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This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

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You wan impress her na. You dash girl wey nor be your babe money without her asking. Of course she'll "act" like 15k is not a big deal to her.

Let's try something. Send your guy 5k, say make e take guide. Your guy go regard you like say na million.... You know why, him know say na from your heart.

But the ingrateful girl knows/feels you wan off paent. Yo gast send #150k for dinner.

15k just like that for an ungrateful creature? I fit bet u, that thanks no come out from her heart.

Una done start again? Shebi na you wan impress her You want form big boy abi? Continue sending breakfast money, soon you guys will be sending waking up money or breathing money... raabbbishh

She only use the words (thanks) cos she know you can do better


People like you na him dey open does girls eyes. Now tell me what is the purpose of that money

Oya you fit send me anything for dinner too Bros

Sirhush:
She only use the words (thanks) cos she know you can do better


People like you na him dey open does girls eyes. Now tell me what is the purpose of that money

For content. To trigger you guys.

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She said thanks. What were you expecting her to roll on the floor?


When last did you gift your father money randomly for breakfast- without him asking?


Not that I'm asking her out as if it's not the same direction you are headed. Person follow highway another follow ikoro for bush path both arrive at final destination... same thing.




SMY (Shake my yansh)


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You sent her money just so she can validate you.

People like this disgusts me

brain54:
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She said thanks. What were you expecting her to roll on the floor?


When last did you gift your father money randomly for breakfast- without him asking?


Not that I'm asking her out as if it's not the same direction you are headed. Person follow highway another follow ikoro for bush path both arrive at final destination... same thing.




SMY (Shake my yansh)


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I placed my parents on a monthly salary,my guys whenever we need help we all assist ourselves,better shake that ass to Kirikiri

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.

Shey you yourself dey use 15k chop breakfast?U dey try form big boy by impressing babe with 15k tagging it breakfast to show that 15k means nothing to you..now u come dey vex say she not say thank you well..
. U nor know she seff go form big girl for you to make it look like the 15k na change, so next time u nor go drop the bar…
next time she tell you say she dey hungry… u must drop 50k because she go tell you say na she and her two friends wan chop

She said thank you, what else do you want? you want her to kneel and prostrate on text?

Plentydreams:
I placed my parents on a monthly salary,my guys whenever we need help we all assist ourselves,better shake that ass to Kirikiri

What wrong has she done? She said thank you. What else do you want?

duro4chang:
What wrong has she done? She said think you. What else do you want?

I am not saying it's wrong,but if you are a Yoruba you will understand that is not a true appreciation

Plentydreams:
I am not saying it's wrong,but if you are a Yoruba you will understand that is not a true appreciation

I am Yoruba but I don't know what else she should do. Even for Baba God an only thank you we say nau

duro4chang:
I am Yoruba but I don't know what else she should do. Even for Baba God an only thank you we say nau

Then it's ok

Plentydreams:
Then it's ok

No vex. E be like say you dey vex. Take am easy . No vex biko

Plentydreams:
I placed my parents on a monthly salary,my guys whenever we need help we all assist ourselves,better shake that ass to Kirikiri

Warri person talk say if say belle na show Glass ...


Hope your parents can back your claim.


Since you are putting everyone on monthly salary as big boy wey you be with nothing to do with money you can as well add me to the list o.


At least I will roll on the floor and dance awilo for you.

Oga sir.


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Aleem26:
Oya you fit send me anything for dinner too Bros

I dare him to do this. I want him to embarrass me, I'm willing to take the hit. You are of no benefit to him and charity but I really want to disturb him so he can put me to shame. I am happy for that kind of shame on your behalf this Friday

Plentydreams:
I placed my parents on a monthly salary,my guys whenever we need help we all assist ourselves,better shake that ass to Kirikiri

SixSeven:
I dare him to do this. I want him to embarrass me, I'm willing to take the hit.

you are using style to do Begy Begy . If he eventually sends you something, remember me .

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

She said “good morning thanks”
What if she said “morning thanks” Abeg make Una carry Una nonsense comot for here.

duro4chang:
you are using style to do Begy Begy . If he eventually sends you something, remember me .

If you say so but my dear friend, I am responsible for what I write, I'm not responsible for how you understand it.

If he mistakenly sends me something, even though I didn't request it, I'll gladly send it to you. I am happy not to need it but very happy to share for those who need it. 👌

SixSeven:
If you say so but my dear friend, I am responsible for what I write, I'm not responsible for how you understand it.

If he mistakenly sends me something, even though I didn't request it, I'll gladly send it to you. I am happy not to need it but very happy to share for those who need it. 👌

You don Minit? Enjoyment don begin be that. Let me go and wash my pot. Aswear I go spend the money to buy good food. I no go send it to my girlfriend

You're not the only one sending money to her. Know this and know peace.

jus tell her to send back the money

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

No. She should lie down in worship because you sent her 15k. You no go save that money wey you no get.

Plentydreams:
I am not saying it's wrong,but if you are a Yoruba you will understand that is not a true appreciation

thank you, ese
Is there any better word than thank you

adeoyekay:
thank you, ese
Is there any better word than thank you

Thank you sir. Thank you baba. Thank you darling. Thank you oga. Thank you kindly. Thank you very much.

It's that superlative that's missing, that's why e no complete

On a more serious note, this is language and culture or environment. When to use thanks, 10Q, thx or thank you. To be on the safe side, always use it in fool

Oh, so simple. A little boost for them, really?

Actually, "Good morning thanks" sounds too brief. That said, don't immediately conclude that she is ungrateful. Some people are naturally very brief over text, so her response alone doesn't necessarily tell you everything about how she felt.

Personally, I appreciate thoughtful gestures, whether they involve money or not. The last thing I am is an entitled person. If it were just a friend, I would genuinely appreciate the gesture, no matter how small the amount was.

But if it were my boyfriend, that would be a completely different situation. I'm an overthinker, so it would honestly be better for him not to send me money at all, or just send me airtime worth that amount, because a bf sending 15,000 naira directly into my account would have me wondering and overthinking everything. My expression of gratitude would probably just be mere formality because I would be too busy wondering what exactly prompted the transfer 😂. Unless he had a history of sending me meaningful amounts as gifts, I would definitely overthink it.

If I can remember correctly, I was still a minor when my first bank account was opened. From my first account to all the other accounts I have, I can't remember a time when a guy, whether a friend or a boyfriend, sent 15,000 naira into my account as a gift.

This is how women become delusional and ungrateful, what did she do that you are gifting her? No let woman remember you when they arrived in trouble , gifting is not a problem but when it is not attached to consistent behavior and responsibilities it usually turns the lady to a delusional ungrateful being, this is why you will hear ladies keep shouting MEN DEY

if you tell this guy say na mumu he be he go still argue with you