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| He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Nobody: 10:47am On Oct 07, 2013 |
I found out four months ago that my ex was cheating on me with his girlfriend who he lied to me about claiming to have ended the relationship. We parted ways amicably even though i loved him. I am seeing someone else now and we're having issues because yesterday, my ex called me to tell me he was ill (really ill) so i went to see him after church to be sure he's ok.(his gf doesn't stay in abuja with him, she's in lagos) i cooked for him, he ate and i left. My boyfriend got angry when i told him and now he is mad at me and threatening to break my sim card. I think he is over reacting. What is wrong with being there for an ill person, is it bad because he is my ex? Everything i did, i did from the goodness of my heart, nothing more. 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by didicold(f): 11:01am On Oct 07, 2013 |
What ur actions just told ur bf is dat u r available for ur ex if he is interested. Sick or not, serzly what were u thinking,short of a death bed confession he should go and call his family or frends abi him no get before he called d "good samaritan"? 16 Likes |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by here: 11:06am On Oct 07, 2013 |
Very wrong seed sis. I think its only a matter of time before he does something terrible to satisfy himself that you arent cheating. Was wrong to have gone to your ex and did all you did.There are hospitals.Is he a Christian or Moslem they have people who can cook for them in Abuja and take care of him.His girlfriend should care enough to know how to take care of her man in such case,was did she suggest? Do you think she will be happy too knowing you werr making food for her bfriend in his state? I think you need to re-define what you want and stop living in denial.Some actions have consequences.As an ex how come he doesnt talk to ur bfriend freely and if he wanted help would have called ur man himself.I tell you,your man can arrange for him to be cared for.Sure you'll even appreciate your man being there for your ex,but you playing mother for a man you were intimate with but you have a relationahip now;dear you need to growup. Abuja is lonely for some but trust me people help alot,even his neighbors would take care of him so well you'll be surprised.Better beg him and stop the nonsense feeling you have for your ex or better go back to him. 12 Likes |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Nobody: 11:18am On Oct 07, 2013 |
I don't see no wrong in it. If ur ex is still ur friend, there's no wrong in going to see an ill friend.however why cook for him? On the part of your boyfriend. Its really normal 4 him to get jealous and mayb you've showed him in the past that your still inluv with your ex. now you have seen his reaction, u should understand where he is coming from hence, in the future do not do things that you know would gt him worked up. If hiz not comfortable abt ur ex, then itz time to put ur ex at arms length coz your present bf matters more right now. Just explain to him and tell him u won't hurt him that way again. 1 Like |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by wasak(m): 11:58am On Oct 07, 2013 |
were u expecting him to commend u? He's jealous cos he loves u. the ball is in ur court ...choose between ur ex and ur present. 5 Likes |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by djeezy(m): 12:05pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Op be honest, you still love your ex. You're present is just jealous and nothing more, he won't carry out the threat. 2 Likes |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Monicasque(f): 12:54pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
babes your current man wants security and u seeing yo ex nomatter the situation sort of threatens that. just stay away from yo ex nomatter what. how wud u feel if it was theother way round |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by segzicres(m): 12:59pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Cooking for him? Lmao! |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Nobody: 1:03pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
I know it's wrong to have gone to see my ex and even cook for him bt i was just trying to be nice. I forgot my sun glasses there and i intend to go and get it this evening. When i told my bf about the sun glasses, he said he would drive me to my ex's house to get the glasses. I am jst worried he would make a scene, he isn't replying my texts or dms and he isn't talking to me. |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by wasak(m): 1:06pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
kennygee: I know it's wrong to have gone to see my ex and even cook for him bt i was just trying to be nice. I forgot my sun glasses there and i intend to go and get it this evening. When i told my bf about the sun glasses, he said he would drive me to my ex's house to get the glasses. I am jst worried he would make a scene, he isn't replying my texts or dms and he isn't talking to me... Hope u ll forget ur pa**.too when u go ds evening... I think ur ex is more important.... 3 Likes |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Idowuogbo(f): 1:09pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Just cooking? I no trust u o! Gal, talk u tru nau.... D guy press certain things shey? Don't lie o cus d thunder wey go strike ur fingers no b hia. U in a relationship, u con carry urself go anoda location go cook for ur ex? Are u crazy? Who does dat? U brave o! As in braveeeeee. 6 Likes |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Nobody: 1:11pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Not a good idea going to ur ex house to cook for him even tho he's sick. U nor dey watch Nigeria film ni 3 Likes |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Nobody: 1:13pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
I end all my relationships amicably. I am friends with all my exs and i don't get intimate with them believe it or not. I jst thought i was being there for a friend. I can cook for an ill friend. I am nt attachd to my ex i was jst trying to be nice. |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by wasak(m): 1:13pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Just cooking? I no trust u o! Gal, talk u tru nau.... D guy press certain things shey? Don't lie o cus d thunder wey go strike ur fingers no b hia. U in a relationship, u con carry urself go anoda location go cook for ur ex? Are u crazy? Who does dat? U brave o! As in braveeeeee.Id of life... u gats tutor some of these chicks o...before dem come tomorrow say one bobo break their heart.. |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Idowuogbo(f): 1:15pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
kennygee: I know it's wrong to have gone to see my ex and even cook for him bt i was just trying to be nice. I forgot my sun glasses there and i intend to go and get it this evening. When i told my bf about the sun glasses, he said he would drive me to my ex's house to get the glasses. I am jst worried he would make a scene, he isn't replying my texts or dms and he isn't talking to me.Lmaaaaao! Werey! U forgot gini? Kai! My belle o! So after d do not commit wey u commit, u wan carry urself go again over sunglasses? Wow! Dat ur shades na one in town. Lady gaga tinz...Msteeeeew! Oshi oro. |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Nobody: 1:18pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Those are origina Givenchy shades. I don't mind if we go to get it together, i am jst scared he mite make a scene. |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Idowuogbo(f): 1:23pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
kennygee: I end all my relationships amicably. I am friends with all my exs and i don't get intimate with them believe it or not. I jst thought i was being there for a friend. I can cook for an ill friend. I am nt attachd to my ex i was jst trying to be nice.Blah blah blah! Vmail! Gal, U not making sense. Dat ur 1980 definition of nice na stupidity we dey call am nowadays . Come on!!!! Na orphan? I'm sure he has friends and famz, ur move was wrong!!! So wrong.If I b d guy gf, mehn if I catch u dia, i go use my ko-shoe beat the stupidity comot for ur body. Nonsense! 3 Likes |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Idowuogbo(f): 1:25pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
kennygee: Those are origina Givenchy shades. I don't mind if we go to get it together, i am jst scared he mite make a scene.Oh yea? Dat givenchy go dear o! Msteeeeeeeeew! Rubbish |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Timijo(m): 1:29pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
kennygee: I found out four months ago that my ex was cheating on me with his girlfriend who he lied to me about claiming to have ended the relationship. We parted ways amicably even though i loved him.Let him break It, after breaking It, report him to Seun the C.E.O of nairaland. Then we will mobilise ourselves to show him our true colour. |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Nobody: 1:31pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
I was wrong about going to his house, i know. I jst think he is over reacting. An ill person isn't thinking abt intimacy, he is thinking of how to get better. I won't see my ex again, i promised my bf that. But i am going back to get my shades, even if he decides to come with me. |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Idowuogbo(f): 1:32pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
kennygee: I was wrong about going to his house, i know. I jst think he is over reacting. An ill person isn't thinking abt intimacy, he is thinking of how to get better. I won't see my ex again, i promised my bf that. But i am going back to get my shades, even if he decides to come with me.Lolz... Dis glasses dey do u strong tin o! Ave ur bf pick dem up. Don't go! |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Nobody: 1:38pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
We will both go and get it. |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by sexymoma(f): 1:39pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
How would you feel if your fiancee tells you that he bought his EX a mobile phone cos she couldn't afford one?... Your EX is your past, how on earth would you go to his house and cook for him.. That very very wrong, it shows you still love him, no man would accept that from you as long as he has blood running in his vain. Dont please others by displeasing yourself and people around you. Shey you know maybe your EX go shine congo too much na im make am sick You come dey treat another woman gbege. On a serious note it's wrong so wrong 1 Like |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Idowuogbo(f): 1:41pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
sexymoma: How would you feel if your fiancee tells you that he bought his EX a mobile phone cos she couldn't afford one?...Lmao! Talk d talk sis  |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Seun(m): 1:44pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
kennygee: I found out four months ago that my ex was cheating on me with his girlfriend who he lied to me about claiming to have ended the relationship. We parted ways amicably even though i loved him.I'm disturbed that he is threatening to commit an act of violence rather than something normal like calling off the relationship. I understand his annoyance but his threat is not normal. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by sexymoma(f): 1:46pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Idowuogbo:Make i talk d talk for her ministry to move forward jare  happy bdae in arrears jare mama oni mama  Seun: I'm disturbed that he is threatening to commit an act of violence rather than something normal like calling off the relationship. I understand his annoyance but his threat is not normal.Jega has spoken.... Lobatan!!! |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Nobody: 1:47pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Seun: I'm disturbed that he is threatening to commit an act of violence rather than something normal like calling off the relationship. I understand his annoyance but his threat is not normal.you are the only person who has reached out to me. That's why i think he is over reacting. |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by cycline404(m): 1:48pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Will breaking ur sim card stop u from communicating with ur ex.... Tell that guy to try other means, though u re wrong..... Very Very! |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Nobody: 1:53pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
Your current boyfriend is a kid. That you told him how you visited your ex and cooked for him is enough evidence that you don't hide things from him. What then is "trust", if he cannot trust you after you opened up to him? If he breaks your sim, break his phone.  I'll like that BOY to swear on his life that he has osctracized all his ex'. . . Nonsense and all it's ingredients! 1 Like |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by Nobody: 1:56pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
cycline404: Will breaking ur sim card stop u from communicating with ur ex....What makes her wrong in a life or death situation? |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by didicold(f): 1:58pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
U didnt make out like d threat was serious, all i can glean is u r so determined to be involved wit ur ex dat woe betides whoever stand between u, is ur bf such a violent person he can't pick up d shades without picking a fight wit a supposedly ill person. Go if u feel u must but i hope u realize by doin so u r undermining ur position in ur relationship,u have effectively "sold out". While u pick up d shades, anoda desperate gel will come and "cook stew" for ur bf too, after all, is it only sick ppl that eat? 8 Likes |
| Re: He Is Threatening To Break My Sim Card Because Of My Ex. by didicold(f): 2:00pm On Oct 07, 2013 |
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