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Famouspecky:
A girl in her 20s is supposed to have a marriage plans in focus.
That is our culture no copy copy"

MisterLongman:
You are fast losing it............ So the same culture stops Boys in their early twenties from getting married....
Go to the North and you will see a 18-year old boy already married with two wives....
Your argument does not carry weight with me

Famouspecky:
An he breed terrorist

Famouspecky:
U seek for medical help
But this happens in old age

MisterLongman:
I wouldn't know but in the olden days a 20 year old male is not too young for marriage, even in other tribes

Pdizzle:
Okay, you put the man on chemicals and allow him to die before his time. Nice

Famouspecky:
That is true but with the way things are moving u don't expect that anymore, even in some darkest part of the world

MisterLongman:
You are really funny....... You claim that girls in their 20s should focus on marriage because its our culture. Now you are claiming that its odd for a man in his early 20s to think about marriage..... Is that not part of our culture also.
You must be a feminist

Famouspecky:
chemicals everyone could have die off

Pdizzle:
"Everyone" who depends on them to function. We all know why ladies marry Old men..hehe

Famouspecky:
My dearest whether u like it or not Men are more saddled with responsibility concerning Marriage whilst women are more occupied with building a family

MisterLongman:
So a girl in her early twenties should be on the lookout for the older made and successful man instead of facing her studies and striving to be greater in life like her male counterparts......... Why should a woman think the only way to get to the top is riding on the back of a man........ Does building a family stops her from being independent, achieving her own dream and reaching the peak in her chosen career.
You must be one those people that still believes that still believes that a woman's place is in the kitchen

Famouspecky:
u really misunderstood my position on this matter
I gave age gap.
In this our contemporary society u can be the best u want to be but as a Woman (African esp.Nigerian) u must think marriage no matter your position.an age 20s is the best time in thinking marriage

MisterLongman:
Your outrageous age gap sparked this argument. Going by your age-gap, you believe the eligible bachelors should be 30 years and above. How did you arrive at this conclusion

MisterLongman:
So a girl in her early twenties should be on the lookout for the older made and successful man instead of facing her studies and striving to be greater in life like her male counterparts......... Why should a woman think the only way to get to the top is riding on the back of a man........ Does building a family stops her from being independent, achieving her own dream and reaching the peak in her chosen career.
You must be one those people that still believes that still believes that a woman's place is in the kitchen

Adaeze003:
No thanks... i'm barely 20 buh can't date a 30 year old biko... lol... older guys are just a no! tho i've seen a few exceptions.

Famouspecky:
Marriage is for Men not bois
boys in their early 20s are supposed to concentrate in their Studies

Famouspecky:
You might be experiencing difficulty in moving your relationship forward due to lack of understanding.
The reasons a times is not far fetched. understanding comes with maturity.…………
Maturity sometimes come hand in hand with age. the age of your Man can also determine the level of assimilation of what it takes to have a relationship that works.

As a lady looking for love an some sort of commitment towards a relationship, u need to learn on how to move away from your present spheres of age mate.
Reasons on why u should date an older man is…………

#1 The understands u, from the youthful exuberance to the little mama girl the knows how it goes.

#2 They always try to make u happy; yes an yes u need something new, don't worry u will be simple satisfied

#3 They are business minded; U don't need a Man who whiles away a huge part of his day on social network to be serious with marriage or even commitment towards relationship

#4 They are go getter; constantly searching on how to multiply their resources, no time to idle on empty talk e.g football argument

#5 They are gentlemen; yes this is unarguably

#6 They are committed; Since there isn't time to waste on friend zone" the easily hook u up in marriage

#7 They are straight forward; no time to lie an lie.
their aye is aye an nay is nay

U can confide in them; those little secrets can be shared.
an above all the are romantic

Thinking committed relationship, try older men. 10-12 age gap for a lady in her early20s
5-7 for a lady in her mid an little late 20s
5-9 for age 30.

obongproff:
I wd hav preferred it if u titled dis post as "Reasons why I, famouspecky MUST marry an older man". By going tru ur posts and ur comments u seriously believe dis tins so much dat u even defend dem. Its obvious u cant marry ur age-mate. And with this type of thinking if u meet 'an older man' in January and den u guys get married in March,afterall he's matured enof.

Der is an ever increasing numba of guys who are attaining financial independence and even becoming millionaires b4 thirty. A friend of mine is 25 and he earns 400k a month, but its obvious such guys are not ur type cos u think a 25 yr old is still not mature enof.

Why am I getting d feeling dat ur one of dose ladies dat feel dat most men dont attain financial bouyancy until day 30 and above?

Dis is a nice topic, but its actually for dose ladies whose ultimate goal and primary assignment in life is to "enta man house"...as in get married.

Well, every lady is entitled to her way of thinking sha.

Id4Islam:
. Hmmmmm! People in their 20's can't be called boyy! As far as u are mature.if u know what I mean. U can go ahead and marry.

Famouspecky:
I listed so many factors an it seems your eyes are catchy on financial aspect

Famouspecky:
y??

Dannylux:
It looks awkward seeing couples with 6+ age difference. Age doesn't guaranty anything these days.

Famouspecky:
not at all

Lacomus:
Reasons to marry ur papa mate abi ? , common a self made girl will never marry a old man na those wer de fine gols to dig fit do am.

Adaeze003:
No thanks... i'm barely 20 buh can't date a 30 year old biko... lol... older guys are just a no! tho i've seen a few exceptions.