I was wondering,
Can Love and Lust Co-Exist in a relationaship
I know quite well that one can transmute to another,
But can there be, even if unequal, a relationship that u lust after your partner and yet be in love with the person
I only know about obsession and lust.
So what of love and lust?

lHell yah lust n love can co-exist in a relationship

yes i think they do co exist.cos there are times u just look at your partner and then you be like wow, i have this breast and ass to myself?dats lust and then another way of feeling lucky and blessed.

Sxymiyayo:

yes i think they do co exist.because there are times u just look at your partner and then you be like wow, i have this breast and ass to myself?that is lust and then another way of feeling lucky and blessed.

It then goes to say that appreciating her physical attributes is down right lustful huh
Nwanne i beg to disagree

Miss Emperoh or Mrs, with all due respect i will like you to understand thatl love is the affinity experienced btw 2 people who are naturally able and willing to tune into one another's emotional, intellectual, and physical states - and respond to them in a nurturing and a stimulating way. therefore love is a relationship. If Love is a relationship what is Lust? What is the difference between love and lust? lust has 2 different meanings: an 'eagerness to possess' and a 'strong sexual desire'. The two meanings are often confused. We are not concerned with possession, which is a feature of oppression. Like you, we're far more interested in sexual desire!

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Yes, they can coexist.

Very very well. It can and it DOES coexist. It's what creates confusion for a lot of people.

If you love somebody, you'll lust after the person.

Sxymiyayo:

Miss Emperoh or Mrs, with all due respect i will like you to understand thatl love is the affinity experienced between 2 people who are naturally able and willing to tune into one another's emotional, intellectual, and physical states - and respond to them in a nurturing and a stimulating way. therefore love is a relationship. If Love is a relationship what is Lust? What is the difference between love and lust? lust has 2 different meanings: an 'eagerness to possess' and a 'strong sexual desire'. The two meanings are often confused. We are not concerned with possession, which is a feature of oppression. Like you, we're far more interested in sexual desire!

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First correction, I am a Mr. not a Miss or Mrs.
U only managed to define Love and Lust. But the issue of coexistence is still left pending
Much as i love to tell myself they can, i am forced to believe they can't because Lust is a lesser good to Love
Or are u saying that lust can be confused with passion
We are talking about 'Strong Sexual desire' here as u defined and not 'eagerness to posses'

Emperoh:

First correction, I am a Mr. not a Miss or Mrs.
You only managed to define Love and Lust. But the issue of coexistence is still left pending
Much as i love to tell myself they can, i am forced to believe they can't because Lust is a lesser good to Love
Or are u saying that lust can be confused with passion
We are talking about 'Strong Sexual desire' here as u defined and not 'eagerness to posses'

for her to define both love and lust , shes tryin to let u know that they cant EXIST

dyabman:

for her to define both love and lust , shes tryin to let u know that they can't EXIST

i am wont to believe as such but i have my doubts over his postulation
Cos if that's the case, the issue of sex before marriage needn't arise or whats your thought on that