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gerizzim:
wat gives most of them the assurance is the nos of guys flocking around Dem before they got stuck wit a child or children out of wedlock.

such memories is the propeller and they refresh ,refresh again such faded memory in their mind of the past. Esp wen they get flattered by dos street urchins within the neborhood.

You and I kno say street urchin no get taste , Dem go say hole na hole. As diff street guys drill their hole indiscriminately,they assume any oda responsible marriage suitor too wud love their cookie. Bt a responsible man looking for a wife go wan do a thorough checklist before him enter.

And maybe it's been long they look at the mirror. because if they did recently, they will observe dt their miss world beautiful appearance and glowing skin don dey enter bush.

skin don dey wrinkle. skin don dey get tan. eyes wen white don dey red. white killer set of teeth wen dey make guys get attracted to her don dey turn brown. breast no stand firm again. her gait don change. her poise don drop.

Once an individual start giving birth to children, your anatomy and physiological features go begin drop.

I don't know if they understand this or they are just floating in false hope.

Solofresh2:
Men are the cause of these

kiddaz:
One would have thought you would be wiser by now but alas, wisdom is a million miles away

Solofresh2:
Coming from someone I will feed his generations 🤣

kiddaz:
Stale.. always the same lame line from the usual poverty background. Who grow up inside real money no dey talk like that. I don't even have a generation. NL audio billionaire 🤣🤣🤣

socoharley:
Whenever you come across a single mother of one child,after a divorce or separation, then it may be permissible to say she or the husband or baby daddy took a drastic decision on noticing unpalatable traits that escaped their grasp during courting.

*So here, we can safely justify an accurate use of early discretion on her part to prevent further entanglement by way of more responsibilities(kids) together.

But when you come across a single mother of two or more kids,not widowed but divorced or separated,then we may be forced to juxtapose the fact that she stayed long enough to have all those kids.
Ask yourself the www question......What went wrong?

*Why was she able to stay and get pregnant multiple times but didn't stay to train the kids together? This reveals her lack of commitment to values.


* Why the sudden distraught after several kids? This reveals her short term inability to be loyal.

In my humble submission, single mothers with multiple kids are usually unreasonable with their expectations and that is why they break up marriages in search of the mystery "men wey dey"
Only again,most single mothers realize often too late such men exists only in their fantasy imaginations, but never in their social realm...
Men dey!! yet you no meet am when body sharp,na after you born Five children finish for another man he go show?
Dey play...