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Every woman wants a rich man. Every man wants a virgin.

Let's not lie about it.

Women have always wanted security. They want a man with money, status, ambition, a provider. No one shames them for that. It's called "having standards." It's called "knowing your worth."

Men have always wanted purity. They want a woman with a clean past, low body count, untouched, loyal to only him. That is our standard.

And look at the difference:

A broke man today can become rich tomorrow. He can work, hustle, build a business, hit the gym, level up. A man's value is built. He can change his financial status with discipline.

But a woman with a high body count, who has been passed around, who has given herself to many men - she can never become pure again. You can't reverse that. You can't un-do what has been done. Purity, once lost, is lost forever.

That's why modern women fight male standards so hard. They call it insecure, toxic, misogynistic, controlling.

It's not. It's because they can't meet it.

They can demand a rich man, because even a broke woman can get a rich man if she is beautiful and pure. But a promiscuous woman cannot get a high-value pure man, no matter how much makeup she wears or how much she pretends to be empowered.

Men built their standard to be achievable. Women lost the ability to achieve ours, and now they want to shame us for having it.

So, man when no get money no suppose chop girlfriend?

Hussein27:
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Every woman wants a rich man. Every man wants a virgin.

Let's not lie about it.

Women have always wanted security. They want a man with money, status, ambition, a provider. No one shames them for that. It's called "having standards." It's called "knowing your worth."

Men have always wanted purity. They want a woman with a clean past, low body count, untouched, loyal to only him. That is our standard.

And look at the difference:

A broke man today can become rich tomorrow. He can work, hustle, build a business, hit the gym, level up. A man's value is built. He can change his financial status with discipline.

But a woman with a high body count, who has been passed around, who has given herself to many men - she can never become pure again. You can't reverse that. You can't un-do what has been done. Purity, once lost, is lost forever.

That's why modern women fight male standards so hard. They call it insecure, toxic, misogynistic, controlling.

It's not. It's because they can't meet it.

They can demand a rich man, because even a broke woman can get a rich man if she is beautiful and pure. But a promiscuous woman cannot get a high-value pure man, no matter how much makeup she wears or how much she pretends to be empowered.

Men built their standard to be achievable. Women lost the ability to achieve ours, and now they want to shame us for having it.

op can we ask 2 harmless questions;
1.would you wish for your non-virgin sister to marry a poor man?
2. Will you be in full support if your brother asks a virgin girl's hand but gets turned down just because he is poor?

So because he has a non virgin sister he should marry Olosho?
Can you make your comment reasonable for me to understand.

itzadorable333:
op can we ask 2 harmless questions;
1.would you wish for your non-virgin sister to marry a poor man?
2. Will you be in full support if your brother asks a virgin girl's hand but gets turned down just because he is poor?

As a man, I know my worth and I have standards too.

When women list their standards, everybody says she knows her worth and have standards with no matters arising. When a man list his own standards, all of a sudden they start picking up fights, lmao.

Virgin or no bride price.

Yes virginity doesn't guarantee lasting marriage, but I rather buy a brand new Lamborghini with no mileage for the original price, than to buy a Nigerian(s) used Lamborghini with more than 300k mileage with faulty parts.

This is no banter, this is part of my standards I require from the opposite sex