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Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? - Family (4) - Nairaland

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Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by dbanjj1629(m): 4:23pm On Oct 06
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Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Hellisreal70: 4:30pm On Oct 06
uche87:
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Simple answer

Because they started having sex before they got married!

Say no to fornication
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by yarimo(m): 5:06pm On Oct 06
Gotocourt:
E don slack undecided, no grip again cry
ah ah since it was about sex I know you MUST be here undecided
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Gotocourt: 5:07pm On Oct 06
yarimo:
ah ah since it was about sex I know you MUST be here undecided
Na viagra go kpai you.
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by LIVINGICONREBOR: 5:08pm On Oct 06
byinks:
please tell a girl, where you dey keep am ?
Delilahmakinde, so u wan see the anaconda abi?
It's alright.
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by issyeddy12345: 5:20pm On Oct 06
Very possible
chinavs9ja:
That's very serious and is this really possible
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by tragergeorge(m): 5:28pm On Oct 06
Benrosaria:
Because they were not friends before they got married
if you like marry your brother or sister or you landlord pikin or neighbour pikin, or Ur class mate...
wen reality sets in,, you'll realise that NOR B EYE WEN THEM TAKE DO RELATIONSHIP NA THEM TAKE DE ENTER MARRIAGE....
especially for Women wen Thier man get funds or Man wen things rough for
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Sunkab: 5:30pm On Oct 06
ymdo:
Marriage is where you will see a woman walking around naked in the house and your dick won't rise
Don't generalize this, why would my wife walk around the house and I won't get moved? Ko possible, when am not a living dead man. If my wife unclothedness won't move my body then who? This is our 7years in marriage with 3kids. My wife's body still move me till today, for a married man's body not being moved by his wife unclothedness shows something is wrong. The moment a man start having girlfriend, side chic then the wife's body won't be anythy to him.
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by oluegboigiherbs(m): 5:45pm On Oct 06
If you have a drop in your libido as a man of r woman or don't feel any excitement anymore and you need to spice up your marriage or relationship...there's herbs for that
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by seyigiggle: 5:46pm On Oct 06
most of the events in marriage requires deliberate intentions.
a marriage built on deliberate intentions over the years; sex is still a priority!
it's almost impossible to have routine sex schedule for a period of time without it becoming part of the marriage.
if possible, have a timetable!!!
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by newoffer: 5:51pm On Oct 06
It's true....reason why use sex enhancing drugs because of this s
mightyhaze:
Stop having sex?

I'm hearing this for the very first time
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by byinks(f): 5:52pm On Oct 06
LIVINGICONREBOR:
Delilahmakinde, so u wan see the anaconda abi?
It's alright.
What nonsense anaconda ??

Which Delilah are you dreaming of ?? undecided
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by newoffer: 5:53pm On Oct 06
Person is financially broke na herbss u dey bring. U dey vex o. Herbs won't correct the bills . U just be having careless erections.
oluegboigiherbs:
If you have a drop in your libido as a man of r woman or don't feel any excitement anymore and you need to spice up your marriage or relationship...there's herbs for that
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by LIVINGICONREBOR: 6:02pm On Oct 06
byinks:
What nonsense anaconda ??

Which Delilah are you dreaming of ?? undecided
Delilahmakinde, you are still a learner.🥱🥱
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Pootle: 7:53pm On Oct 06
omo me and my woman cant still get enough of each other o
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by femi4: 8:22pm On Oct 06
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Lorechino(m): 8:53pm On Oct 06
sylve11:
But our forefathers didn't lodge in hotels na. undecided cool
So are you doing the same work and business ur forefathers did?

Many of them married more than 1 wife, some are unknown, some have concubines, some have children with their uncle wife etc.
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by sexylogan(m): 9:29pm On Oct 06
from my experience No 4 is the biggest cause
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by streetsoldier1(m): 10:02pm On Oct 06
why is my case different, 14 years i still dey fire everyday
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Wiseman2y(m): 11:24pm On Oct 06
Law of diminishing return is the cause.
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Love800(m): 7:22am On Oct 07
If i can get u correct, you talking about "see finish!"
AntiWailer:
familiarity is the major cause
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Ex0rrcist: 8:54am On Oct 07
DrAda:
Much ado about nothing. A healthy companionship trumps constant sex anytime
You just have low sex drive that's it.
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by DrAda(f): 9:41am On Oct 07
Ex0rrcist:
You just have low sex drive that's it.
Lol. Yes, that must be it
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by sweetkev(m): 11:28am On Oct 07
grin
Patented:
You did not add "see finish"
Best comment so far
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Benrosaria(m): 11:28am On Oct 07
tragergeorge:
if you like marry your brother or sister or you landlord pikin or neighbour pikin, or Ur class mate...
wen reality sets in,, you'll realise that NOR B EYE WEN THEM TAKE DO RELATIONSHIP NA THEM TAKE DE ENTER MARRIAGE....
especially for Women wen Thier man get funds or Man wen things rough for
Manny if you Sabi woman you go marry the whole women in the world and yet the world would be at peace. But as man as failed to know woman, na why marriage no dey work again. If I can keep a life time friend I can keep a lifetime thing. Marriage small pass lifetime sef
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Benrosaria(m): 11:31am On Oct 07
maasoap:
Laughing cheesy. We hope it is as simple as you stated. Factors responsible for declining in sex in marriages are more than simple reason you gave. Life is dynamic, so is everything in it
Man has not yet fully known who he is as a man. So what do you expect.

Roles were switched. Men become women who got tired easily and women become men who stayed strong regardless.

Which isn't suppose to be
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Benrosaria(m): 11:33am On Oct 07
Nwaikpe:
You know very little about life.
Stop listening to all those your motivational speakers.

The day you marry that your "friend," the next day, you will start seeing them as your sister.

grin grin grin

She feels like the best thing to you now simply because THERE IS STILL A DISTANCE.
Once that distance closes up by reason of marriage, intimacy, etc., you won't be calling her "my best friend" again.
You will soon understand. No worry.
Brotherman I don't know life at all

But I know who I am

You know everything about life but you don't even know who you are!

If you say man is not a perfect being then you are of the category of those who dont know who they are but knows life to it's fullest.

I am a total conscious being; a perfect soul of strong evil and strong good
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by VanuatuWycombe:
It’s psychological than physical.

For example:

- your brain feels she’s always there, when you need her. — the more elaborate our communication system is, the less we use it. When GSM first came, people stayed overnight to make free calls.

- wives deliberately lower their bars of hygiene, dress sense, their ‘dignity’, after marriage, which make husbands to loose steam of interest in them.

- too much things on husband’s mind which make seks least of priority on men’s mind.

- sleeping on the same bed and the same room everyday make it monotonous. There’s nothing like matrimonial bed or matrimonial room. Wives should have their own rooms and sleep there most days. They may sleep in their husbands’ room, once in a while, and vice versa. This will help seks more sought after. This is a best-kept secret, by our fore parents.

- women should always cover their sexy parts of body when home, unless it’s time for romance and lashing. Walking unclad in the house makes mens’ eyes and brains to feel they have seen enough of such and it becomes boring for men. Women should make men crave for it.

- men like to taste varieties because the wife you marry is not the best in life. You will always come across ‘better’ woman, after your marriage.

- men are like lions. They like to achieve what they want and dominate their empire. They like to tick ✅ boxes and keep records of many women they like and want to lash. After lashing, they se themselves as achievers and want to go on again to explore another women.

-men are polygamous, naturally. Lashing one wife for life makes their appetite in lashing drop quickly.

What could force men from not interested in seks with many women may include:

- Religious reasons
- Poor finance
- Guilt
- Ill-health (sickness)
- Billing
- Fear of what the society will say (social validation)
- Past experience from such activities.
- Fear of diseases.
- Freedom restriction (e.g. in jail or in confinement)
- Incapacitation
- big problem or challenge at a certain time.

The list is endless.
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Nwaikpe: 11:54am On Oct 07
Benrosaria:
Brotherman I don't know life at all

But I know who I am

You know everything about life but you don't even know who you are!

If you say man is not a perfect being then you are of the category of those who dont know who they are but knows life to it's fullest.

I am a total conscious being; a perfect soul of strong evil and strong good
Go and rest.
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by tragergeorge(m): 12:53pm On Oct 07
no
Benrosaria:
Manny if you Sabi woman you go marry the whole women in the world and yet the world would be at peace. But as man as failed to know woman, na why marriage no dey work again. If I can keep a life time friend I can keep a lifetime thing. Marriage small pass lifetime sef
sha make you stay on a steady income..
don't go broke...
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Benrosaria(m): 3:31pm On Oct 07
tragergeorge:
nosha make you stay on a steady income..
don't go broke...
Since I know say my country na failed system I no go stupid marry, born pikin. Not until there is hope to living then I would say I want to settle down.

For now as Nigeria is moving I won't be normal as it isn't wanting to be normal
Re: Why Do People Stop Having Sex When They Get Married? by Benrosaria(m): 3:32pm On Oct 07
Nwaikpe:
Go and rest.
I have always been resting with my own life and how best I know it.

I meant no insult
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