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Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Babatunjo(op): 9:12pm On Sep 07

A man wanting to sleep with you is not the same as a man wanting to build with you.

Sex may get attention. Beauty may bring options. But if you want commitment, you need to become valuable to his life beyond the bedroom.

Can you bring peace? Ideas? Support? Competence? Can his life genuinely become better because you're in it?

And no, this doesn't mean abandoning your own dreams to become somebody's assistant.

The sweet spot is finding a man whose direction fits yours, so while you're helping him win, you're winning too.

If you think sex and beauty alone should be enough, the dating market is already giving feedback. Plenty men will take the sex and still not commit.

It's 2026, ladies. Wake up. 😂

Don't just learn how to attract men.

Learn how to choose the right man and build something worth committing to together.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by BlessedGift: 5:56pm On Sep 08

2027: Obi Fuels Alliance Talk With Surprise Visit to Makinde's Campaign Office

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_k2i4Kw05I

Babatunjo:
A man wanting to sleep with you is not the same as a man wanting to build with you.

Sex may get attention. Beauty may bring options. But if you want commitment, you need to become valuable to his life beyond the bedroom.

Can you bring peace? Ideas? Support? Competence? Can his life genuinely become better because you're in it?

And no, this doesn't mean abandoning your own dreams to become somebody's assistant.

The sweet spot is finding a man whose direction fits yours, so while you're helping him win, you're winning too.

If you think sex and beauty alone should be enough, the dating market is already giving feedback. Plenty men will take the sex and still not commit.

It's 2026, ladies. Wake up. 😂

Don't just learn how to attract men.

Learn how to choose the right man and build something worth committing to together.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Entanglement: 5:56pm On Sep 08

Babatunjo:
A man wanting to sleep with you is not the same as a man wanting to build with you.

Sex may get attention. Beauty may bring options. But if you want commitment, you need to become valuable to his life beyond the bedroom.

Can you bring peace? Ideas? Support? Competence? Can his life genuinely become better because you're in it?

And no, this doesn't mean abandoning your own dreams to become somebody's assistant.

The sweet spot is finding a man whose direction fits yours, so while you're helping him win, you're winning too.

If you think sex and beauty alone should be enough, the dating market is already giving feedback. Plenty men will take the sex and still not commit.

It's 2026, ladies. Wake up. 😂

Don't just learn how to attract men.

Learn how to choose the right man and build something worth committing to together.

With all this talk naija women will still not get sense!

Shall I only blame simps who still put women above them

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Gotocourt: 5:56pm On Sep 08

We want those big fat laps cool

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Bahamas95(m): 5:57pm On Sep 08

If dem like make dem nor listen, they'll definitely learn the hard way.

Sxxx is cheap nowadays, you can even get it free of charge from some women......What a man needs is a woman that would respect and give him peace of mind.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by ambu2: 5:59pm On Sep 08

Sex, good sex is very importantoooooo! grin

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Nobody: 5:59pm On Sep 08

Verminnel hope you see this sad

Babatunjo:
A man wanting to sleep with you is not the same as a man wanting to build with you.

Sex may get attention. Beauty may bring options. But if you want commitment, you need to become valuable to his life beyond the bedroom.

Can you bring peace? Ideas? Support? Competence? Can his life genuinely become better because you're in it?

And no, this doesn't mean abandoning your own dreams to become somebody's assistant.

The sweet spot is finding a man whose direction fits yours, so while you're helping him win, you're winning too.

If you think sex and beauty alone should be enough, the dating market is already giving feedback. Plenty men will take the sex and still not commit.

It's 2026, ladies. Wake up. 😂

Don't just learn how to attract men.

Learn how to choose the right man and build something worth committing to together.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by dododawa1: 5:59pm On Sep 08

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by buygala(m): 6:00pm On Sep 08

If sex is not enough for you, it's enough for me grin

Speak for yourself Sir grin

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by helinues: 6:01pm On Sep 08

Sebi some of our ladies are now seeing relationship as a job opportunity which they need to be paid even more than the regular workers

Also, the guys should also take note of their mistakes. Stop making sex advances on someone you don't even know much about, they will also demand for money in exchange which you might not even see the sex after paying.

Ladies always give some regards to a guy who is not pressuring them for sex.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Riversides2003(m): 6:03pm On Sep 08

Unfortunately that’s what most of them bring to the table. But there are some excellent and beautiful ladies among them.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Bahamas95(m): 6:05pm On Sep 08

Gotocourt:
We want those big fat laps

Laps?

Oga mention dat thing wey dey your mind. grin

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Gotocourt: 6:08pm On Sep 08

Bahamas95:
Laps?

Oga mention dat thing wey dey your mind.

Yeah ,the thick lips inbetween tongue

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by essentialone1: 6:12pm On Sep 08

Babatunjo:
A man wanting to sleep with you is not the same as a man wanting to build with you.

Sex may get attention. Beauty may bring options. But if you want commitment, you need to become valuable to his life beyond the bedroom.

Can you bring peace? Ideas? Support? Competence? Can his life genuinely become better because you're in it?

And no, this doesn't mean abandoning your own dreams to become somebody's assistant.

The sweet spot is finding a man whose direction fits yours, so while you're helping him win, you're winning too.

If you think sex and beauty alone should be enough, the dating market is already giving feedback. Plenty men will take the sex and still not commit.

It's 2026, ladies. Wake up. 😂

Don't just learn how to attract men.

Learn how to choose the right man and build something worth committing to together.

Take a look at these other Topics by the same Op. What do you think about his or her mindset?

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by DickenClarq(f): 6:13pm On Sep 08

Very great writing Mr. OP. Also very informative.

In addition, tell your fellow men too that MONEY IS NOT ALSO ENOUGH

May God help us.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Dogalmighty17: 6:14pm On Sep 08

Do Nigerian women build? Not even helping a man build. How many Nigerian ladies are actively engaged in building something of themselves? Count ten thousand ladies and less than three have anything upstairs. They can't hold engaging conversation, aren't knowledgeable about the real world around them, few have financial intelligence and knowledge the true power a woman's feminity is.

Their idea of keeping in shape is how wide apart they can spread their legs. Most of them have a new birthday as soon as they meet a new man. Rent is always due, gas is always finished, eternally hungry with an appetite that puts a whale to shame. Ravenous eaters with such plate polishing skills that the makers of morning fresh are already considering exiting the Nigerian market due to low sales as a result.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by verminnel(f): 6:20pm On Sep 08

DickenClarq:
Very great writing Mr. OP. Also very informative.

In addition, tell your fellow men too that MONEY IS NOT ALSO ENOUGH

May God help us.

🤣 they think money and an eight inch phallus is enough😊well what do I know? 🤷‍♀️everytime women women women mtcheeeew

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by QuinQ(f): 6:20pm On Sep 08

Babatunjo:
A man wanting to sleep with you is not the same as a man wanting to build with you.

Sex may get attention. Beauty may bring options. But if you want commitment, you need to become valuable to his life beyond the bedroom.

Can you bring peace? Ideas? Support? Competence? Can his life genuinely become better because you're in it?

And no, this doesn't mean abandoning your own dreams to become somebody's assistant.

The sweet spot is finding a man whose direction fits yours, so while you're helping him win, you're winning too.

If you think sex and beauty alone should be enough, the dating market is already giving feedback. Plenty men will take the sex and still not commit.

It's 2026, ladies. Wake up. 😂

Don't just learn how to attract men.

Learn how to choose the right man and build something worth committing to together.

Stating the obvious. Who said sex was enough before?
And what advice do you have for your fellow men? Tell them too money is not enough

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Babatunjo(op): 6:24pm On Sep 08

QuinQ:
Stating the obvious. Who said sex was enough before?
And what advice do you have for your fellow men? Tell them too money is not enough

I already said the same thing to men here 😂
Money is not enough either:

https://www.nairaland.com/8734588/men-get-wrong-money-wont

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by DMCA: 6:25pm On Sep 08*

QuinQ:
Stating the obvious. Who said sex was enough before?
And what advice do you have for your fellow men? Tell them too money is not enough

To off panny no dey enough grin

YABA! YABA!! YABA!!! grin

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by motymop: 6:26pm On Sep 08

I think sex is enough considering the amount on men that complain about lack of sex in their relationships and marriage

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by pocohantas(f): 6:27pm On Sep 08

But na the same sex sidechicks dey give una, for you to destroy your homes. Shior.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Stayingalive: 6:28pm On Sep 08

Bahamas95:
If dem like make dem nor listen, they'll definitely learn the hard way.

Sxxx is cheap nowadays, you can even get it free of charge from some women......What a man needs is a woman that would respect and give him peace of mind.

A man need what he needs stop the wrong advice.

Everyone should choose the right person for them

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Omalicious1: 6:34pm On Sep 08

Babatunjo:
A man wanting to sleep with you is not the same as a man wanting to build with you.

Sex may get attention. Beauty may bring options. But if you want commitment, you need to become valuable to his life beyond the bedroom.

Can you bring peace? Ideas? Support? Competence? Can his life genuinely become better because you're in it?

And no, this doesn't mean abandoning your own dreams to become somebody's assistant.

The sweet spot is finding a man whose direction fits yours, so while you're helping him win, you're winning too.

If you think sex and beauty alone should be enough, the dating market is already giving feedback. Plenty men will take the sex and still not commit.

It's 2026, ladies. Wake up. 😂

Don't just learn how to attract men.

Learn how to choose the right man and build something worth committing to together.

Men feel they're in a relationship, women are in business.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by QuinQ(f): 6:36pm On Sep 08

Babatunjo:
I already said the same thing to men here 😂
Money is not enough either:

https://www.nairaland.com/8734588/men-get-wrong-money-wont

Ok, I see. Money can actually be enough for lots of us grin

(But it has to be BIG money)

DMCA:
panny no dey enough
YABA! YABA!! YABA!!!

😂🤣😅

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Babatunjo(op): 6:42pm On Sep 08

QuinQ:
Ok, I see. Money can actually be enough for lots of us (But it has to be BIG money)

😂🤣😅

Then if you're there JUST because of the money, you're using him. 😂

Same way if a guy is with a woman JUST because he's getting sex, he's using her too.

Nothing wrong with enjoying what your partner brings. The word is JUST.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by SouthSouth1914: 6:47pm On Sep 08

Is it sex? Parents should try to empower their children especially women. If women should add value to themselves, men wont be treating them as rags.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by DMCA: 7:12pm On Sep 08

QuinQ:
Ok, I see. Money can actually be enough for lots of us (But it has to be BIG money)

😂🤣😅

QuinQ which university u go? cool

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Emdi1914: 7:16pm On Sep 08

If men were not interested in womens body,the world would have been 500 years ahead.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by silibaba: 7:20pm On Sep 08

I dont know when last i paid for it. cool

Since i started prioritizing my goals, women have been flooding my way.

Bahamas95:
If dem like make dem nor listen, they'll definitely learn the hard way.

Sxxx is cheap nowadays, you can even get it free of charge from some women......What a man needs is a woman that would respect and give him peace of mind.

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Re: Ladies, Sex Is Not Enough by Emeka71(m): 7:22pm On Sep 08

BlessedGift:
2027: Obi Fuels Alliance Talk With Surprise Visit to Makinde's Campaign Office

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_k2i4Kw05I

Then, what is enough -ladies.?

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