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QuinQ:
I like to respect people's opinion but still you're not making sense and these is not a topic opened for discussion, the moment I see anyone already tagging sex as a benefit I see low level thinkers














Ok, why do you think in all animal kingdom males chase the females and many times fight to death to have them? TELL US WHAT THEY ARE BENEFITING!!
Man is an animal. Why must his own be different??
Males have sex and walk away and go find another female, while the female is stuck with pregnancy and childbirth and nursing the child, etc.!!!

Goo0dHardDick:
I personally feel men don't benefit anything in relationship from women.

Men do all the work in the relationship, he approaches, faces the rejection, strive to prove his love, give his attention, money, feeds her, showers her with gifts etc.

infact whenever a girl is going to see a man, that guy must be prepared because money is going to leave his pocket one way or the other!

Men, Kindly tell us what have you benefited from all your relationships with women?

QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!

QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!

Hezmatosky210:
The problem here is that you try to quantify everything. There are some chilling and quality moments women gives to their men that are not quantifiable. I mean that are priceless. Even nine hundred billion dollars can't buy them. Only that we too dey forget things

Goo0dHardDick:
I personally feel men don't benefit anything in relationship from women.

Men do all the work in the relationship, he approaches, faces the rejection, strive to prove his love, give his attention, money, feeds her, showers her with gifts etc.

infact whenever a girl is going to see a man, that guy must be prepared because money is going to leave his pocket one way or the other!

Men, Kindly tell us what have you benefited from all your relationships with women?

ZeekrX9:
Women brings status? This is NEW.

VoiceHenshaw27:
All you listed so far are not expenses. "Period pains" is a normal health experience that almost if not every women go through. If you are talking about companionship, Pet provide genuine companionship and emotional comfort. Moreover, if you mean romantic or intimate companionship, then a woman isn't necessarily the only possibility either.

Talking about sex, sexual pleasure is not exclusive to men. Both man and woman can enjoy sex. Even the cosmetic💄is still provided by man, woman is just a wearing makeup. Lastly, i don't understand what you mean by "tarnish our image".

JimD:
Skewed logic. Man has free will. There's nothing like the woman takes care of the child. The woman carries the child for nine months, breastfeeds for a year. But the man is largely responsible for the child's upkeep for 18 years at least.

banku:
I think you made one of the best points any intelligent lady could give.

The problem for women is that time has changed. Children are no longer important in men's life as they become selfish, ingrates just waiting to inherit and if their father live too long, find ways to dispose of him.

The days women remain loyal friends and compassion are long gone. Women used to serve, flatter and care for men after the birth of children so that men can serve and care for them forever. This was why they said women were smarter!

Today, it is dumb women who claim they are smarter and opened men's EYES. Men discover that women are users. This generation call dutiful men SIMP! Got it?

SmartPolician:
I'm ashamed of the person who dropped this comment. This is exactly why men say that women have fi-sh brains.

cr7lomo:
In the same animal kingdom...do u see lions hunt for food to give the lioness to feed b4 she allows him to mate... or do u see any female animal fight the male animal for mating with another female ....

Hezmatosky210:
The problem here is that you try to quantify everything. There are some chilling and quality moments women gives to their men that are not quantifiable. I mean that are priceless. Even nine hundred billion dollars can't buy them. Only that we too dey forget things

Stephen0mozzy:
Wetin be this na 😂😂

For one, I must commend you for being very mature in your response to the guys who are trying to drag you. Lol.

But you're setting yourself up for more drags with these new responses, abi you dey like the attention ni?

Secondly, that man is polygamous in nature doesn't mean that the civilization he now lives in allows him to have sex with all women randomly without consequence. OP's point was that if a man desires to have sex, he usually has to get it in exchange for what he toiled for - his resources - while the woman only gives her consent, for both of them to have their reproductive organs touch each other.

Mind you, both of them enjoy this session.

You earlier compared Humans to animals in the wild, that world ended with the Neanderthal.

Lastly, men want to do DNA, because most women can't even give fidelity to one partner, and the man do not want to be responsible for an offspring thay they did not father. It only says something about the irresponsibility of women, not the man.

tunize:
I like to respect people's opinion but still you're not making sense and these is not a topic opened for discussion, the moment I see anyone already tagging sex as a benefit I see low level thinkers

SultanYoung:
Is this your only defense and is that all you have to offer.
Sister you better be productive.
And if sex and this things you stated are all you get to offer then a man can get this same value from a sex worker without having to go through all the emotional stress and and high spending.

zinowealth:
Yet women won’t choose to spend themselves just on one person. They’d rather tarnish their reputation more cos of greed

Goo0dHardDick:
Exactly my point. Sex is the only thing a woman has to offer? Meaning there's absolutely nothing a woman is giving to the man in relationship. She's only there for what she's benefiting which includes sex too.

ogolemati:

Kingzjayzee:
you well at all?

ogascomax:
Of all things you could think your cost the weakest argument. How is dating you improve any man's status? At my age if a woman had not gotten married nor have a serious man she will be ashamed in a social gathering. Men are wired differently. I don't think you can contribute any meaningful thing in a man's life.
What do you think you can contribute to a man's life that you think he is struggling to do for himself. That is the difference between a smart and an intelligent woman from an ordinary woman.

occfx:
Una too dey selfish... You no benefit the same sex, companionship, status (see my man) etc? Without spending shishi?

segcymoor:
But single father dey na . Some woman left their children and husband go marry for money oo

TrainPark:
Give 3 examples -- that make logical sense, please!

QuinQ:
Yes, the female chooses who to mate with based on something he brings or potentially will bring for her. She doesn't choose based on nothing.

Also:
A man can have sex and simply walk away and go brag to his friends, and go find another woman. End of story. A woman CAN'T. We have to deal with possible pregnancy, childbirth, nursing the baby, damage to our reputation, etc.
ALSO:
A man that has a girlfriend or two is seen as a player; it is an achievement.
A woman that has a boyfriend or two is seen as a whọre not a player, much worse than a chaste woman saving herself.
ALSO
"He who finds a wife finds a treasure and obtains favor from the Lord" Proverbs 18:22
ALSO
Whatever you give a woman she will make greater:
If you give her sperm she'll give you a baby
If you give her a house she'll give you a home
If you give her groceries she'll give you a meal
If you give her a smile she'll give.you her heart
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her
~ William Golding

DMCA:
u think say na point i wan make relating to wetin una d talk?
na werin come my heads as i see dat part of ur reply na im make me drop wetin come my head out of my own experience

cr7lomo:
When will u understand that men and women abide by 2 different set of rules...

Men create their status by looking for money...women dont have to....

A broke woman can still get married ...a broken man cant... women can open their legs and make money from randy men...a man cant ... all bills are expected to be handled by the husband , not the wife... of landlord comes for his rent, he doesn't bother the wife , its the husband that carries it... when it comes to food its the husband that carries the burden of providing for it... if the children are chased out of school for school fees , its the man that will receive insult from society... and its very hard for these men to make money... a man without money is like a person without blood ... men cant function without providing... society made it so ... if he cant provide, hes just another statistics... but u see broke women in fine restaurants eating on the mans bill ... as is ur advantage...but u also want men to overlook women that cheat... but women cant overlook broke men... u wanna eat ur cake and have it... it cant work

Goo0dHardDick:
I personally feel men don't benefit anything in relationship from women.

Men do all the work in the relationship, he approaches, faces the rejection, strive to prove his love, give his attention, money, feeds her, showers her with gifts etc.

infact whenever a girl is going to see a man, that guy must be prepared because money is going to leave his pocket one way or the other!

Men, Kindly tell us what have you benefited from all your relationships with women?

QuinQ:
Thanks.
My point is, all the holes are about the same why must a man be polygamous?
And why not just raise a child, why must it be HIS child?
The answer is that man is an ANIMAL and subject to the same drives as animals. He can't use his bigger brain to override these drives. He can't reason that all the holes are same and therefore no need to be polygamous. He can't reason that raising a child is raising a child wether the sperm was his or not.

ALSO:
A man can have sex and simply walk away and go brag to his friends, and go find another woman. End of story. A woman CAN'T. We have to deal with possible pregnancy, childbirth, nursing the baby, damage to our reputation, etc.
ALSO:
A man that has a girlfriend or two is seen as a player; it is an achievement.
A woman that has a boyfriend or two is seen as a whọre not a player, much worse than a chaste woman saving herself.
ALSO
"He who finds a wife finds a treasure and obtains favor from the Lord" Proverbs 18:22
ALSO
Whatever you give a woman she will make greater:
If you give her sperm she'll give you a baby
If you give her a house she'll give you a home
If you give her groceries she'll give you a meal
If you give her a smile she'll give.you her heart
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her
~ William Golding

QuinQ:
They benefit sex, companionship, and status among their pals, yet all they spend is money. THAT IS ALL!
While we make hair, nail, face, go through period pains every month, chance pregnancy, add body count, tarnish our reputation, etc.
They spend only money while we spend ourselves!

ogolemati:
this is what AI dumped into your skull

Ofekongsk:
Gerraout of here mehn