₦airaland Forum

They're looking for how love makes them feel. The attention. The affection. The validation. The comfort of knowing somebody wants them.

But love itself asks for something from you too.

Love is finding someone whose needs can sometimes come before your own desires.

Love is staying when they're down and there's nothing exciting about the moment.

Love is giving without calculating what you'll get back.

Sometimes, love is the humiliated self being exalted. Putting your ego down so something bigger than you can survive.

Plenty people want to be loved.

Far fewer are prepared to love.

Love is becoming escaping route for some people

Love in 2026?

Nawaooooooo.

Zonefree:
Love in 2026?

Nawaooooooo.

Hehe... When you never found it, its easy to wave it off. But it's a beautiful thing sha.

Stephen0mozzy:
Hehe... When you never found it, its easy to wave it off. But it's a beautiful thing sha.

There is nothing beautiful about love of a Nigerian woman.

Zonefree:
There is nothing beautiful about love of a Nigerian woman.

😂😂
Na lie! If you say there's nothing beautiful about the love of a woman. I'll say maybe you have a perspective that's profound.

But to say specifically Nigerian woman, e mean say you are wrapping all women based on your personal few experiences or rumors.

Nigerian girls dey love o, if You're lucky to bag one. Not the commodities mostly out there

Love doesn't exist. Stop deceiving yourselves why two people get tired of themselves after being together for long. It's all emotions just like you crave for a particular soup after eating it numerous times you get tired of it. Nature doesn't forgives if you make mistakes you pay for it.

Cum4me:
Love doesn't exist. Stop deceiving yourselves why two people get tired of themselves after being together for long. It's all emotions just like you crave for a particular soup after eating it numerous times you get tired of it. Nature doesn't forgives if you make mistakes you pay for it.

Both of them were tired of each other because they came to take from each other and it got to a point when there was nothing to take again they became tired.

When you came to give love, peace, joy etc, you can never be tired of giving and receiving as well.


This is so deep for common minds to understand because they have nothing to give than pain, frustration and burden.


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Babatunjo:
They're looking for how love makes them feel. The attention. The affection. The validation. The comfort of knowing somebody wants them.

But love itself asks for something from you too.

Love is finding someone whose needs can sometimes come before your own desires.

Love is staying when they're down and there's nothing exciting about the moment.

Love is giving without calculating what you'll get back.

Sometimes, love is the humiliated self being exalted. Putting your ego down so something bigger than you can survive.

Plenty people want to be loved.

Far fewer are prepared to love.

There's no such thing as love brother. Only delusional people search for love today.

Stephen0mozzy:
Hehe... When you never found it, its easy to wave it off. But it's a beautiful thing sha.

wait small this man. E dey sweet for you now no mean say the hammer no dey road. Sha make sure you're strong enough when it hits. My honest advice to believers of love.

Zonefree:
There is nothing beautiful about love of a Nigerian woman.

no need to tell am. Time unravels all. E go sound foolish to am now.

Zonefree:
There is nothing beautiful about love of a Nigerian woman.

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What is good or beautiful about loving you zonefree?

Tenrack:
wait small this man. E dey sweet for you now no mean say the hammer no dey road. Sha make sure you're strong enough when it hits. My honest advice to believers of love.

Lol... Even the life that we have today ends in death. So shouldn't we enjoy life and see the beauty in it until that day comes?

Tenrack:
There's no such thing as love brother. Only delusional people search for love today.

Just admit you have never experienced it before

You're right

Love is an illusion, it's all about self interest.

helinues:
Just admit you have never experienced it before

okay whatever rocks your boat.

Stephen0mozzy:
Lol... Even the life that we have today ends in death. So shouldn't we enjoy life and see the beauty in it until that day comes?

you can't compare the entity that is love to life na lol. They aren't relatable abeg. Make I no enjoy life cause I go die one day. No na. Lol

Tenrack:
you can't compare the entity that is love to life na lol. They aren't relatable abeg. Make I no enjoy life cause I go die one day. No na. Lol

And yet you say make I nor enjoy the love that I have in a woman today, because she MIGHT break my heart one day?

Stephen0mozzy:
And yet you say make I nor enjoy the love that I have in a woman today, because she MIGHT break my heart one day?

Omo I giff up. Sha dey careful 😅 these women ruthless pass Goliath.

Tenrack:
Omo I giff up. Sha dey careful 😅 these women ruthless pass Goliath.

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Most people are not looking for love — they are looking for a mirror. They want someone to reflect their worth back to them. But love is not a mirror. It is a window — and sometimes, the view is not about you.

Love is not about finding someone who makes you feel good. It is about becoming someone who makes them feel safe

Tenrack:
Omo I giff up. Sha dey careful 😅 these women ruthless pass Goliath.

C.S. Lewis said it best:

"To love at all is to be vulnerable."

Once you genuinely love someone, you've given them the ability to hurt you.

You can't enjoy the good side of love and refuse the risk that comes with it.

Babatunjo:
C.S. Lewis said it best:

"To love at all is to be vulnerable."

Once you genuinely love someone, you've given them the ability to hurt you.

You can't enjoy the good side of love and refuse the risk that comes with it.

brah not again. I leave love for people wey believe in am

Tenrack:
brah not again. I leave love for people wey believe in am

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Many people in this part of the world are not looking for love but comfort. Especially the female folks.

This hits the nail completely on the head. Most people are simply in love with the luxury of being pampered, validated, and given attention, but they run away the moment real sacrifice is required. True love isn't just an emotional high or a transaction where you constantly calculate what you are gaining. It is about maturity, putting down the ego, and showing up even when the excitement fades and life gets heavy. Everyone wants the benefits of love, but very few are willing to pay the price of commitment.

Lol...e go learn the hard way.

Tenrack:
Omo I giff up. Sha dey careful 😅 these women ruthless pass Goliath.

Love is an illusion ..every human interaction/ relationship is transactional.

I mistakenly wrote that I was looking for a husband....DM full yakpa.



So love dey this nairaland like this .

Stephen0mozzy:
😂😂
Na lie! If you say there's nothing beautiful about the love of a woman. I'll say maybe you have a perspective that's profound.

But to say specifically Nigerian woman, e mean say you are wrapping all women based on your personal few experiences or rumors.

Nigerian girls dey love o, if You're lucky to bag one. Not the commodities mostly out there

😂 Bros be like that guy don suffer for we Naija girls hand😂

Stephen0mozzy:
And yet you say make I nor enjoy the love that I have in a woman today, because she MIGHT break my heart one day?

Nobody say make you no enjoy…

But Be gentle as a dove and be smart as a serpent…

Author: Jesus Christ (Matt10:16)