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Proserpina:
So you marry younger women because they feel like you are taking care of your siblings and somehow you feel other men and women should follow this small mindedness?

Someone should take away your phone. Please log out with immediate effect after clearing this nonsense you posted.

Charleys:
Men have been marrying younger for thousands of years.

Proserpina:
And what became of those women? Especially the ones who ended up with struggling men? In 2026 where nations or at least growth minded nations are on about structural measures to improve their economy , You and op are taking us "thousands of years" backward. Lol

I just hope the young women you will be marrying are millionaires like yourselves else nah poverty go finish una

Proserpina:
And what became of those women? Especially the ones who ended up with struggling men? In 2026 where nations or at least growth minded nations are on about structural measures to improve their economy , You and op are taking us "thousands of years" backward. Lol

I just hope the young women you will be marrying are millionaires like yourselves else nah poverty go finish una

Proserpina:
And what became of those women? Especially the ones who ended up with struggling men? In 2026 where nations or at least growth minded nations are on about structural measures to improve their economy , You and op are taking us "thousands of years" backward. Lol

I just hope the young women you will be marrying are millionaires like yourselves else nah poverty go finish una

Jman06:
Your problem is "wokism"! In Nigeria and Africa, men are still the providers and protectors of their homes and that's what keeps most families going. An average Nigerian lady loath the idea of co-providing with their husbands, hence the saying that "your money is our money while my money is my money". Even you that is sounding so sanctimonious and feigning wokeness here will never marry a man who expects you to provide for the family, so why the pretence Like I said, provision for the family by a man is smoother and goes more seamlessly when the man is married to a girl who is far younger than him. That's the hard fact!

Oh! I forgot that you ladies love to preach the exact opposite of what you practise.

Tenrack:
I go like see you tell this to the head slammers. Make I see how e go pan out.

SamuraiXXX:
Why the thing dey pain you laidis? E be like say you senior your husband

Proserpina:
I'm trying so hard to get your point.

Tenrack:
smh. Which parts confuse you please?

Proserpina:
There is no problem with "awareness to social problems " of course perpetrators of these problems like you will think otherwise. How many men in Nigeria can SINGLE-HANDEDLY run a home financially without their children doing all sorts of crimes to escape poverty at homes? How many young women have you all ridiculed, shamed, called useless and cheated because they fell for lies from people like you. How many young wives have lost their lives at childbirth because their husbands can't "provide" well for them or even afford CS. You are here yapping about wokeness.

You all don't like women, you never wanted the best for women. It's plain as hell! And the earlier these youngling know this the best for them. You go for younger women for CONTROL and never out of LOVE. Cry all you want, we will continue to educate girls and young adult to have goals, go to school, be financially capable and make something out of their lives and yes Marriage will be the last on the list!

Jman06:
This is how your ilk spread fallacies! I only pity the unfortunate young girls that will allow themselves get decent by you. Who told you that young adult girls can't have normal delivery without requiring CS. For your information, pregnancy and childbearing are easier with young girls (18 -22) because at that age their bodies are more flexible and the majority of them would not have started high blood pressure which is one of the factors that lead complications in pregnancy.

Majority of homes in Nigeria are still run by men and they do this without complaining because we have been made to grow with the understanding that we are to provide for our families. So, stop making it look like women have started making equal contributions in running their homes. A few exceptions does not change the rules.

When your gender leave all the responsible men begging them for marriage and follow jerks in the name of "I love him" and all the frivolous reasons, they shouldn't blame anyone when their husbands turn deadbeats. Many responsible and well-to-do men are still providing and running their families without complaining.

You can continue wasting your time and deceiving naive young girls until reality of old age dawns on you and you become single and miserable at old age. My only worry is that at that old age, your ilk will still turn the narratives around and put the blames for your unwise decisions on men instead of taking responsibility for your wrong choices.

For your information, I'm happily married to a cute 19years old babe and we are both happy and loving each other. I happily and dutifully provide for my wife the way I should.

Cry all you want, we will continue to educate girls and young adult to have goals, go to school, be financially capable and make something out of their lives and yes Marriage will be the last on the list!

kiddaz:
Virgin or no virgin, younger, young or not too young, I just need a woman to love me enough to forgive my excesses as I would her's cos some women go pet you until you enter that stage in old age that you become very weak, na then them go begin make your last days on earth miserable. I don't want to go out like that abeg. Some no go even wait make the old age come, nà once them done put leg inside house e.g after marrying them or after they give you kids they will begin to unravel the real shege banza, so you fit no even rech the old age sef. I want the one that will still be dedicated even when I'm not longer the strong man I used to be, when she knows I'm almost gone, and will never see me as a burden or liability. That kind heart of a woman, if I ever marry, is what I need oo

Proserpina:
A very wise man

Make people wey marry 19 years old dey run up and down

Proserpina:
None confuses me, all doesn't just make any sense.

Proserpina:
There is no problem with "awareness to social problems " of course perpetrators of these problems like you will think otherwise. How many men in Nigeria can SINGLE-HANDEDLY run a home financially without their children doing all sorts of crimes to escape poverty at homes? How many young women have you all ridiculed, shamed, called useless and cheated because they fell for lies from people like you. How many young wives have lost their lives at childbirth because their husbands can't "provide" well for them or even afford CS. You are here yapping about wokeness.

You all don't like women, you never wanted the best for women. It's plain as hell! And the earlier these youngling know this the best for them. You go for younger women for CONTROL and never out of LOVE. Cry all you want, we will continue to educate girls and young adult to have goals, go to school, be financially capable and make something out of their lives and yes Marriage will be the last on the list!

Jman06:
I say this with all sense of responsibility. Marriage is smoother and easier when a man marries a girl who is far younger than him. In such cases, the man is more at peace with providing and protecting his wife because it'll feel like providing for his daughter or younger sister and y'all know that provision is one thing that strengthens marriages.

To me and many other men, it feels awkward when saddled with the responsibility of providing for a lady who is my age mate or closer to my age. Perhaps, the lady might even be my classmate or on the same level with me at work. Such scenarios causes men to start demanding for equal provision and if we want to tell ourselves the truth, demanding equal provision from women is never cool with them and is a major reason for marital problems and divorces.

So girls, if you want to enjoy your marriages in peace, marry a man who is far older than you are. Such men are the ones who want to take responsibility of providing for you and your children. All those guys saying they want to marry their age mates are the ones who want equal provision with you. Those are the kind of guys that would be emphasising on marrying "working class ladies" whom they'll turn to cash cows to shoulder their responsibilities as men. They'll demand that you submit your salary to them at the end of the month. A word is enough for the wise!

pocohantas:
Lol. Your comment made me click to check the OP of the thread. Why is that young man restless despite getting his model wife?

Diamond098454:
God bless you

Samantha125:
We're still waiting for your wedding pictures...

Proserpina:
I don't understand ooo, if there's one thing I know about Nigerians, they gatekeep what works but love to keep companies in misery. Maybe baba hairline has shifted farther since he marry him 19 year old

Jman06:
Lolzzz...my white wedding and traditional marriage took place on 11th July and it was superb! I can't drop the wedding pictures here because this is a faceless forum and you never can tell who is watching. If you really want to see the pictures, drop your WhatsApp number let me show you the pictures on WhatsApp.

Samantha125:
What are you afraid of? I mean they're just wedding pictures.

Forget about my WhatsApp number, you're not getting it today, tomorrow, and forever...

Jman06:
then forget about the pictures

Jman06:
I say this with all sense of responsibility. Marriage is smoother and easier when a man marries a girl who is far younger than him. In such cases, the man is more at peace with providing and protecting his wife because it'll feel like providing for his daughter or younger sister and y'all know that provision is one thing that strengthens marriages.

To me and many other men, it feels awkward when saddled with the responsibility of providing for a lady who is my age mate or closer to my age. Perhaps, the lady might even be my classmate or on the same level with me at work. Such scenarios causes men to start demanding for equal provision and if we want to tell ourselves the truth, demanding equal provision from women is never cool with them and is a major reason for marital problems and divorces.

So girls, if you want to enjoy your marriages in peace, marry a man who is far older than you are. Such men are the ones who want to take responsibility of providing for you and your children. All those guys saying they want to marry their age mates are the ones who want equal provision with you. Those are the kind of guys that would be emphasising on marrying "working class ladies" whom they'll turn to cash cows to shoulder their responsibilities as men. They'll demand that you submit your salary to them at the end of the month. A word is enough for the wise!

pocohantas:
Lol. Your comment made me click to check the OP of the thread. Why is that young man restless despite getting his model wife?