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A lot of men thinks calling a girl constantly, replying her messages instantly and being available is showing care and love, but to a woman that immediately signals weakness and that you're afraid of losing her.

This is exactly why women prefer the bad guys because to them those guys are completely nonchalant.

Understand this, there are 3 things that women remembers about you and it is not your sacrifices.

Infact, your sacrifices means absolutely nothing to a woman. Women always remember

1. The bad you did to them
2. The good they did to you.
3. The things you didn't do.

Your sacrifices and money you used to impress her will all be forgotten by 12am.

I no fit give woman my money anyhow again just to knack.. e better to use that money do better thing for myself or give am to my father.

If the konji too much, I use joy soap or Vaseline do the needful. At least no getting of infection.

I must get sense by force.

Moderation is the key.

You have a point but let me add what they don't also forget.
1. Who deflowered them
2.The guy who gave them orgasm
3. The guy who made them scream and beg in the bedroom
4. The spare guy who they used during their heartbreak
5. The real father of their child

What do i know sef!!!

One more thing she don't forget is the evil plans she have for you. Instead make I train woman, I rather train goat. Bro, forget love nothing like that.

Lol... I've had many ex's, I mean, I can categorically tell u that before a woman remembers 2 good things you've done for her, she'd have talked n remembered 199 billion bad things you've done ...


They don't ever think of the sweet times, they always remember the bad times..


That's weird. If it's a nature thing, I mean, it's horrible 💔

The bad is more than the good, that's why........

Only a finished man will go broke because of a lady, like do y'all still do that in 2026

Just common hello from a lady and most men are on eager mode to empty their account in other to please her, while thinking she's in love.

Like yo that's crazy and funny

If only women rate you men enough to create multiple topics about you. If only!

If you dickmatised them, they won’t let you rest. The worst people to dickmatise na Oyibo people. I swear every weekend after work your phone won’t rest.

And also be ready to be adventurous, you and Oyibo might be travelling and they will want it on express way. Make I no talk . Dating Oyibo de sweet sometimes. Try de give the orgasm too.

If you lose me, you will miss a lot oo. Aje

Listening ears, being responsible and mature in handling situation. They can never forget you

dominique:
If only women rate you men enough to create multiple topics about you. If only!

Maybe not here on twitter but in their gossip groups, TikTok etc

Should a topic like this really be pushed to the frontpage on a Sunday? Really? Because I do notice how Friday topics are carefully curated

Written by a man..

Comments from mostly men.

Viewing topic 200 male, 2 female

It's weird how women don't care to understand us, but we keep stressing ourselves with non useful posts and coloured pills to understand them.

Don't kill yourself because you want to please any woman.

If God himself cannot satisfy them, then who is a mere man.

Just give the best you can offer to them at all times. Let them sort out themselves gradually.

J0HNNY:
I no fit give woman my money anyhow again just to knack.. e better to use that money do better thing for myself or give am to my father.

If the konji too much, I use joy soap or Vaseline do the needful. At least no getting of infection.

I must get sense by force.

Moderation is the key.

Stick to these and when u ready take good care to get a woman. Never spend money on random woman especially for sex

Your head get oil domdom.

dominique:
If only women rate you men enough to create multiple topics about you. If only!

I m enjoying their wailing sha.


Therapeutic on a Sunday noon like this

marlow1962:
Only a finished man will go broke because of a lady, like do y'all still do that in 2026

Just common hello from a lady and most men are on eager mode to empty their account in other to please her, while thinking she's in love.

Like yo that's crazy and funny

Some men are so inferior they rely on the money !

DO you have to put the Op's name on the front page. Which mod did this??

He who has an ear let him hear what the op is preaching..

Too simplistic don't you think? Shouldn't these criteria be adjusted based on the prevailing circumstances on ground at the moment?

I guess this writeup is for men who haven't seen their bearing in this life...who's still attracted to facial beauty and curvy women...u can't tamed a wild animal....life journey teaches us vital lessons on what's important...if u don't respect and be honourable in all u do ...nobody will genuinely respect and honour you...on Saturday morning, I drove past a man in his early fifties who was our neighbour decades ago..he was making money but will carry different ladies often ..now he's broke unmarried and limbing ..I told myself, if this guy was focused in early 30s ,he would have been very comfortable with a stable family...so a man into women is directionless and money in his account is the fuel that drives him on to doom

Signs that a guy came out from dysfunctional family.

The child would always wail and lament about female gender, because that is what he saw and withness, his mum doing to his father.

The guy would not be able to maintain health relationship with women, since his mind has been poisoned by his father.

He would always be paranoid, believing every woman, would react abnormal towards him.

NB. I will advise to mend whatever pieces you had been battling with, before it's too late, life is not about how ur DICKHARD, but making positive impact before you go back to your creator.

You would soon become evening paper.

Mrchippychappy:
Should a topic like this really be pushed to the frontpage on a Sunday? Really? Because I do notice how Friday topics are carefully curated

Apart from being Sunday or not, i am concerned about the current reoccurring bitter posts about women.



Have they done something so bad recently too?

Men too have their own bad deed. Why unnecessary painting them bad.

I’ve been a nice guy and I’ve been the bad guy

I choose bad every fvking time

Nice guy to girls, lol… you go suffer


I think the code is simple, don’t let your mind be poisoned against women…

Be bad to every single girls until you finally meet the girl that deserve your goodness..
Your goodness as a guy should not come cheap and should be very scarce and preserved only for the one girl who deserves it

Kelvinnchucks:
Written by a man..

Comments from mostly men.

Viewing topic 200 male, 2 female

It's weird how women don't care to understand us, but we keep stressing ourselves with non useful posts and coloured pills to understand them.

The number of women viewing this thread are more than that of men. Women on nl don't like showing themselves because they know whatever posted here is true.

Also, the average Nigerian girl sees no reason to understand you as a man because they're bringing nothing to a man's life and wants to leave with something.

If you were in their shoes; would you want to understand the other gender knowing fully well that you have absolutely nothing to give or offer him? Of course not!

Hahahahahahahaha

These kinda topics are now amusing on NL.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Kelvinnchucks:
Written by a man..

Comments from mostly men.

Viewing topic 200 male, 2 female

It's weird how women don't care to understand us, but we keep stressing ourselves with non useful posts and coloured pills to understand them.

It seems you are new to women… lmao

Women obsessed over men and yet are the best in hiding it…
Lol

But I’m no longer in support of anti-men and anti-women post

The toxic feminists and the likes of Geh Geh aren’t good for our society..
They are driving division and hatred to destroy family structure
And a society with destroyed family structures is bound to fail

3kay945:
Apart from being Sunday or not, i am concerned about the current reoccurring bitter posts about women.



Have they done something so bad recently too?

Men too have their own bad deed. Why unnecessary painting them bad.

Its the easiest way to pull the simple minded to a topic. The same ones that would deny the Olodo uprising are the same gullible ones that would fall to yet another story of "How this Nigerian UK wife made them deport their family" or "Why you should never bring your Nigerian wife to the UK". There's over 1000 unfounded stories like these but Nigerians just can't get tired of them.

The moment a Nigerian touches down in the UK, dem go open camera for their phone and next to you know "story time on how a Nigerian couple were deported after this one cheated or that one cheated and they had a divorce" and guess what? Nigerians go still chop the story.

My wife still remembers the bad things I did to her when we were dating
I’m stunned as I’m unable to remember a single thing she did to me back then

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Lalami3232:
You have a point but let me add what they don't also forget.
1. Who deflowered them
2.The guy who gave them orgasm
3. The guy who made them scream and beg in the bedroom
4. The spare guy who they used during their heartbreak
5. The real father of their child

What do i know sef!!!

,,,,, "except asking all males to do DNA on their kids as long as them no dey met and married as virgin" asd to last statement after number 5 as continuation.

Kingpele:
I guess this writeup is for men who haven't seen their bearing in this life...who's still attracted to facial beauty and curvy women...u can't tamed a wild animal....life journey teaches us vital lessons on what's important...if u don't respect and be honourable in all u do ...nobody will genuinely respect and honour you...on Saturday morning, I drove past a man in his early fifties who was our neighbour decades ago..he was making money but will carry different ladies often ..now he's broke unmarried and limbing ..I told myself, if this guy was focused in early 30s ,he would have been very comfortable with a stable family...so a man into women is directionless and money in his account is the fuel that drives him on to doom

You put it succinctly. Womanizing can be distracting too!

You people have almost chased all women away on tbis forum, with the way you create bad threads and bad impression about them..

Forum that is filled with alot of contribution with women, has been deserted, because even if they mean well and say good things, they will still be bashed..


I wish you all well, thank God I married a good woman, if not, I would have believed all the bad things you normally write about women