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Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by Stephen0mozzy(op): 6:42pm On Aug 12
When they say look before you leap, some of una go think say na stori stori. Every relationship you leave, also leaves a mark on you, so apart from the body count that piles up, it could actually rewire your mentality, with lots of baggages that you may end up carrying into ruining a good relationship later.


Here's a lady's "story"


"Omo tears first comot for my eyes" – Lady says as she shares the effect of her former tox!c relationship on her 'seemingly normal relationship'


Source YabaLeft Facebook

Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by Esc2ctrl:
HE SHOULD HAVE THAUGHT HER ACCOUNTABILITY

SHE SHOULD NOT SEE HIS STATEMENTS

AS A GET OUT OF JAIL FREECARD.

SHE SHOULD KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES OF HER CHOICES.

BUT WAIT WHY DO LADIES LIKE NIGHTS OUT WHY CAN'T NT THEY CHILL OUT AT AFTERNOON... WHY ALWAYS NIGHTS?

THEY EXPOSE THEM SELFS TO PREDATORY SITUATIONS, SUCH AS GIRLS NIGHT OUTS

WHICH IS NOW EVEN DANGEROUS FOR MALES.

I THINK NIGHT LIFE IS JUST A DEFAULT TIME TO UNRAVEL YOUR SECRET PLEASURES..

INSTEAD OF REST AS THE CREATOR DESIGNED IT TO BE

ITS A BREEDING GROUND FOR TEMPTING SITUATIONS AND LUSTFUL DESIRES

THIS SHOULD BE REASONS WHY SHE LEARNS GIRLS NIGHT OUT IS A BIG RED FLAG LIKE THE FLAG OF CHINA.

I RESPECT A WOMAN WHO HANGS OUT WITH HER FRIENDS ALL DAY, NOT AT NIGHT..

IF NOT THEN THEY ARE BIRDS OF SAME FEATHER
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by Lithiumite: 8:10pm On Aug 12
Gaslighter babe and many Simps will fall for this believing its the new norm......if you run your relationship according to this banny's template, sorry nah ur name.
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by Tenrack: 8:21pm On Aug 12
Rubbish. The guy go regret. Mumu White knight
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by Stephen0mozzy(op):
See the Helpless Romantics up there forming Alpha Male 😂😂

But of course, there's nothing wrong with letting someone you love have their freedom to chill out. My own is, if I catch you cheating, the relationship ends there - and I don't mean sexual cheating alone.

Meanwhile, the part that I think is zoboz is how she conveniently slipped in the fact that the guy even offered to foot the billz.. girlie sharap dia.
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by Annie939(f): 9:38pm On Aug 12
Advice
Okay ooooo

I don't say no to dark skin guys
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by essentialone(m): 10:35pm On Aug 12
Before any man beats his woman, just know that he has tolerated a lot of Nonsense from her. Read again slowly, from the beginning.
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by RealityKings1: 5:39am On Aug 13
essentialone:
Before any man beats his woman, just know that he has tolerated a lot of Nonsense from her. Read again slowly, from the beginning.
How many times have you been beating your girlfriend?
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by Baronthecelebri(m): 7:37am On Aug 13
Okoko man
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by Baronthecelebri(m): 7:37am On Aug 13
You're right
Esc2ctrl:
HE SHOULD HAVE THAUGHT HER ACCOUNTABILITY

SHE SHOULD NOT SEE HIS STATEMENTS

AS A GET OUT OF JAIL FREECARD.

SHE SHOULD KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES OF HER CHOICES.

BUT WAIT WHY DO LADIES LIKE NIGHTS OUT WHY CAN'T NT THEY CHILL OUT AT AFTERNOON... WHY ALWAYS NIGHTS?

THEY EXPOSE THEM SELFS TO PREDATORY SITUATIONS, SUCH AS GIRLS NIGHT OUTS

WHICH IS NOW EVEN DANGEROUS FOR MALES.

I THINK NIGHT LIFE IS JUST A DEFAULT TIME TO UNRAVEL YOUR SECRET PLEASURES..

INSTEAD OF REST AS THE CREATOR DESIGNED IT TO BE

ITS A BREEDING GROUND FOR TEMPTING SITUATIONS AND LUSTFUL DESIRES

THIS SHOULD BE REASONS WHY SHE LEARNS GIRLS NIGHT OUT IS A BIG RED FLAG LIKE THE FLAG OF CHINA.

I RESPECT A WOMAN WHO HANGS OUT WITH HER FRIENDS ALL DAY, NOT AT NIGHT..

IF NOT THEN THEY ARE BIRDS OF SAME FEATHER
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by Gotocourt: 7:52am On Aug 13
Lamba of the most high , Men, if you like, empty your account grin.
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by NiRfreak(m):
Your new boyfriend is a dummy.
Very soon you will start seeing him as a simp you can cheat on.
I bet that toxic guy is the best guy for your type... And once a guy demands accountability and discipline. You guys quickly label him toxic or misogynist.
Imagine going to a night out while in a serious relationship. Girl night out to do what? That's for prostitutes in disguise. ..
Even though this might start out of fun or habit, we know where it always end.
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I think ur toxic boyfriend is more sensible than ur Present one
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by BigYash: 8:36am On Aug 13
Money that she will collect and go and give another broke guy..

That night out with frds,it's usually olosho connect..

That guy is just gathering water into a basket...

Meanwhile the abusive guy was an idiot too..

Why abuse your lady? Treat her like a human being,and if she doesn't act human , discard her
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by Stephen0mozzy(op): 8:41am On Aug 13
BigYash:
Money that she will collect and go and give another broke guy..

That night out with frds,it's usually olosho connect..

That guy is just gathering water into a basket...

Meanwhile the abusive guy was an idiot too..

Why abuse your lady? Treat her like a human being,and if she doesn't act human , discard her
Last paragraph... GBAM!
No long talk.
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by Lifestone(m): 10:33pm On Aug 14
essentialone:
Before any man beats his woman, just know that he has tolerated a lot of Nonsense from her. Read again slowly, from the beginning.
Beat a girl, as how? Are you her Father, where did you derived the right to beat a girl. You can break up with her, but beat, never do that
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by essentialone(m): 10:50pm On Aug 14
Lifestone:
Beat a girl, as how? Are you her Father, where did you derived the right to beat a girl. You can break up with her, but beat, never do that
And why should a lady cook for you? Is she your mother?

Lets start crazy logic, and see how well you can stretch it.
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by Lifestone(m): 2:59am On Aug 15
essentialone:
And why should a lady cook for you? Is she your mother?

Lets start crazy logic, and see how well you can stretch it.
How's that related to you beating a Lady, whether your wife or girlfriend!
Re: Why You Should Be Careful Who You Date. Lady Shares Her Experience. by essentialone(m): 9:17am On Aug 15
Lifestone:
How's that related to you beating a Lady, whether your wife or girlfriend!
Recheck it.
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