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ymdo:
Marriage is where you will see a woman walking around naked in the house and your dick won't rise

Hahahaha, no truer words have been said

I will try to be brief, when you are not staying with ur partner the absence makes you to want them more, this also happen when u start living with ur babe or ur guy, u can hardly do once a week (not only marriage)


But marriage is more worse, especially when you start bearing children, from stress of shouldering responsibilities to making sure ur children didn't caught you in the act etc


I have many reasons I can't be able to exhaust here, but try d Change environment, go on dates, lodge in a, good hotel with ur partner, go on vacation, not necessarily mean out of country, but change state. Etc

spiSeyi:
When there's no creativity and bonding in relationship s*x life becomes boring. Imagine lying on top of log while you jump like a frog every night compared to when you carry your babe to a bikini beach resort, swim together, wine down and end it with knacking in the bathtub. Life nor hard most ppl they make am hard. I dey enjoy my Uyo babe and she's like a new virgin everyday . As a Yoruba ma I intentionally rejected Yoruba babe who mostly lie down there like a log and even feel entitled on top say she give you toto as if you nor give am your kondo too

can I advise your babe? Just link am to me e get wetin I for advise about

Eba50:
can I advise your babe? Just link am to me e get wetin I for advise about

No need egbon I dey advise her steadily

Too much familiarity is the 50/100% cause first. Others follows.
You and your wife may be in the bedroom now naked and your d*ck will be flat like a punctured tyre.
But just at that moment take your mind away and imagine seeing the unclothedness of Rihanna or one street or work babe you have been fantasizing about, and the dick comes to life.
And you will be wondering if it's not same woman with bwest and p**sy that's with you.

chinavs9ja:
That's very serious and is this really possible

It's true,
When u are single u will want to nack any thing u see, but as soon as u get married, with or without money, it changes especially to the poor struggling ones,
I wake up by 3:30am Monday Wednesday and Friday for work, I leave by 4am long journey,
So u think if I come back late na to nack woman go be my problem, when school fee, rent, feeding, transportation and office frustration and wife nagging go dey my head

LordLicifer:
Because dem don see each other finish, some kpekus go dey smell also, some nigerian women seem to let themselves go also, they would stop bathing, start eating, and eating and eating till they become obese.

Hmmmm

uche87:
https://www.facebook.com/thevillagetowncrier/posts/pfbid035QJjYkQniVKKfV4wFzG5m9mWgB2MNjY1YXCdkptFeBwZ2fJi8BZNeCNuRZvepmR7l

i started losing interest when my wife weaponize sex and because i am often the one asking for it, before you know what's happening i dont see her attractive again.. she's the one complaining now.

Berankis:
It is just life and nothing serious. Just like when you buy a new car, even without having any reason to go out, you will grab your keys and drive the car out but with time, it's become normal and less exciting and later, you just don't feel like going out much with the same car.

I concur,

Sometimes you want to travel by night, you’ll board a luxurious bus (coach) and land at your destination in the early morning and be on your way…

Sometimes, you want to make a short trip, you’ll sneak out and flag down a keke or okada…you’ll arrive at your destination, make your way back home, admire your car packed conveniently at the garage while this same car would be wishing you’ll turn it on, warm its it’s engine and let it enjoy the pleasure of the tarmac or the rough roads.

vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv

Hmm. Interesting. I'll like to hear more from married couples.

It's called Desensitization in Medicine.
Same way allergies are managed in humans until they become Desensitized

Lorechino:
I will try to be brief, when you are not staying with ur partner the absence makes you to want them more, this also happen when u start living with ur babe or ur guy, u can hardly do once a week (not only marriage)


But marriage is more worse, especially when you start bearing children, from stress of shouldering responsibilities to making sure ur children didn't caught you in the act etc


I have many reasons I can't be able to exhaust here, but try d Change environment, go on dates, lodge in a, good hotel with ur partner, go on vacation, not necessarily mean out of country, but change state. Etc

But our forefathers didn't lodge in hotels na.

its not true.some women are seeing something inside marriage.the man even after 20years is still active like a horse

if the responsibilies is too much for the man pinpin no go stand

Na couples sex be your problem.

buygala:
Sex with the same person gets tiring, even in relationships


Preek wey go immediately rise for new catch go dey in coma for girlfriend of 3 years... meanwhile another man preek dey rise because that your girlfriend smiled at him


Na so life be

.
Baba, na LEGEND you be ooo!!

Most average men marry ugly women they ain't attracted to in the first place, due to lack of finance.

Am sure the writers have not married and without responsibility.

Akpaamunsi:
My prick never rise for d past 1year. Too many bills left right and centre.

Honestly, I don't know what you guys are talking about.

I had many sexual partners before I finally decided to settle down with the woman I'm most sexually attracted to. And honestly, every time we do it, it still feels
like the first time.

Sometimes when she puts on certain sultry outfits around the house, I give her a particular look, and she just laughs because she already knows what that look means and what is likely to happen next. I sometimes suspect she deliberately wears those outfits to seduce me because she knows very well that I can't resist her.

So if there's one piece of advice I have to give it's this: marry your best friend --and make sure you're cræzy about them too.

Justdare:
Mounting responsibilities have a way of killing libido.
You go look your wife, na unpaid school fees, and upkeep you go dey see.

Much ado about nothing. A healthy companionship trumps constant sex anytime

Not In All But In Most Cases, Marriage In This Part Of The World Equals To Self-Inflicted Slavery Where The Men Get Sex Only When They Provide The Money Needed For Her Bills. Sex to many ladies in and outside Matrimony is BUSINESS still not LOVE yielding.

uche87:
https://www.facebook.com/thevillagetowncrier/posts/pfbid035QJjYkQniVKKfV4wFzG5m9mWgB2MNjY1YXCdkptFeBwZ2fJi8BZNeCNuRZvepmR7l

Simplify your life.

Life is already too stressful in 2026.

Run from that thing called marriage

Hmm!!
Odobs Baba!!!
Tuaile!!!

KosiGee:
I concur,

Sometimes you want to travel by night, you’ll board a luxurious bus (coach) and land at your destination in the early morning and be on your way…

Sometimes, you want to make a short trip, you’ll sneak out and flag down a keke or okada…you’ll arrive at your destination, make your way back home, admire your car packed conveniently at the garage while this same car would be wishing you’ll turn it on, warm its it’s engine and let it enjoy the pleasure of the tarmac or the rough roads.

Op forget those your points, most of the time, it is because the woman stopped being attractive and seductive.
Going from slim, plumpy and explosively fat, gbazaaaa!!

Una still dey talk about sex for this great tinubulation? As for me, I no know where I dey keep my penis when night come. 🥱🥱

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Una still dey talk about sex for this great tinubulation? As for me, I no know where I dey keep my penis when night come. 🥱🥱

please tell a girl, where you dey keep am ?

maasoap:
Most common among the whites, they could go 5 to 10 years living together without sex, most especially when it the wife who is no longer interested in the man, marriage or even sex itself

Most common among white keh? It's not a race thing bro. Whitee sef Fvck pass us regardless of the age or marital status.

First, it was Pastor Iren. Now, it's Pastor Bolaji. Thank you Jesus that male pastors, and even a female pastor, are discussing this issue. Before, na "Is sex food?" we dey hear/read.

Mind you, these are your favourite young and modern pastors, not dem Pa Adeboye and Kumuyi.

Thank you Jesus!

Zaphnath1:
Are you meant to be having sex before marriage
If I may ask

Yes.