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She should have worshipped u Abi? Good morning, tanx is enough. Africans and praise singing are like 5 and 6

Okoko where your sense dey 😭😭😭😭

duro4chang:
What wrong has she done? She said thank you. What else do you want?

I bet u are not a proper yoruba. Even if the OP av another intention maybe to ask her out for proper dating, she just gave a bad impression about herself. In yoruba, there's a way u say "sorry" that would look insulting and There's a way u say it that brings touche' emotions that make it seems u said it straight from the heart. That girl's response shows she really doesn't appreciate that 15k, it meant absolutely nothing biggie to her. She really doesn't value that money,it's worthless to her..
Me as a proper Yoruba man, that lady would never match my #100, till she mold..even if i swim in millions.
I won't blame u if u feel im too extreme or brutal on this matter...yorubas are too cultured, we values our culture and dignity..
See that guy whom gave her 15k today, there's a way that girl would have shown appreciation just from that text, and the guy would willingly wish to gift her even more sooner

Oga you go fit send me that same figure in USD? Chai.....I go thaannnnnnk you fa

Buying love and attention is the new degenerate in our society today.

Tueh!

That 15k no reach her be that. Try press 500k next time

So we still get nairalander wey be babu fahimta a ciki

Dricker:
u dy advise simp...save your advise...people like this guy go lock up if I'm guy need funds..smh

Na true you talk

Just do something and remove mind. Atleast the happiness you got because you have it to send is enough. Let's assume say she asked and you no come get nko? Na shame go first kpai you

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

Nothing like proper gratitude

If your motive of giving is to be shown 'proper gratitude'..., don't give

If thanks isnt enough, stop giving

Ok .

She is a smart girl. She already knows your plans. She doesn't want to encourage you.

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

You sent a gurl 15k nd somehow you had to caption it For breakfast ...as pablo. escobar or odogwu that you are rite

she sees it nd proper read into the context ... humble you with thank you and not nude or cultural dance

You now come here they find solace ... wont she eat launch and dinner

Yoi nd my friends dont deserve Pity 😄 .. when show off no work una go kum dey shalaye ...

make i send give you folake4u .. send her 50k for recharge card she might fall in love

timilehin007:
I bet u are not a proper yoruba. Even if the OP av another intention maybe to ask her out for proper dating, she just gave a bad impression about herself. In yoruba, there's a way u say "sorry" that would look insulting and There's a way u say it that brings touche' emotions that make it seems u said it straight from the heart. That girl's response shows she really doesn't appreciate that 15k, it meant absolutely nothing biggie to her. She really doesn't value that money,it's worthless to her..
Me as a proper Yoruba man, that lady would never match my #100, till she mold..even if i swim in millions.
I won't blame u if u feel im too extreme or brutal on this matter...yorubas are too cultured, we values our culture and dignity..
See that guy whom gave her 15k today, there's a way that girl would have shown appreciation just from that text, and the guy would willingly wish to gift her even more sooner

why the your friend it necessary to caption 15k reciept just for breakfast .. explain the logic

You want her to do video call and prostrate to you like our Muslim brothers during prayers?

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

M u m u. That is the title of your name

henrybomb:
She said “good morning thanks”
What if she said “morning thanks” Abeg make Una carry Una nonsense comot for here.

She could have said Thank you so much
I am very greatful.God bless you richly and replenish your pocket

There is a way one is appreciated and you will feel to do more when there is another request

They appreciation is application for more

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

When you have little account balance but you don't know what to do with it. At least, you could have bought 25 of Dangote refinery shares with it

Pootle:
jus tell her to send back the money

Shikina

Merry100:
Actually, "Good morning thanks" sounds too brief. That said, don't immediately conclude that she is ungrateful. Some people are naturally very brief over text, so her response alone doesn't necessarily tell you everything about how she felt.

Personally, I appreciate thoughtful gestures, whether they involve money or not. The last thing I am is an entitled person. If it were just a friend, I would genuinely appreciate the gesture, no matter how small the amount was.

But if it were my boyfriend, that would be a completely different situation. I'm an overthinker, so it would honestly be better for him not to send me money at all, or just send me airtime worth that amount, because a bf sending 15,000 naira directly into my account would have me wondering and overthinking everything. My expression of gratitude would probably just be mere formality because I would be too busy wondering what exactly prompted the transfer 😂. Unless he had a history of sending me meaningful amounts as gifts, I would definitely overthink it.

If I can remember correctly, I was still a minor when my first bank account was opened. From my first account to all the other accounts I have, I can't remember a time when a guy, whether a friend or a boyfriend, sent 15,000 naira into my account as a gift.

iYou want to help send one nd you only give her money that covers breakfast ... expect her thank you to be as brief as Gud morning

cantyou just send someone 15k without sayin naa for groundnut or recharge card ... some gurlz don't appreciate Proudness or show off

who knows maybe the gurl did not even ask him fot money he just push for her account to impress her ... Gurl wey .no hungry no dey appreciate such gesture heartly she knows you are trying to impress or showoff

Emdi1914:
You want her to do video call and prostrate to you like our Muslim brothers during prayers?

Is that too much for his hard-earned money that he freely gave out to someone who neither needed it nor asked for it?

Watch how the same girl will contact OP if she needs urgent cash to guide. My gender will never stop embarrasing me. These ladies are being smashed for free by some random guys. Now u have unlock your mumu botton for here.

See bro (and op), in all honesty, I understand your point. But objectively, you can't go on around tryn to make people believe she didn't do enough to appreciate your gesture, not when she's already use the word "thanks". What you felt is best kept to your heart, and as a experience for future, else you'll be ridiculous.
It's natural for humans to show appreciation with little or no energy/enthusiasm when: 1. They don't really need what you offered, 2. They don't ask or even beg for it 3. They think it's of little or no value to them at that moment 4. They believe it is their right or due reward.
Next time be sure that whoever you are lending some kindness to will not take it for any of the four point highlighted here.

SmartyPants:
thanks is a low effort expression of gratitude and you know it. If I pay for something and you give me my change, I may say thanks or thank you even though it's my right. It's the barest minimum. The ingrate didn't even bother to punctuate her message.

marlow1962:
You sent her money just so she can validate you.

People like this disgusts me

LoL at people like you disgust me oooooo, you are right oooooo mucheche oooooo hahaha 😂

Goo0dHardDick:
Your simping is astonishing!

I double dare you to pick any guy here and send him 15k let's see! Ur time starts now!

My guy he wont send his fellow guy in need even 2k self . 15k is too far self. These kind of guys are so so stingy to their fellow guys.
I remember when i was a teenager, very young then, i asked this bros for money, he refused blatantly and on the same night i trekked home, i saw him dash a little girl he was woeing then 3k. At the end of the day, some random guy was smashing the same girl and we all know about it and mocked the bros as maga.

Aleem26:
Oya you fit send me anything for dinner too Bros

I support you.

SmartMaster001:
You're not the only one sending money to her. Know this and know peace.

It is always like that for most Nigeiran babes.

We know your plan, na pant you wan off.

Talk true, if no be say you wan off pant, will you send 15k breakfast?

Your reply make sense to me.
Mine replied with "ok" after I sent 20k her.

[quote author=WatchYourSix post=140676745]Shey you yourself dey use 15k chop breakfast?U dey try form big boy by impressing babe with 15k tagging it breakfast to show that 15k means nothing to you..now u come dey vex say she not say thank you well..
. U nor know she seff go form big girl for you to make it look like the 15k na change, so next time u nor go drop the bar…
next time she tell you say she dey hungry… u must drop 50k because she go tell you say na she and her two friends

YOU SEE GEN-ZEE SHARP-SHARP RESULT BA?


YOU FOR TRY #50K, #100K #150K, THEN #5K ETC BEFORE DRAWING YOUR CONCLUSION

JUST ONE TEST, YOU'VE FAILED.