Help me out guys, don't know what I should do in this situation as I have lots of female friends but they all just want to be friends with me & that baffles me a lot as I am a very nice guy & fun to be with. So I need help from u guys as what should I do to change their perception about me. Your help will be highly appreciated.

Op ...are you handsome? Girls love handsome guys.

You sure they just want to be friends, all of them
Perhaps someone's flirting and you're reading the signs wrong

I knew d problem before i clicked on this thread and you just confirmed it - You are a very nice guy. Its okay to be nice but don't be very nice. Start learning how to care less.

Penuelseun: Help me out guys, don't know what I should do in this situation as I have lots of female friends but they all just want to be friends with me & that baffles me a lot as I am a very nice guy & fun to be with. So I need help from u guys as what should I do to change their perception about me. Your help will be highly appreciated.

the nick above me confirmed it already. but as a guy lemme just add this ' a girl's friend is far diffrent from her lover' yes shes having a good time n havin fun when shes around you but you aint sexually attractive to her/them' you wanna be a man like you have your own time' you have your own life. it all boils down to the 'game" .

its either you are too nice or you are too funny so everything u say or do is a joke tu them....

If you are really a nice guy then you should have gotten what you are looking for.

nekaa: its either you are too nice or you are too funny so everything u say or do is a joke tu them....

The guy wants punny

Thanks y'all, I think I will just be serious when I am around any of them but it will be a bit hard 'cause I am very funny naturally

Penuelseun: Thanks y'all, I think I will just be serious when I am around any of them but it will be a bit hard 'cause I am very funny naturally

Don't take it all away, just bring it down a notch

I'm wondering as well

sweet-tease:
I knew d problem before i clicked on this thread and you just confirmed it - You are a very nice guy. Its okay to be nice but don't be very nice. Start learning how to care less.

Thank you!! I initially wanted to bold the part he said "HE IS A VERY VERY NICE GUY", but decided to read what people had to say before replying..

Erm @OP, sweet has said it all.. Read what she said again carefully, therein lies your solution.. No time for too much grammar..

We nice guys don suffer, sweet tease my eyes are on you

sweet-tease:

Don't take it all away, just bring it down a notch

Learn to tell lies..

xynerise:
The guy wants punny

So do you. Lol

Develop a bad boy attitude, girls loves bad boys

olodoism

agrovick: We nice guys don suffer, sweet tease my eyes are on you

Its okay to stare

Andyblaze:

seriously?

Was i talking to you?

sweet-tease:

Was i talking to you?

The love I get for u na jackie chan haaaa chaaaa

Andyblaze:

The love I get for u na jackie chan haaaa chaaaa

I prefer Bruce Lee

Cool but I'm not a voye.u.r

sweet-tease:

Its okay to stare

Would av loved to be ur bruce lee but the dude died, how abt being ur clark kent

sweet-tease:

I prefer Bruce Lee

Ironically, even the so-called church girls don't like nice guys,
I can't stop been nice or funny just to please a girl, I wld rather wait for that special one

[quote author=Penuelseun]Help me out guys, don't know what I should do in this situation as I have lots of female friends but they all just want to be friends with me & that baffles me a lot as I am a very nice guy & fun to be with. So I need help from u guys as what should I do to change their perception about me. Your help will be highly appreciated.[/quote

so what's bad with having female friends, you do know female friends do help alot in terms of getting a job or referral, most jobs i get were from female friends. don't change or do anything except just communicate what you what, if you have a warm character then why change that, or you want to be like some goons on NL ?

Guess you're the type that joke with everything,guess u say things like "hmmm,babe u dey hot o,mehn u go kill dem".They'd find it funny but you'd just be the guy that says stupid jokes and they won't take you serious.I'll advice you start making new friends and change ur 'nice guy' attitude.

Start behaving as if u r ready to settle down

sweettease:
I knew d problem before i clicked on this thread and you just confirmed it - You are a very nice guy. Its okay to be nice but don't be very nice. Start learning how to care less.

Ogbeni OP focus on your life for now ,there s a stage u go reach after much self growth ,physical growth, mental ,emotional growth and financial growth as well and so many other factors ,na dem go dey chase you ,trust me you would know when u get to this stage.

For now just play along and get in their pants ,no go dull . No go love o ,make u No go chop breakfast
These girls dis days na streets 80% of dem ,shine ya eyes, like bbn s6 .