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Unclebayo:
Good day, pals.

I’m currently a 300L student, and honestly, there’s this girl who always checks up on me. I mean, every single time, whether I’m doing well or going through a rough patch, she’s always there for me.

I don’t have any feelings for her, and I don’t think she has any feelings for me either. It’s just pure friendship.

Right now, I’m going through a down period, so I deleted WhatsApp to avoid distractions and focus on myself and bounce back.

But somehow, this girl still messages me on the second WhatsApp account I use anonymously.

So, I’ve been thinking that if I eventually make it and bounce back properly, I’d like to buy her a new phone or do something meaningful for her, just to appreciate her for being genuinely loyal and always checking up on me.

I don’t have a girlfriend, and honestly, I’m not looking for one. And she’s not even someone I see myself dating.

Is this way of thinking normal, or am I overreacting?

advanceDNA:
She genuinely likes u
You genuinely like her
Organic feelings, no witchcraft behaviour, no toxicity

But u are looking for shèdì bàlà bàlà girls that’ll make your heart race …..

Unclebayo:
Good day, pals.

I’m currently a 300L student, and honestly, there’s this girl who always checks up on me. I mean, every single time, whether I’m doing well or going through a rough patch, she’s always there for me.

I don’t have any feelings for her, and I don’t think she has any feelings for me either. It’s just pure friendship.

Right now, I’m going through a down period, so I deleted WhatsApp to avoid distractions and focus on myself and bounce back.

But somehow, this girl still messages me on the second WhatsApp account I use anonymously.

So, I’ve been thinking that if I eventually make it and bounce back properly, I’d like to buy her a new phone or do something meaningful for her, just to appreciate her for being genuinely loyal and always checking up on me.

I don’t have a girlfriend, and honestly, I’m not looking for one. And she’s not even someone I see myself dating.

Is this way of thinking normal, or am I overreacting?

Samantha125:
Why must you turn a good genuine friendship into a transactional one?

One innocent kind gesture from a girl and you're already thinking of emptying your pockets...🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️... Can't you reciprocate the same energy without clearing your bank account?

Unclebayo:
Good day, pals.

I’m currently a 300L student, and honestly, there’s this girl who always checks up on me. I mean, every single time, whether I’m doing well or going through a rough patch, she’s always there for me.

I don’t have any feelings for her, and I don’t think she has any feelings for me either. It’s just pure friendship.

Right now, I’m going through a down period, so I deleted WhatsApp to avoid distractions and focus on myself and bounce back.

But somehow, this girl still messages me on the second WhatsApp account I use anonymously.

So, I’ve been thinking that if I eventually make it and bounce back properly, I’d like to buy her a new phone or do something meaningful for her, just to appreciate her for being genuinely loyal and always checking up on me.

I don’t have a girlfriend, and honestly, I’m not looking for one. And she’s not even someone I see myself dating.

Is this way of thinking normal, or am I overreacting?

Samantha125:
Why must you turn a good genuine friendship into a transactional one?

One innocent kind gesture from a girl and you're already thinking of emptying your pockets...🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️... Can't you reciprocate the same energy without clearing your bank account?

Samantha125:
Why must you turn a good genuine friendship into a transactional one?

One innocent kind gesture from a girl and you're already thinking of emptying your pockets...🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️... Can't you reciprocate the same energy without clearing your bank account?

Jmichael1:
Were una take dey see all dis kind caring female friends?
The ones I get nah to bill you till ur last kobo drops...

3kay945:
Hmmm... most of this caring girls are not the endowed ones o... hope you get? Except you dont mind..

stan4b:
All these small small boys that don't know their left from right.

Shey its woman that carry you go school??

Same energy you're putting in typing this, I hope that same energy is reflecting in study. Else, when you finish school, you go know what's up.

Unclebayo:
you woke up frustrated? 😭

Englishisamust:
God bless you my sister!!! Money wey hin suppose send to his parent

Samantha125:
Why must you turn a good genuine friendship into a transactional one?

One innocent kind gesture from a girl and you're already thinking of emptying your pockets...🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️... Can't you reciprocate the same energy without clearing your bank account?

stan4b:
If you have quarter of what I have, you wont carry women on your head like gala.

You that don't even know your left from right yet.

advanceDNA:
She genuinely likes u
You genuinely like her
Organic feelings, no witchcraft behaviour, no toxicity

But u are looking for shèdì bàlà bàlà girls that’ll make your heart race …..

Samantha125:
Why must he send it to his parents when he's still a student and needs it more than them? This thing of parents overburdening their children with responsibilities over their own failures also has to stop.

Growing up, they also had a chance to establish themselves but failed and gave up... He can only be able to look after them once he's graduated, has a stable job with a good income.

Unclebayo:
Good day, pals.

I’m currently a 300L student, and honestly, there’s this girl who always checks up on me. I mean, every single time, whether I’m doing well or going through a rough patch, she’s always there for me.

I don’t have any feelings for her, and I don’t think she has any feelings for me either. It’s just pure friendship.

Right now, I’m going through a down period, so I deleted WhatsApp to avoid distractions and focus on myself and bounce back.

But somehow, this girl still messages me on the second WhatsApp account I use anonymously.

So, I’ve been thinking that if I eventually make it and bounce back properly, I’d like to buy her a new phone or do something meaningful for her, just to appreciate her for being genuinely loyal and always checking up on me.

I don’t have a girlfriend, and honestly, I’m not looking for one. And she’s not even someone I see myself dating.

Is this way of thinking normal, or am I overreacting?

Unclebayo:
what did you have bro

You don’t even know me , you just want to blab

stan4b:
From your post, I can already deduce that you dont know what's important in your life right now.

Na how to satisfy woman be your problem now. Which is very bad.

Face your book and make money.

tanigororo:
You see that Tingling you always feel whenever you want to do something irrational, That's common sense living your body.

Unclebayo:
Good day, pals.

I’m currently a 300L student, and honestly, there’s this girl who always checks up on me. I mean, every single time, whether I’m doing well or going through a rough patch, she’s always there for me.

I don’t have any feelings for her, and[b] I don’t think she has any feelings for me either[/b] . It’s just pure friendship.

Right now, I’m going through a down period, so I deleted WhatsApp to avoid distractions and focus on myself and bounce back.

But somehow, this girl still messages me on the second WhatsApp account I use anonymously.

So, I’ve been thinking that if I eventually make it and bounce back properly, I’d like to buy her a new phone or do something meaningful for her, just to appreciate her for being genuinely loyal and always checking up on me.

I don’t have a girlfriend, and honestly, I’m not looking for one. And she’s not even someone I see myself dating.

Is this way of thinking normal, or am I overreacting?