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Leemzyy:
I swear to God I'm tired of men and their problem, must you guys make a big deal out of everything?

Yes! Men respect their territory so much. And every man has a picture of how his territory should be. As a lady, you are coming in to that territory to fit in not to destroy or change it to your own taste.

Jaylite10:
Yes! Men respect their territory so much. And every man has a picture of how his territory should be. As a lady, you are coming in to that territory to fit in not to destroy or change it to your own taste.

Territory this... territory that, yen yen yen yen yen
Tchewwwwwww 😒

3kay945:
Why has my neighbor that always include adage like this in his speech anytime we have meeting not said this particular one?

Let me memorise it so i can teach him on our next meeting.

Correct correct

Reminds me of when Kanye said "Instagram got ur bih" cos it's 99% the reason for her motivation for life, even dealing with you is cos of social media.

Guy already had an alternative.

Just waiting for kpim.

From my observations, I can tell you that, that guy took a decision that will better his life off.

If you look at these ladies that are addicted to social media life, they are on every platform.

They are there for one thing: the make attention that they get. The many guys sliding into their DM toasting them.

As a man, how can you compete with that hundreds of male attention she is farming? How will she not relegate you to the background while she enjoys the benefit of being married and at the same time, enjoying male attention.

Bro took a perfect decision! Never have anything to do with any woman that lives off male attention.

JuanDeDios:
Again, where did he try to change her in marriage? She rejected his condition and he moved on because he's not a "controlling" man. What did he do wrong?

After he FAFO

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lookinggood:
I thought things of this nature use to be family matter. Why the crocrodie tears on social media without shame, or is it now a pride to hear her cry on social media?

The man is saying he does not want social media thing, yet somebody still brought their discussion here, who did it?

It seems someone was not ready to consider the man's directive.

An addage says, it's at the bottom of a palm tree you decide if you can climb to the top or not, because if you decide to stop climbing from middle it becomes dangerous as you may not have the energy to either continue or jump down

I love this your proverb

You get sense

SmartMaster001:
Dis one wey be like person wey no fit live without social media. She go dey active on all platforms chatting with random guys. Let her go and meet her perfect match!

Gbam.... The brotherhood is proud of the groom. If she cannot respect your wishes now, is it when she comes into your home she will. Such girls are arrogant and disrespectful and unfit for marriage because they belong to the street.

Solofresh2:
Asking who is wrong here is a foolish question because,if she had complied to what her husband to be wants, the wedding won't be called off

How would you feel if your sister or daughter is asked by the husband to be not to use social media even Whatsapp....

That man is insecured. Make he go sleep

Lovelink1991:
You must be a heartless human being, social media that everybody is doing made a man to cancel wedding. The guy is a red flag to the girl

The guy is a very honest man and would be a trustworthy husband

Let her go and marry who can take that. Life is a choice

At least, not a divorce but a choice made

Patnome:
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I love this your proverb

You get sense

Correct

No one likes a partner who's addicted to social media, even I find it disturbing.

franchasng:
most men prefer marrying a woman that is not a social media freak. Except she is using the platform to make money and promote her business which helps the family's finances.


If you interview 10 men privately, 7 will tell you they prefer ladies that are not too frequent or addicted to social media

Don't underestimate those tiny hands,they will humble you...😒😒😒

kiddaz:
With those small hands of yours abi? Just dey play

Dshocker:
Why shouldn't a man control his wife?

Can you allow your daughter-in law to control your son? And can you allow your wife to control you too since you’re controlling her?

Lovelink1991:
You must be a heartless human being, social media that everybody is doing made a man to cancel wedding. The guy is a red flag to the girl

I agree with you, everybody is doing or should be free to use the social media, but I don't need to spell it out how some people use it, particularly some ladies, all in the name of "content creation". My immediate neighbor and his wife are almost always giving us sleepless nights because of this same issue. She claims it's just content, but believe me, she paints herself as a complete w*hore on Facebook. I had to unfriend her at a point because she was just too raw with her so called content. I'm quite sure the guy was about how she was using it, not just why.

Samantha125:
Don't underestimate those tiny hands,they will humble you...😒😒😒

Lol okay

Patnome:
How would you feel if your sister or daughter is asked by the husband to be not to use social media even Whatsapp....

That man is insecured. Make he go sleep

Women love attention so much.The man is insecure which I agree and life taught him to be.You can't really trust anybody this days
Now if you see your female sibling on social media, what is the first thing that comes to your mind? Is she appearing decent.If she is not you will probably not be happy with what you are seeing so imagine seeing your wife on social media doing various stuffs just for people attention.A married woman for that matter
You can't compare a man to a woman because there is a reason for the WO in front of the man

Leemzyy:
The truth is most of you guys wants a servant, not a Wife

And what's your definition of a Woman submitting to the so-called Head?

Do you know that paying a servant is far cheaper than marriage

Submission means both parties surrendering their autonomy to each other.

Both become one and act unilaterally..
You can't be in marriage and intend to be autonomous, it won't work