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My guy spent close to 3M on his wedding last Easter. And ever since, it's been one day one trouble for the guy. The last time they fought in public, the girl completely naked herself. Just 2 weeks ago, the guy almost ran mad after he checked his wife's phone and found out that another guy fvcked her last Xmas for 50k. This is a girl with a six month old baby for hand oo. The useless girl dey even codedly beg me make she dey come over for house dey cook for me. I avoid her like a disease. Married men dey truly go through a lot l swear, both old and young, especially the Simps that married to have a personalized pussy at their beck and call. As a man, once your wife realizes that you can't go a day or 2 without pussy, my brother your own don finish be that oo. Cus she will use that her pussy as a bargaining chip to so much manipulate and control your life eh. As a young man who wants to live young, don't ever marrry for beauty or pussy!!! There are millions of finer face and pussy out there. Just marry for companionship and support. And show your wife from day one that you're not a Simp for Pussy. That you can go weeks or even months without begging her for pussy (you can even be getting it outside if need be) Also don't have more kids than necessary, so you can always be free to lock up or walk away when needed, and not be tied down forever by that nonsense mentality of "if not for the sake of my kids eh", while you're slowly dying inside. Forgetting that when those kids grow up finish, they will all find their own way, and may not even remember all your sacrifices at all sef. They even fit dey bring you only hot drinks whenever they visit, while they lavish all their money on their wife, who was closest to them when they were growing up...
This is the word of the Lord...let his name be praised...Shalom!!!

JESHAL007:
My guy spent close to 3M on his wedding last Easter. And ever since, it's been one day one trouble for the guy. The last time they fought in public, the girl completely naked herself. Just 2 weeks ago, the guy almost ran mad after he checked his wife's phone and found out that another guy fvcked her last Xmas for 50k. This is a girl with a six month old baby for hand oo. The useless girl dey even codedly beg me make she dey come over for house dey cook for me. I avoid her like a disease. Married men dey truly go through a lot l swear, both old and young, especially the Simps that married to have a personalized pussy at their beck and call. As a man, once your wife realizes that you can't go a day or 2 without pussy, my brother your own don finish be that oo.

To be fair, nothing wrong with a man who cannot go without having sexual intercourse or any form of erotic romance. The issue is that for some men, they believe they cannot go outside for some reasons (risk of divorce, religious vows). While I respect people's religious beliefs, I cannot really empathise with those men because their pastors (who are men) will gaslight them to please the woman rather than solve the core issue of the wife denying her husband sexual comfort.

Cus she will use that her pussy as a bargaining chip to so much manipulate and control your life eh. As a young man who wants to live young, don't ever marrry for beauty or pussy!!! There are millions of finer face and pussy out there. Just marry for companionship and support. And show your wife from day one that you're not a Simp for Pussy. That you can go weeks or even months without begging her for

Happens to many men, unfortunately for them. My core issue is the hypocrisy and dishonesty from women whenever a man complains of lack of sex from his wife. As for marrying for beauty or pussy, I know people who emphasise those factors, and many men do anyway. Men judge by what they see.

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I guess I really detest dishonest and hypocritical people.

CaveAdullam:
What you don't need in a woman. And what you shouldn't become.

Longest time cave, I was having a discussion with my colleague please does a woman having career ambition make her masculine and unfit for marriage, see western societies that promote boss babe they now have LGBTQ since there is no defined gender roles, but marrying a lazy, non-industrious woman who is a liability, please explain these phenomenon and what can modern men do to adapt

Marriage was designed for a man to be in charge, be the boss.

However, many women are being raised these days to not want leadership in their home, so there’s no point for most men.

A man won’t put his life on the line to provide and protect if he’s not the boss. It makes marriage lose its relevance.

Women are not the same biologically. Soul ties and too much birth control has rendered their hormones incapable of emotional bonding or offspring nurturing so what's the point of marriage

I prefer the red pill reality of never expect anything good from women; always expect everything bad from women to the blue pill scam of
women are weak and sweet creatures; when you treat them nice you will enjoy their company and loyalty like angels
The disappointment and heartbreak that comes from the later can make a simp run mad or commit suicide.
I don see women finish for this life. Nothing about them excites me anymore

The greatest obstacle to absorbing the redpill knowledge is not intellectual but emotional. It's not that simps cannot grasp the information, it's that simps cannot handle the truth.

Only men who are not aware of their values and worth consider settling with hoes as an option.

You're already burdened with these knowledge, you now understand the importance of sexual and emotional intactness in women., you now understand the science of body count and feminine psychology itself.

How would a man with these knowledge crawl back into selective ignorance just to appeal to the societal imperative or shaming to settle for less.

This knowledge is as much as a curse as it is a blessing.
Now that you're burdened with this knowledge, you can't say, "I did not know".

Now you know what you mustn't settle with/for. If you do, you will beat yourself up more than an actual ignorant man when you start to suffer the consequences because you wouldn't be able to award your tribulations to God.

JESHAL007:
The greatest obstacle to absorbing the redpill knowledge is not intellectual but emotional. It's not that simps cannot grasp the information, it's that simps cannot handle the truth.

You’re half right… emotional resistance to the redpill truth is real.

But… It’s also deeply intellectual.

Intelligence is not just the ability to understand a concept. It’s the ability to update your behavior when reality keeps punishing you.

If a man keeps getting exploited and manipulated by women… and he still refuses to change his behavior… that is not just emotional weakness. That is a failure of pattern recognition and adaptive thinking.

An intelligent man looks at repeated outcomes and adjusts.

He sees: “This behavior got me used… I will stop doing it.”

Spending money on a girl who isn’t also spending on me got me used… I will stop doing it.

Expressing love and relationship intentions to a woman who hasn't show the same got me used… I will stop doing it.


He experiments. He tests. He drops what doesn’t work.

A low-intelligence man keeps doing the same thing, expecting different results, then calls it “intentional" or “being a good person.”

The red pill isn’t hard because the information is complex.

It’s hard because it forces a man to humbly admit that his previous strategy was stupid… and that he has been volunteering for exploitation.

women always have options. no matter how horrible they are. that's something no one can take away from them.

JESHAL007:
Longest time cave, I was having a discussion with my colleague please does a woman having career ambition make her masculine and unfit for marriage, see western societies that promote boss babe they now have LGBTQ since there is no defined gender roles, but marrying a lazy, non-industrious woman who is a liability, please explain these phenomenon and what can modern men do to adapt

Good morning @ CaveAdullam would love a response to these question above, I'm currently dating someone that's a salary earner like me, I need more prudent guidance

So far in life, what I have correctly understood: as a man nobody wants to hear you cry or see your tears. They may pretend to console you meanwhile, you irritate them.

They want you to shut the fvck up, buckle up and work.

It may not be fair, but this is the reality for the man born without a spoon. He must work, or else, remain a slave forever.

Authority: Build yourself, my dear friend

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Goo0dHardDick

I believe men are polygamous in nature while women are hypergamous. So if a woman couldn't stay with a man she's richer than, why should a man stay loyal to a woman when he became rich?

I will never get that part though. The part where men get small money and they rush to get married, especially to the same ladies who rejected them when they were broke. It's almost like men have this innate desire to watch themselves suffer. Then they still stayed in these marriages despite knowing they are not loved but tolerated because they can provide. The same set always tell me 'you better marry, you are not a complete man if you don't ' and when I point out how fvcked up their marriages are, they are like 'fear who no fear woman oh' and my mind is why dafuq did you have to marry who doesn't love or respect you? And you knew this yet you went ahead

I relate to this personally. There have been times in my life where I have been severely lonely, hopeless, and broke. I thought: "If there is a woman out there that can genuinely love me, this is the time for her to show up. Not after I gather myself, overcome my depression, improve my finances, etc. If a woman only comes after that, then I will take her for what she is: an opportunist (that is if I take her at all)."

JESHAL007:
I prefer the red pill reality of never expect anything good from women; always expect everything bad from women to the blue pill scam of
women are weak and sweet creatures; when you treat them nice you will enjoy their company and loyalty like angels
The disappointment and heartbreak that comes from the later can make a simp run mad or commit suicide.
I don see women finish for this life. Nothing about them excites me anymore

word. This is the approach I take now. Once I see a woman, I start to figure out what kinda evil lurks behind all that beauty. Those people no real.

JESHAL007:
I relate to this personally. There have been times in my life where I have been severely lonely, hopeless, and broke. I thought: "If there is a woman out there that can genuinely love me, this is the time for her to show up. Not after I gather myself, overcome my depression, improve my finances, etc. If a woman only comes after that, then I will take her for what she is: an opportunist (that is if I take her at all)."

God bless you bro. Me and you dey think alike. If you can't love me when I'm at my lowest, whatever love you show me when I'm at my peak will never count. I'll always see you as a leech. That's why marriage isn't for me. I've made peace with it. I consider it a burden sef.

I've been wanting to write about this greenlight since but I don't like to write. As Pukkallo said many men don't see greenlight when it's in front of them. I was like that too until I read Ubunja post on female attraction, it's funny how have been getting this green lights before but just being blind due to my naivety, now I flirt back and just enjoy the conversation if I see we may never see again and she's just in that mood and sometimes I take it farther. The truth is female greenlight could vary from a simple gesture like stealing glances at you to the more obvious situations (which I've experienced twice) of a girl getting nervous when you speak to her.

Tenrack:
God bless you bro. Me and you dey think alike. If you can't love me when I'm at my lowest, whatever love you show me when I'm at my peak will never count. I'll always see you as a leech. That's why marriage isn't for me. I've made peace with it. I consider it a burden sef.

You are right, I started thinking about this when my babe start misbehaving somehow, I wanted to take a break but I don't want it to come from me, because I know if we take a break now I'm most likely not going to take her back when I become financially stable. So I've decided to take it one at a time. This might look like oneities. But trust me to start over again with another lady is scary. So I'm just being calm and let things unfold by themselves, but I've told her when she was complaining of me not giving money on a steady, I told her if she needs anything she should tell me, and not waiting for me to be sending her money, and me telling her to ask me doesn't mean i will automatically help, no I will only help if I have. It's been angry with me for not sending her money for hair, she will get angry and end call, I will not even bother to call her even for days until she comes back to her senses and calls me. I will not be the one spending little money inside our relationship and still put the relationship control into your hands. I think she's already getting the memo that no matter what she do, you can't coerce me into doing what I don't want to.

fattprince:
You are right, I started thinking about this when my babe start misbehaving somehow, I wanted to take a break but I don't want it to come from me, because I know if we take a break now I'm most likely not going to take her back when I become financially stable. So I've decided to take it one at a time. This might look like oneities. But trust me to start over again with another lady is scary. So I'm just being calm and let things unfold by themselves, but I've told her when she was complaining of me not giving money on a steady, I told her if she needs anything she should tell me, and not waiting for me to be sending her money, and me telling her to ask me doesn't mean i will automatically help, no I will only help if I have. It's been angry with me for not sending her money for hair, she will get angry and end call, I will not even bother to call her even for days until she comes back to her senses and calls me. I will not be the one spending little money inside our relationship and still put the relationship control into your hands. I think she's already getting the memo that no matter what she do, you can't coerce me into doing what I don't want to.

you're doing well bro. If she won stay, make she stay, if she won go, make she go. The exit is wide open. Men need to wake up. Today women no really send us.

So in the 21st century people still attract women. To me that logic is like attracting armed robbers into your house because you think you love them. I love to see women I hate failing like letting her get pregnant for the wrong dude because she thinks she is getting back at you.

fattprince:
You are right, I started thinking about this when my babe start misbehaving somehow, I wanted to take a break but I don't want it to come from me, because I know if we take a break now I'm most likely not going to take her back when I become financially stable. So I've decided to take it one at a time. This might look like oneities. But trust me to start over again with another lady is scary. So I'm just being calm and let things unfold by themselves, but I've told her when she was complaining of me not giving money on a steady, I told her if she needs anything she should tell me, and not waiting for me to be sending her money, and me telling her to ask me doesn't mean i will automatically help, no I will only help if I have. It's been angry with me for not sending her money for hair, she will get angry and end call, I will not even bother to call her even for days until she comes back to her senses and calls me. I will not be the one spending little money inside our relationship and still put the relationship control into your hands. I think she's already getting the memo that no matter what she do, you can't coerce me into doing what I don't want to.

Kalulu44 come see wetin your guy dey write for here 👆o. This na person wey dey find job o

Wotowotoman:
Kalulu44 come see wetin your guy dey write for here 👆o. This na person wey dey find job o

Hahaha, shey you be monitoring spirit ni

Wotowotoman:
Kalulu44 come see wetin your guy dey write for here 👆o. This na person wey dey find job o

I'll love to reply you but I would not because you would likely see my post to a nairaland here about how my work gives me time in which I am trying to turn productive because money isn't always enough especially at this stage when I can still work. Today is 16th and I've received 75k as my wages already for work I did from 3rd of August to 7th of August. I didn't even have to go to work through out last week. So go find someone else to troll and find a life.

fattprince:
I'll love to reply you but I would not because you would likely see my post to a nairaland here about how my work gives me time in which I am trying to turn productive because money isn't always enough especially at this stage when I can still work. Today is 16th and I've received 75k as my wages already for work I did from 3rd of August to 7th of August. I didn't even have to go to work through out last week. So go find someone else to troll and find a life.

Na this security man job wey your uncle dey pay you tashere 80k per month dey shack you now abi? Money wey you go still blow on Tramadol, OS and BetNaija. I just siddon here dey laugh 😂

Wotowotoman:
Na this security man job wey your uncle dey pay you tashere 80k per month dey shack you now abi? Money wey you go still blow on Tramadol, OS and BetNaija. I just siddon here dey laugh 😂

You are just empty, I would not waste my time on you anymore.

fattprince:
You are just empty, I would not waste my time on you anymore.

Ogbeni, Since you enter dead thread to codedly ask me for money wey I no give you, you have become so hostile. Why na? I no give you that money because I know say that money will be blown on OS, Tramadol and BetNaija

Kalulu44 na wa for this your guy o

Wotowotoman:
Ogbeni, Since you enter dead thread to codedly ask me for money wey I no give you, you have become so hostile. Why na? I no give you that money because I know say that money will be blown on OS, Tramadol and BetNaija

Kalulu44 na wa for this your guy o

Hahaha, lolz! Ok why you never give me wey dey beg you since. Abi you still think say na Os, tramadol and betnaija too.
Na phone I wan use my own support buy.
Anyways make I no put mouth for you and fattprince, una don come a long way

fattprince:
I'll love to reply you but I would not because you would likely see my post to a nairaland here about how my work gives me time in which I am trying to turn productive because money isn't always enough especially at this stage when I can still work. Today is 16th and I've received 75k as my wages already for work I did from 3rd of August to 7th of August. I didn't even have to go to work through out last week. So go find someone else to troll and find a life.

Mehn! Guy, you don't need all this shalaye. You don already fall your hand by asking or begging him for money once or twice.
The best thing is to eat the humble pie and make amends with him.
But don't mind Wotowotoman, him dey use you shine bcus you beg am money and you no wan own up to it.
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Me I no hide nor shame about am, I don ask am tire but him dey use style dodge my request. If him like make him bring am up in future, I no send am.
@Wotowotoman surprise me and stop using @fattprince to shine 😀😀😀😀😀