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CaptainWest1000:
My wedding has been postponed for the second time due to financial constraints. I experienced serious setbacks in my businesses and investments, and unfortunately, I lost almost everything I had invested in. These were the same businesses and investments I had hoped would provide the financial resources needed to make my wedding plans a reality. Sadly, when the time came to move forward, there was nothing available to sustain the plans.

Since then, my fiancée's attitude towards me has changed significantly. Even communicating with her has become difficult. This is someone who, in the past, could hardly go a day without hearing from me. We used to communicate freely and consistently, but things are no longer the same. Sometimes, I find myself wondering whether someone else has come into the picture or whether people around her are influencing her feelings and turning her heart away from me.

When things were going well financially, I always did my best to take good care of her and make her happy. However, now that I am facing financial difficulties, her attitude and body language sometimes make me feel as though material things have become more important to her than the love and commitment we share.

Another issue that has caused serious concern in our relationship is what I believe may be a spiritual problem. Some of the losses and difficulties I experienced were linked, in my mind, to claims that she has a spiritual husband. Two different pastors independently raised this concern and advised us to pray and spiritually disconnect from whatever they believed was responsible before things could begin to work out for us. However, her family does not believe in this explanation, and she has also found it difficult to accept.

Initially, after the second postponement, we agreed to move the wedding to next year, after the presidential election, hoping that things would have improved financially by then. But since that decision, I have noticed a significant change in her attitude towards me, and it has left me deeply worried about the future of our relationship.

To make matters even more difficult, we live approximately 400 kilometres apart, which makes it harder to see each other, have meaningful conversations, and properly understand what is happening between us.

Honestly, I am going through a very difficult period. Beyond the financial losses and the disappointment of postponing my wedding twice, what hurts me most is the feeling that I may be losing the person I have always wanted to spend the rest of my life with, simply because circumstances are no longer favourable.

I understand that financial stability is important in marriage, but I also believe that true love, patience, understanding, loyalty, and commitment should not disappear when one partner experiences difficult times. I never planned to fail financially, and I never intended to disappoint her or delay our future together. I only wish she could understand that I am going through a difficult phase and not giving up on the dreams we once shared.

brain54:
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If she can't be considerate and vex too much she should fund the wedding herself.


Or is she handicapped?


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ebubeson:
Engage in serious prayers for your business.

Bayoonanuga:
How much dey your aza way you wan marry and get family

I like as your fiancee breakup with you

Leave the proud broke disvirgin woman alone and move on mynd44 nlfpmod Dominique seun

lookinggood:
So you believe him, go and check his previous post

CaptainWest1000:
My wedding has been postponed for the second time due to financial constraints. I experienced serious setbacks in my businesses and investments, and unfortunately, I lost almost everything I had invested in. These were the same businesses and investments I had hoped would provide the financial resources needed to make my wedding plans a reality. Sadly, when the time came to move forward, there was nothing available to sustain the plans.

Since then, my fiancée's attitude towards me has changed significantly. Even communicating with her has become difficult. This is someone who, in the past, could hardly go a day without hearing from me. We used to communicate freely and consistently, but things are no longer the same. Sometimes, I find myself wondering whether someone else has come into the picture or whether people around her are influencing her feelings and turning her heart away from me.

When things were going well financially, I always did my best to take good care of her and make her happy. However, now that I am facing financial difficulties, her attitude and body language sometimes make me feel as though material things have become more important to her than the love and commitment we share.

Another issue that has caused serious concern in our relationship is what I believe may be a spiritual problem. Some of the losses and difficulties I experienced were linked, in my mind, to claims that she has a spiritual husband. Two different pastors independently raised this concern and advised us to pray and spiritually disconnect from whatever they believed was responsible before things could begin to work out for us. However, her family does not believe in this explanation, and she has also found it difficult to accept.

Initially, after the second postponement, we agreed to move the wedding to next year, after the presidential election, hoping that things would have improved financially by then. But since that decision, I have noticed a significant change in her attitude towards me, and it has left me deeply worried about the future of our relationship.

To make matters even more difficult, we live approximately 400 kilometres apart, which makes it harder to see each other, have meaningful conversations, and properly understand what is happening between us.

Honestly, I am going through a very difficult period. Beyond the financial losses and the disappointment of postponing my wedding twice, what hurts me most is the feeling that I may be losing the person I have always wanted to spend the rest of my life with, simply because circumstances are no longer favourable.

I understand that financial stability is important in marriage, but I also believe that true love, patience, understanding, loyalty, and commitment should not disappear when one partner experiences difficult times. I never planned to fail financially, and I never intended to disappoint her or delay our future together. I only wish she could understand that I am going through a difficult phase and not giving up on the dreams we once shared.

Yugoslavia247:
She has a spirit husband

If you go on

You might regret it.


Go and seek spiritual help and ask about that woman.
I need help boss, connect me to genuine spiritualist please 🙏
If there’s solution fine, but if not I will happily move on

If you need one let me know.


But why you go Dey drag woman with spirits


Of all the women in the world na she you want

You no even put yourself first

Omoh you na Dey do

What is a man without providence

When people Dey search for girls with good luck you Dey drag spirit husband.


If you marry her by force she will feed you

You will be so poor that you will regret it

However she will be excelling in all doings

FortCavazosKnox:
You are seeing signs of spiritual husband and you still want to marry her without sorting out that problem first and it has affected your finances. You are worried about the wrong thing and if care isn’t taken you will perish

CaptainWest1000:
I don’t want to perish na why I need help

brain54:
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If she can't be considerate and vex too much she should fund the wedding herself.


Or is she handicapped?


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verminnel:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Obukokwu

CaptainWest1000:
My wedding has been postponed for the second time due to financial constraints. I experienced serious setbacks in my businesses and investments, and unfortunately, I lost almost everything I had invested in. These were the same businesses and investments I had hoped would provide the financial resources needed to make my wedding plans a reality. Sadly, when the time came to move forward, there was nothing available to sustain the plans.

Since then, my fiancée's attitude towards me has changed significantly. Even communicating with her has become difficult. This is someone who, in the past, could hardly go a day without hearing from me. We used to communicate freely and consistently, but things are no longer the same. Sometimes, I find myself wondering whether someone else has come into the picture or whether people around her are influencing her feelings and turning her heart away from me.

When things were going well financially, I always did my best to take good care of her and make her happy. However, now that I am facing financial difficulties, her attitude and body language sometimes make me feel as though material things have become more important to her than the love and commitment we share.

Another issue that has caused serious concern in our relationship is what I believe may be a spiritual problem. Some of the losses and difficulties I experienced were linked, in my mind, to claims that she has a spiritual husband. Two different pastors independently raised this concern and advised us to pray and spiritually disconnect from whatever they believed was responsible before things could begin to work out for us. However, her family does not believe in this explanation, and she has also found it difficult to accept.

Initially, after the second postponement, we agreed to move the wedding to next year, after the presidential election, hoping that things would have improved financially by then. But since that decision, I have noticed a significant change in her attitude towards me, and it has left me deeply worried about the future of our relationship.

To make matters even more difficult, we live approximately 400 kilometres apart, which makes it harder to see each other, have meaningful conversations, and properly understand what is happening between us.

Honestly, I am going through a very difficult period. Beyond the financial losses and the disappointment of postponing my wedding twice, what hurts me most is the feeling that I may be losing the person I have always wanted to spend the rest of my life with, simply because circumstances are no longer favourable.

I understand that financial stability is important in marriage, but I also believe that true love, patience, understanding, loyalty, and commitment should not disappear when one partner experiences difficult times. I never planned to fail financially, and I never intended to disappoint her or delay our future together. I only wish she could understand that I am going through a difficult phase and not giving up on the dreams we once shared.

Yugoslavia247:
It will cost you money ooo
But you will get results.
You will see the difference then you can marry.
I will confirm the number and send to you here.
I need to take his permission

Bayoonanuga:
How much dey your aza way you wan marry and get family

I like as your fiancee breakup with you

Leave the proud broke disvirgin woman alone and move on mynd44 nlfpmod Dominique seun

CaptainWest1000:
My wedding has been postponed for the second time due to he dreams we once shared.

CaptainWest1000:
My wedding has been postponed for the second time due to financial constraints. I experienced serious setbacks in my businesses and investments, and unfortunately, I lost almost everything I had invested in. These were the same businesses and investments I had hoped would provide the financial resources needed to make my wedding plans a reality. Sadly, when the time came to move forward, there was nothing available to sustain the plans.

Since then, my fiancée's attitude towards me has changed significantly. Even communicating with her has become difficult. This is someone who, in the past, could hardly go a day without hearing from me. We used to communicate freely and consistently, but things are no longer the same. Sometimes, I find myself wondering whether someone else has come into the picture or whether people around her are influencing her feelings and turning her heart away from me.

When things were going well financially, I always did my best to take good care of her and make her happy. However, now that I am facing financial difficulties, her attitude and body language sometimes make me feel as though material things have become more important to her than the love and commitment we share.

Another issue that has caused serious concern in our relationship is what I believe may be a spiritual problem. Some of the losses and difficulties I experienced were linked, in my mind, to claims that she has a spiritual husband. Two different pastors independently raised this concern and advised us to pray and spiritually disconnect from whatever they believed was responsible before things could begin to work out for us. However, her family does not believe in this explanation, and she has also found it difficult to accept.

Initially, after the second postponement, we agreed to move the wedding to next year, after the presidential election, hoping that things would have improved financially by then. But since that decision, I have noticed a significant change in her attitude towards me, and it has left me deeply worried about the future of our relationship.

To make matters even more difficult, we live approximately 400 kilometres apart, which makes it harder to see each other, have meaningful conversations, and properly understand what is happening between us.

Honestly, I am going through a very difficult period. Beyond the financial losses and the disappointment of postponing my wedding twice, what hurts me most is the feeling that I may be losing the person I have always wanted to spend the rest of my life with, simply because circumstances are no longer favourable.

I understand that financial stability is important in marriage, but I also believe that true love, patience, understanding, loyalty, and commitment should not disappear when one partner experiences difficult times. I never planned to fail financially, and I never intended to disappoint her or delay our future together. I only wish she could understand that I am going through a difficult phase and not giving up on the dreams we once shared.

Dzzzz:
You’re the spiritual problem and not her..You postponed your wedding twice and you think it’s a normal thing??Who does that!!!..When they tell you people to cut coat according to your size,una go like to overdo am.How much you get for aza wey you Dey rush to marry and now you Dey postpone marriage date anyhow..Alaye better do it fast cause soon them go chop your venue money..

SeniorGee:
Forget the wedding. Don't move forward till you are stable.
When I decided to get married, my finances began going down. I used strong head to do the wedding and 10 yrs later, I can't find my feet 🐾 completely. One challenge to the other. Sometimes I just sit and wonder 🤔!

Sort yourself out long term before you enter. The daughters of eve no send you when you're broke!

CaptainWest1000:
She’s too desperate to get married, I blame myself for not doing proper planning for everything
And also I most tell you that spirituality is involved, just last two weeks she involved in accident that is very serious that she dislocated her wrist and other body injuries, what did you call that one sir?