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Man raises alarm over influential Abuja men allegedly approaching men for romantic relationships

A Nigerian man has raised alarm over influential men who, according to him, approach other men in Abuja for romantic relationships.

In a video shared on X (formerly Twitter), he warned men against dismissing such approaches, claiming that some of these individuals may use different tactics to manipulate those who reject them.

In his words, he said:

“As a man in Abuja, if a man has never asked you, ‘Bro,’ you’ve not hustle. Don’t ever make mouth like, ‘God forbid, Tufiakwa, never me.’ Pray.

Those people are not ordinary. Sometimes they might be tempting. One way or the other, they will manipulate you, or if that doesn’t work, once you eat or collect something from them, they’ve already brainwashed you.”

Identifying himself as a Fulani/Hausa man, he insisted that such encounters are real and urged men to be cautious when dealing with influential individuals.

He also warned against confronting or fighting such people, stressing the importance of keeping evidence of any interaction.

“If you’ve heard something like this, me as a Fulani/Hausa man will tell you it is real. And to those of you that will say, ‘Them never touch person father?’ Person wey you go beat, the truth is there are some people you can’t touch.

Whatever you do, let there be evidence, because they don’t leave single trace. But if not, they will make sure you land in Kuje Prison.”

His remarks have generated reactions online, with some viewers questioning the claims while others discussed the risks of rejecting advances from powerful individuals.

The man’s warning has drawn attention to his claims about influential men allegedly approaching other men in Abuja.

Watch the video below…

This Is Happening In Abuja…👀 pic.twitter.com/OHzheP7f4q

— Somto Okonkwo (@General_Somto) September 22, 2026

bigdammyj:
Noted.


It's not a must to keep beards.

TheChameleon:
Many politicians up North are into this stuff.

The younger guys are abused by the older Agbayas. They grow up to perpetuate the same vicious cycle.

Horrible.

A pretty woman without clothes na the sweetest thing after sugar.