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“Don’t Enter Marriage Without Something Doing”- Prophetess Advises Young Ladies

A Nigerian prophetess advises young women to prioritize building a career before marriage.

She emphasizes the importance of having financial independence.

Women without a job may struggle to leave unhealthy relationships.

A Nigerian prophetess has advised young women to build a career or establish a source of livelihood before getting married, stressing the importance of having something to fall back on.

According to her, women who enter marriage without a job or personal means of support may find it difficult to leave unhealthy relationships because of the challenges associated with starting over.

“If you are a young lady and you don’t have a job or anything you are doing, don’t get married. A man can navigate his life, but a woman may find it difficult to do so within marriage. That’s why you see some women who get married to someone who is not right for them staying in the marriage. It’s not that they can’t leave, but they are thinking about how to come out and start all over again,” she said.

The prophetess encouraged young women to focus on becoming financially independent and developing themselves before committing to marriage.

She explained that having a career, business or other meaningful pursuit can give women greater confidence and options when making important decisions about their lives and relationships.

Her advice has sparked conversations about the importance of financial independence, personal development and making thoughtful decisions before entering marriage.

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“If you are a young lady and you don’t have a job or anything you are doing, don’t get married. A man can navigate his life, but a woman may find it difficult to do so within marriage.

That’s why you see some women who get married to someone who is not right for them staying in…

@Cay:”Make she rest, you can be lucky as a young girl and marry a rich man but that one no mean say make you no get work sha”

@OneclickAfrica:”She’s making sense 👏 nobody likes anyone that is idle, both gender but for a woman I’ll advise you have your own life going on aside from the fact that you’re married, you need it to grow, it’s very important.”

@Cay:”Na so them go dey mislead young girls, you can be lucky as a girl and marry a wealthy man, but because I say you can be lucky that one no mean say make you no work oh”

“If you are a young lady and you don’t have a job or anything you are doing, don’t get married. A man can navigate his life, but a woman may find it difficult to do so within marriage.

That’s why you see some women who get married to someone who is not right for them staying in… pic.twitter.com/2rUPOXlEAK

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) August 17, 2026

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140373326]“Don’t Enter Marriage Without Something Doing”- Prophetess Advises Young Ladies

A Nigerian prophetess advises young women to prioritize building a career before marriage.

She emphasizes the importance of having financial independence.

Women without a job may struggle to leave unhealthy relationships.

A Nigerian prophetess has advised young women to build a career or establish a source of livelihood before getting married, stressing the importance of having something to fall back on.

According to her, women who enter marriage without a job or personal means of support may find it difficult to leave unhealthy relationships because of the challenges associated with starting over.

“If you are a young lady and you don’t have a job or anything you are doing, don’t get married. A man can navigate his life, but a woman may find it difficult to do so within marriage. That’s why you see some women who get married to someone who is not right for them staying in the marriage. It’s not that they can’t leave, but they are thinking about how to come out and start all over again,” she said.

The prophetess encouraged young women to focus on becoming financially independent and developing themselves before committing to marriage.

She explained that having a career, business or other meaningful pursuit can give women greater confidence and options when making important decisions about their lives and relationships.

Her advice has sparked conversations about the importance of financial independence, personal development and making thoughtful decisions before entering marriage.

See post below:

“If you are a young lady and you don’t have a job or anything you are doing, don’t get married. A man can navigate his life, but a woman may find it difficult to do so within marriage.

That’s why you see some women who get married to someone who is not right for them staying in…

@Cay:”Make she rest, you can be lucky as a young girl and marry a rich man but that one no mean say make you no get work sha”

@OneclickAfrica:”She’s making sense 👏 nobody likes anyone that is idle, both gender but for a woman I’ll advise you have your own life going on aside from the fact that you’re married, you need it to grow, it’s very important.”

@Cay:”Na so them go dey mislead young girls, you can be lucky as a girl and marry a wealthy man, but because I say you can be lucky that one no mean say make you no work oh”

“If you are a young lady and you don’t have a job or anything you are doing, don’t get married. A man can navigate his life, but a woman may find it difficult to do so within marriage.

That’s why you see some women who get married to someone who is not right for them staying in… pic.twitter.com/2rUPOXlEAK

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) August 17, 2026

girls have turn dating to job

Imagine if 5 guys give her 20k per month that’s 100k


Nigeria girls Dey see money pass salary earner

It's so pathetic that being in a relationship with these modern day Nigerian bannies has turned out to be one of the worst financial mistake every young Nigerian man will ever make

Ordinary talking stage wey I manage find myself just to while away time two months ago,when I calculate the money wey I spend within that short period,na once I sit down advice myself . Imagine dating a banny who's always hungry . Na plumber you be wey be say pipe dey your belle wey dey leak foood throway anytime you chop foood, madam?

Honestly, anybody wey go carry relationship matter come my front right now fit collect blow I swear to God

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Maybe, a better way to put it would have been for them not to enter marriage with the mindset of being a liability to their husbands.


I don't have a problem with a woman going into marriage without genuinely having anything doing as you can't wait for everything to be perfect first before doing whatever.


What i have a problem against is a woman that would go into marriage with no plans to be productive on her own and fold her arms and expect all her needs to be taken care of by Mr husband.

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The greatest tragedy to befall any man is to fall in love with a broke girl from a poor home.

Back for ground, leg for up.

Is that not something doing?

Zonefree:
The greatest tragedy to befall any man is to fall in love with a broke girl from a poor home.

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Which girl in her right mind would love a guy like you. That would be the greatest tragedy to befall àny woman.

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brain54:
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Which girl in her right mind would love a guy like you. That would be the greatest tragedy to befall àny woman.

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I be full spec o.

Sonnobax15:

It's so pathetic that being in a relationship with these modern day Nigerian bannies has turned out to be one of the worst financial mistake every young Nigerian man will ever make

Ordinary talking stage wey I manage find myself just to while away time two months ago,when I calculate the money wey I spend within that short period,na once I sit down advice myself . Imagine dating a banny who's always hungry . Na plumber you be wey be say pipe dey your belle wey dey leak foood throway anytime you chop foood, madam?

Honestly, anybody wey go carry relationship matter come my front right now fit collect blow I swear to God

Its the the men that are choosing ladies who don't have jobs. They want to lord and stay above the ladies, just the way kings are being paid homage by slaves.

The rich guys keep going for the broke girls but rich girls won't do same for the broke guys. It's just insane

My dm is open;

Marital advice just dey flow everywhere. Odi egwu.

This bitter but absolute truth advice young girls hate to hear until they enter marriage.

No one can make you happy like you yourself, and no husband can give you money that you will need to really take care of your needs.

Can husband continually giving you money, you wish you have, in other to help whoever you want to help? Your parents, ur friends, in the church, or even old school classmates.

By not having your own income, is one of basic causes of marriage crises/ failures.

This is supposed to be the default without being advised but alas, gold diggers everywhere, looking to reap what they didn't sow

Noted.
Even the ones with job never see man to marry.

They will never marry be that ooo.
cod ko si oja ni ile oo

I've noticed that religious leaders are now giving family advice because FAMILY HAS FAILED in their role of bringing up their sons and daughters. I don't need an outsider to tell me how to live but for some reason today, there are many children who have parents that are alive but walking dead

It's well
Most men don't really have a problem with that.

Prophetess just Dey enter my eyes

Madam: God will help us
Oga: Yes darling

Body go pepper you if she refuses doing anything

What does a prophetess mean?

Omenapounds:
It's well
Most men don't really have a problem with that.

Not under Tinubu, exceptional cases dey sha.

No oh
Make them come like that, as broke as they are. Silly simps dey on ground to marry them [quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140373326]“Don’t Enter Marriage Without Something Doing”- Prophetess Advises Young Ladies

A Nigerian prophetess advises young women to prioritize building a career before marriage.

She emphasizes the importance of having financial independence.

Women without a job may struggle to leave unhealthy relationships.

A Nigerian prophetess has advised young women to build a career or establish a source of livelihood before getting married, stressing the importance of having something to fall back on.

According to her, women who enter marriage without a job or personal means of support may find it difficult to leave unhealthy relationships because of the challenges associated with starting over.

“If you are a young lady and you don’t have a job or anything you are doing, don’t get married. A man can navigate his life, but a woman may find it difficult to do so within marriage. That’s why you see some women who get married to someone who is not right for them staying in the marriage. It’s not that they can’t leave, but they are thinking about how to come out and start all over again,” she said.

The prophetess encouraged young women to focus on becoming financially independent and developing themselves before committing to marriage.

She explained that having a career, business or other meaningful pursuit can give women greater confidence and options when making important decisions about their lives and relationships.

Her advice has sparked conversations about the importance of financial independence, personal development and making thoughtful decisions before entering marriage.

See post below:

“If you are a young lady and you don’t have a job or anything you are doing, don’t get married. A man can navigate his life, but a woman may find it difficult to do so within marriage.

That’s why you see some women who get married to someone who is not right for them staying in…

@Cay:”Make she rest, you can be lucky as a young girl and marry a rich man but that one no mean say make you no get work sha”

@OneclickAfrica:”She’s making sense 👏 nobody likes anyone that is idle, both gender but for a woman I’ll advise you have your own life going on aside from the fact that you’re married, you need it to grow, it’s very important.”

@Cay:”Na so them go dey mislead young girls, you can be lucky as a girl and marry a wealthy man, but because I say you can be lucky that one no mean say make you no work oh”

“If you are a young lady and you don’t have a job or anything you are doing, don’t get married. A man can navigate his life, but a woman may find it difficult to do so within marriage.

That’s why you see some women who get married to someone who is not right for them staying in… pic.twitter.com/2rUPOXlEAK

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) August 17, 2026

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One broke girl spotted. Go and make money. Your body is not an asset

brain54:
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Which girl in her right mind would love a guy like you. That would be the greatest tragedy to befall àny woman.

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Fiscus105:
This bitter but absolute truth advice young girls hate to hear until they enter marriage.

1. No one can make you happy like you yourself, and no husband can give you money that you need to really take care of your needs.

2. Can husband continually giving you money, you want to use to help whoever you want to help? Your parents, ur friends, in the church, or even old school classmates.

3. By not having your own income, is one of basic cause of marriage crises.

1. Well said

2. Very well said.

3. Very very well said!

Infact, 100 gbosa for you!.

Her advise is not to try and marry the right person, it's to have a source of income so that if there is any turbulence in the marriage they can easily jump out and parachute to another man's house.

When will Men wake up, adapt and learn that you don't wife a "modern woman".
Marriage is a tradition institution for traditional women.

That 'Something doing' is a red flag. She must have a very good job and big business.

Does she have a job? What is her own job? Prophetess is not a job. Hyporcrite!

Bwilliam:
Her advise is not to try and marry the right person, it's to have a source of income so that if there is any turbulence in the marriage they can easily jump out and parachute to another man's house.

When will Men wake up, adapt and learn that you don't wife a "modern woman".
Marriage is a tradition institution for traditional women.

Exactly, marriage is not about having a job or not, as you said rightly marriage is a tradition. Our mothers didn't have money or jobs but their marriages lasted for decades. Marriage is not a financial institution it is traditional.

Does she have a job? Is prophetess a job?

Good advice but some ladies have turned the whole relationship thing into a money-making venture. And some men keep falling into the trap. It's not sustainable for either party.

Imagine a guy with a lady and you're both thinking of how to sabotage yourselves because of money instead of smartly building a life together.

No one is dull. Continue to build useful skills...

Wahala don big pass heavenly race.

Na money, marriage, divorce and politics church don finally turn to...

Life hard, no be small