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Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by Penuelseun(op): 1:28pm On Dec 27, 2013
Help me out guys, don't know what I should do in this situation as I have lots of female friends but they all just want to be friends with me & that baffles me a lot as I am a very nice guy & fun to be with. So I need help from u guys as what should I do to change their perception about me. Your help will be highly appreciated.
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by Heineken(m): 1:39pm On Dec 27, 2013
Op ...are you handsome? Girls love handsome guys.
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by UjSizzle(f): 1:43pm On Dec 27, 2013
You sure they just want to be friends, all of themhuh
Perhaps someone's flirting and you're reading the signs wrong undecided smiley
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by vizkiz: 1:55pm On Dec 27, 2013
is dis world all abt pu*cihuh I'm qetinq tired of all dis sh*t
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by sweettease(f): 2:23pm On Dec 27, 2013
I knew d problem before i clicked on this thread and you just confirmed it - You are a very nice guy. Its okay to be nice but don't be very nice. Start learning how to care less.
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by Swaggot00(m): 2:42pm On Dec 27, 2013
Penuelseun: Help me out guys, don't know what I should do in this situation as I have lots of female friends but they all just want to be friends with me & that baffles me a lot as I am a very nice guy & fun to be with. So I need help from u guys as what should I do to change their perception about me. Your help will be highly appreciated.
the nick above me confirmed it already. but as a guy lemme just add this ' a girl's friend is far diffrent from her lover' yes shes having a good time n havin fun when shes around you but you aint sexually attractive to her/them' you wanna be a man like you have your own time' you have your own life. it all boils down to the 'game" .
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by nekaa(f): 2:43pm On Dec 27, 2013
its either you are too nice or you are too funny so everything u say or do is a joke tu them....
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by xynerise: 2:44pm On Dec 27, 2013
If you are really a nice guy then you should have gotten what you are looking for.
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by xynerise: 2:45pm On Dec 27, 2013
nekaa: its either you are too nice or you are too funny so everything u say or do is a joke tu them....
The guy wants punny
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by Penuelseun(op): 4:03pm On Dec 27, 2013
Thanks y'all, I think I will just be serious when I am around any of them but it will be a bit hard 'cause I am very funny naturally
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by sweettease(f): 4:16pm On Dec 27, 2013
Penuelseun: Thanks y'all, I think I will just be serious when I am around any of them but it will be a bit hard 'cause I am very funny naturally
Don't take it all away, just bring it down a notch
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by jaybee3(m): 4:20pm On Dec 27, 2013
I'm wondering as well
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by Kslib(m): 4:28pm On Dec 27, 2013
[quote author=sweet-tease]I knew d problem before i clicked on this thread and you just confirmed it - You are a very nice guy. Its okay to be nice but don't be very nice. Start learning how to care less.[/quote]Thank you!! I initially wanted to bold the part he said "HE IS A VERY VERY NICE GUY", but decided to read what people had to say before replying..

Erm @OP, sweet has said it all.. Read what she said again carefully, therein lies your solution.. No time for too much grammar..
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by agrovick(m): 4:57pm On Dec 27, 2013
We nice guys don suffer, sweet tease my eyes are on you
[quote author=sweet-tease]Don't take it all away, just bring it down a notch[/quote]
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by Dannylux: 5:50pm On Dec 27, 2013
Learn to tell lies..
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by redcliff: 8:57pm On Dec 27, 2013
xynerise: The guy wants punny
So do you. Lol grin
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by pasqal09: 9:05pm On Dec 27, 2013
Develop a bad boy attitude, girls loves bad boys
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by fulli16(m): 10:44pm On Dec 27, 2013
bro...ur situation z nt too diff frm mine @ all...doh i knw d reasons of mine...m kinda nice nd really funi most tymz...
buh m a step ahead f yhu...av discovered a solution...now i tend 2 careless a lil.

doh it haznt really being working out well sha...buh i bliv tinz wld turn arnd soon enuf grin
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by Andyblaze: 10:44pm On Dec 27, 2013
olodoism angry angry
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by sweettease(f): 9:48am On Dec 28, 2013
agrovick: We nice guys don suffer, sweet tease my eyes are on you
Its okay to stare wink
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by sweettease(f): 10:47am On Dec 28, 2013
Andyblaze: seriously? angry angry
Was i talking to you? tongue
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by Andyblaze: 11:20am On Dec 28, 2013
[quote author=sweet-tease]Was i talking to you? tongue[/quote]The love I get for u na jackie chan haaaa chaaaaembarassed
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by sweettease(f): 1:33pm On Dec 28, 2013
Andyblaze: The love I get for u na jackie chan haaaa chaaaaembarassed
I prefer Bruce Lee embarassed
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by agrovick(m): 1:40pm On Dec 28, 2013
Cool but I'm not a voye.u.r cry[quote author=sweet-tease]Its okay to stare wink[/quote]
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by agrovick(m): 1:43pm On Dec 28, 2013
Would av loved to be ur bruce lee but the dude died, how abt being ur clark kent
[quote author=sweet-tease]I prefer Bruce Lee embarassed[/quote]
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by Abbey2sam(m): 2:23pm On Dec 28, 2013
Ironically, even the so-called church girls don't like nice guys,
I can't stop been nice or funny just to please a girl, I wld rather wait for that special one
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by Nobody: 2:34pm On Dec 28, 2013
[quote author=Penuelseun]Help me out guys, don't know what I should do in this situation as I have lots of female friends but they all just want to be friends with me & that baffles me a lot as I am a very nice guy & fun to be with. So I need help from u guys as what should I do to change their perception about me. Your help will be highly appreciated.[/quote

so what's bad with having female friends, you do know female friends do help alot in terms of getting a job or referral, most jobs i get were from female friends. don't change or do anything except just communicate what you what, if you have a warm character then why change that, or you want to be like some goons on NL ?
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by COvo(m): 2:34pm On Dec 28, 2013
Guess you're the type that joke with everything,guess u say things like "hmmm,babe u dey hot o,mehn u go kill dem".They'd find it funny but you'd just be the guy that says stupid jokes and they won't take you serious.I'll advice you start making new friends and change ur 'nice guy' attitude.
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by Justiyke4u: 2:36pm On Dec 28, 2013
Start behaving as if u r ready to settle down
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by silvoclaira: 12:54pm On Aug 02, 2021
sweettease:
I knew d problem before i clicked on this thread and you just confirmed it - You are a very nice guy. Its okay to be nice but don't be very nice. Start learning how to care less.
smiley
Re: Don't Know Why Girls Just Want To Be Friends With Me & Nothing More by MikeofKd(m): 1:16pm On Aug 02, 2021
Ogbeni OP focus on your life for now ,there s a stage u go reach after much self growth ,physical growth, mental ,emotional growth and financial growth as well and so many other factors ,na dem go dey chase you ,trust me you would know when u get to this stage.

For now just play along and get in their pants ,no go dull . No go love o ,make u No go chop breakfast grin
These girls dis days na streets 80% of dem ,shine ya eyes, like bbn s6 .
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