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NellyGhenghen: This is totally true, the gay part, older women and girls you like not taking you seriously, especially the young lads. Every girl wants to flirt with a "fine boy" but most of em hesitate to get crious. We have a special zone called "They want you, but can't face the reality of having you" zone, cos they know lots of other girls are attracted to you and conclude you are just going to take them on a joli ride. In addition, we get constant hate n jealousy for nothing, jealous mates calling us gay, and some ugly girls giving us random dirty looks for absolutely no reason. And girls tend to play more games when the guy in question is handsome, cos they believe you think you can get any girl you want hence they dont want to be "one of those easy girls". I even feel more sorry for the handsome shy guys cos if you dont speak to anyone, no1 would speak to you, cos you are already prejudged as stuck up/full of yourself. We are human aswell tho

3cycle: No woman is useless...
What you call useless is another man's treasure, and what you treasure could be another person's worst creature.

olajide8: No - Its just presumed all handsome guys or most handsome guys are - that's why we have the challenge of settling down the most- no woman trust us- they mol.est us, and don't trust us- then comes this not to good looking lady - she listens to us wants to share our challenges - gives us the benefit of the doubt even when she see's all the 6inches chicks around, she stays in the background- and then we think about settling down* then comes the babe - eyeing everyone- speaking vocabulary, telling us that we are cheats- what is the problem self? Men and women wahala only God will settle them!

prettythicksme: so you mean you are handsome too but pinshure or idonbilivit

olajide8: Well - I wouldn't post coz I am to radical and vocal when it comes to my point of view- on political issues - you may have to do a bit of research on me-

MistadeRegal: I can't say I'm handsome but firstly my girl stared at me and said, "I wish you were less handsome!" MEHN!! I FROZE!!! The second time she stopped me from coming to their area with, "I'd come over when you want to see me."

chinasaekp3rem: sHUT UP

OlamiB: so true about the jealous girlfriend and wife, I dnt even allow him come to my place that much, I prefer going to his place. I dnt want any frnd to snatch him from me

prettythicksme: most handsome guys are brokers cheaters good in yanshing,gay etc

scobaba: My home boi miky

He was also my best man.

fyn boi...all the chics in UNN then loved hanging around him.

He hugged an average of 50 girls everyday, smooched 20, kissed 10 publicly.

From 1st year till e graj...no babe.

everybody say him be player.

danbrowndmf: lol oboi eh na me u dy indirectly talk to oh,i don dy graj 4 Nd naw yet no babe don gree all keep sayn am a player i cm dy wonder who i dy play na

assfreak: No be only fine boys dey go thru all these wahala wey you list. I no be fine boy but gals dey park 4 my doorstep. Make I no even mention d name wey all those jobless old women for Mechin don call me. Dey say I ugly but yet dem wan die on top my matter.

libertyfather: They are even mistaken for the rich dude not knowing they are the poorest.....fyn boi no kobo

Romanciella: wtf like seriously u couldnt get a better background for yr picture

redcliff:
Is hugging 50 girls something to brag about? crap

magnificcio:
Maybe you hug less than five a day.

EmoBoy:
They also call you fine boy all the time (I hate that!) My name is not fine boy.

But still, the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.

1. People always assume you're smart and intelligent

2. People are quick to have mercy on you when you commit a little crime

3. People are drawn to you (you have the ability to make cool and loyal friends if you want to)

4. You can easily get favors from women and some men

5. You have more charisma if you're rich compared to regular dudes

6. Your looks may easily get you a job


Anyway being handsome has not given me anything tangible in life. I'm still waiting the day my handsomeness will reward me with a million dollars.

prettythicksme:
yes I dey burn self haba handsome guys worst eehhn and they will even demand money from ladiea

Disadvantages of being handsome: I saw this list somewhere online so i decide to add a few words to it.
1. Assumed to be a player- Women assume you're a player for no reason. They'll take you less seriously and question your motives the whole time. Its like infidelity is written all over you. Ladies make sentences like “who are you sleeping with now?” Like WTF.

2. Attracting useless women- Sure you attract more girls, but with the quantity comes a drop in quality. You'll constantly run into useless superficial women with no substance while the ones with substance are not phased or impressed by your looks. And trust me we don’t always like the pretty ones.

3. Amebor- Everyone's in your business and wants to know who you're sleeping with. Iya Basira on the street even warns her daughters never to cross your gate. On campus your name is on the lips of everyone, to make matters worse just be a little popular and you’re on every campus magazine. The amount of attention this person attracted troubled and confused her quite a bit. Everyone would know what you have done, not because of what you did but what you look like.

4. Older Women- Older women are pushy and aggressive and don't know when to turn it off. The worst part is the boldest ones are the ugliest more condemned cargo. You have a flock of obasanjo looking women constantly making you uncomfortable. The worst is they're openly biased towards you and will talk about you to everyone creating a lot of awkward tension and unwanted attention. Some would be like “Let me take care of you like a son”, biko does that involve servicing some parts..

5. Gays- Gay men stare at men the way men stare at women. It's annoying and infuriating and makes me want to fight but I'm not on so i refrain. Either way the worst part about it is gay men staring or trying to talk to you. So when a guy you think is straight glances at your arm or chest. Abomination. Once i got asked out by a gay dude, i had to stylishly turn him down, we’re great friends though.

6. Jealous Girlfriend- Your girlfriend or wife is always jealous, if she catches you smiling at a lady it’s almost equal to you sleeping with someone else. She feels so insecure, checks your phone, knows your plans and wants to follow you out on guys night. No matter how much you try to assure her, she still finds a reason not to trust you.
Guys who calm to be handsome on NL come and add yours ...

Source: http://www.nigeriafilms.com/news/19324/32/disadvantages-of-being-handsome.html

peekeeks:
Well...I think being cute and handsome is something a guy should be able to flaunt...afterall ladies got stuff they flaunt all d time.