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Praktikals:
This happened to me in the year 2004. I chased a girl for about 3 years but even to hold her hand na luck. Then she started working in her dad's filing station as a fuel pump attendant. A random guy came there, bought fuel, got her number and banged her the same day. Then he started telling everybody that that girl is cheap. The thing put me in severe heart pain

4 months ago, A friend of mine was telling me about a girl and when I saw the pictures of her on his phone, I was shocked. This is a girl dude has been trying to woo, impress and kill himself for just to have her. I have a banged that girl back to back same day I met her. She came over to my house again 2 days later and slept that night and there were series of numerous knacking.

That was exactly when I understood women's psychology.

I later found out the mistake that my friend did. Dude was busy trying to use relationship talks and those useless soft talks to get her meanwhile I did exactly the opposite.

Chasing a woman harder is a sure way of sending her away

SixSeven:
Yes, this was written in the Manipulated Man

God bless you for this eye opener

Okay. I will tell my mommy.

algomachine:
I don’t think so!

A woman can madly be in love with you and still play hard to get, the ones you explained are girls interested in money. A man that really loves a woman would be hesitant to move in sexually or initiate physical contact cos of the strong feelings.

dey play

ThinkSmarter:
Not absolutely true.
Women do make their diligence before agreeing to date a man.
They use the time of playing hard to study your person, future prospects and all other behavioral and biological analysis.
They use the time to confirm your genuineness.
Yes, few will not play hard if they are already into you.
Just like most ladies will oblige sexual advances on the first date.
I'm talking out of experience.
Though, there's always a hint that it may come out positive from the start.
Some will even start reaching out when you have given up on the chase.

You are way above most of the young guys here in understanding inter personal relationships.

Good one from you.

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Goo0dHardDick:
Chasing a woman harder is a sure way of sending her away

You re so right.
Just like butterfly. You run after them, they run. But if you don't chase them, they ll perch on your laps.

ThinkSmarter:
Not absolutely true.
Women do make their diligence before agreeing to date a man.
They use the time of playing hard to study your person, future prospects and all other behavioral and biological analysis.
They use the time to confirm your genuineness.
Yes, few will not play hard if they are already into you.
Just like most ladies will oblige sexual advances on the first date.
I'm talking out of experience.
Though, there's always a hint that it may come out positive from the start.
Some will even start reaching out when you have given up on the chase.

From your first sentence, it clearly shows you haven't learnt game at all.

You need to learn game bro!

WTF is agreeing to date a man? That's how weak man and Simps talks.

You need to smash a girl and keep smashing her until she's forced to ask you, so what are we now? If you haven't gotten to this stage with a woman, then you haven't learnt game yet.

A woman needs to subconsciously feel in her mind already that's she dating you and that you're already her bf without you saying it. And you don't have to say it!!!!! This is exactly why I'll forever be a bad guy because the bad guys trait are nonchalant. They'll keep smashing her. She'll be the one to assume they're already dating meanwhile the dude isn't dating her!

Why do you think women are so obsessed with bad guys? They want the bad guys to themselves because they feel they can never get enough of him and so therefore wants to tame him with relationship and try to change him, which never works anyway!

You need to learn game!

I don't even remember when was the last time I asked a girl to be my girlfriend, I think that should be 2015 or so! Na girls dey subconsciously assume they're my girlfriends already esp after I have smashed them back to back, and these girls will do anything for you and ready to please you at anytime.

Learn game my brother

algomachine:
I don’t think so!

A woman can madly be in love with you and still play hard to get, the ones you explained are girls interested in money. A man that really loves a woman would be hesitant to move in sexually or initiate physical contact cos of the strong feelings.

Good one, that's a smart one from you.


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Goo0dHardDick:
From your first sentence, it clearly shows you haven't learnt game at all.

You need to learn game bro!

WTF is agreeing to date a man? That's how weak man and Simps talks.

You need to smash a girl and keep smashing her until she's forced to ask you, so what are we now? If you haven't gotten to this stage with a woman, then you haven't learnt game yet.

A woman needs to subconsciously feel in her mind already that's she dating you and that you're already her bf without you saying it. And you don't have to say it!!!!! This is exactly why I'll forever be a bad guy because the bad guys trait are nonchalant. They'll keep smashing her. She'll be the one to assume they're already dating meanwhile the dude isn't dating her!

Why do you think women are so obsessed with bad guys? They want the bad guys to themselves because they feel they can never get enough of him and so therefore wants to tame him with relationship and try to change him, which never works anyway!

You need to learn game!

I don't even remember when was the last time I asked a girl to be my girlfriend, I think that should be 2015 or so! Na girls dey subconsciously assume they're my girlfriends already esp after I have smashed them back to back, and these girls will do anything for you and ready to please you at anytime.

Learn game my brother

How old are you?

You need to date different classes of women, especially career and successful ones, you still have lots of things to learn about them.


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algomachine:
I don’t think so!

A woman can madly be in love with you and still play hard to get, the ones you explained are girls interested in money. A man that really loves a woman would be hesitant to move in sexually or initiate physical contact cos of the strong feelings.

You still have a long way to go in understanding women's psychology!

The same girl playing hard to get for you will smash another guy same day she meet him and considers him attractive.

Learn game

Goo0dHardDick:
Women knows exactly this thing you just wrote. Because men are so desperate and eager to have it, women will rather trade it for money!

Wetin you mean by ‘women knows..’? Ogbeni, you better go use the time wey you dey waste on these matters to go read Brighter Grammar well

Goo0dHardDick:
You still have a long way to go in understanding women's psychology!

The same girl playing hard to get for you will smash another guy same day she meet him and considers him attractive.

Learn game

lol, I’m married with over 10 years experience, go figure

Goo0dHardDick allow us breath

algomachine:
lol, I’m married with over 10 years experience, go figure

Drink water, drop cup. You both are probably not the same age or same generation... So there will be some differing OT, but the idea is still the same. Even as a married man, from your own experience, you know what's up nao, when it comes to that wonderful gender.

algomachine:
I don’t think so!

A woman can madly be in love with you and still play hard to get, the ones you explained are girls interested in money. A man that really loves a woman would be hesitant to move in sexually or initiate physical contact cos of the strong feelings.

na lie jor there's a girl that am so attracted , whenever she see me she start smiling like olodo....small play we both played together in my room she started pulling pant for me to dig in..

Praktikals:
This happened to me in the year 2004. I chased a girl for about 3 years but even to hold her hand na luck. Then she started working in her dad's filing station as a fuel pump attendant. A random guy came there, bought fuel, got her number and banged her the same day. Then he started telling everybody that that girl is cheap. The thing put me in severe heart pain

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AguluLiar:
It's because you don't have a job.

Go and work otherwise, more tribulations await you in the near future

as I see your moniker I just know say sense go far from you. Even people who are working hard are feeling the heat

Women that dont even know what they want?

There are many women happily dating or married to men they rejected.

But Some know exactly what they want.

E get one smalle dey claim 18yr
We exchanged numbers and I was forming lover boy for days.
One day she texted me that she's passing my street with her friends.
I said I wasn't home anyway but I was.
Na so I peep from corner of my gate see she and 2 other boys.
Come see as them dey press this girl small round yansh for street in broad daylight want go F her obviously.
E pain me ehn...
So next day as per usual... It was billing day because they will always bill you for hunger or data or whatever
Str8 up I said I'll make it 20k, bring your ass to my home.
She was shocked but turned up.
This girl almost make my eye see my back for bed. See waist like biro, poor thing na dey hold that round well circled ass together.
Paid 10k laslas.
Right there in my room she was billing another guy that one say make she come hase come collect the money.
I bet my last cent she did.

Just get steeze and small money....

I'm

Goo0dHardDick:
It pains me alot when I see men misbehaving over a woman.

That girl playing hard to get for you is clearly not interested in you. The Same girl will gladly give in to another guy within few hours of the guy meeting her!

Understand this, women give in easily to guys they considered highly attractive and are sexually drained to. No games, no stories, no talking stage trash whatsoever, they just show up at his place when he asks them to, esp the first time.

A woman who doesn't like you will give you lots of rules and regulations, such as taking her out to a date, doing talking stages with her etc! It a clear sign she's not interested in you.

If you know how easy women makes it for the guys they like, you won't waste your time texting, calling and chasing a woman who's clearly not interested in you.

tHe same women will say, a man doesn't really want them, because he easily gives up, when she plays hard to get.

The thing is, no woman is cheap, and will readily give in, easily to any man, even the one she fancies, except she's going for the money, that's when she doesn't even bother with playing hard to get.

Women are mysterious creatures, it's why they don't even like themselves. Lol

Goo0dHardDick:
You still have a long way to go in understanding women's psychology!

The same girl playing hard to get for you will smash another guy same day she meet him and considers him attractive.

Learn game

In the context of game, knowing how to progress from one level to the next fast is important. I reference different nights I scored polish and Czech chics, both super stunning within two hours

Goo0dHardDick:
4 months ago, A friend of mine was telling me about a girl and when I saw the pictures of her on his phone, I was shocked. This is a girl dude has been trying to woo, impress and kill himself for just to have her. I have a banged that girl back to back same day I met her. She came over to my house again 2 days later and slept that night and there were series of numerous knacking.

That was exactly when I understood women's psychology.

I later found out the mistake that my friend did. Dude was busy trying to use relationship talks and those useless soft talks to get her meanwhile I did exactly the opposite.

Chasing a woman harder is a sure way of sending her away

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Seniorman abeg make I learn the style wey you use take bang dat girl.

Correct 💯

Goo0dHardDick:
A man must make himself very difficult for women to reach let alone date!

Hezzyluv:
No be person wey chop belleful get power to dey toast woman up and down?

LOL..

So people still dey toast woman?

Babatunjo:
Drink water, drop cup. You both are probably not the same age or same generation... So there will be some differing OT, but the idea is still the same. Even as a married man, from your own experience, you know what's up nao, when it comes to that wonderful gender.

lol, true talk, we can never be so sure

I get why it pains you bro. Seeing people chase, beg, and get played while someone else gets treated differently hurts. It feels unfair.

But let’s break this down so it doesn’t keep breaking your heart:

*1. The “hard to get vs easy” idea isn’t the full picture*
What looks like “rules and regulations” isn’t always about not liking you.
Some women move slow because:
- They’ve been hurt before and need to see if you’re safe
- They value themselves and don’t want to rush into anything
- They’re testing character, not looks

And what looks like “giving in easily” to another guy isn’t always about “high attraction.” Sometimes it’s desperation, low self-worth, manipulation, or even a bad decision they’ll regret later. Don’t confuse speed with value.

*2. Chasing someone who’s not interested drains you*
You’re 100% right on this part:
*If someone consistently gives you excuses, dry texts, and no effort, stop chasing.*
Your time, money, and energy are valuable. A person who likes you will show it with actions, not just words. No one is that busy to not make time for someone they really want.

*3. The truth about attraction + respect*
Yes, physical attraction matters. But what makes people _stay_ is: respect, trust, peace, and shared values.
The guys who “get her in a few hours” often don’t keep her. The guys who build slowly often build something real.

*The bitter truth that saves you pain:*
1. *Stop auditioning for people*. If you have to beg for attention, you’re in the wrong room.
2. *Watch actions, not access*. Fast access doesn’t mean real interest. Consistent effort does.
3. *Work on you*. The more you build your purpose, money, health, and peace, the less you’ll chase and the more the right people will be drawn to you.

Bro, don’t let pain turn into bitterness against all women. Some are good, some are bad. Same with men. The goal is to spot the difference early and walk away from games.

You deserve someone who chooses you clearly, without you having to fight for basic attention.

Dalohad:
LOL..

So people still dey toast woman?

Infact I wanted to post this earlier😂

Upon all the Rugbodiyan wey dey go on in the Corrntree, Na Women go con be my problem😂

Earlier this year, I deleted the contacts and entire chat history of two ladies away from my phone because I don't want to see their whatsapp status and anything about them due to their bad attitude.

Recently, I inserted my spare sim into my phone in order to subscribe data because my main network was acting up. To my surprise, The contacts and whatsapp status of the ladies appeared on my whatsapp. Then I went to check my sim card and realized I saved their contacts on the sim back then. Omoh, I deleted their contacts with speed of light😂

Hedonisco:
Tinubulation still allow una worry about women shenanigans?

That said, even though the core of your argument is correct, there is a word called 'nuance'. These things are nuanced. It is never strictly black or white, or 1+1=2.

The key rule in the game is that there are no rules. But if I would choose only one rule, it would be 'don't give a Bleep' (emotional detachment and unthinking self-confidence). That's all it takes to enjoy the game for what it is.

Either way, a cultured guy cannot afford to be a simp.

well said, instead of them to move on, rejection is part of the game.

algomachine:
I don’t think so!

A woman can madly be in love with you and still play hard to get, the ones you explained are girls interested in money. A man that really loves a woman would be hesitant to move in sexually or initiate physical contact cos of the strong feelings.

You call yourself man and you dey mention LOVE lol. LOVE na for KIDS. Guy comot for here before I vex

Na confirm truth the guy dey yarn you.

You be seempson, I understand sha😂