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Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Joseph4566(op): 7:33am On Aug 09
I caught my girlfriend cheating, and unfortunately, she confessed to me that she only slept with the guy once. She said she doesn’t know what came over her and that she deeply regrets what she did.

Honestly, I’m completely heartbroken. I was already making plans to marry her, and now I feel like something inside me has changed. I don’t feel the same love for her anymore, and I’m struggling to even see our relationship the way I used to.

To make things even more difficult, she suspects that she might be pregnant. I’m almost certain the pregnancy wouldn’t be mine because I always use protection whenever we have sex.

I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m confused and emotionally overwhelmed. She has been crying since yesterday, and she looks really depressed. I feel terrible seeing her like this, and I still care about her as a person, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how deeply her actions have hurt me.

I was preparing myself for marriage, and now I’m questioning everything. I don’t know whether I should try to forgive her and rebuild the relationship or walk away because the love and trust I had for her don’t feel the same anymore.

What would you advise me to do?
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by eepeepook(f): 7:39am On Aug 09
Yes. Forgive her. Tell her to do it again.

Joseph4566:
I caught my girlfriend cheating, and unfortunately, she confessed to me that she only slept with the guy once. She said she doesn’t know what came over her and that she deeply regrets what she did.

Honestly, I’m completely heartbroken. I was already making plans to marry her, and now I feel like something inside me has changed. I don’t feel the same love for her anymore, and I’m struggling to even see our relationship the way I used to.

To make things even more difficult, she suspects that she might be pregnant. I’m almost certain the pregnancy wouldn’t be mine because I always use protection whenever we have sex.

I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m confused and emotionally overwhelmed. She has been crying since yesterday, and she looks really depressed. I feel terrible seeing her like this, and I still care about her as a person, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how deeply her actions have hurt me.

I was preparing myself for marriage, and now I’m questioning everything. I don’t know whether I should try to forgive her and rebuild the relationship or walk away because the love and trust I had for her don’t feel the same anymore.

What would you advise me to do?
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Dzzzz: 7:47am On Aug 09
It may be the Holy Spirit that came over her and you know,you can’t fight the Holy Spirit..If she’s pregnant you can take full responsibility of the child cause you won’t be the first or the last to father a XO..You still love her so forgive and forget eh..
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Kdon2: 7:51am On Aug 09
eepeepook:
Yes. Forgive her. Tell her to do it again.
I like you already!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Kdon2: 7:52am On Aug 09
Joseph4566:
I caught my girlfriend cheating, and unfortunately, she confessed to me that she only slept with the guy once. She said she doesn’t know what came over her and that she deeply regrets what she did.

Honestly, I’m completely heartbroken. I was already making plans to marry her, and now I feel like something inside me has changed. I don’t feel the same love for her anymore, and I’m struggling to even see our relationship the way I used to.

To make things even more difficult, she suspects that she might be pregnant. I’m almost certain the pregnancy wouldn’t be mine because I always use protection whenever we have sex.

I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m confused and emotionally overwhelmed. She has been crying since yesterday, and she looks really depressed. I feel terrible seeing her like this, and I still care about her as a person, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how deeply her actions have hurt me.

I was preparing myself for marriage, and now I’m questioning everything. I don’t know whether I should try to forgive her and rebuild the relationship or walk away because the love and trust I had for her don’t feel the same anymore.

What would you advise me to do?
Put her number here so that we can help you check if she is truly repentant.
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Stephen0mozzy: 8:35am On Aug 09
First of all, may the g_ods not pu__nish us with weak $ons like OP. May our ancestors bless the strength of our ma...nho..od to birth sons with the unshakeable willpower.

Now, on your matter:
She said she doesn’t know what came over her and that she deeply regrets what she did.
You see this statement above, it the height of irres__ponsibility made manifest. Do you know how many steps it takes from talking to offi__ng clothes and being rod__e like Bicycle? Unless you're in co__ma throughout, you know what came over you - it's called ojukokoro/gre__ed/lu___st/infide__lity.

About the pregnancy possibility, when you said you were co___nfused after you had been told that, I just weak for you my guy.
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Equal2DeTask(m): 8:58am On Aug 09
Joseph4566:
I caught my girlfriend cheating, and unfortunately, she confessed to me that she only slept with the guy once. She said she doesn’t know what came over her and that she deeply regrets what she did.

Honestly, I’m completely heartbroken. I was already making plans to marry her, and now I feel like something inside me has changed. I don’t feel the same love for her anymore, and I’m struggling to even see our relationship the way I used to.

To make things even more difficult, she suspects that she might be pregnant. I’m almost certain the pregnancy wouldn’t be mine because I always use protection whenever we have sex.

I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m confused and emotionally overwhelmed. She has been crying since yesterday, and she looks really depressed. I feel terrible seeing her like this, and I still care about her as a person, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how deeply her actions have hurt me.

I was preparing myself for marriage, and now I’m questioning everything. I don’t know whether I should try to forgive her and rebuild the relationship or walk away because the love and trust I had for her don’t feel the same anymore.

What would you advise me to do?
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Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by opera1(m): 9:24am On Aug 09
"I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m confused and emotionally overwhelmed. She has been crying since yesterday, and she looks really depressed. I feel terrible seeing her like this, and I still care about her as a person, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how deeply her actions have hurt me.“
I don't even know what to say but
You lack self esteem. You ve been devalued. Run for your life.
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by clevybrown(m): 9:30am On Aug 09
Would she have cried and fill depressed for cheating on u if u hadn't caught her cheating? Fall for their manipulation and tricks at ur own expense....
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by tanigororo: 9:33am On Aug 09
Instead of you to reach out to the guy for advice and tutorial. Perhaps mentorship and friendship.
Joseph4566:
I caught my girlfriend cheating, and unfortunately, she confessed to me that she only slept with the guy once. She said she doesn’t know what came over her and that she deeply regrets what she did.

Honestly, I’m completely heartbroken. I was already making plans to marry her, and now I feel like something inside me has changed. I don’t feel the same love for her anymore, and I’m struggling to even see our relationship the way I used to.

To make things even more difficult, she suspects that she might be pregnant. I’m almost certain the pregnancy wouldn’t be mine because I always use protection whenever we have sex.

I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m confused and emotionally overwhelmed. She has been crying since yesterday, and she looks really depressed. I feel terrible seeing her like this, and I still care about her as a person, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how deeply her actions have hurt me.

I was preparing myself for marriage, and now I’m questioning everything. I don’t know whether I should try to forgive her and rebuild the relationship or walk away because the love and trust I had for her don’t feel the same anymore.

What would you advise me to do?
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Tenrack: 9:38am On Aug 09
Joseph4566:
I caught my girlfriend cheating, and unfortunately, she confessed to me that she only slept with the guy once. She said she doesn’t know what came over her and that she deeply regrets what she did.

Honestly, I’m completely heartbroken. I was already making plans to marry her, and now I feel like something inside me has changed. I don’t feel the same love for her anymore, and I’m struggling to even see our relationship the way I used to.

To make things even more difficult, she suspects that she might be pregnant. I’m almost certain the pregnancy wouldn’t be mine because I always use protection whenever we have sex.

I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m confused and emotionally overwhelmed. She has been crying since yesterday, and she looks really depressed. I feel terrible seeing her like this, and I still care about her as a person, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how deeply her actions have hurt me.

I was preparing myself for marriage, and now I’m questioning everything. I don’t know whether I should try to forgive her and rebuild the relationship or walk away because the love and trust I had for her don’t feel the same anymore.

What would you advise me to do?
lol. Pet her, buy her gifts, infact a car would do, kneel down and wipe the tears of her eyes, tell her you understand that she's human and she's got feelings too. Assure her that you're gonna raise the child if it's from the guy she had sex with. And also assure her that you won't have issues with him coming to see his child.

Make her feel safe and understood. Apologize for not paying attention to her when she needed you most. Promise her the world. Get her an engagement and marry that woman. She's god sent.
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by decatalyst(m): 11:08am On Aug 09
Buy enough gifts for her.

Send her to rhe Maldives for 2 weeks to cool off.

Hire a chauffeur to carry her around when she is back and lodged her at Lagos continental hotel for proper acclimatasion back into Naija.

You may approach LAPO or Opay for loan.
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Bwilliam(m): 12:07pm On Aug 09
When it comes to cheating , I always say to forgive and forget.

Forgive her, not because she deserves forgiveness but also because you can't move forward and heal from the hurt.
Forget her, because you deserve better and because you can't have her dragging you back into the past, as you try to move forward.
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by J2ff: 12:25pm On Aug 09
Joseph4566:
I caught my girlfriend cheating, and unfortunately, she confessed to me that she only slept with the guy once. She said she doesn’t know what came over her and that she deeply regrets what she did.

Honestly, I’m completely heartbroken. I was already making plans to marry her, and now I feel like something inside me has changed. I don’t feel the same love for her anymore, and I’m struggling to even see our relationship the way I used to.

To make things even more difficult, she suspects that she might be pregnant. I’m almost certain the pregnancy wouldn’t be mine because I always use protection whenever we have sex.

I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m confused and emotionally overwhelmed. She has been crying since yesterday, and she looks really depressed. I feel terrible seeing her like this, and I still care about her as a person, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how deeply her actions have hurt me.

I was preparing myself for marriage, and now I’m questioning everything. I don’t know whether I should try to forgive her and rebuild the relationship or walk away because the love and trust I had for her don’t feel the same anymore.

What would you advise me to do?
Break up with her for your own good and for her to start afresh with a new guy. Either the guy she slept with or some other man
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Semyflu(f): 12:39pm On Aug 09
See finished men with their comment
They lady has not seen your replacement, otherwise,she would have left you, she is depressed because she was caught

When women leave you for another man, they show no emotions, they don't care what you have done in the past
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by LordIsaac(m):
When I hear about such confessions, I'm always amazed. Why do you ask questions demanding honesty from such people? And you believe whatever they say? Did they come confessing voluntarily or it's because they got caught? I'm truly amazed at people's level of gullibility!
"I only slept with him once" is more disrespectful than the act itself. It's better they kept the details and just say sorry.
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by AllBlack: 12:59pm On Aug 09
Joseph4566:
I caught my girlfriend cheating,
Honestly, I’m completely heartbroken.

.. and I still care about her as a person, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how deeply her actions have hurt me.

What would you advise me to do?
CAPTAIN PLEASE MARRY HER.

when you see some choice of words some guys use, you just know the material they are made of. The same material used in making a varrrrrrrgina.

heartbroken

hurt

feelings

cheating

Once again, please MARRY HER
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by silibaba: 1:24pm On Aug 09
Please forgive her.

Please forgive her in advance because is my turn to opueh her on Tuesday.
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by ObiaboAdoka(m): 2:03pm On Aug 09
Forgive her but don't accept her back as ur GF. What came over her to cheat on u will still b coming. That is a red flag bro.
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by TheNonexisting(m): 2:52pm On Aug 09
Why are you questioning everything? It's just one time cheating, nothing big. I'm sure she did not even enjoy the sexx because she does not love him the way she loves you. Forgive her and continue with the marriage plans since she has begged and is also crying over it. You're a good man, don't let her cries and depression continue because the more she cries, the more you are hurting her feelings. As for the baby inside her, it is yours since she brought it back to you and not to the impregnanter and you love her so much too. Let the wedding bell ring. I'm happy for you brother and congratulations on your new baby.
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Samking987: 2:56pm On Aug 09
You don't really know what you want, you are confuse and this is very bad, you need to work on yourself
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Hallams(m): 3:44pm On Aug 09
Which kind question be this? Okay ,Forgive her , tell her to go and sin no more



You go see Pepper
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by LIVINGICONREBOR: 5:01pm On Aug 09
Yet another tale from Uganda to gain traction.🥱🥱
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by YoungLionken(m): 6:08pm On Aug 09
At the OP, just as most men up there have said, just forgive her and accept her back because no one is perfect, you know..

Kindly drop her number for me here or email for counseling. She's going through a lot these trying times. Sorry ehn...
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by galantjoe(m): 6:49pm On Aug 09
Oga forgive her and fucck her like tomorrow no dey. After you fucvk belle full you. Dump her like envelope and move on
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Aleem26(m): 7:50pm On Aug 09
@Joseph4566 marry that lady before October, she deserves that
Adojutini omo
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Smartguyboy(m): 8:26pm On Aug 09
Nothing we will say here will make change your mind.
Congrats 🎈🎊🎉🍾 you are about to train a bastard as your own and believe me old firewood no dey quench.
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by MarkNsukkaBread: 8:35pm On Aug 09
No be you be the first person wey dem go fark him girlfriend and you certainly will not be the last grin
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Starz825(m): 8:53pm On Aug 09
Semyflu:
See finished men with their comment
They lady has not seen your replacement, otherwise,she would have left you, she is depressed because she was caught

When women leave you for another man, they show no emotions, they don't care what you have done in the past
You don't understand say those comments up there are sarcasm
Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by Eba50: 9:29pm On Aug 09
some men need to be flogged with oraimo cord. men if these days are chickens. just see all nonsense u wrote up there. my only question is that y is it that when a woman is caught cheating, its the first act of cheating that u caught them, meaning e never happen apart from that one u catch them. y?.
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