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What are some of the Surprising ways to Attract a Lady?

Woman no dey Nairaland.

meobizy:
Woman no dey Nairaland.

I agree. Because even most of the female monikers, na guys get am too.

As a guy,which is better? To collect her number and call her, or to give her your number to call you?

If you want Sex, call her.
If you want Love, wait for her to all you first.

Don't collect her number, give yours to her.

Giving her your phone number puts you in a good position.

You immediately frame her as the chaser, because she has to call you first if she's interested.

If she doesn't call, either way you won. At least you didn't waste your time pursuing a woman who doesn't like you.

Never pay attention to her beauty.

Women salute men who are unfazed by their beauty.

She knows she's already beautiful because that's why you approached her in the first place.

Giving her excessive compliments about it will cost you respect. It proves you are a thirsty loser.

Don't ask her out

Thing is, when you make it clear to her, you transfer the frame or leverage. She has the power to either agree or reject you.

Starve them of that power.

Women will accept you before you even say a single word, this has happened multiple times. Watch their actions.

Set clear intentions.

When you approach a woman, tell her you like her and that you imagine doing things together. Let her fantasies run wild.

Don't swap phone numbers without making it clear that you want a sexual relationship. Otherwise you will end up being placed in the brother-zone.

Program her

If you don’t manipulate your woman's mind, another man will.

She wants to be programmed by you.

You are the leader and she wants to be part of your principles.

Don't overshare

During your first contact, don't over-explain yourself. Let her do much of the talking.

Women love explaining themselves. Ask open ended questions and reflect questions back to her.

Your mystery will keep her fantasies awake about you.

Never over-compliment

Complimenting her excessively inflates her ego, putting you in a very bad situation. She will start thinking she's better than you. That she can do better.

That's a position you don't want to be.

Don't be a romantic fool

She wants you to be romantic but not too much and at will.

For example, buy her flowers. You treat her sweet. But remember, in anything you do, make sure she's worked for it.

If you are being romantic without her reciprocating your efforts, that's what we call simping.

Be stingy to women . Invest in yourself.

Exceed15:
Be stingy to women . Invest in yourself.

Smiles. If not for the high libido of men, hunger and poverty will kill most women.

essentialone1:
Giving her your phone number puts you in a good position.

You immediately frame her as the chaser, because she has to call you first if she's interested.

If she doesn't call, either way you won. At least you didn't waste your time pursuing a woman who doesn't like you.

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Giving a woman and expecting her to call you?

You go wait tire. You will probably die without a partner.


99% of women would never call you.


Most Men are chasers just as women expect to be chased.


Give her number and expect her to call you... baba you go old o.

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brain54:
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Giving a woman and expecting her to call you?

You go wait tire. You will probably die without a partner.


99% of women would never call you.


Most Men are chasers just as women expect to be chased.


Give her number and expect her to call you... baba you go old o.

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Not true. Na wetyn we know practically we dey tell you.

essentialone1:
Not true. Na wetyn we know practically we dey tell you.

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Okay o. Mr practicality.


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Maintain an element of mystery or weirdness. Be deliberately unpredictable. And increase your value through calculated absences. Above all, have the ability to delay satisfaction, which in this case is "sex." Ie, don't beg for it. Always act like you're not sex starved. Infact, act like a lot of other girls are even begging you for it sef. Just follow these basic guidelines and you will become a demon where girls dey. "The Art of Seduction" by my ldol and namesake, Robert Greene will teach you better.

essentialone1:
Smiles. If not for the high libido of men, hunger and poverty will kill most women.

Maybe the women in your family, some of us can feed ourselves comfortably

ChisomLexus:
Maybe the women in your family, some of us can feed ourselves comfortably

Do not unnecessarily argue against Fact.

ChisomLexus:
Maybe the women in your family, some of us can feed ourselves comfortably

Most of your read to argue instead of reading to comprehend, it's a fact that majority of ladies in relationship leech on their boyfriends or partners. Even you that you think yiu arr ok still expect to leech on someone who is financially better than you.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Most of your read to argue instead of reading to comprehend, it's a fact that majority of ladies in relationship leech on their boyfriends or partners. Even you that you think yiu arr ok still expect to leech on someone who is financially better than you.

You see her name? ChisomLexus.


Now you understand.

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brain54:
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‎Giving a woman and expecting her to call you?
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‎You go wait tire. You will probably die without a partner.
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‎99% of women would never call you
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‎Most Men are chasers just as women expect to be chased.
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‎Give her number and expect her to call you... baba you go old o.
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‎At the first bolded, I have given a lady my number and she called me twice before I even picked up the call. What happened was, normally I don't respond to calls that are not saved on my mobile phone, so the first time I ignored it, then, some days later the call came through and I picked.
‎So bro, yes, if a lady rate you well enough she will call you.
‎Note that this thing I am saying first happened to me April this year and I even wrote about this realization here >
‎https://www.nairaland.com/7665086/guys-what-biggest-red-pill#139767706
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‎At second bolded, I guess we can all agree that not all women are for you, you need to find that 1% lady(ies) that are attracted to you.
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‎There is a level you will relate with women that will forever change how you see them, may I just say that Esther Vilar opened my eyes late 2024.
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‎Bro, in every thing you do, ensure that a woman fears and respect you, all other will follow.
‎And there are some things you will consistently do to get that fear and respect.

Most people listen to reply. If you remember something small that she mentioned some days ago, and bring it up later, it stands out. It shows her that you actually pay attention.

When there is pressure, traffic, a bad day, or a plan fails — staying calm and solution-focused, instead of complaining, makes you feel safe to be around. That is very attractive to most ladies.

Being deeply focused on your own goals, work, or something that you are building, is magnetic, to most ladies. It shows direction and discipline, not just chasing her attention.

You don't have to be famous. But being competent, and being able to explain something you love, with passion, and clarity, is very attractive to most ladies.

Not trying too hard to impress her. But being able to make her laugh, when she is stressed, and being able to laugh, at yourself, creates a real connection, with most ladies.

A small, thoughtful gesture, that shows her, that you really listened to her, will beat an expensive generic gift, every time.

Don't drag on a good online or offline conversation with her, until it becomes boring. Leaving when the vibe is still high, leaves her thinking about you.

Remember that she "Chats" with several other people. If you "Chat" with her, she will group you among "one of them". But when she finds you attractive, it will no longer be a "Chat", but rather a "Conversation".