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Have you ever been in any situation where you struggled to say no to a very strong sexual temptation, but at the end, you really thanked God that you didn't fall for it. It may be a narrow escape from someone you later discovered had a sexually transmitted disease. It may be a temptation in marriage with an EX whom you later discovered was a deadly ritualist.

I read a guy's write-up, he wrote about what he noticed in a lady, but he still went ahead to sleep with her, and he caught HIV.

ebubeson:
Have you ever been in any situation where you struggled to say no to a very strong sexual temptation, but at the end, you really thanked God that you didn't fall for it. It may be a narrow escape from someone you later discovered had a sexually transmitted disease. It may be a temptation in marriage with an EX whom you later discovered was a deadly ritualist.

I read a guy's write-up, he wrote about what he noticed in a lady, but he still went ahead to sleep with her, and he caught HIV.

As a human, self-control is the first and essential lesson to learn. Lack of self-control is the mother of all evil. The problems that pervade the world (from the beginning of creation till the end), have been, is , and will always be the consequences of lack of self-control.

Most ladies carefree attitude spread terminal infection.

Maybe not cost me my life but caused me a whole lot of problems.


NYSC
2005
Oyo Osun State to be precise. Ife South Local Government Area. (Edited-Osun State. Ife South is in Osun State)


An SS2 Student (Let us call her Nike) who lived in the community that I served as a Corps Member, but she attended the Secondary School in the next Community. I taught at the Local School in the Community where I served. But Like I mentioned, Nike also resided in the same community as mine but for some reason attended the School in the next neighboring community, some 30 minutes walk away.

Now when we resumed as fresh Corps members we noticed Nike would come around as she could speak some English and express herself. But when that batch left, we the new batch were not really as welcoming.

However, I suddenly noticed she would appear at odd hours (Late in the evening) alone to my room door in the Corper's Lodge. The Room were typical face-me-I-face-you configuration and my room was the last on the left hand side before the back entrance/exit. She didnt need to come through the front and walk down the hallway where she could be easily spotted. She could and would sneak from the back and push open the Net Door to my room.

Back then the 3 Loader CD/DVD Players were a thing and I had one. "Nike" would appear for a few nights claiming to ask if I needed water or any errands I wanted her to run for me. To me this was harmless. Then she would take "pure" water sachets and drink some, and then lay on my bed on her belly, arse shooting into the air and legs a bit spread open. With one leg straight, thighs a bit open and the other leg bent at the knee. Like climbing an imaginary step on the surface of my mattress. I simply ignored this as a teenager that was not taught self composure. Then she would nap or feigned napping and then leave.

Then two nights in a row, Nike pushed open my net door and was in my room. While I played music. And she would dance seductively. The first time she danced seductively I simply ignored it as "just a typical corrupt teenager".

The second time when she pushed my net door and walked in without knocking as usual, this time her dressing was wild...a short wrapper (intentionally tied and looked like a mini skirt) paired with her school top (white shortsleeved shirt with the badge on the breast pocket). She had no bra underneath. I could see the whole outline of her upper body. The wrapper also made out the outline of her panties. The school top she wore though buttoned, made it worse by opening a little bit after each button, revealing parts of her raw cleavage. When she pushed my net-door and walked in, I noticed she had bathed too. Not locking that net-door was a problem- I realized. And the music that I usually play a bit loud in the evening another problem.This second time she would dance slowly to the Bob Marley collection I loved to play while asking "Corper **** do you have Milo or something I can eat "? I told her I had nothing. Then she sits on my bed (not really a bed per say but a 14 Inch high Mouka Foam/mattress on the floor) with her legs a bit spread open. I could clearly see her white panties. She didnt care. I chose to tell her I had nothing that she could eat and went back to making lesson notes or marking scripts, cant recall which. Eventually she laid down on the bed. Time went by, and let us say about 20-30 minutes latter she got up and left disappointed. I knew she was angry but the question is WHY DOES THIS TEENAGER WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH ME? All of a sudden for the past 1-2 weeks she has been trying to be close and sneak into my room.

After that day I stopped playing my music loud at night. Now the Community is where everyone knows everyone. So when ever Nike would be coming towards the lodge area, I would luckily hear other teenagers and kids call her name and hear them chat and I would immediately lock (bolt) my net-door and close my main door. She came multiple times and would knock but I wouldn't answer the door. After about 1 week Nike disappears. Completely. I stopped seeing her. Just like that. Stopped hearing from her. Stopped even seeing her around in the Community. It was almost as if she travelled and left the community.

Now I noticed something after her attempts. I had noticed that whenever I would go into the community to patronize the provision stores , I felt someone would always sneak away. I felt someone was avoiding me. But it was a bit funny to me because in life people usually only concern themselves about when people stalk them and not when people avoid them. But my senses would spot someone move away or change direction whenever I was walking within the Community. I didnt take it to be much.

On one sunny afternoon (I think on a weekend) the Head Boy, Head Girl, Boy Social Prefect and Girl Social Prefect were at the Lodge and I would engage them on what they plan to be in future and would tell them things that they need to be good at. Then they started speaking Yoruba and mentioned "Nike bla bla bla..Nike bla bla bla ".amidst chuckles and whispers. I mean Didn't understand Yoruba but of course I know the name Nike. Then out of curiosity I ask them what is the matter with Nike and why they are talking about her! Then boom.. Head Boy says "SIR NIKE IS PREGNANT!"......Preg what?!!!! These kids start chuckling "SHE IS PREGNANT SIR" . Then they explain to me that she has been ashamed of coming out to the public. They tell me it is a local lumberjack (agbegilodo) that impregnated her. That Guy is as built as the Incredible Hulk. My entire body, head to toe is one of his chest muscles. I am 5'7 and consider myself average. This guy is 6ft plus muscular, black like charcoal, and a brutally built Orangutan cross with a Silver Back, that had a baby with the Incredible Hulk and the baby grew up to be a giant muscular black incredible hulk! Now add the fact that the guy has small pox or chicken pox scars all over his face!!!!!

I was busy thinking what would have happened and how it had happened, and how could little 16-17 year old Nike handle such a man? Were they dating?Did he rape her? ...Then it dawned me...NIKE ACTUALLY WAS TRYING TO SEDUCE ME TO HAVE SEX WITH HER SO SHE COULD PIN THE PREGNANCY ON ME. YES. SHE HAD PLANNED IT ALL OUT WITH OR WITHOUT THE MAN WHO IMPREGNATED HER. AND SHE HAS BEEN THE ONE RUNNING AWAY AND DUCKING WHENEVER I STROLLED INTO THE HEART/CENTER OF THE COMMUNITY. She had intentionally thrown herself at me. She threw herself at me, and expected me to take the bait. If I had touched Nike, Nike would have accused me of being the person who impregnated her.

And back then NYSC was crazy with the policy that should a corps member impregnate a lady from a Community, they would facilitate the marriage. Paternity Test, I had known about, but it was not very popular and the technology was not common in Nigeria back then. Thirdly, what would I have told my family and friends and the school and the government ? That I had sex with a minor because I could resist seduction from a Child ? It would have been really irresponsible of me. My dear Mother would have died from the disappointment.

That experience made me never to accept ANY WOMAN THAT THROWS HERSELF AT ME. IF YOU LIKE, BE BILL GATE'S DAUGHTER! I WILL ASSUME IT IS A SET-UP!
Also made me hate hookup girls and prostitutes (a good thing if you ask me) due to the fact that they solicit and throw themselves too.

If anything I thank God for not taking the bait. Even if I was able to wriggle out of it...imagine the shame and disgrace. The wahala from NYSC. The news going round among other Corps members. The LI and ZI having to intervene. Naah.

Sleeping with a Minor is wrong , now even if she was an adult It isn't worth it at all. Naaah.

10thTenthMan:
Maybe not cost me my life but caused me a whole lot of problems.


NYSC
2005
Oyo State to be precise. Ife South Local Government Area.


An SS2 Student (Let us call her Nike) who lived in the community that I served as a Corps Member, but she attended the Secondary School in the next Community. I taught at the Local School in the Community where I served. But Like I mentioned, Nike also resided in the same community as mine but for some reason attended the School in the next neighboring community, some 30 minutes walk away.

Now when we resumed as fresh Corps members we noticed Nike would come around as she could speak some English and express herself. But when that batch left, we the new batch were not really as welcoming.

However, I suddenly noticed she would appear at odd hours (Late in the evening) alone to my room door in the Corper's Lodge. The Room were typical face-me-I-face-you configuration and my room was the last on the left hand side before the back entrance/exit. She didnt need to come through the front and walk down the hallway where she could be easily spotted. She could and would sneak from the back and push open the Net Door to my room.

Back then the 3 Loader CD/DVD Players were a thing and I had one. "Nike" would appear for a few nights claiming to ask if I needed water or any errands I wanted her to run for me. To me this was harmless. Then she would take "pure" water sachets and drink some, and then lay on my bed on her belly, arse shooting into the air and legs a bit spread open. With one leg straight, thighs a bit open and the other leg bent at the knee. Like climbing an imaginary step on the surface of my mattress. I simply ignored this as a teenager that was not taught self composure. Then she would nap or feigned napping and then leave.

Then two nights in a row, Nike pushed open my net door and was in my room. While I played music. And she would dance seductively. The first time she danced seductively I simply ignored it as "just a typical corrupt teenager".

The second time when she pushed my net door and walked in without knocking as usual, this time her dressing was wild...a short wrapper (intentionally tied and looked like a mini skirt) paired with her school top (white shortsleeved shirt with the badge on the breast pocket). She had no bra underneath. I could see the whole outline of her upper body. The wrapper also made out the outline of her panties. The school top she wore though buttoned, made it worse by opening a little bit after each button, revealing parts of her raw cleavage. When she pushed my net-door and walked in, I noticed she had bathed too. Not locking that net-door was a problem- I realized. And the music that I usually play a bit loud in the evening another problem.This second time she would dance slowly to the Bob Marley collection I loved to play while asking "Corper **** do you have Milo or something I can eat "? I told her I had nothing. Then she sits on my bed (not really a bed per say but a 14 Inch high Mouka Foam/mattress on the floor) with her legs a bit spread open. I could clearly see her white panties. She didnt care. I chose to tell her I had nothing that she could eat and went back to making lesson notes or marking scripts, cant recall which. Eventually she laid down on the bed. Time went by, and let us say about 20-30 minutes latter she got up and left disappointed. I knew she was angry but the question is WHY DOES THIS TEENAGER WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH ME? All of a sudden for the past 1-2 weeks she has been trying to be close and sneak into my room.

After that day I stopped playing my music loud at night. Now the Community is where everyone knows everyone. So when ever Nike would be coming towards the lodge area, I would luckily hear other teenagers and kids call her name and hear them chat and I would immediately lock (bolt) my net-door and close my main door. She came multiple times and would knock but I wouldn't answer the door. After about 1 week Nike disappears. Completely. I stopped seeing her. Just like that. Stopped hearing from her. Stopped even seeing her around in the Community. It was almost as if she travelled and left the community.

Now I noticed something after her attempts. I had noticed that whenever I would go into the community to patronize the provision stores , I felt someone would always sneak away. I felt someone was avoiding me. But it was a bit funny to me because in life people usually only concern themselves about when people stalk them and not when people avoid them. But my senses would spot someone move away or change direction whenever I was walking within the Community. I didnt take it to be much.

On one sunny afternoon (I think on a weekend) the Head Boy, Head Girl, Boy Social Prefect and Girl Social Prefect were at the Lodge and I would engage them on what they plan to be in future and would tell them things that they need to be good at. Then they started speaking Yoruba and mentioned "Nike bla bla bla..Nike bla bla bla ".amidst chuckles and whispers. I mean Didn't understand Yoruba but of course I know the name Nike. Then out of curiosity I ask them what is the matter with Nike and why they are talking about her! Then boom.. Head Boy says "SIR NIKE IS PREGNANT!"......Preg what?!!!! These kids start chuckling "SHE IS PREGNANT SIR" . Then they explain to me that she has been ashamed of coming out to the public. They tell me it is a local lumberjack (agbegilodo) that impregnated her. That Guy is as built as the Incredible Hulk. My entire body, head to toe is one of his chest muscles. I am 5'7 and consider myself average. This guy is 6ft plus muscular, black like charcoal, and a brutally built Orangutan cross with a Silver Back, that had a baby with the Incredible Hulk and the baby grew up to be a giant muscular black incredible hulk! Now add the fact that the guy has small pox or chicken pox scars all over his face!!!!!

I was busy thinking what would have happened and how it had happened, and how could little 16-17 year old Nike handle such a man? Were they dating?Did he rape her? ...Then it dawned me...NIKE ACTUALLY WAS TRYING TO SEDUCE ME TO HAVE SEX WITH HER SO SHE COULD PIN THE PREGNANCY ON ME. YES. SHE HAD PLANNED IT ALL OUT WITH OR WITHOUT THE MAN WHO IMPREGNATED HER. AND SHE HAS BEEN THE ONE RUNNING AWAY AND DUCKING WHENEVER I STROLLED INTO THE HEART/CENTER OF THE COMMUNITY. She had intentionally thrown herself at me. She threw herself at me, and expected me to take the bait. If I had touched Nike, Nike would have accused me of being the person who impregnated her.

And back then NYSC was crazy with the policy that should a corps member impregnate a lady from a Community, they would facilitate the marriage. Paternity Test, I had known about, but it was not very popular and the technology was not common in Nigeria back then. Thirdly, what would I have told my family and friends and the school and the government ? That I had sex with a minor because I could resist seduction from a Child ? It would have been really irresponsible of me. My dear Mother would have died from the disappointment.

That experience made me never to accept ANY WOMAN THAT THROWS HERSELF AT ME. IF YOU LIKE, BE BILL GATE'S DAUGHTER! I WILL ASSUME IT IS A SET-UP!
Also made me hate hookup girls and prostitutes (a good thing if you ask me) due to the fact that they solicit and throw themselves too.

If anything I thank God for not taking the bait. Even if I was able to wriggle out of it...imagine the shame and disgrace. The wahala from NYSC. The news going round among other Corps members. The LI and ZI having to intervene. Naah.

Sleeping with a Minor is wrong , now even if she was an adult It isn't worth it at all. Naaah.

You deserve an award, 90% of guys would have fall for such trap, same guys will come online to boost of their irresponsible behaviour saying I nack her wetin no good

Many good lessons here, but Ife South LGA isn't in Oyo State. It is in Osun. You aren't likely to forget or miswrite the State you served, isn't it?

Was this story made up? Some of its details look a little too vivid for a 21 year old mistake you, quite rightly, didn't make.

10thTenthMan:
Maybe not cost me my life but caused me a whole lot of problems.


NYSC
2005
Oyo State to be precise. Ife South Local Government Area.


An SS2 Student (Let us call her Nike) who lived in the community that I served as a Corps Member, but she attended the Secondary School in the next Community. I taught at the Local School in the Community where I served. But Like I mentioned, Nike also resided in the same community as mine but for some reason attended the School in the next neighboring community, some 30 minutes walk away.

Now when we resumed as fresh Corps members we noticed Nike would come around as she could speak some English and express herself. But when that batch left, we the new batch were not really as welcoming.

However, I suddenly noticed she would appear at odd hours (Late in the evening) alone to my room door in the Corper's Lodge. The Room were typical face-me-I-face-you configuration and my room was the last on the left hand side before the back entrance/exit. She didnt need to come through the front and walk down the hallway where she could be easily spotted. She could and would sneak from the back and push open the Net Door to my room.

Back then the 3 Loader CD/DVD Players were a thing and I had one. "Nike" would appear for a few nights claiming to ask if I needed water or any errands I wanted her to run for me. To me this was harmless. Then she would take "pure" water sachets and drink some, and then lay on my bed on her belly, arse shooting into the air and legs a bit spread open. With one leg straight, thighs a bit open and the other leg bent at the knee. Like climbing an imaginary step on the surface of my mattress. I simply ignored this as a teenager that was not taught self composure. Then she would nap or feigned napping and then leave.

Then two nights in a row, Nike pushed open my net door and was in my room. While I played music. And she would dance seductively. The first time she danced seductively I simply ignored it as "just a typical corrupt teenager".

The second time when she pushed my net door and walked in without knocking as usual, this time her dressing was wild...a short wrapper (intentionally tied and looked like a mini skirt) paired with her school top (white shortsleeved shirt with the badge on the breast pocket). She had no bra underneath. I could see the whole outline of her upper body. The wrapper also made out the outline of her panties. The school top she wore though buttoned, made it worse by opening a little bit after each button, revealing parts of her raw cleavage. When she pushed my net-door and walked in, I noticed she had bathed too. Not locking that net-door was a problem- I realized. And the music that I usually play a bit loud in the evening another problem.This second time she would dance slowly to the Bob Marley collection I loved to play while asking "Corper **** do you have Milo or something I can eat "? I told her I had nothing. Then she sits on my bed (not really a bed per say but a 14 Inch high Mouka Foam/mattress on the floor) with her legs a bit spread open. I could clearly see her white panties. She didnt care. I chose to tell her I had nothing that she could eat and went back to making lesson notes or marking scripts, cant recall which. Eventually she laid down on the bed. Time went by, and let us say about 20-30 minutes latter she got up and left disappointed. I knew she was angry but the question is WHY DOES THIS TEENAGER WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH ME? All of a sudden for the past 1-2 weeks she has been trying to be close and sneak into my room.

After that day I stopped playing my music loud at night. Now the Community is where everyone knows everyone. So when ever Nike would be coming towards the lodge area, I would luckily hear other teenagers and kids call her name and hear them chat and I would immediately lock (bolt) my net-door and close my main door. She came multiple times and would knock but I wouldn't answer the door. After about 1 week Nike disappears. Completely. I stopped seeing her. Just like that. Stopped hearing from her. Stopped even seeing her around in the Community. It was almost as if she travelled and left the community.

Now I noticed something after her attempts. I had noticed that whenever I would go into the community to patronize the provision stores , I felt someone would always sneak away. I felt someone was avoiding me. But it was a bit funny to me because in life people usually only concern themselves about when people stalk them and not when people avoid them. But my senses would spot someone move away or change direction whenever I was walking within the Community. I didnt take it to be much.

On one sunny afternoon (I think on a weekend) the Head Boy, Head Girl, Boy Social Prefect and Girl Social Prefect were at the Lodge and I would engage them on what they plan to be in future and would tell them things that they need to be good at. Then they started speaking Yoruba and mentioned "Nike bla bla bla..Nike bla bla bla ".amidst chuckles and whispers. I mean Didn't understand Yoruba but of course I know the name Nike. Then out of curiosity I ask them what is the matter with Nike and why they are talking about her! Then boom.. Head Boy says "SIR NIKE IS PREGNANT!"......Preg what?!!!! These kids start chuckling "SHE IS PREGNANT SIR" . Then they explain to me that she has been ashamed of coming out to the public. They tell me it is a local lumberjack (agbegilodo) that impregnated her. That Guy is as built as the Incredible Hulk. My entire body, head to toe is one of his chest muscles. I am 5'7 and consider myself average. This guy is 6ft plus muscular, black like charcoal, and a brutally built Orangutan cross with a Silver Back, that had a baby with the Incredible Hulk and the baby grew up to be a giant muscular black incredible hulk! Now add the fact that the guy has small pox or chicken pox scars all over his face!!!!!

I was busy thinking what would have happened and how it had happened, and how could little 16-17 year old Nike handle such a man? Were they dating?Did he rape her? ...Then it dawned me...NIKE ACTUALLY WAS TRYING TO SEDUCE ME TO HAVE SEX WITH HER SO SHE COULD PIN THE PREGNANCY ON ME. YES. SHE HAD PLANNED IT ALL OUT WITH OR WITHOUT THE MAN WHO IMPREGNATED HER. AND SHE HAS BEEN THE ONE RUNNING AWAY AND DUCKING WHENEVER I STROLLED INTO THE HEART/CENTER OF THE COMMUNITY. She had intentionally thrown herself at me. She threw herself at me, and expected me to take the bait. If I had touched Nike, Nike would have accused me of being the person who impregnated her.

And back then NYSC was crazy with the policy that should a corps member impregnate a lady from a Community, they would facilitate the marriage. Paternity Test, I had known about, but it was not very popular and the technology was not common in Nigeria back then. Thirdly, what would I have told my family and friends and the school and the government ? That I had sex with a minor because I could resist seduction from a Child ? It would have been really irresponsible of me. My dear Mother would have died from the disappointment.

That experience made me never to accept ANY WOMAN THAT THROWS HERSELF AT ME. IF YOU LIKE, BE BILL GATE'S DAUGHTER! I WILL ASSUME IT IS A SET-UP!
Also made me hate hookup girls and prostitutes (a good thing if you ask me) due to the fact that they solicit and throw themselves too.

If anything I thank God for not taking the bait. Even if I was able to wriggle out of it...imagine the shame and disgrace. The wahala from NYSC. The news going round among other Corps members. The LI and ZI having to intervene. Naah.

Sleeping with a Minor is wrong , now even if she was an adult It isn't worth it at all. Naaah.

10thTenthMan:
Maybe not cost me my life but caused me a whole lot of problems.


NYSC
2005
Oyo State to be precise. Ife South Local Government Area.


An SS2 Student (Let us call her Nike) who lived in the community that I served as a Corps Member, but she attended the Secondary School in the next Community. I taught at the Local School in the Community where I served. But Like I mentioned, Nike also resided in the same community as mine but for some reason attended the School in the next neighboring community, some 30 minutes walk away.

Now when we resumed as fresh Corps members we noticed Nike would come around as she could speak some English and express herself. But when that batch left, we the new batch were not really as welcoming.

However, I suddenly noticed she would appear at odd hours (Late in the evening) alone to my room door in the Corper's Lodge. The Room were typical face-me-I-face-you configuration and my room was the last on the left hand side before the back entrance/exit. She didnt need to come through the front and walk down the hallway where she could be easily spotted. She could and would sneak from the back and push open the Net Door to my room.

Back then the 3 Loader CD/DVD Players were a thing and I had one. "Nike" would appear for a few nights claiming to ask if I needed water or any errands I wanted her to run for me. To me this was harmless. Then she would take "pure" water sachets and drink some, and then lay on my bed on her belly, arse shooting into the air and legs a bit spread open. With one leg straight, thighs a bit open and the other leg bent at the knee. Like climbing an imaginary step on the surface of my mattress. I simply ignored this as a teenager that was not taught self composure. Then she would nap or feigned napping and then leave.

Then two nights in a row, Nike pushed open my net door and was in my room. While I played music. And she would dance seductively. The first time she danced seductively I simply ignored it as "just a typical corrupt teenager".

The second time when she pushed my net door and walked in without knocking as usual, this time her dressing was wild...a short wrapper (intentionally tied and looked like a mini skirt) paired with her school top (white shortsleeved shirt with the badge on the breast pocket). She had no bra underneath. I could see the whole outline of her upper body. The wrapper also made out the outline of her panties. The school top she wore though buttoned, made it worse by opening a little bit after each button, revealing parts of her raw cleavage. When she pushed my net-door and walked in, I noticed she had bathed too. Not locking that net-door was a problem- I realized. And the music that I usually play a bit loud in the evening another problem.This second time she would dance slowly to the Bob Marley collection I loved to play while asking "Corper **** do you have Milo or something I can eat "? I told her I had nothing. Then she sits on my bed (not really a bed per say but a 14 Inch high Mouka Foam/mattress on the floor) with her legs a bit spread open. I could clearly see her white panties. She didnt care. I chose to tell her I had nothing that she could eat and went back to making lesson notes or marking scripts, cant recall which. Eventually she laid down on the bed. Time went by, and let us say about 20-30 minutes latter she got up and left disappointed. I knew she was angry but the question is WHY DOES THIS TEENAGER WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH ME? All of a sudden for the past 1-2 weeks she has been trying to be close and sneak into my room.

After that day I stopped playing my music loud at night. Now the Community is where everyone knows everyone. So when ever Nike would be coming towards the lodge area, I would luckily hear other teenagers and kids call her name and hear them chat and I would immediately lock (bolt) my net-door and close my main door. She came multiple times and would knock but I wouldn't answer the door. After about 1 week Nike disappears. Completely. I stopped seeing her. Just like that. Stopped hearing from her. Stopped even seeing her around in the Community. It was almost as if she travelled and left the community.

Now I noticed something after her attempts. I had noticed that whenever I would go into the community to patronize the provision stores , I felt someone would always sneak away. I felt someone was avoiding me. But it was a bit funny to me because in life people usually only concern themselves about when people stalk them and not when people avoid them. But my senses would spot someone move away or change direction whenever I was walking within the Community. I didnt take it to be much.

On one sunny afternoon (I think on a weekend) the Head Boy, Head Girl, Boy Social Prefect and Girl Social Prefect were at the Lodge and I would engage them on what they plan to be in future and would tell them things that they need to be good at. Then they started speaking Yoruba and mentioned "Nike bla bla bla..Nike bla bla bla ".amidst chuckles and whispers. I mean Didn't understand Yoruba but of course I know the name Nike. Then out of curiosity I ask them what is the matter with Nike and why they are talking about her! Then boom.. Head Boy says "SIR NIKE IS PREGNANT!"......Preg what?!!!! These kids start chuckling "SHE IS PREGNANT SIR" . Then they explain to me that she has been ashamed of coming out to the public. They tell me it is a local lumberjack (agbegilodo) that impregnated her. That Guy is as built as the Incredible Hulk. My entire body, head to toe is one of his chest muscles. I am 5'7 and consider myself average. This guy is 6ft plus muscular, black like charcoal, and a brutally built Orangutan cross with a Silver Back, that had a baby with the Incredible Hulk and the baby grew up to be a giant muscular black incredible hulk! Now add the fact that the guy has small pox or chicken pox scars all over his face!!!!!

I was busy thinking what would have happened and how it had happened, and how could little 16-17 year old Nike handle such a man? Were they dating?Did he rape her? ...Then it dawned me...NIKE ACTUALLY WAS TRYING TO SEDUCE ME TO HAVE SEX WITH HER SO SHE COULD PIN THE PREGNANCY ON ME. YES. SHE HAD PLANNED IT ALL OUT WITH OR WITHOUT THE MAN WHO IMPREGNATED HER. AND SHE HAS BEEN THE ONE RUNNING AWAY AND DUCKING WHENEVER I STROLLED INTO THE HEART/CENTER OF THE COMMUNITY. She had intentionally thrown herself at me. She threw herself at me, and expected me to take the bait. If I had touched Nike, Nike would have accused me of being the person who impregnated her.

And back then NYSC was crazy with the policy that should a corps member impregnate a lady from a Community, they would facilitate the marriage. Paternity Test, I had known about, but it was not very popular and the technology was not common in Nigeria back then. Thirdly, what would I have told my family and friends and the school and the government ? That I had sex with a minor because I could resist seduction from a Child ? It would have been really irresponsible of me. My dear Mother would have died from the disappointment.

That experience made me never to accept ANY WOMAN THAT THROWS HERSELF AT ME. IF YOU LIKE, BE BILL GATE'S DAUGHTER! I WILL ASSUME IT IS A SET-UP!
Also made me hate hookup girls and prostitutes (a good thing if you ask me) due to the fact that they solicit and throw themselves too.

If anything I thank God for not taking the bait. Even if I was able to wriggle out of it...imagine the shame and disgrace. The wahala from NYSC. The news going round among other Corps members. The LI and ZI having to intervene. Naah.

Sleeping with a Minor is wrong , now even if she was an adult It isn't worth it at all. Naaah.

Definitely made up or AI

Someone will take his or her time to type out their experience and some of you will be attacking them to have made it up or being AI generated.
Please go and do your own. E easy to use AI?
Very negative people.

One time I got to fvck this very pretty corporate lady I'd known for just over a week.
I was fully strapped up and wrapped up with my Durex Featherlight as is my routine, and we had a good time.
So we were done and I'd pulled off the condom and we'd gone in the bathroom to have a bath. Right then my C0ck decided it wasn't satisfied and went full missile hard

For a split second I thought of bending this girl over on the sink and diving in rawwww because she really did have her soft skin brushing off and pressing up on me

Brothers and sisters, the Good Spirit commanded me to stop! I obeyed and hesitated.

Then she had water on her skin and was all shiny and seductive, laughing at my hard erect C0ck. A strong urge came on me again but the Good Spirit prevailed again. I conquered on that day.

Never heard from her again after. Calls wouldn't go through. Then one day I ran into her work colleague and asked about her and was told she was so sick she had to go on break. I pressed further and got to know she had Acute Hepatitis B. I went cold. Don't know if she survived but I sure do know I'd have gotten it from her if I hadn't listened to the Good Spirit. I pray she's okay. Such a sweet soul

ReluctantAdult:
One time I got to fvck this very pretty corporate lady I'd known for just over a week.
I was fully strapped up and wrapped up with my Durex Featherlight as is my routine, and we had a good time.
So we were done and I'd pulled off the condom and we'd gone in the bathroom to have a bath. Right then my C0ck decided it wasn't satisfied and went full missile hard

For a split second I thought of bending this girl over on the sink and diving in rawwww because she really did have her soft skin brushing off and pressing up on me

Brothers and sisters, the Good Spirit commanded me to stop! I obeyed and hesitated.

Then she had water on her skin and was all shiny and seductive, laughing at my hard erect C0ck. A strong urge came on me again but the Good Spirit prevailed again. I conquered on that day.

Never heard from her again after. Calls wouldn't go through. Then one day I ran into her work colleague and asked about her and was told she was so sick she had to go on break. I pressed further and got to know she had Acute Hepatitis B. I went cold. Don't know if she survived but I sure do know I'd have gotten it from her if I hadn't listened to the Good Spirit. I pray she's okay. Such a sweet soul

Didn't you kiss

10thTenthMan:
Maybe not cost me my life but caused me a whole lot of problems.


NYSC
2005
Oyo State to be precise. Ife South Local Government Area.


An SS2 Student (Let us call her Nike) who lived in the community that I served as a Corps Member, but she attended the Secondary School in the next Community. I taught at the Local School in the Community where I served. But Like I mentioned, Nike also resided in the same community as mine but for some reason attended the School in the next neighboring community, some 30 minutes walk away.

Now when we resumed as fresh Corps members we noticed Nike would come around as she could speak some English and express herself. But when that batch left, we the new batch were not really as welcoming.

However, I suddenly noticed she would appear at odd hours (Late in the evening) alone to my room door in the Corper's Lodge. The Room were typical face-me-I-face-you configuration and my room was the last on the left hand side before the back entrance/exit. She didnt need to come through the front and walk down the hallway where she could be easily spotted. She could and would sneak from the back and push open the Net Door to my room.

Back then the 3 Loader CD/DVD Players were a thing and I had one. "Nike" would appear for a few nights claiming to ask if I needed water or any errands I wanted her to run for me. To me this was harmless. Then she would take "pure" water sachets and drink some, and then lay on my bed on her belly, arse shooting into the air and legs a bit spread open. With one leg straight, thighs a bit open and the other leg bent at the knee. Like climbing an imaginary step on the surface of my mattress. I simply ignored this as a teenager that was not taught self composure. Then she would nap or feigned napping and then leave.

Then two nights in a row, Nike pushed open my net door and was in my room. While I played music. And she would dance seductively. The first time she danced seductively I simply ignored it as "just a typical corrupt teenager".

The second time when she pushed my net door and walked in without knocking as usual, this time her dressing was wild...a short wrapper (intentionally tied and looked like a mini skirt) paired with her school top (white shortsleeved shirt with the badge on the breast pocket). She had no bra underneath. I could see the whole outline of her upper body. The wrapper also made out the outline of her panties. The school top she wore though buttoned, made it worse by opening a little bit after each button, revealing parts of her raw cleavage. When she pushed my net-door and walked in, I noticed she had bathed too. Not locking that net-door was a problem- I realized. And the music that I usually play a bit loud in the evening another problem.This second time she would dance slowly to the Bob Marley collection I loved to play while asking "Corper **** do you have Milo or something I can eat "? I told her I had nothing. Then she sits on my bed (not really a bed per say but a 14 Inch high Mouka Foam/mattress on the floor) with her legs a bit spread open. I could clearly see her white panties. She didnt care. I chose to tell her I had nothing that she could eat and went back to making lesson notes or marking scripts, cant recall which. Eventually she laid down on the bed. Time went by, and let us say about 20-30 minutes latter she got up and left disappointed. I knew she was angry but the question is WHY DOES THIS TEENAGER WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH ME? All of a sudden for the past 1-2 weeks she has been trying to be close and sneak into my room.

After that day I stopped playing my music loud at night. Now the Community is where everyone knows everyone. So when ever Nike would be coming towards the lodge area, I would luckily hear other teenagers and kids call her name and hear them chat and I would immediately lock (bolt) my net-door and close my main door. She came multiple times and would knock but I wouldn't answer the door. After about 1 week Nike disappears. Completely. I stopped seeing her. Just like that. Stopped hearing from her. Stopped even seeing her around in the Community. It was almost as if she travelled and left the community.

Now I noticed something after her attempts. I had noticed that whenever I would go into the community to patronize the provision stores , I felt someone would always sneak away. I felt someone was avoiding me. But it was a bit funny to me because in life people usually only concern themselves about when people stalk them and not when people avoid them. But my senses would spot someone move away or change direction whenever I was walking within the Community. I didnt take it to be much.

On one sunny afternoon (I think on a weekend) the Head Boy, Head Girl, Boy Social Prefect and Girl Social Prefect were at the Lodge and I would engage them on what they plan to be in future and would tell them things that they need to be good at. Then they started speaking Yoruba and mentioned "Nike bla bla bla..Nike bla bla bla ".amidst chuckles and whispers. I mean Didn't understand Yoruba but of course I know the name Nike. Then out of curiosity I ask them what is the matter with Nike and why they are talking about her! Then boom.. Head Boy says "SIR NIKE IS PREGNANT!"......Preg what?!!!! These kids start chuckling "SHE IS PREGNANT SIR" . Then they explain to me that she has been ashamed of coming out to the public. They tell me it is a local lumberjack (agbegilodo) that impregnated her. That Guy is as built as the Incredible Hulk. My entire body, head to toe is one of his chest muscles. I am 5'7 and consider myself average. This guy is 6ft plus muscular, black like charcoal, and a brutally built Orangutan cross with a Silver Back, that had a baby with the Incredible Hulk and the baby grew up to be a giant muscular black incredible hulk! Now add the fact that the guy has small pox or chicken pox scars all over his face!!!!!

I was busy thinking what would have happened and how it had happened, and how could little 16-17 year old Nike handle such a man? Were they dating?Did he rape her? ...Then it dawned me...NIKE ACTUALLY WAS TRYING TO SEDUCE ME TO HAVE SEX WITH HER SO SHE COULD PIN THE PREGNANCY ON ME. YES. SHE HAD PLANNED IT ALL OUT WITH OR WITHOUT THE MAN WHO IMPREGNATED HER. AND SHE HAS BEEN THE ONE RUNNING AWAY AND DUCKING WHENEVER I STROLLED INTO THE HEART/CENTER OF THE COMMUNITY. She had intentionally thrown herself at me. She threw herself at me, and expected me to take the bait. If I had touched Nike, Nike would have accused me of being the person who impregnated her.

And back then NYSC was crazy with the policy that should a corps member impregnate a lady from a Community, they would facilitate the marriage. Paternity Test, I had known about, but it was not very popular and the technology was not common in Nigeria back then. Thirdly, what would I have told my family and friends and the school and the government ? That I had sex with a minor because I could resist seduction from a Child ? It would have been really irresponsible of me. My dear Mother would have died from the disappointment.

That experience made me never to accept ANY WOMAN THAT THROWS HERSELF AT ME. IF YOU LIKE, BE BILL GATE'S DAUGHTER! I WILL ASSUME IT IS A SET-UP!
Also made me hate hookup girls and prostitutes (a good thing if you ask me) due to the fact that they solicit and throw themselves too.

If anything I thank God for not taking the bait. Even if I was able to wriggle out of it...imagine the shame and disgrace. The wahala from NYSC. The news going round among other Corps members. The LI and ZI having to intervene. Naah.

Sleeping with a Minor is wrong , now even if she was an adult It isn't worth it at all. Naaah.

Nice one. I enjoyed it

Gotocourt:
Didn't you kiss

Oh no. I didn't.

Kissing for me is even deeper than sex with a condom. I'm very vigilant of the risks associated with these exposures but the idea of bending her over the sink and watching her erotic 'sex face' in the mirror while I pounded away, was very nearly going to shatter all rational guards I had set up

ReluctantAdult:
Oh no. I didn't. Kissing for me is even deeper than sex with a condom. I'm very vigilant of the risks associated with these exposures but the idea of bending her over the sink and watching her erotic 'sex face' in the mirror while I pounded away, was very nearly going to shatter all rational guards I had set up

Try and take Hepatitis vaccine 👌

Gotocourt:
Try and take Hepatitis vaccine 👌

Sure thing!

Best believe I am very well and fully vaccinated now
Still not going to risk anything though

ReluctantAdult:
Sure thing!

Best believe I am very well and fully vaccinated now
Still not going to risk anything though

Bless up 🙌

Gotocourt:
Bless up 🙌

Cheers Doc!

Very true... Just because they haven't experienced something, they'd immediately assume it's a lie... Reason I discontinued sharing my experiences more often than I used to.

Anyways, I don't have any experience with this was and was just passing by...🚶🏽‍♀️‍➡️🚶🏽‍♀️‍➡️🚶🏽‍♀️‍➡️

MMempire:
Someone will take his or her time to type out their experience and some of you will be attacking them to have made it up or being AI generated.
Please go and do your own. E easy to use AI?
Very negative people.

Gotocourt:
Most ladies carefree attitude spread terminal infection.

CD should be like ID card to you, everywhere you go

Yes ooo, true life story in Ifetedo corpers lodge after police station.

10thTenthMan:
Maybe not cost me my life but caused me a whole lot of problems.


NYSC
2005
Oyo State to be precise. Ife South Local Government Area.


An SS2 Student (Let us call her Nike) who lived in the community that I served as a Corps Member, but she attended the Secondary School in the next Community. I taught at the Local School in the Community where I served. But Like I mentioned, Nike also resided in the same community as mine but for some reason attended the School in the next neighboring community, some 30 minutes walk away.

Now when we resumed as fresh Corps members we noticed Nike would come around as she could speak some English and express herself. But when that batch left, we the new batch were not really as welcoming.

However, I suddenly noticed she would appear at odd hours (Late in the evening) alone to my room door in the Corper's Lodge. The Room were typical face-me-I-face-you configuration and my room was the last on the left hand side before the back entrance/exit. She didnt need to come through the front and walk down the hallway where she could be easily spotted. She could and would sneak from the back and push open the Net Door to my room.

Back then the 3 Loader CD/DVD Players were a thing and I had one. "Nike" would appear for a few nights claiming to ask if I needed water or any errands I wanted her to run for me. To me this was harmless. Then she would take "pure" water sachets and drink some, and then lay on my bed on her belly, arse shooting into the air and legs a bit spread open. With one leg straight, thighs a bit open and the other leg bent at the knee. Like climbing an imaginary step on the surface of my mattress. I simply ignored this as a teenager that was not taught self composure. Then she would nap or feigned napping and then leave.

Then two nights in a row, Nike pushed open my net door and was in my room. While I played music. And she would dance seductively. The first time she danced seductively I simply ignored it as "just a typical corrupt teenager".

The second time when she pushed my net door and walked in without knocking as usual, this time her dressing was wild...a short wrapper (intentionally tied and looked like a mini skirt) paired with her school top (white shortsleeved shirt with the badge on the breast pocket). She had no bra underneath. I could see the whole outline of her upper body. The wrapper also made out the outline of her panties. The school top she wore though buttoned, made it worse by opening a little bit after each button, revealing parts of her raw cleavage. When she pushed my net-door and walked in, I noticed she had bathed too. Not locking that net-door was a problem- I realized. And the music that I usually play a bit loud in the evening another problem.This second time she would dance slowly to the Bob Marley collection I loved to play while asking "Corper **** do you have Milo or something I can eat "? I told her I had nothing. Then she sits on my bed (not really a bed per say but a 14 Inch high Mouka Foam/mattress on the floor) with her legs a bit spread open. I could clearly see her white panties. She didnt care. I chose to tell her I had nothing that she could eat and went back to making lesson notes or marking scripts, cant recall which. Eventually she laid down on the bed. Time went by, and let us say about 20-30 minutes latter she got up and left disappointed. I knew she was angry but the question is WHY DOES THIS TEENAGER WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH ME? All of a sudden for the past 1-2 weeks she has been trying to be close and sneak into my room.

After that day I stopped playing my music loud at night. Now the Community is where everyone knows everyone. So when ever Nike would be coming towards the lodge area, I would luckily hear other teenagers and kids call her name and hear them chat and I would immediately lock (bolt) my net-door and close my main door. She came multiple times and would knock but I wouldn't answer the door. After about 1 week Nike disappears. Completely. I stopped seeing her. Just like that. Stopped hearing from her. Stopped even seeing her around in the Community. It was almost as if she travelled and left the community.

Now I noticed something after her attempts. I had noticed that whenever I would go into the community to patronize the provision stores , I felt someone would always sneak away. I felt someone was avoiding me. But it was a bit funny to me because in life people usually only concern themselves about when people stalk them and not when people avoid them. But my senses would spot someone move away or change direction whenever I was walking within the Community. I didnt take it to be much.

On one sunny afternoon (I think on a weekend) the Head Boy, Head Girl, Boy Social Prefect and Girl Social Prefect were at the Lodge and I would engage them on what they plan to be in future and would tell them things that they need to be good at. Then they started speaking Yoruba and mentioned "Nike bla bla bla..Nike bla bla bla ".amidst chuckles and whispers. I mean Didn't understand Yoruba but of course I know the name Nike. Then out of curiosity I ask them what is the matter with Nike and why they are talking about her! Then boom.. Head Boy says "SIR NIKE IS PREGNANT!"......Preg what?!!!! These kids start chuckling "SHE IS PREGNANT SIR" . Then they explain to me that she has been ashamed of coming out to the public. They tell me it is a local lumberjack (agbegilodo) that impregnated her. That Guy is as built as the Incredible Hulk. My entire body, head to toe is one of his chest muscles. I am 5'7 and consider myself average. This guy is 6ft plus muscular, black like charcoal, and a brutally built Orangutan cross with a Silver Back, that had a baby with the Incredible Hulk and the baby grew up to be a giant muscular black incredible hulk! Now add the fact that the guy has small pox or chicken pox scars all over his face!!!!!

I was busy thinking what would have happened and how it had happened, and how could little 16-17 year old Nike handle such a man? Were they dating?Did he rape her? ...Then it dawned me...NIKE ACTUALLY WAS TRYING TO SEDUCE ME TO HAVE SEX WITH HER SO SHE COULD PIN THE PREGNANCY ON ME. YES. SHE HAD PLANNED IT ALL OUT WITH OR WITHOUT THE MAN WHO IMPREGNATED HER. AND SHE HAS BEEN THE ONE RUNNING AWAY AND DUCKING WHENEVER I STROLLED INTO THE HEART/CENTER OF THE COMMUNITY. She had intentionally thrown herself at me. She threw herself at me, and expected me to take the bait. If I had touched Nike, Nike would have accused me of being the person who impregnated her.

And back then NYSC was crazy with the policy that should a corps member impregnate a lady from a Community, they would facilitate the marriage. Paternity Test, I had known about, but it was not very popular and the technology was not common in Nigeria back then. Thirdly, what would I have told my family and friends and the school and the government ? That I had sex with a minor because I could resist seduction from a Child ? It would have been really irresponsible of me. My dear Mother would have died from the disappointment.

That experience made me never to accept ANY WOMAN THAT THROWS HERSELF AT ME. IF YOU LIKE, BE BILL GATE'S DAUGHTER! I WILL ASSUME IT IS A SET-UP!
Also made me hate hookup girls and prostitutes (a good thing if you ask me) due to the fact that they solicit and throw themselves too.

If anything I thank God for not taking the bait. Even if I was able to wriggle out of it...imagine the shame and disgrace. The wahala from NYSC. The news going round among other Corps members. The LI and ZI having to intervene. Naah.

Sleeping with a Minor is wrong , now even if she was an adult It isn't worth it at all. Naaah.

Once you don dey get mixed feelings about that singular decision..my brother just disembark! It will save you from a whole lot of problems.

itzadorable333:
As a human, self-control is the first and essential lesson to learn. Lack of self-control is the mother of all evil. The problems that pervade the world (from the beginning of creation till the end), have been, is , and will always be the consequences of lack of self-control.

Gbamsulotey oooooo mucheche oooooo hahaha 😂

Nothing beats a life of absolute chastity, abstinence from sexual related activities, the only sex allowed is in Matrimony or Marriage ooooooooo mucheche oooooo hahaha 😂

Honestly, nope! I have always banged when an opportunity comes or when it's convenient (for me)..

MODIFIED
I just remembered now that the time I had something close to your topic, was due to offensive smell from the V, and not because of anything else. My D just went flat on its own...

Man or woman any small touch your body don ready.....
You are a devil
And you sef know......
Once you can discipline yourself sexually
You are in for greatness

‎This happened several years ago, and it is an experience I have never forgotten.
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‎I once visited a friend who lived around Unity Estate, Sangotedo. I stayed at his place for approximately two weeks before eventually returning home.
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‎During my stay, there was a young lady who lived in the same compound as my friend. She consistently showed interest in me and made her intentions quite obvious.
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‎One particular day, my friend had gone out, and she came over to visit. Things took an unexpected turn when she approached me with the intention of getting intimate. I told her I would need to get condoms first. Surprisingly, she became visibly upset and asked whether I thought she had an infection.
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‎I calmly explained that I wasn't comfortable having unprotected sex with anyone, regardless of how well I knew them. My health and safety were non negotiable.
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‎She got angry and walked out, apparently expecting that I would eventually change my mind, beg her to stay, or agree to have unprotected sex. Unfortunately for her expectations, that wasn't going to happen.
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‎The following month, long after I had left my friend's place, he called to tell me that the same lady was pregnant.
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‎I remember thinking to myself, so she already knew she was pregnant and possibly been looking for someone to pin the responsibility on?
‎
‎That experience reinforced an important lesson for me. Self control is one of the most underrated qualities a man can possess.
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‎Sometimes, the greatest demonstration of strength is knowing when to say NO and having the discipline to stand by it.

ebubeson:
Have you ever been in any situation where you struggled to say no to a very strong sexual temptation, but at the end, you really thanked God that you didn't fall for it. It may be a narrow escape from someone you later discovered had a sexually transmitted disease. It may be a temptation in marriage with an EX whom you later discovered was a deadly ritualist.

I read a guy's write-up, he wrote about what he noticed in a lady, but he still went ahead to sleep with her, and he caught HIV.

Please edit title, its an eyesore.

Share an experience of you saying;"No to sex",that saved your precious life.

itzadorable333:
As a human, self-control is the first and essential lesson to learn. Lack of self-control is the mother of all evil. The problems that pervade the world (from the beginning of creation till the end), have been, is , and will always be the consequences of lack of self-control.

share you experience you de share advice wen everybody here don de hear for how many years...
who no listen wen e house or church or school tell am Na for hear e wan see am listen small pikin nor de here
share your experience mama

I say NO to sex with everyday since this year


The passion and urge is not there anymore

As a young lad with so much swagg back then. Plenty ladies were rushing me because Dem see potential man. This particular one storm my apartment very early to offer me quickie. I said we are using condom she said No oooo. I said okay u can go . That same day I learnt she was pregnant and was looking who to dash baby. Saying No has saved me. Some nearby disgrace can be averted when u say No to offers that are like opportunities.

imagine girl spend the night una no do anything
after then e begin bug you with Calls text complain of you not giving attention, complain if you nor reply meeage or call quick,, forcing you she wanna come over again, complain you don't like her or why you avoiding her...

just imagine say I 4rk that night

Numerous to count but this your post makes emotional.God has been good to me.I would have impregnated at least four of my secondary School girls but saying no to sex has saved me.I had a beautiful Yoruba lady who crushed on me and I was always going to her room everything night but somehow I resisted the urge to sleep with her.i later found out she had aids.other colleagues knew but never told me.I always married a wealthy Yoruba lady because I was struggling then. and my friends urged me to marry her.She died of HIV/aids.I lived in a house in Sokoto that was inhabited my mainly runs girls.I was new and an agent got the house for me.I resisted all the pressure to sleep with any of them.Before I left that house I can count at least ten persons that died from HIV complications or Yahoo plus activities.Closing my leg is the reason why I am still alive.

Maj196:
Definitely made up or AI

Ofcourse it's an AI story

Omor self control is a virtue most people don't have.

I go yan una my story later