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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by Gotocourt: 2:09am On Aug 22

UniQue84:
Funny enough she said the truth with respect to the true nature of a woman ...I have said several times the reason there so many divorces today is because women are the ones initiating it cos as soon the reason for entering that union which is money start dwindling she bounces cos she got no iota of love for him .

But Men will not hear they will carry women on their head all in the name of love .. just imagine how will someone woo a lady for 5years all in the name of love ..is she a degree at the University.

When the lady finally agrees cos she ran out of a better option you think you have won a trophy ..you are just being deluded.

They're in for business.

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by anonimi: 2:30am On Aug 22

Sø what happens to those who have been made jobless, extreme poverty paupers by Buhari, Tinubu and APC’s palliative sharing policies of the past 11 years?

Those who Remi Tinubu is giving akara empowerment because her husband failed to deliver on his promise of 50 million employments huh

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by blackslayer: 2:56am On Aug 22

This is what you get when your nipples are bigger than your brain!

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by lildush(m): 3:06am On Aug 22

This is how to identify a liability... Nobody in this modern era wants a liability as a wife or girlfriend. Any girl with this type of mentality is an almajiri girl and a hucker. Directly or indirectly... 90% of Nigerian girls need help not love. So they have turned relationships into business. Or a job. It's a pity

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by LOVEGINO(m): 3:09am On Aug 22

Topnotch95:
Where are mate are thinking of multiplying the income with their skills and brain, she is thinking of leaching on the 100k.

What happens to the bible verse that says "One will chase 1000 and two will chase 10,000"?

It's not difficult to spot a lady with low IQ and a liability. There are certain conversations you will have with a lady and it will reveal to you if they are assets/wife material or they can be use to while away time for fun

gbam!

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by favour32(m): 3:37am On Aug 22*

Relationship or dating has become a part-time source of survival for majority of females, especially in Nigeria.

Shame to them for unnatural disability created to attract sympathy.

If you, as a guy is financially stable, don't date a broke or jobless girl.

You go hear am.
Hand go meet you.
You go inherit poverty.
Government of the world never fit solve poverty, na you wan carry am for head.

If you are stable financially,go for like minds.

Capisce?

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by tfelicityk(m): 4:02am On Aug 22

What is the lady all about? Is she advertising herself for lust/pride/advisers to her peers or just to manipulate are victims? If her father had companies - she can be of assistance to her kind of man and play her cards.

She never dreamt of contributing positively into the lives of the money making machine...

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by Gerrard59(m): 4:21am On Aug 22

I am glad it is women who say these things. Even some senior men have remarked the same. Women are an expense; I don talk am tire.

Since we agree on that, this means that men who have more than enough are biologically entitled to as many women as they wish.

We should not set one rule for others and another for ourselves.

The biology and evolution/nature must go round.

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by Oluwatobiloba07(m): 4:27am On Aug 22

Her brains is inside her breast and men have squeezed it 🫩🫩😞

Celebrityblog:
“As a man, if you know you're not earning well, stay away from women. Imagine earning 100k as a man and you still want to follow woman. Don’t you like yourself ? Imagine dividing your 100k into two”

- Lady advises men who are not financially capable of spending in a relationship pic.twitter.com/4vJK80aLju
— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) August 20, 2026

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by Emmasnoop(m): 4:43am On Aug 22

All I see is big breast,no sense

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by MemoriesAndMe: 4:55am On Aug 22*

How much does her father earn? Does he even own a motorcycle? Even the wig on her head, na one yeye maga buy am for her. Person wey suppose dey sell pure water for traffic suddenly get opinion on social media.

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by enemyofprogress: 4:56am On Aug 22

See who dey talk? No be sey she even fine self. Ordinary breasts she no get to feed men. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew.

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by truthhurts2: 4:58am On Aug 22

BigYash:
She thinks it's all men that spend in women like fulls..

Someone earning 50k can still date a reasonable woman. Na who dey date OS,she dey refer to.

OS can never be satisfied,even if you earn 20m a month..

Date ladies with sense,and don't date pest

You mean ~~parasite~~

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by truthhurts2: 5:00am On Aug 22

Some women spewing corrosive missiles up and down

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by Kaczynski: 5:02am On Aug 22

Imagine being so intellectually bankrupt that you believe the only variable in a relationship is some monetary input.

I'd tell her to go find a VC if she's looking for a payout but based on this mumbo jumbo, she'd probably just try to pivot her ute into a subscription model. Pathetic.

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by anonimi: 5:27am On Aug 22

Gerrard59:
I am glad it is women who say these things. Even some senior men have remarked the same. Women are an expense; I don talk am tire.

Since we agree on that, this means that men who have more than enough are biologically entitled to as many women as they wish.

We should not set one rule for others and another for ourselves.

The biology and evolution/nature must go round.

Is this what makes the Japanese people so prosperous and powerful in the world huh

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by essentialone(m): 5:43am On Aug 22

That’s a hot take 😅 and honestly, a lot of people are saying it out loud now.

Let’s break what the lady is actually saying:

*Her logic*
*"If you’re earning 100k, and you enter a relationship, you’ll be splitting it into 2"*
Rent, data, transport, dates, food, gifts, emergencies... it adds up fast in Lagos.
Her point: _Don’t start what you can’t finish. Don’t use "love" to suffer both of you._

From a practical side, she’s not wrong. Money stress kills relationships faster than anything.

*The flip side men are saying*
1. *"So poor men shouldn’t love?"* - Love and companionship aren’t only for rich people.
2. *"100k is enough to build with the right person"* - If both people are low-earning but have vision, they grow together. The problem is when one person expects "big spender" lifestyle.
3. *"Dividing 100k into 2" assumes the woman brings 0* - In healthy relationships both people contribute, not just the man.

*The real issue underneath*
It’s not really about 100k. It’s about *expectations vs reality*.

If a lady expects: weekend brunches, iPhone gifts, salon, trips on 100k salary → then yes, stay away.
If a lady expects: honesty, partnership, growth, cooking at home, planning together → then 100k can work.

The painful part is many guys find out which type she is _after_ they’ve already invested 5 years and emotions.

*My honest take*
Don’t stay away from women because you earn 100k.
Stay away from _performative dating_ if you earn 100k.
Date with clarity: "This is what I can do now. This is what I’m building toward. Can we build together?"

The right person won’t ask you to divide your 100k into 2 for "soft life". She’ll ask how to multiply it into 200k together.

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by Konjiboii: 5:45am On Aug 22

All this girls when dem dey play with their bean online if no be snapchat or tiktok or all those lewd sites when dey pay indecency all this women for dey line up dey beg carpenter and shoemakers for marriage. As dem don sale their souls and pride for money na wetin dey give dem mind to talk anyhow.

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by Jeezuzpick(m): 5:54am On Aug 22

Celebrityblog:
“As a man, if you know you're not earning well, stay away from women. Imagine earning 100k as a man and you still want to follow woman. Don’t you like yourself ? Imagine dividing your 100k into two”

- Lady advises men who are not financially capable of spending in a relationship pic.twitter.com/4vJK80aLju
— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) August 20, 2026

She thinks all ladies are opios like her sisters, her friends and her.

Not all relationships are transactional. Not every lady is a prostitute.

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by Mcslize: 5:55am On Aug 22

She is saying the absolute truth. Truth is bitter.

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by Teymanhenry(m): 6:02am On Aug 22

The things is that men have grown to be emotional while ladies now don't really put emotions into relationships. Most women go into marriage or any relationship because of what they'll gain from it. But most guys go into marriages because of love.

A woman would openly tell you 'na love I go chop"?.
My advise to single guys. Don't use your heart to think, use your brain. Don't go into a relationship with a woman that isn't financially stable unless you are a rich dude

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by akinszz: 6:06am On Aug 22

90% of them get fish brain.

PerfectStranger:
I'm beginning to think over 87% of women don't have sen.se.

Ok agreed, broke men should stay away from women, while broke women should be sleeping around with rich men according to u.

But when a man starts making money and eventually womanize, y'all complain and call him irresponsible. Isn't it silly? y'all think you can eat your cake and have them, it's impossible,neverrr

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by alimohammedibn(m): 6:11am On Aug 22

Topnotch95:
Where are mate are thinking of multiplying the income with their skills and brain, she is thinking of leaching on the 100k.

What happens to the bible verse that says "One will chase 1000 and two will chase 10,000"?

It's not difficult to spot a lady with low IQ and a liability. There are certain conversations you will have with a lady and it will reveal to you if they are assets/wife material or they can be use to while away time for fun

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by PerfectView: 6:20am On Aug 22

To some extent, I think she is right. However, how will you know if the girl actually loves you because of your money? I think the true test of love is to approach a lady when you actually don't have the money but you have the capacity to have the money. If she could be convinced to embrace you without the money and believe your capacity, then you are good to go.

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Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by Omalicious1: 6:21am On Aug 22

Celebrityblog:
“As a man, if you know you're not earning well, stay away from women. Imagine earning 100k as a man and you still want to follow woman. Don’t you like yourself ? Imagine dividing your 100k into two”

- Lady advises men who are not financially capable of spending in a relationship pic.twitter.com/4vJK80aLju
— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) August 20, 2026

So it means that she's only interested in my money and not me, thank you.

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by lucianohase(m): 6:21am On Aug 22

That is true .......But most women with this kind of mindsets are big time liabilities.......they can't add any value to any man's life .

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by Dmanpee(m): 6:30am On Aug 22

Nigerian bannies them and money na 5&6.

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by MrNipplesLover(m): 6:38am On Aug 22

Those jugs, though...

Na wetin concern me in the video be that...

Make she come get big and thick nipps join, omohhhh...

Damn!

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by LordLicifer(m): 6:49am On Aug 22

I think she is talking to her brothers, uncles and her father

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by gigabyte13: 6:54am On Aug 22

Dem don turn relationship to empowerment program
Imagine person with #5k for account calling person with #100k for account broke.
Orisirisi

Re: If You Are Not Earning Well, Stay Away From Women - Lady Advises Men (Video) by onatisi(m): 6:57am On Aug 22

it is about the age , when they are young with full breasts and men stil chasing them, this is how they think , by the time they reach age 35 with no husband , believe me their mentality changes drastically ,

PerfectStranger:
I'm beginning to think over 87% of women don't have sen.se.

Ok agreed, broke men should stay away from women, while broke women should be sleeping around with rich men according to u.

But when a man starts making money and eventually womanize, y'all complain and call him irresponsible. Isn't it silly? y'all think you can eat your cake and have them, it's impossible,neverrr

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