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Hhh4444:
I tire for our Nigerian men...when I heard that some Nigerian men now pay gal friend allowance, I was shocked. Who swear for these men?

They are paying because they are using relationship to have sex .

If not, they won't fall for it.

BouquiLake:
You no see fellow man send 15k, na girl wey no send you.
Na man dey do man. Until we men realise that, there are so many financial pressure on men than women, thats when "Men will start supporting Men.

Now you don learn... one less girl to send money to be dat, abi you still send money to her?

You dare not... Nigba ti won ma a shey ẹ

The op intends to lure the girl to bed, that's why he is trying to impress her by sending her money even when she didn't ask.
I'm very sure he won't stop at this.
He will increase the money next time and keep trying.
If his fellow man, sister or even mother ask him for 5k, he will swear he doesn't have it because he cannot have sex with them.

A lot of men cannot control their lust, that's why they keep simping.

manuelkel:
Use 12k buy streamed sachet Canadian laud, use 3k eat chicken lap. Over.

Shikena! Enjoyment don begin. I can kill myself.

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

15k too small you for sent her 500k,big boy of the year.

timilehin007:
I bet u are not a proper yoruba. Even if the OP av another intention maybe to ask her out for proper dating, she just gave a bad impression about herself. In yoruba, there's a way u say "sorry" that would look insulting and There's a way u say it that brings touche' emotions that make it seems u said it straight from the heart. That girl's response shows she really doesn't appreciate that 15k, it meant absolutely nothing biggie to her. She really doesn't value that money,it's worthless to her..
Me as a proper Yoruba man, that lady would never match my #100, till she mold..even if i swim in millions.
I won't blame u if u feel im too extreme or brutal on this matter...yorubas are too cultured, we values our culture and dignity..
See that guy whom gave her 15k today, there's a way that girl would have shown appreciation just from that text, and the guy would willingly wish to gift her even more sooner

I swear I am a proper Yoruba tribal man. God is my witness. To me, the girl said thank you. What else do you want. Even our creator, the Almighty God doesn't take more than thank you from us.

SmartyPants:
Come in stop gaslighting this guy.

There are nuances around human communication. You can infer sincere gratitude from the ornamentation...for example,

Ah ah, thanks a lot o; Thank you, I appreciate this; thanks bros, you do well; all indicate effort has been put into the appreciation which, in human communication shows that the effort put into the gift is appreciated.

And don't for one second decieve yourself that it is every thanks offered to God that is received. Go and ask Cain.

Even my papa and mama wey trained me self ma only thank you I tell them.

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

:oThis for only breakfast ... She suppose bring all her elders and family to thank you

Ingrates of girls everywhere.

timilehin007:
It isn't necessary whatever caption he used. Obviously was just to give the money a title, knowing fully well that, she wouldn't or possibly used that 15k for breakfast Breakfast was what came his mind hence. The point is, it was a gift, not an oblige, she should have shown appreciation with clear intentions.

Allol ! i am a Man ! i know the game and i know when a Guy is trying to impress a babe as Odowgu

A. man can give a gurl money, any amount ... buh you ser the moment we say take dis #1m to enter uber

take dis 5m to buy recharge card .. na show off we dey do ..
the gurl ur friend sent 15k might not even ask or beghim for Money ... some guyz will pick a gurl nd to impress. her fast ..ask her for account number .. use dis 100k to buy soap 😄

the caption was unnecessary ! not every gurl want you to kum up to dem flaunting i get money ..

You are not asking her out ?
then what's the purpose of sending her the money in the first place
Are you a father's Xmas ?
Or don't you have family and friends who needs help respectly ?

NOTE: Is not healthy to entancy a lady with money to start with. ofcos I know you will like to justified your words when is obvious

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

Day169:
.. or a subtle indicator that he's not the highest bidder!

Abi oo

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The thing most Nigerian girls don't value any gift anymore. They see it as mandatory now. Infact, if you gift them that 15k,

i agree with you to a large extent but thats not entirely true, but you must understand some women dont appreciate gifts anyhow except is from someone they connect with

some of them would tell you how your mates are giving 100k to their gfs. This is how bad it has gotten. Honestly, I don't blame the ladies. It is the guys that have registered that entitlement mentality in their heads that I blame.

if you are with a woman that is tellin you, Ur mate are sending 1m for recharge card you are drop 5k ... ordinarily thats a flag you shouldnt be or settle for that kind of lady. Someone is always out there that will appreciate ur little but Men are funny

Several of our male musicians are guilty of this as well. Do you know there are guys who badmouth other guys behind and ask the girls if their boyfriends are giving them plenty cash then before you know it they'll start giving the girl heaven and earth just to take the guy's place.

like i was saying If you make the right choice of wonan, ones that appreciate your little ...Forget what one big boy tell her outside nd if she decides she wana follow big boy ....dear man cherish ur peace of mind

I personally know someone who did this and now the girl has even left him cos she had found a higher spender.

this life na circle your friend highjack thatbabe from soneone with his level, another man has come to do it to him ..you buy gurl camry to win her heart you should know a man that can buy her lexus is out there ..

The blame should go to guys who have created this whole thing. Funny enough, our Nigerian brothers have started carrying this same thing to other African countries and have started splashing cash on those women there

.

We can continue to blame every one Buh you can also use your energy to set what you attract

there is a lounge i normal visit, nd sum1 there just pushed a gurl to me .. i was gisting with the guy today he ask that gurl go fdon bill yu pa ! i said No for the times we have being she no dry ask me Money except we order food or na me give her say use dis enter transport

he was surprise, he said i am not the 1st person he carry that babe give ..say she dey bill n stubborn

I can tell you that women in other African countries have a different mindset from our girls here from my experience with them but trust our brothers as usual, they have gone there to turn things upside down.

Bro All gurl are not the same here as well, i have met gurlz that are independent nd dont want insult from man on top money

Bro were you expecting this kind of appreciation ? 😂😂


Its my sister BTW

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

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What did you want her to say ?

Tharmon:
Bro were you expecting this kind of appreciation ? 😂😂


Its my sister BTW

Family is always more appreciative

Hmmm. Why are you telling us her response after gifting her money she never worked for. Am sure you will never gift your fellow guy same 15k.

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

is it for Garri?

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

You cannot control the way another person responds to a "kind gesture". You can only respond in your own way.

duro4chang:
I am Yoruba but I don't know what else she should do. Even for Baba God an only thank you we say nau

Is that thank you? Or thanks?

They are two different things.

Thank you” more polite, formal, and sincere.
“Thanks” —more casual, relaxed,

alamoht:
Your reply make sense to me.
Mine replied with "ok" after I sent 20k her.

Lol. Nawa. Men dey see rubbish for this life.

Your head nor correct, why can't you send 5k to your best friend and. receive prayers.... 15k can't off ungrateful girl pants

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

So what do you expect? For her to worship you? Or what? She greeted you and thank you!. To me that's a enough except you have a motivate on her!

Okoko, will learn the hard way.

Maybe, you still dey view girls from certain tribes in those days same as today. The reality is that social media don open the eyes of girls from every corner even from the most remote parts. Cultures are being eroded...... You gift a girl 15k and expect her to start jumping when same girl is watching and reading from social media how men like you gift girls 500k just for breakfast. The world has changed, man. If you are looking for a naive girl, be it from any tribe or location you can impress with money, you are in for long thing. Them go run you street and leave you hanging on the roof top.

Plentydreams:
I am not saying it's wrong,but if you are a Yoruba you will understand that is not a true appreciation

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.


PS; this is only for the Yoruba's culture

Can you send me 5k for my own breakfast?

donself9:
Allol ! i am a Man ! i know the game and i know when a Guy is trying to impress a babe as Odowgu

A. man can give a gurl money, any amount ... buh you ser the moment we say take dis #1m to enter uber

take dis 5m to buy recharge card .. na show off we dey do ..
the gurl ur friend sent 15k might not even ask or beghim for Money ... some guyz will pick a gurl nd to impress. her fast ..ask her for account number .. use dis 100k to buy soap 😄

the caption was unnecessary ! not every gurl want you to kum up to dem flaunting i get money ..

Bro, u not getting it still.
This particular girl isn't just a random girl, she is a girl she's acquitted to oo...even if it's showing off, the girl too should have pretended like the 15k is cherished considering the fact that she wasn't expecting it. Just simple reply like..
Oh, you did me 15k, for breakfast, thanks a lot, I appreciate it. More blessing.
Or just simply say.
Thanks so much for the money, I appreciate.
This guy would nit mind doing more for her later..

If the guy have the mindset to ask her out bro, that her response is a red flag. You will have to do more to impress her. Let me ask u a question, do you think she'd have simply reply like that, had the guy sent her 2 million? No way. She clearly doesn't appreciate the 15k
.

duro4chang:
I swear I am a proper Yoruba tribal man. God is my witness. To me, the girl said thank you. What else do you want. Even our creator, the Almighty God doesn't take more than thank you from us.

Bro, why would u compare God to mere mortal,that's too much.
If u are proper yoruba, you should understand the meaning when our parents says, " pêlé 'lako o 'labo '..
If you do as a yoruba person, you'd understand that lady's reply was downgrading and she wasn't really being thankful. She clearly didn't appreciate it. Something was definitely wrong with that lady's reply, if not we wouldn't be here talking about it.


If the guy have the mindset to ask her out bro, that her response is a red flag. You will have to do more to impress her. Let me ask u a question, do you think she'd have simply reply like that, had the guy sent her 2 million? No way. She clearly doesn't appreciate the 15k
.

marlow1962:
You sent her money just so she can validate you.

People like this disgusts me

They can't rizz a woman. They can give their entire salary to get validation.
Last last na them women they cheat on pass, and get less regard for.

timilehin007:
Bro, u not getting it still.
This particular girl isn't just a random girl, she is a girl she's acquitted to oo...even if it's showing off, the girl too should have pretended the 15k is cherished considering the fact that she wasn't expecting it. Just simple reply like..
Oh, you did me 15k, for breakfast, thanks a lot, I appreciate it. More blessing.
Or just simply say.
Thank so much for the money, I appreciate.
This guy would nit mind doing more for her later

acquitted i can relate, however she said
Good morining thats 1st show of respect

2nd .. Thank you thats gratitude

Hoe she said, tone, mood or whatever anyonr is Judhing doesnt addup

Na man & woman matter, you dont know weytin dey on ground between dem. that caption 15k for breakfast signals the guy is shooting for sumtin

i give random people money .. i dont even pay attention to whether the Thank you is brief or well garnish, my grandma i run away from over gratitude n prayer

if you getclean mind, thank you wont be a huge fuss. whatever ! you are welcome

timilehin007:
Bro, why would u compare God to mere mortal,that's too much.
If u are proper yoruba, you should understand the meaning when our parents says, " pêlé 'lako o 'labo '..
If you do as a yoruba person, you'd understand that lady's reply was downgrading and she wasn't really being thankful. She clearly didn't appreciate it. Something was definitely wrong with that lady's reply, if not we wouldn't be here talking about it.


If the guy have the mindset to ask her out bro, that her response is a red flag. You will have to do more to impress her. Let me ask u a question, do you think she'd have simply reply like that, had the guy sent her 2 million? No way. She clearly doesn't appreciate the 15k
.

You this people your wahala is too much. If she has said thank you, you will say she is rude because she doesn't put thank you sir.
If she put sir, you will say she doesn't say may God bless you. If she says may God bless you, You will say she doesn't say your purse will not win dry, you will not die, you will live long etc. You will say she doesn't say thank you for yesterday, thank you for last week, thank you for last month, thank you for the other day.
Even our creator doesn't take more than thank you from us.

The more bills you pay, the less attractive you become.

To gift man na problem o