was a hot girl in campus sad. Which was--"Men are everywhere". And "Do you know how many men who are asking me to date them?" sad.

We exchanged numbers and went our different ways. So on Monday,I called her and we were really vibing well on the phone cool. But I so much wanted to remind her of what she did to me back then in school. Then ,i dropped the bombshell cool. --"So what about the men that were everywhere?". And what about those men that were asking you to date them?". Aren't they ready to date you again?" sad. On the other side,I could feel her silence sad. The next thing,was her hanging the call on me sad

Since then,I have been calling her but she had blocked me both on call and on Whatsapp. I even tried calling her with my other line ,but immediately she heard my voice,she hung up and blocked the line too sad

My brethren,did I do wrong by asking her that question? Please mind you, I did what I did just to bruise her ego and to teach her a lesson that as a woman, you don't have much time to be doing Shakara for the man that truly loves you simply because plenty men are asking you out sad.

Nlfpmod obembet Dominique mynd44 Seun Dominique
Why dwell on the past, shoot your shot and stop tales by moonlight. Anyway, better luck next time.
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by LordIsaac(m): 6:32pm On Aug 06
WhiteIverson:
Over 15 years since you left school. That means you are either in your late 30s or early 40s, yet you still act like a kid.

Grow up man and start acting your age.
Unfortunately, indeed!
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Silentgroper(m): 7:34pm On Aug 06
She already insecure now you wanted to bruise her ego . I think that was too early tho ..



I mean it's something I would say but not this fast ...
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by kiddaz: 8:55pm On Aug 06
You no play your game well at all angry
See you see better penalty yet you play ball go throwing 🤦🏽‍♂️
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by faceland: 9:56pm On Aug 06
Up till now you have not foooq her?
15 years and am sure she is both fat and ugly.

You mocked her, do you know how painful it is that she is attending weddings but can't wed?
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by AcadaWriter0: 1:05am On Aug 07
Let's just have a little chat. It's all about the vibes, right? a simple, smooth conversation. No drama, a little sparkle.
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by BigYash: 4:53am On Aug 07
You let your cards out too early..

Such girls are good for p*rn practical classes.

You ask such questions,when are done,and she wants to be clingy because of what you did to her while on it..
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Lastpharoah33: 6:45am On Aug 07
Toolegit123:
. And what correlation does my age has to do with my post?
Alot, trust me.
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Nnamdipapa(m): 10:46am On Aug 07
You did the right thing, just ignore the ekuke.
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by EmmyMaestro(m): 11:00am On Aug 07
You were presented with an opportunity, instead of you to take it and give her some good kn@cking that she's probably craving you were trying to bruise her ego. Na wa for you
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by IceColdVeins(m): 11:07am On Aug 07
You lost twice.
Universe somehow again gave you the game that you once lost 15 years ago but you goofed the control of it cos you celebrated too early.
Life was unfair to you back in school but now, you still couldn't get to hit even at her lowest point in life!!!!
You got sent to the gallows of "blocked list" instead.

Take this massive "L", it's yours!!
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Baronthecelebri(m): 12:00pm On Aug 07
It was too early to ask that question
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by MONEY247: 2:31pm On Aug 07
Must you call her....

Chai... there are other things to do nah
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Uptheante(m): 3:21pm On Aug 07
IceColdVeins:
You lost twice.
Universe somehow again gave you the game that you once lost 15 years ago but you goofed the control of it cos you celebrated too early.
Life was unfair to you back in school but now, you still couldn't get to hit even at her lowest point in life!!!!
You got sent to the gallows of "blocked list" instead.

Take this massive "L", it's yours!!
Is her püssy paved with gold & silver that you say he misses it?

Or did he tell you he's starved of better püssy than hers?
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Uptheante(m): 3:22pm On Aug 07
EmmyMaestro:
You were presented with an opportunity, instead of you to take it and give her some good kn@cking that she's probably craving you were trying to bruise her ego. Na wa for you
Which stupid opportunity?

For pussy wey don make gbim already?
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by ArcToyin(m): 10:57pm On Aug 07
Tenrack:
Guy you did well jare. But you too dey in a haste. You for just gba scores first. She suppose don use am learn a lesson or two now. No call her again.
What is the gain you get when you deceitfully have sex with a girl and throw her away. Sincerely, this is an example of act of the devil but i believe you believe to Jesus. Pls, shun those evil act. Love genuinely and truthfully.
Re: How My Encounter With My Long Time Crush Turned Chaotic. by Tenrack: 4:26am On Aug 08
ArcToyin:
What is the gain you get when you deceitfully have sex with a girl and throw her away. Sincerely, this is an example of act of the devil but i believe you believe to Jesus. Pls, shun those evil act. Love genuinely and truthfully.
okay na. I don hear.
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