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Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by ebubeson(op): 9:37am On Aug 25

Please with tangible reasons, which if these proposals is better? Is private proposal better than public proposal?

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by joyd200: 10:02am On Aug 31

5proposals is better? Is private proposal better than public proposal?
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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Didi2d(m): 10:02am On Aug 31

I prefer low key or private. But if at all you want to do it in public, make sure the girl is ready to settle down with you.
You can ask her jokingly when you guys are gisting. Make she no go embarrass you for public o

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by professore(m): 10:03am On Aug 31

Private proposal, wedding with a small circle. Use your money for quick growth of the new family. It is time to be wise.

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Samantha125(f): 10:04am On Aug 31

Private proposal anytime, anyday... I hate being the centre of attention... I might turn down the proposal in public.

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Gotocourt: 10:05am On Aug 31

She won't have any option because Belle don enter grin

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by DystopianMuse(f): 10:06am On Aug 31

USELESS MEN KNEELING DOWN TO PROPOSE
AND WHY PROPOSE IN PUBLIC
AND THOSE USELESS FRIENDS THAT WILL BE SHOUTING SAY YES I HATE THOSE THINGS.

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Ebenezer2021(m): 10:06am On Aug 31

I no fit try that kind nonsense.
When I dey ready to marry I go just carry you go my room, after having sex with you I just tell you say I wan see your parents then start preparation for marriage. Finish.
I no know wetin I fit call Men wey dey kneel down propose still go pay huge amount to their family still spend on wedding and then provide house and feeding untop woman all in the name of marriage.

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by BlackRains: 10:06am On Aug 31

90% of marriage proposal done in public are acting movie scene planned by both parties.

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by TechCapon(m): 10:06am On Aug 31

God forbid. Proposal is strictly indoors for me

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Diamonddris(m): 10:07am On Aug 31

[quote author=DystopianMuse post=140497858][b] *USELESS MEN KNEELING DOWN TO PROPOSE*

This is not a normal thing to say at all

The white men brought religion, u guys hurriedly embraced it, they brought technology, u guys embraced it, they introduced church/white/court wedding and u guys loved it and followed suit... How come the kneeling down to propose that the whites also introduced to us is now a problem?

I'm not saying I'd love to kneel down to propose o, but if I do, I will not feel less of a man though..

Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by DystopianMuse(f): 10:09am On Aug 31

Diamonddris:
This is not a normal thing to say at all

WHY SAY WHY OR GET OUT OF MY MENTION

Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Gbadugbakun(m): 10:10am On Aug 31

I did my own in private and she broke up with me. cry

https://www.nairaland.com/8716672/she-broke-up-me-after

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Iran2025: 10:11am On Aug 31

Some open while some inside the house. Tinubu has made it difficult for everyone.

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by 0Brien: 10:18am On Aug 31

Not at all

It turns the whole thing into a public performance and show and destroys the intimacy of the moment

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by tuoyoojo(m): 10:19am On Aug 31

I believe marriage proposal is a private thing

When you were "toasting" the girl, did u do it publicly?

Private proposal also give u some layer of protection against the issue that comes with falling hand in case the babe nor gree

But then if u and the girl never talk go marriage or una communication nor involve you guys sharing a future together, then why propose In the first place

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Tenses: 10:19am On Aug 31

Most of these marriages for show (public) don't last.

My twin bro marriage is currently being threatened. During his proposal to his girlfriend, he drove kilometres to his then girlfriend work of place, knelt down in public, proposed with the expensive ring he bought from Jumia, took a picture of the proposal and framed it.

If you go to his living room you'd see the picture there.

He took maternity picture with his pregnant wife, he framed it. Go to his Facebook page, it is filled with his family images.

Now he hasn't had canal knowledge of his wife for more than three months counting.

These are young couples.

Do not be deceived about how lovey dovey most couples appear in public. If you know the war going on when they are behind the scene you'd thank God for your marriage that you felt is doing badly. undecided

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by DystopianMuse(f): 10:20am On Aug 31

[quote author=Diamonddris post=140497882][/quote]I BEG YOU PLEAE DONT. YOUR WOMAN WONT VALUE YOU SHE WILL SEE YOU LESS

Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by TONYE001(m): 10:20am On Aug 31

I don't even understand all these things.

Honestly.

If we are in a relationship already, and we are both working towards getting married, why do I need to formally propose to you?

All this one na drama.

12 years ago when I got married, I didn't need to do all this drama. Wifie and I were university classmates. In one phone call, we both agreed that there was no need to postpone our marriage. Just like that, she asked me to go discuss with my people while she discussed with hers.

Then introduction.
Then marriage - traditional and white wedding on the same day. Instead of a wedding reception, we did traditional after church.

Case closed.

12 years after, we are still happily married with 4 great kids.

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Sirseedorf(m): 10:21am On Aug 31

I prefer the parlor style, sit on the chair, sit on the floor, eat, drink, smile and communicate that's all, parlor style nothing more, nothing less grin

Modify, I hate open wedding ground.....

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by jubrilELsudan: 10:23am On Aug 31

I PREFER SWEET FORKIES AND WARM KÙKÚÑÁSÉ

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Nobody: 10:37am On Aug 31

Gbadugbakun:
I did my own in private and she broke up with me.

https://www.nairaland.com/8716672/she-broke-up-me-after

That person was never for you.

God rid you of a shallow-minded person.

BarrElChapo:
Cos you were never her dream man, rather merely an option

Another more valid point.

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Samantha125(f): 10:40am On Aug 31

What if she's still recovering from the birth of their child, suffering from postpartum depression, or his bedmatics skills aren't top notch?

Tenses:
Most of these marriages for show (public) don't last.

My twin bro marriage is currently being threatened. During his proposal to his girlfriend, he drove kilometres to his then girlfriend work of place, knelt down in public, proposed with the expensive ring he bought from Jumia, took a picture of the proposal and framed it.

If you go to his living room you'd see the picture there.

He took maternity picture with his pregnant wife, he framed it. Go to his Facebook page, it is filled with his family images.

Now he hasn't had canal knowledge of his wife for more than three months counting.

These are young couples.

Do not be deceived about how lovey dovey most couples appear in public. If you know the war going on when they are behind the scene you'd thank God for your marriage that you felt is doing badly.

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Nobody: 10:41am On Aug 31

TONYE001:
I don't even understand all these things.

Honestly.

If we are in a relationship already, and we are both working towards getting married, why do I need to formally propose to you?

All this one na drama.

12 years ago when I got married, I didn't need to do all this drama. Wifie and I were university classmates. In one phone call, we both agreed that there was no need to postpone our marriage. Just like that, she asked me to go discuss with my people while she discussed with hers.

Then introduction.
Then marriage - traditional and white wedding on the same day. Instead of a wedding reception, we did traditional after church.

Case closed.

12 years after, we are still happily married with 4 great kids.

You asked a billion Naira question.

Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by BarrElChapo(m): 10:42am On Aug 31

Gbadugbakun:
I did my own in private and she broke up with me.

https://www.nairaland.com/8716672/she-broke-up-me-after

Cos you were never her dream man, rather merely an option

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by BarrElChapo(m): 10:45am On Aug 31

Tenses:
Most of these marriages for show (public) don't last.

My twin bro marriage is currently being threatened. During his proposal to his girlfriend, he drove kilometres to his then girlfriend work of place, knelt down in public, proposed with the expensive ring he bought from Jumia, took a picture of the proposal and framed it.

If you go to his living room you'd see the picture there.

He took maternity picture with his pregnant wife, he framed it. Go to his Facebook page, it is filled with his family images.

Now he hasn't had canal knowledge of his wife for more than three months counting.

These are young couples.

Do not be deceived about how lovey dovey most couples appear in public. If you know the war going on when they are behind the scene you'd thank God for your marriage that you felt is doing badly.

They need therapy/counselling. If she’s still a nursing mother, she could be having postpartum depression.

Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Hahjascho(m): 10:47am On Aug 31

People can’t destroy what they don’t know.

Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by dahmie2013: 10:48am On Aug 31

I prefer money. I prefer to live like a Kardasian.

Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Brave9ja: 10:50am On Aug 31

DystopianMuse:
USELESS MEN KNEELING DOWN TO PROPOSE
AND WHY PROPOSE IN PUBLIC
AND THOSE USELESS FRIENDS THAT WILL BE SHOUTING SAY YES I HATE THOSE THINGS.

Most marriages built on the foundation of the man kneeling down to propose never last. It all nonsense.

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Emeka71(m): 11:09am On Aug 31

joyd200:
5proposals is better? Is private proposal better than public proposal?
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Anyone is OK by me but I prefer private one.

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Re: Do You Prefer Marriage Engagement/Proposal Done in the Open? by Ishilove: 11:22am On Aug 31

Gbadugbakun:
I did my own in private and she broke up with me.

https://www.nairaland.com/8716672/she-broke-up-me-after

She was right in breaking up with you because you are not a serious person.

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