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Please, how do you guys deal with boring girls. Girls that cannot hold simple conversations. They can't chat properly.
I'm currently dating a girl, that every minute she is calling me up and down. But she expects me to do all the talks. In the past I have dated a girl that is interesting and sweet. Please I need opinion on how to deal with someone like this. Because I'm tired already.

It's obvious you're not compatible and don't share much in common.

You probably only went for looks rather than personality.

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I dated one like that in the past when I used to care about such things. I would do everything to make the relationship spicy and not boring... because I cared. I'm also an introvert so you can imagine how I went out of my way to make things lively with very little support. I just realized one day that I had become a forced entertainer. It just wasn't my thing.

Being too quiet and boring is the short cut for me to run away because I'm also boring... two bores should not come and kill themselves with boredom. I run away without looking back.


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Just get a side chick who is very good with convo. I once had me a girl who is very poor with conversations, she's very quiet even though sometimes I bring out the talkative trait that is hidden deep inside her.
To be honest I got tired after some months and broke up with her cos I realized we're never compatible

Johnames:
Please, how do you guys deal with boring girls. Girls that cannot hold simple conversations. They can't chat properly.
I'm currently dating a girl, that every minute she is calling me up and down. But she expects me to do all the talks. In the past I have dated a girl that is interesting and sweet. Please I need opinion on how to deal with someone like this. Because I'm tired already.

it's very annoying many Nigerians girls are just like this. This is the exact reason I didn't marry my baby mama. She can't keep meaningful conversations she will ends up with stickers. All she knew is money for this and that. How can a man love a woman that cannot express meaningful conversations later they will start catching Witch in there village for not getting husband. The small girl I'm currently dating on a low is just 19 years old but she is so matured to keep conversation that will make you forget you business schedule. She listened when I talk and she's very submissive on bed. She will keep getting a lot of benefits from me than my baby mama.

Cum4me:
it's very annoying many Nigerians girls are just like this. This is the exact reason I didn't marry my baby mama. She can't keep meaningful conversations she will ends up with stickers. All she knew is money for this and that. How can a man love a woman that cannot express meaningful conversations later they will start catching Witch in there village for not getting husband. The small girl I'm currently dating on a low is just 19 years old but she is so matured to keep conversation that will make you forget you business schedule. She listened when I talk and she's very submissive on bed. She will keep getting a lot of benefits from me than my baby mama.

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I hope your baby is also getting a lot of benefits from you as his father?


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Some have a lot to say but just not good with striking up or maintaining a conversation and a lot of factors are responsible for such.

U can help them by maybe buying her a book or teaching her how to do such ...

Even me, due to some factors that affected me while in my teens, didn't know how to strike up a convo or maintain one till i came across a book and that helped me on that.

Its not a crime for them to not know ... life happens to everyone ...

Johnames:
Please, how do you guys deal with boring girls. Girls that cannot hold simple conversations. They can't chat properly.
I'm currently dating a girl, that every minute she is calling me up and down. But she expects me to do all the talks. In the past I have dated a girl that is interesting and sweet. Please I need opinion on how to deal with someone like this. Because I'm tired already.

Samantha125:
It's obvious you're not compatible and don't share much in common.

You probably only went for looks rather than personality.

I think you are right, because I have lost interest in the relationship totally

brain54:
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I dated one like that in the past when I used to care about such things. I would do everything to make the relationship spicy and not boring... because I cared. I'm also an introvert so you can imagine how I went out of my way to make things lively with very little support. I just realized one day that I had become a forced entertainer. It just wasn't my thing.

Being too quiet and boring is the short cut for me to run away because I'm also boring... two bores should not come and kill themselves with boredom. I run away without looking back.


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same thing with me, I'm an introvert, but I have dated a girl in the past that is so fun to be with compare to my current girlfriend. My girl will call me on the phone, the conversation will be so dry as Bleep

When you will discussing Tech and sciences with them, talk about wig, talk about manicure, talk about pedicure, talk about sex, talk about BBL, talk about BBNaija.
They won't get bored about that.

Johnames:
Please, how do you guys deal with boring girls. Girls that cannot hold simple conversations. They can't chat properly.
I'm currently dating a girl, that every minute she is calling me up and down. But she expects me to do all the talks. In the past I have dated a girl that is interesting and sweet. Please I need opinion on how to deal with someone like this. Because I'm tired already.

Story of my life back then. I am glad I am now married to the extreme opposite of me.

brain54:
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I dated one like that in the past when I used to care about such things. I would do everything to make the relationship spicy and not boring... because I cared. I'm also an introvert so you can imagine how I went out of my way to make things lively with very little support. I just realized one day that I had become a forced entertainer. It just wasn't my thing.

Being too quiet and boring is the short cut for me to run away because I'm also boring... two bores should not come and kill themselves with boredom. I run away without looking back.


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The same way they next guys who are boring, I don’t see why you can’t do the same. At a certain age, you realize you’re the one to decide if a female should stay in your life or bounce. Don’t push the responsibility to us.

Johnames:
Please, how do you guys deal with boring girls. Girls that cannot hold simple conversations. They can't chat properly.
I'm currently dating a girl, that every minute she is calling me up and down. But she expects me to do all the talks. In the past I have dated a girl that is interesting and sweet. Please I need opinion on how to deal with someone like this. Because I'm tired already.

kpankpangolo:
The same way they next guys who are boring, I don’t see why you can’t do the same. At a certain age, you realize you’re the one to decide if a female should stay in your life or bounce. Don’t push the responsibility to us.

"Us"? How are we sure you're female?

Oh, I see the thread was aimed at a certain gender. Okay, I will take my leave.

DiarisGodoo:
"Us"? How are we sure you're female?

kpankpangolo:
Oh, I see the thread was aimed at a certain gender. Okay, I will take my leave.

But seriously, do you know it is IMPOSSIBLE to prove your gender to anyone on NL unless you meet them in person

I doubt una don dey knack. By the time una don start to dey knack, she go dey get things to talk..

Another thing is, some girls does better when they’re with you physically than on phone. So, I’ll advice you to always let her be by your side, anytime you’re available - you’ll see the difference..

PulaPower:
I doubt una don dey knack. By the time una don start to dey knack, she go dey get things to talk..

Another thing is, some girls does better when they’re with you physically than on phone. So, I’ll advice you to always let her be by your side, anytime you’re available - you’ll see the difference..

I think it's her personality

Some losers will still use their female friends to impersonate them. I don’t know what they gain from doing so. They can’t be themselves for one day of their lives.

DiarisGodoo:
But seriously, do you know it is IMPOSSIBLE to prove your gender to anyone on NL unless you meet them in person

Cum4me:
it's very annoying many Nigerians girls are just like this. This is the exact reason I didn't marry my baby mama. She can't keep meaningful conversations she will ends up with stickers. All she knew is money for this and that. How can a man love a woman that cannot express meaningful conversations later they will start catching Witch in there village for not getting husband. The small girl I'm currently dating on a low is just 19 years old but she is so matured to keep conversation that will make you forget you business schedule. She listened when I talk and she's very submissive on bed. She will keep getting a lot of benefits from me than my baby mama.

19 years old girl... submissive on bed?? You guys are extremely wicked. You got someone else pregnant but have guts to find accusation against her. Did you not see her nature before you took her to bed, now you have seen an immature prey to trap. There is karma!

Any girl that says a man is boring, that girl is definitely the boring person among the two parties.

Men are never boring, It's just that most conversation men do engage in/with are intellectual conversation or conversation with substance, and women are not that good with those conversations, but same women are never boring when it comes to materialistic conversations.

Both parties with different field of interests.

Another reasons is when a man/guy is trying to create a conversation everytime so as not to look like he doesn't have anything to say. Most times we men have so much to say, but it's either the lady can't match the energy or is not even interested or replying with one one word( that kills the vibe instantly).

If you are with someone that most times creates meaningful, long lasting and energy matching conversations same way you also do, pls don't leave that person.

Most of the ladies we have now are empty upstairs.

marlow1962:
Any girl that says a man is boring, that girl is definitely the boring person among the two parties.

Men are never boring, It's just that most conversation men do engage in/with are intellectual conversation or conversation with substance, and women are not that good with those conversations, but same women are never boring when it comes to materialistic conversations.

Both parties with different field of interests.

Another reasons is when a man/guy is trying to create a conversation everytime so as not to look like he doesn't have anything to say. Most times we men have so much to say, but it's either the lady can't match the energy or is not even interested or replying with one one word( that kills the vibe instantly).

If you are with someone that most times creates meaningful, long lasting and energy matching conversations same way you also do, pls don't leave that person.

Most of the ladies we have now are empty upstairs.

I totally agree with you, how can someone call you and just say hello and just be quiet,not lively. I don't look forward to her calls.

Introvert as how obukokwu 🤣🤣🤣?

brain54:
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I dated one like that in the past when I used to care about such things. I would do everything to make the relationship spicy and not boring... because I cared. I'm also an introvert so you can imagine how I went out of my way to make things lively with very little support. I just realized one day that I had become a forced entertainer. It just wasn't my thing.

Being too quiet and boring is the short cut for me to run away because I'm also boring... two bores should not come and kill themselves with boredom. I run away without looking back.


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verminnel:
Introvert as how obukokwu 🤣🤣🤣?

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Lol. Iron kwandem.


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Buhahahahahaha my Belle o🤣🤣iron condemn and boat loader.omo u too do o

brain54:
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Lol. Iron kwandem.


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brain54:
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I dated one like that in the past when I used to care about such things. I would do everything to make the relationship spicy and not boring... because I cared. I'm also an introvert so you can imagine how I went out of my way to make things lively with very little support. I just realized one day that I had become a forced entertainer. It just wasn't my thing.

Being too quiet and boring is the short cut for me to run away because I'm also boring... two bores should not come and kill themselves with boredom. I run away without looking back.


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This is a funny comment.