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Dear women,

The below are secrets men will never tell you, especially My kind of men..

1. Having tattoos - this instantly portrays you as a prostitute in the eyes of any man and no sane man will ever take you serious.

2. Multiple piercing - some men considers this as a red flag because it's giving prostitution vibes.

3. Having lots of male friends - it instantly means you're low value and that any guy can have access to you. I don't know why lots of women think having lots of male friends is a big flex. They'll even tell you I have male friends more than female friends, I prefer keeping male friends more, etc! Sis, that's a complete red flag for any sane man and he'll never take you serious other than piping and swiping.

4. Men don't really care about your money - This is funny but true. Men don't really care about how much money you have as a woman. Your attitude, respect and things you do for him matters Most. Do something for a man no matter how little it is and watch him strive hard to repay you back.

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Well, the feeling is mutual.

Samantha125:
Well, the feeling is mutual.

Since we're speaking of 'mutual' feelings . . . did you know that men never like women who put on wigs and weavon? 🤔

I know you'd say it's not men's business but just imagine if you meet a man who deceived you by covering his bald head with a toupee (hair patch)

Wouldn't you feel bad after it flies off his head when he's bouncing ontop you in the bedroom and you see moonlight reflecting from his shine - shine abolo ?

I do know, my husband also doesn't like wigs and I too never liked them, I've only worn a wig once in my lifetime when I was a bridesmaid and immediately removed it after the wedding reception... I've also never worn weaves before and even if one day I eventually do, I'd probably opt for those clip on weaves just to give my natural hair some volume when I go out and remove them upon returning back home.

In fact, it baffles me how African women are able to survive under those wigs in this blazing hot African weather.

SeeWahala:
Since we're speaking of 'mutual' feelings . . . did you know that men never like women who put on wigs and weavon? 🤔

I know you'd say it's not men's business but just imagine if you meet a man who deceived you by covering his bald head with a toupee (hair patch)

Wouldn't yiu feel bad after it flies off his head when he's bouncing ontop you in the bedroom?

Moderate make-up. Not the one you will now be looking like masquerade..
It makes some of us think you suffer from low self esteem..

Samantha125:
I've only worn a wig once in my lifetime when I was a bridesmaid and immediately removed it after the wedding reception... I've also never worn weaves before

AHEM - AHEM! hmmm . . .

But why lie to me like this?

I'm not... Why would I lie?

SeeWahala:
AHEM - AHEM! hmmm . . .

But why lie to me like this?

Samantha125:
I'm not... Why would I lie?

Well, it's not as if whenever you lie your mouth catches fire 😏

We are all humans afterall 🤗

Are you telling me that all the women in your country wear wigs to an extent that you even find it hard to believe that there are some women out there who don't like them?

SeeWahala:
Well, it's not as if whenever you lie your mouth catches fire 😏

We are all humans afterall 🤗

Samantha125:
Are you telling me that all the women in your country wear wigs to an extent that you even find it hard to believe that there are some women out there who don't like them?

Y E S

Well, at least now you know that we the braids gang still exist.

And since my husband doesn't like wigs and I don't like a full beard, we agreed that neither of us will have them.

SeeWahala:
Y E S

Samantha125:
Well, at least now you know that we the braids gang still exist.

And since my husband doesn't like wigs and I don't like a full beard, we agreed that neither of us will have them.

If I'm him I won't agree

Wig/weavon is not a natural part of my wife's body and because of I say I don't like it she'll now come and tell me to do away with my natural full 'bia-bia' ?

Hehehe 🤣 na lie oo, make she find another thing wey I dey usually wear for body to ban

The only piercings I dislike are:

1.) tongue piercing
2.) big nose ring

I kinda like multiple ear piercings and multiple earrings, dunno why lol.


The things I know most Nigerian men dislike in women but will never tell the girl until it's time to pick a wife are:

1.) Tattoos
2.) Big nose ring
3.) Long eyelashes


Some men also dislike leg chains and waist beads or chains, but these two aren't an issue to all men cos some men even like their wives putting on leg chains and waist chain

Would you be okay with your girl also not shaving or trimming down there since it's natural?

SeeWahala:
If I'm him I won't agree

Wig/weavon is not a natural part of my wife's body and because of I say I don't like it she'll now come and tell me to do away with my natural full 'bia-bia' ?

Hehehe 🤣 na lie oo, make she find another thing wey I dey usually wear for body to ban

Samantha125:
Would you be okay with your girl also not shaving or trimming down there since it's natural?

I also have MAJOR pubes down there my 'pee-pee' has no problems navigating its way through any 'bush' it finds itself in 😊

Ewe...🤢🤢🤢... I'm literally speechless.

SeeWahala:
I also have MAJOR pubes down there my 'pee-pee' has no problems navigating its way through any 'bush' it finds itself in 😊

Why is this not on FP?

Let's move to fp for wider audience

Seun farano justwise nlfpmod mynd44

Fn dislike ankle chains, wigs, long ahhh eyelashes, baby hairs shhhhh, big ahhhh tattsss etc

I don’t mind those cute little piercings and tatts but not too much, paired with a nice fitted crop top and short skirt or bum short.

My type ehhhhhh🥹
Make dem gimme mud make I build my custom baddie😂

Don't tell a man about your previous relationships no matter how the urge pushes you

It depend on the tattoo oo

Some tattoos are quite simple and very pretty


Some tattoos can look like gangsterism though

The other ones, I agree to a good extent

SeeWahala:
AHEM - AHEM! hmmm . . .

But why lie to me like this?

See wahala o,lol
Wetin u do to deserve this lamba?

I don't know for others, once I see you with tattoos on the body, I don't take you serious as a woman again

You're very correct. Anyone with any of these features is a turn off for me.

You should also include smoking and drinking alcohol. You're doing this, you're only good for kn@king. I can flex you but I can't marry you

Samantha125:
I do know, my husband also doesn't like wigs and I too never liked them, I've only worn a wig once in my lifetime when I was a bridesmaid and immediately removed it after the wedding reception... I've also never worn weaves before and even if one day I eventually do, I'd probably opt for those clip on weaves just to give my natural hair some volume when I go out and remove them upon returning back home.

In fact, it baffles me how African women are able to survive under those wigs in this blazing hot African weather.

You are portraying yourself as a good woman, right?

I will still not marry you, or consider you for sidechick

Goo0dHardDick:
Dear women,

The below are secrets men will never tell you, especially My kind of men..

1. Having tattoos - this instantly portrays you as a prostitute in the eyes of any man and no sane man will ever take you serious.

2. Multiple piercing - some men considers this as a red flag because it's giving prostitution vibes.

3. Having lots of male friends - it instantly means you're low value and that any guy can have access to you. I don't know why lots of women think having lots of male friends is a big flex. They'll even tell you I have male friends more than female friends, I prefer keeping male friends more, etc! Sis, that's a complete red flag for any sane man and he'll never take you serious other than piping and swiping.

4. Men don't really care about your money - This is funny but true. Men don't really care about how much money you have as a woman. Your attitude, respect and things you do for him matters Most. Do something for a man no matter how little it is and watch him strive hard to repay you back.

CC seun farano justwise nlfpmod mynd44

. saying by someone whose monicker is harddick. Are you a potential good husband urself?

In your own dictionary, only wife must leave responsible, why husband should embark on reckless life.

Quite a lot of crap compressed into one short post. Almost impressive

You and who are the men? Please speak for yourself.

This is not general...my younger brother based in abroad came back last year to marry ..
The guy carry his wife and they did tattoo together...the girl doesn't have any before ...but my brother want it ...well but me I hate tattoo and especially ladies that wears underwear up and down in the name of showing their buttocks...