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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Thewrath: 11:21pm On Aug 25

imustsaymymindo:
Women and men are different. There can never be an equal exchange of value as what each gender thinks is valuable is subjective to that difference.

You benefit whatever you regard as beneficial. If you didn't think nothing was beneficial, then why stay in any form of relationship with a woman in the first place?

There is a reason why friends is benefit is named friend with *benefits*.

You can still benefit it all without being in a relationship,that is what the OP is saying.

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by GenFunction: 11:22pm On Aug 25

QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!

because they call it ‘menstruation’ you think na men Dey cause the cramps?
Omo

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Elvis2kay: 11:23pm On Aug 25

nothing 9jar women dey give.. only kongo dey have to offer

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by QuinQ(f): 11:25pm On Aug 25

Goo0dHardDick:
WTF is they benefit sex? The woman benefitted graphic design and firewood I guess? A man doesn't benefit sex! The woman does!!

What is you spend yourselves?

U make your hair, nail and face for yourself and yourself alone. How's that the man's business? Imagine a man telling you he is cutting his hair, brushing his teeth and cutting his fingernails as a way of making it seem like he's doing that for you? How logical does that sound to you? Those are what is expected of any sane human to do!

Period pain and pregnancy are both natural and expected for every woman to undergo. How's that what a man benefit from?

How's your period pain a man's business? What does pregnancy has to do with the question on the post? Even animal do give birth because it is natural.

tunize:
like this you just made sense? '' silence is golden''

cr7lomo:
We also do goals to hair salon for our hair , period is human nature for women... sex, u can use condoms or preventive pills ... all u mentioned...u have them already...
For men, we have to make the money to be able to relate with a woman ...and making money is very very very hard... some die while trying to make it

2special:
You see how human being dey think.

JimD:
You literally made his point: Sex. Sex is the only thing women offer. And in fact, men do all the work. Companionship is abstract. Dog can be man's companion. Status has to do with money. There are so many married men with zero status because their pockets are empty.

Mattswaggz:
Meaning relationship in just some form of Ashawo business to you or what?.

Thewrath:
At bolded,but that is all women want/need from a man,that also explains why a woman can meet a man today and marry tomorrow!

Women also enjoy sex,even more….they just like to pretend because research has shown that they masturbate more….besides,sex is the only thing they can offer to the man.

Woman marry who they can or whoever is ready.
Men when who Dey love.

GenFunction:
because they call it ‘menstruation’ you think na men Dey cause the cramps?
Omo

Ok, why do you think in all animal kingdom males chase the females and many times fight to death to have them? TELL US WHAT THEY ARE BENEFITING!!
Man is an animal. Why must his own be different??
Males have sex and walk away and go find another female, while the female is stuck with pregnancy and childbirth and nursing the child, etc.!!!

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by sprints1: 11:27pm On Aug 25

Sex and it is a we thing no be say as I dey pump she no dey receive the chills. Science said women have more nerve endings than men so if you drill the hole well na she dey enjoy am pass. It depends on the individual aha

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by GenFunction: 11:34pm On Aug 25

QuinQ:
Man is a higher specie my dear.

Ok, why do you think in all animal kingdom males chase the females and many times fight to death to have them? TELL US WHAT THEY ARE BENEFITING!!
Man is an animal. Why must his own be different??
Males have sex and walk away and go find another female, while the female is stuck with pregnancy and childbirth and nursing the child, etc.!!!

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by frankblinkz(m): 11:36pm On Aug 25

They cant even defend themselves maturedly,just see the whole nonsense she calm down to write,like we have always known what they can offer is SEX,so it's no big deal to me,since it's a very cheap commodity,1k,2k,3k 5k.......even data 500mb sef,indomie and egg.
Nothing they offer except SEX

Goo0dHardDick:
WTF is they benefit sex? The woman benefitted graphic design and firewood I guess? A man doesn't benefit sex! The woman does!!

What is you spend yourselves?

U make your hair, nail and face for yourself and yourself alone. How's that the man's business? Imagine a man telling you he is cutting his hair, brushing his teeth and cutting his fingernails as a way of making it seem like he's doing that for you? How logical does that sound to you? Those are what is expected of any sane human to do!

Period pain and pregnancy are both natural and expected for every woman to undergo. How's that what a man benefit from?

How's your period pain a man's business? What does pregnancy has to do with the question on the post? Even animal do give birth because it is natural.

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by QuinQ(f): 11:40pm On Aug 25

GenFunction:
Man is a higher specie my dear.

That's not the question you were asked dear.
How come when it comes to eating and sex you don't do higher specie?

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by imustsaymymindo: 11:42pm On Aug 25

Thewrath:
You can still benefit it all without being in a relationship,that is what the OP is saying.

I agree. But relationship comes in many forms.

Also, to your point, you can still not benefit anything at all without being in a relationship.

There are quite a number of men out there spending their fortunes and time to women that they are not even in a relationship with, nor even seen their pant yet

So relationship isn't the culprit. It's the individual that decided not to be in a beneficial situation.

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by APOPTOSIS: 11:45pm On Aug 25

I benefited a whole LOT.

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by ufotunang: 11:48pm On Aug 25

Goo0dHardDick:
I personally feel men don't benefit anything in relationship from women.

Men do all the work in the relationship, he approaches, faces the rejection, strive to prove his love, give his attention, money, feeds her, showers her with gifts etc.

infact whenever a girl is going to see a man, that guy must be prepared because money is going to leave his pocket one way or the other!

Men, Kindly tell us what have you benefited from all your relationships with women?

.. i.

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by ufotunang: 11:50pm On Aug 25

QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!

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Women enjoy the sex the more....

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by GenFunction: 11:53pm On Aug 25

QuinQ:
That's not the question you were asked dear.
How come when it comes to eating and sex you don't do higher specie?

We do o
You think say na everybody we Dey follow these days because of sex?
That’s why I said man na higher specie

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Qloud69: 11:59pm On Aug 25

Heartache

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by DMCA: 12:01am On Aug 26

QuinQ:
That's not the question you were asked dear.
How come when it comes to eating and sex you don't do higher specie?

if woman no get sense to a certain degree, i no fit dive inside d hormuz waters at all cool

because, after post-nut clarity knack me chai... regret fit gum me for like 2 weeks wey i fit qualify to go real Yaba because of depression. grin

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by shortgun(m): 12:07am On Aug 26

We used to benefit from each other until women started competing with men angry

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by teeteepeejay: 12:11am On Aug 26

Absolutely nothing grin

Some others benefited overused kpekus

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by onatisi(m): 12:22am On Aug 26*

In Nigeria’s past, women often honored and respected their husbands, recognizing marriage as a partnership built on mutual duty. That respect helped marriages endure. Today, however, many women view marriage as a favor they grant men, even though men typically provide shelter, food, protection, and financial support. Children are still referred to as “her kids,” leaving men feeling overlooked despite their contributions. When the costs of sustaining relationships are counted, men often realize they’ve spent millions with little acknowledgment. This shift—from older generations of women who valued their men to modern attitudes of entitlement—has fueled rising marital instability.

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by Belurved1(m): 12:27am On Aug 26

Oga, remove sex cos it's not free, even the married men are paying in kind..

QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by babaowambe: 12:46am On Aug 26

You came out of one.

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by JimD(m): 12:54am On Aug 26

QuinQ:
Ok, why do you think in all animal kingdom males chase the females and many times fight to death to have them? TELL US WHAT THEY ARE BENEFITING!!
Man is an animal. Why must his own be different??
Males have sex and walk away and go find another female, while the female is stuck with pregnancy and childbirth and nursing the child, etc.!!!

Skewed logic. Man has free will. There's nothing like the woman takes care of the child. The woman carries the child for nine months, breastfeeds for a year. But the man is largely responsible for the child's upkeep for 18 years at least.

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by eagleonearth(m): 12:59am On Aug 26

QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!

very unintelligent answer.

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by QuinQ(f): 1:02am On Aug 26

GenFunction:
We do o
You think say na everybody we Dey follow these days because of sex?
That’s why I said man na higher specie

OK, why is it said men are polygamous by nature?
Why do you do DNA tests

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by QuinQ(f): 1:31am On Aug 26

eagleonearth:
very unintelligent answer.

Ok, give an intelligent one genius.
Also to this below

QuinQ:
Ok, why do you think in all animal kingdom males chase the females and many times fight to death to have them? TELL US WHAT THEY ARE BENEFITING!!
Man is an animal. Why must his own be different??
Males have sex and walk away and go find another female, while the female is stuck with pregnancy and childbirth and nursing the child, etc.!!!

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by QuinQ(f): 1:33am On Aug 26

JimD:
Skewed logic. Man has free will. There's nothing like the woman takes care of the child. The woman carries the child for nine months, breastfeeds for a year. But the man is largely responsible for the child's upkeep for 18 years at least.

Exactly, man has freewill and can simply walk away from any responsibility after sex. We woman CAN'T!

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by QuinQ(f): 1:35am On Aug 26

Belurved1:
Oga, remove sex cos it's not free, even the married men are paying in kind..

Madam they said they're benefiting NOTHING!
Said they're spending and benefiting nothing

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by QuinQ(f): 1:38am On Aug 26

DMCA:
if woman no get sense to a certain degree, i no fit dive inside d hormuz waters at all
because, after post-nut clarity knack me chai... regret fit gum me for like 2 weeks wey i fit qualify to go real Yaba because of depression.

You miss the point dear Yaba. Why are men saying they want DNA test to be sure the child is there's?
Why are men polygamous? Are all the holes not about the same?

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by QuinQ(f): 1:45am On Aug 26

ufotunang:
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Women enjoy the sex the more....

Man has freewill and can simply walk away from any responsibility after sex. We woman CAN'T!

Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by profmallor: 2:08am On Aug 26

Ironically, the animals that stay away from fighting over territory and females live much longer and more peaceful lives. While it may be genetically encoded for most male species to seek females, those who make the conscious choice not to are at no disadvantage what so ever, infact they live better lives.

QuinQ:
Ok, why do you think in all animal kingdom males chase the females and many times fight to death to have them? TELL US WHAT THEY ARE BENEFITING!!
Man is an animal. Why must his own be different??
Males have sex and walk away and go find another female, while the female is stuck with pregnancy and childbirth and nursing the child, etc.!!!

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by QuinQ(f): 2:17am On Aug 26

profmallor:
Ironically, the animals that stay away from fighting over territory and females live much longer and more peaceful lives. While it may be genetically encoded for most male species to seek females, those who make the conscious choice not to are at no disadvantage what so ever, infact they live better lives.

How? The idea is to have your genes survive you, meaning part of you never died.
Give example of animals that don't fight for females and live longer

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Re: Men, What Have You Benefited From All Your Relationships With Women? by GuestInfinity: 3:00am On Aug 26

Goo0dHardDick:
I personally feel men don't benefit anything in relationship from women.

Men do all the work in the relationship, he approaches, faces the rejection, strive to prove his love, give his attention, money, feeds her, showers her with gifts etc.

infact whenever a girl is going to see a man, that guy must be prepared because money is going to leave his pocket one way or the other!

Men, Kindly tell us what have you benefited from all your relationships with women?

Then leave women alone. Stop thinking about women. Stop posting about women

You post about women almost every single day. You're obsessed with them

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