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There is this girl I have being wooing for a while now,she replies my chats with speed,
She views almost everything I post on my status and likes them ,subconsciously I got convinced she likes me and mind you she is a church girl type who attends fellowship regularly.this girls always checks up on me first and I found it cool.

2 days ago I tried testing the waters I told her I would like her to come around and spend some time with me she declined so I concluded it could be because of her religious upbringing she may consider it morally wrong so I didn’t bother her again.

We just continued talking after some time in the middle of our conversation she told me she can’t date a guy like me and I asked her why she just kept me on hold for a long time she didn’t reply I immediately cancelled her in my mind because a girl who genuinely likes you will not make such a statement I knew this one wants to play mind games with me so I just told her not to worry that I never really liked her either that I have friendzone her since the day she refused to come around when I asked her
This girl immediately replied me bye bye and blocked me asap

I saw her this morning she was looking so sad and didn’t even greet me.
My question is since she doesn’t wanna date a guy like me why is she sad I made such a statement women reject men with brutality and get depressed when the same is done to them .

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have being wooing for a while now,she replies my chats with speed,
She views almost everything I post on my status and likes them ,subconsciously I got convinced she likes me and mind you she is a church girl type who attends fellowship regularly.this girls always checks up on me first and I found it cool.

2 days ago I tried testing the waters I told her I would like her to come around and spend some time with me she declined so I concluded it could be because of her religious upbringing she may consider it morally wrong so I didn’t bother her again.

We just continued talking after some time in the middle of our conversation she told me she can’t date a guy like me and I asked her why she just kept me on hold for a long time she didn’t reply I immediately cancelled her in my mind because a girl who genuinely likes you will not make such a statement I knew this one wants to play mind games with me so I just told her not to worry that I never really liked her either that I have friendzone her since the day she refused to come around when I asked her
This girl immediately replied me bye bye and blocked me asap

I saw her this morning she was looking so sad and didn’t even greet me.
My question is since she doesn’t wanna date a guy like me why is she sad I made such a statement women reject men with brutality and get depressed when the same is done to them .

Even though a woman doesnt want you,, she will still want you to remain her mumu that she would exploit his feelings from time to time and make her self feel good

na their way….

WatchYourSix:
Even though a woman doesnt want you,, she will still want you to remain her mumu that she would exploit his feelings from time to time and make her self feel good

na their way….

I have known this from experience if she likes you she will avoid everything that will make her loose you even if she wants to play hard to get she will play it in a soft way

Why do you care if she's sad or happy

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Both of you playing childish mind games.

She obviously likes you but wants you to chase her.


You on the other hand also like her but don't want to do the chasing and expect her to fall on your laps probably as a red pillar that you are.


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brain54:
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Both of you playing childish mind games.

She obviously likes you but wants you to chase her.


You on the other hand also like her but don't want to do the chasing and expect her to fall on your laps probably as a red pillar that you are.


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nah! Chasing doesn’t work for me tried in the past it failed

You’re making a lot of assumptions here. A woman replying quickly to your messages, liking your posts, and checking up on you doesn’t automatically mean she’s romantically interested in you.

She told you she couldn’t date a guy like you, and instead of accepting her answer, you accused her of playing mind games. Then you claimed you never liked her anyway. Really? If you never liked her, why were you pursuing her in the first place?

As for her looking sad the next morning, you have no idea why she was sad. Maybe your reaction hurt her, maybe she was disappointed in how you handled things, or maybe it had absolutely nothing to do with you.

And here’s the biggest flaw in your argument: a woman can reject you without hating you, and she can feel hurt by your behavior without wanting a relationship with you. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.

You’re interpreting her every move through the lens of your own ego and then generalizing about all women based on one personal experience.

Maybe she was sending mixed signals, maybe she wasn’t. But one thing is clear: you seem more concerned with proving that she wanted you than with accepting that she didn’t want a relationship with you.

That’s not understanding women. That’s refusing to accept rejection.

goran3310:
You’re making a lot of assumptions here. A woman replying quickly to your messages, liking your posts, and checking up on you doesn’t automatically mean she’s romantically interested in you.

She told you she couldn’t date a guy like you, and instead of accepting her answer, you accused her of playing mind games. Then you claimed you never liked her anyway. Really? If you never liked her, why were you pursuing her in the first place?

As for her looking sad the next morning, you have no idea why she was sad. Maybe your reaction hurt her, maybe she was disappointed in how you handled things, or maybe it had absolutely nothing to do with you.

And here’s the biggest flaw in your argument: a woman can reject you without hating you, and she can feel hurt by your behavior without wanting a relationship with you. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.

You’re interpreting her every move through the lens of your own ego and then generalizing about all women based on one personal experience.

Maybe she was sending mixed signals, maybe she wasn’t. But one thing is clear: you seem more concerned with proving that she wanted you than with accepting that she didn’t want a relationship with you.

That’s not understanding women. That’s refusing to accept rejection.

Ok

stop asking for relationship first, have sex first and let them start asking what are we now?? you need to improve your game. grown ass man chatting with a girl, what happens to calls.

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have being wooing for a while now,she replies my chats with speed,
She views almost everything I post on my status and likes them ,subconsciously I got convinced she likes me and mind you she is a church girl type who attends fellowship regularly.this girls always checks up on me first and I found it cool.

2 days ago I tried testing the waters I told her I would like her to come around and spend some time with me she declined so I concluded it could be because of her religious upbringing she may consider it morally wrong so I didn’t bother her again.

We just continued talking after some time in the middle of our conversation she told me she can’t date a guy like me and I asked her why she just kept me on hold for a long time she didn’t reply I immediately cancelled her in my mind because a girl who genuinely likes you will not make such a statement I knew this one wants to play mind games with me so I just told her not to worry that I never really liked her either that I have friendzone her since the day she refused to come around when I asked her
This girl immediately replied me bye bye and blocked me asap

I saw her this morning she was looking so sad and didn’t even greet me.
My question is since she doesn’t wanna date a guy like me why is she sad I made such a statement women reject men with brutality and get depressed when the same is done to them .

You did well. She dey vex cos you tear her cheque book. She wants to keep you for the billing!! Now you just got smarter. Guard your pocket with all diligence for your dreams can not be fulfilled on an empty pocket.

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have being wooing for a while now,she replies my chats with speed,
She views almost everything I post on my status and likes them ,subconsciously I got convinced she likes me and mind you she is a church girl type who attends fellowship regularly.this girls always checks up on me first and I found it cool.

2 days ago I tried testing the waters I told her I would like her to come around and spend some time with me she declined so I concluded it could be because of her religious upbringing she may consider it morally wrong so I didn’t bother her again.

We just continued talking after some time in the middle of our conversation she told me she can’t date a guy like me and I asked her why she just kept me on hold for a long time she didn’t reply I immediately cancelled her in my mind because a girl who genuinely likes you will not make such a statement I knew this one wants to play mind games with me so I just told her not to worry that I never really liked her either that I have friendzone her since the day she refused to come around when I asked her
This girl immediately replied me bye bye and blocked me asap

I saw her this morning she was looking so sad and didn’t even greet me.
My question is since she doesn’t wanna date a guy like me why is she sad I made such a statement women reject men with brutality and get depressed when the same is done to them .

Imagine, you asked her to come over to your side...are you doing promo in ur house or what.....just tell her u wanted to have sex with her when she comes over and then dump her off and move....
No matter how the urge might be, never ask a lady to come over your place...her brain will immediately run over 1001 reasons u re asking her to come over and that will be a red flag to her.....
Wait o, what if she come over ur place and kpai at ur side nko, u go blame devil or village people bah.....ok, continue...........

When a lady likes or love you deeply, trust me, she will be the one to tell you she wants to come and visit you...
Know this and know peace

The girl na moo moo. Why the suspense just for a simple question.

I hate mind games more than anything, such people are simply manipulators.

VicM6:
Imagine, you asked her to come over to your side...are you doing promo in ur house or what.....just tell her u wanted to have sex with her when she comes over and then dump her off and move....
No matter how the urge might be, never ask a lady to come over your place ...her brain will immediately run over 1001 reasons u re asking her to come over and that will be a red flag to her.....
Wait o, what if she come over ur place and kpai at ur side nko, u go blame devil or village people bah.....ok, continue...........

When a lady likes or love you deeply, trust me, she will be the one to tell you she wants to come and visit you...
Know this and know peace

That's total BS. I read vibes and moods if and when we're together and if it feels like she's ready for it I will initiate it. What's important is the "how". Adults going out on dates know that at some point (early or later) there's going to be sex so keep all those your sanctimonious BS in your house. If you're not keen on it go to church instead of a romantic date. Anything and everything romantic is possible and there's absolutely nothing wrong for adults to engage in sex if it's mutual. It doesn't make her cheap and would never determine if we would go forward or not. Sex is just one part of the bigger picture

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have being wooing for a while now,she replies my chats with speed,
She views almost everything I post on my status and likes them ,subconsciously I got convinced she likes me and mind you she is a church girl type who attends fellowship regularly.this girls always checks up on me first and I found it cool.

2 days ago I tried testing the waters I told her I would like her to come around and spend some time with me she declined so I concluded it could be because of her religious upbringing she may consider it morally wrong so I didn’t bother her again.

We just continued talking after some time in the middle of our conversation she told me she can’t date a guy like me and I asked her why she just kept me on hold for a long time she didn’t reply I immediately cancelled her in my mind because a girl who genuinely likes you will not make such a statement I knew this one wants to play mind games with me so I just told her not to worry that I never really liked her either that I have friendzone her since the day she refused to come around when I asked her
This girl immediately replied me bye bye and blocked me asap

I saw her this morning she was looking so sad and didn’t even greet me.
My question is since she doesn’t wanna date a guy like me why is she sad I made such a statement women reject men with brutality and get depressed when the same is done to them .

error! you shouldn't have told her dt you dnt like her . Dt you av friend zone her since.

you said you have been wooing her meaning you like her .

As she said she cnt date a guy like you, a simple "okay" response from you is sufficient.

In dis scenario,you shouldn't have replied the lady's statement wit a direct response youngman.

gerizzim:
error! you shouldn't have told her dt you dnt like her . Dt you av friend zone her since.

you said you have been wooing her meaning you like her .

As she said she cnt date a guy like you, a simple "okay" response from you is sufficient.

In dis scenario,you shouldn't have replied the lady's statement wit a direct response youngman.

Yeah I get
But why reject a man with such a brutal response? Such people not only want to reject you but also destroy your self esteem a simple “I am not interested should be okay”

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have being wooing for a while now,she replies my chats with speed,
She views almost everything I post on my status and likes them ,subconsciously I got convinced she likes me and mind you she is a church girl type who attends fellowship regularly.this girls always checks up on me first and I found it cool.

2 days ago I tried testing the waters I told her I would like her to come around and spend some time with me she declined so I concluded it could be because of her religious upbringing she may consider it morally wrong so I didn’t bother her again.

We just continued talking after some time in the middle of our conversation she told me she can’t date a guy like me and I asked her why she just kept me on hold for a long time she didn’t reply I immediately cancelled her in my mind because a girl who genuinely likes you will not make such a statement I knew this one wants to play mind games with me so I just told her not to worry that I never really liked her either that I have friendzone her since the day she refused to come around when I asked her
This girl immediately replied me bye bye and blocked me asap

I saw her this morning she was looking so sad and didn’t even greet me.
My question is since she doesn’t wanna date a guy like me why is she sad I made such a statement women reject men with brutality and get depressed when the same is done to them .

you nor know any thing, women dont like men , they love their self only. the only woman that like you is your mother. if a woman agrees to date you is not because she likes you, it simply because she has check you all around and agrees you can chest her bills. wife's are also included. know this and have peace. so the game is use your money to upgrade your self to have access to them, but dont give her your money.

Anenehi:
you nor know any thing, women dont like men , they love their self only. the only woman that like you is your mother. if a woman agrees to date you is not because she likes you, it simply because she has check you all around and agrees you can chest her bills. wife's are also included. know this and have peace. so the game is use your money to upgrade your self to have access to them, but dont give her your money.

WORD!!

goran3310:
You’re making a lot of assumptions here. A woman replying quickly to your messages, liking your posts, and checking up on you doesn’t automatically mean she’s romantically interested in you.

She told you she couldn’t date a guy like you, and instead of accepting her answer, you accused her of playing mind games. Then you claimed you never liked her anyway. Really? If you never liked her, why were you pursuing her in the first place?

As for her looking sad the next morning, you have no idea why she was sad. Maybe your reaction hurt her, maybe she was disappointed in how you handled things, or maybe it had absolutely nothing to do with you.

And here’s the biggest flaw in your argument: a woman can reject you without hating you, and she can feel hurt by your behavior without wanting a relationship with you. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.

You’re interpreting her every move through the lens of your own ego and then generalizing about all women based on one personal experience.

Maybe she was sending mixed signals, maybe she wasn’t. But one thing is clear: you seem more concerned with proving that she wanted you than with accepting that she didn’t want a relationship with you.

That’s not understanding women. That’s refusing to accept rejection.

I like the way you reason, you have a new follower

kiddaz:
That's total BS. I read vibes and moods if and when we're together and if it feels like she's ready for it I will initiate it. What's important is the "how". Adults going out on dates know that at some point (early or later) there's going to be sex so keep all those your sanctimonious BS in your house. If you're not keen on it go to church instead of a romantic date. Anything and everything romantic is possible and there's absolutely nothing wrong for adults to engage in sex if it's mutual. It doesn't make her cheap and would never determine if we would go forward or not. Sex is just one part of the bigger picture

you don talk finish abi another part remain wey u never talk.....Soro soke

kiddaz:
That's total BS. I read vibes and moods if and when we're together and if it feels like she's ready for it I will initiate it. What's important is the "how". Adults going out on dates know that at some point (early or later) there's going to be sex so keep all those your sanctimonious BS in your house. If you're not keen on it go to church instead of a romantic date. Anything and everything romantic is possible and there's absolutely nothing wrong for adults to engage in sex if it's mutual. It doesn't make her cheap and would never determine if we would go forward or not. Sex is just one part of the bigger picture

So every lady you meet and vibe with, ur intentions is just for you to chop their pussy cat and move on......Men like you do not make a better home and men like you fall victims alot bcus all what u think upstairs when you are with a lady is how to have sex with her.
I asked a simple question, why do you guys like telling women to visit u at ur place....is your place heaven or do they share dollars there?.....and funny enough, if she declined, u go start show attitude on top person choice of coming to ur place or not.

The moment you grow up, You realize that you are not responsible for her happiness or her sadness. You are neither her father or mother.
Her happiness is her parents role

VicM6:
So every lady you meet and vibe with, ur intentions is just for you to chop their pussy cat and move on......Men like you do not make a better home and men like you fall victims alot bcus all what u think upstairs when you are with a lady is how to have sex with her.
I asked a simple question, why do you guys like telling women to visit u at ur place....is your place heaven or do they share dollars there?.....and funny enough, if she declined, u go start show attitude on top person choice of coming to ur place or not.

Well, it's not my fault you can't read to understand simple English. So twist it however you like

Go and look for work to do. Jobless man

She wanted you to still be her friend and spend on her or just be a 'mumu' for her.

Well, she is sad because your mumu button didn't work

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have being wooing for a while now,she replies my chats with speed,
She views almost everything I post on my status and likes them ,subconsciously I got convinced she likes me and mind you she is a church girl type who attends fellowship regularly.this girls always checks up on me first and I found it cool.

2 days ago I tried testing the waters I told her I would like her to come around and spend some time with me she declined so I concluded it could be because of her religious upbringing she may consider it morally wrong so I didn’t bother her again.

We just continued talking after some time in the middle of our conversation she told me she can’t date a guy like me and I asked her why she just kept me on hold for a long time she didn’t reply I immediately cancelled her in my mind because a girl who genuinely likes you will not make such a statement I knew this one wants to play mind games with me so I just told her not to worry that I never really liked her either that I have friendzone her since the day she refused to come around when I asked her
This girl immediately replied me bye bye and blocked me asap

I saw her this morning she was looking so sad and didn’t even greet me.
My question is since she doesn’t wanna date a guy like me why is she sad I made such a statement women reject men with brutality and get depressed when the same is done to them .

You weren't composed enough to have rushed and asked her to come around.

Legend.......i hail you

Even though a woman doesnt want you,, she will still want you to remain her mumu that she would exploit his feelings from time to time and make her self feel good

na their way….[/quote]

You did nothing wrong at all.

You outsmarted her by far and she was pained and shocked at how you immediately and quickly unlike her. She expected you to chase so she can use your attention to boost her fragile ego for validation.

If a girl isn't interested in sexual intimacy with you, kindly reduce the attention you give to her and delete her number asap. What else does she have to offer you other than her body? Delete her number and forget bro. U did absolutely great

Look at the childish post making front page.

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have being wooing for a while now,she replies my chats with speed,
She views almost everything I post on my status and likes them ,subconsciously I got convinced she likes me and mind you she is a church girl type who attends fellowship regularly.this girls always checks up on me first and I found it cool.

2 days ago I tried testing the waters I told her I would like her to come around and spend some time with me she declined so I concluded it could be because of her religious upbringing she may consider it morally wrong so I didn’t bother her again.

We just continued talking after some time in the middle of our conversation she told me she can’t date a guy like me and I asked her why she just kept me on hold for a long time she didn’t reply I immediately cancelled her in my mind because a girl who genuinely likes you will not make such a statement I knew this one wants to play mind games with me so I just told her not to worry that I never really liked her either that I have friendzone her since the day she refused to come around when I asked her
This girl immediately replied me bye bye and blocked me asap

I saw her this morning she was looking so sad and didn’t even greet me.
My question is since she doesn’t wanna date a guy like me why is she sad I made such a statement women reject men with brutality and get depressed when the same is done to them .

She actually dodged a bullet. Who would want to date some who Always pretended to be a woman on this forum.
Maybe after noticing you couldn't cash out from false pretence you came back to your senses.
She dodged a bullet lol.

brain54:
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Both of you playing childish mind games.

She obviously likes you but wants you to chase her.


You on the other hand also like her but don't want to do the chasing and expect her to fall on your laps probably as a red pillar that you are.


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It's a biological and natural fact that males have to woo females and no amount of nonsense, 21st century redpill indoctrination will change that immutable reality. Even animals go through their various mating rituals to get a mate.

Let them keep deceiving themselves with their childishness