Errrrr. ...So OP, your argument is: it is better to stay single and continue to fornicate than to get married and be guilty of adultery

For an article premised on the Christian vow of marriage, methinks your article is wrongly couched.

greatgod2012:



thank you my sister.
Anyone who can't keep to his/her marital vow but desire to have kids can achieve it without necessarily committing him/herself to any vow.
For men, they can achieve their desire through surrogacy and for women, they can achieve it through anonimous sper*m donation........and every one is happy without causing anybody the heartache of infidelity.

How is this a heartache when everyone is cheating? So pple believe they will change their cheating and multiple-partner ways after they are married? Some pple marry knowing full well who their spouses are but got blinded by wealth, social status or aging issues.

blueberryp:
Truth! Mayb if we got more advice addressing both genders, a lot more marriages will be saved. We keep teaching girls how to be decent and women how to keep the marriage but we forget that marriage is between two people. No matter how hard one partner is trying if the other partner isn't putting in just as much effort nothing will work.
We need more advice to men on how to be decent, how to keep their marriages and how to make their wife truly happy.
We have been advicing women since I can remember and yet divorce rates keep climbing. This means we are doing something wrong so let's start advicing the men, probably things will change, who knows

Which means that whoever has been advising the women is doing a bad job.

There is every posibility of a person's lifestyle as a single affecting them when they get married. Those that were promiscuous as singles are likely to remain same when they get married.

blueberryp:
I think this is the number one thing. The number one source of marital problems. Most people wwho claim to fear God donot truly fear him if not u wwill never justify adultery, fornication, stealing (u need to see people justifying that grandma dat stole her grandchild from her mother, I got shivers) and all sorts. Religion doesn't change people.

You included...since nobody is a virgin or married as one...nobody has the right to talk.

okotv:
in other words, cheating a married partner is wrong but sleeping around can be tolerated as long as you are not married

Yes cos when u are sleeping around u put urself at risk cos dats d consequences of ur choice n action, bt wen u are cheating on ur partner u put d whole family at risk...
My opinion though...

moca:
Hy coogar! Wait a minute!
Did u just say d woman's weight can make d man look outside?
Ok fine
But what about pregnant men?

Me think we hv more pregnant men than fat women and they look disgusting.
Puh!
Its a turn off for most ladies and can equally make ladies look outside

U see, equation is balanced here

Cheating Wife Detected!

Omimah:
There is every posibility of a person's lifestyle as a single affecting them when they get married. Those that were promiscuous as singles are likely to remain same when they get married.

I said it ...they will say they will change...as u hope so...ur spouse doesn't. U see pple doing it with others' spouses and they don't want that when married. haha karma is real!

Nothing work until we work it.When peeps Curse themselves in the name of marriage Vows,U expect dat to work? U hear for BETTER 4 WORSE.IN SICKNESS,POVERVTY,DEPRIVATION in oppose to be FRUITFUL,MULTIPLY,PROSPER have DOMINION and u chorus I DO.How do U expect Ur Marriage to work with such CURSE? 2,Not every couple are philander/pervert/sluter?Only abnormal peeps engage in such habit

the mind... how would u expect a chic or a guy that has dated 5 pple in 10 years .. to stick to a single person for 50 years?..
lol if i do d maths. mehn.. e hard o

greatgod2012:



thank you my sister.
Anyone who can't keep to his/her marital vow but desire to have kids can achieve it without necessarily committing him/herself to any vow.
For men, they can achieve their desire through surrogacy and for women, they can achieve it through anonimous sper*m donation........and every one is happy without causing anybody the heartache of infidelity.

Iwo ko lo ma so fun mi bin se ma jaiye, keep ya advise to ya self

Crap.

The only thing some of you girls think everyday is how to cage a man and make him close his eyes whenever another fine chic comes by.
Well that's never gonna happen.
Tell Bible we know it's a great book but since it chose to remain static in the midst of advancing human technologically modified World, we refuse to live like Abraham who never had a mobile phone.

Very soon, we are going to abandon church weddings to.
Any man who paid the bride price to the Father of the bride is legally married. That's our culture.
You and your white wedding must go to hell. Fake humanoids.

Nice write-up

A cheating home is a dead home. When the child grows up, he'll lose respect for the cheating parents and do worse.

Cheating is as a result of immaturity in the game of women, there's always a time when a man sees women as one of those thing we used to play with, when that time comes, that's when the man should plan to get married.

Men and women should learn control their straying eyes. Learn to love their partners more. Find reasons not to cheat on them. For goodness sake, she did crazy things for you when she was pregnant and he condoled many things when you were not making sense.

We should learn something, no matter how many girls you cheat with, you will not sleep with all the girls in the world and you won't sleep with the finest/sexiest.

Toto na Toto, Pr*ck na Pr*ck. Learn to de satisfied.

rolled:
Cheating on your wife actually makes you love her more

Lols na wa ooo! Chai

Gentlemen and ladies, the issue of man and woman is sooo deep to casualized, it connote alot of mystries. Yes, i absolutely agreed with the writer but keeping of marrital vow requires the help of God. You can not achieve it by your personal strenght, yes it requires the help of God. Every day we are faced with a lot of tempation, within our environment, the morale values are no were to be appreciated, money is the determinant of love, respect are no longer earned but priced. Therefore, a good wife must be prayerful always, man also must be prayerful too. Unless the vow is backed up with prayers, keeping it is unrealizable. Therefore, lets not fight over this issue. St. Paul, an early christian and missionary and author of several New Testament epistles, said and i quote" the things i dont want to do, i find myself do them" therefore we require God in our marriage, our lives, our career, our single lives, our studies, our family, our relationship with others, here in Nairaland, we need the help of God. Be bless and have a great sunday.

ZUBY77:
Crap.

The only thing some of you girls think everyday is how to cage a man and make him close his eyes whenever another fine chic comes by.
Well that's never gonna happen.
Tell Bible we know it's a great book but since it chose to remain static in the midst of advancing human technologically modified World, we refuse to live like Abraham who never had a mobile phone.

Very soon, we are going to abandon church weddings to.
Any man who paid the bride price to the Father of the bride is legally married. That's our culture.
You and your white wedding must go to hell. Fake humanoids.

chai @ Bible remaining static... na we dey change our ways...and dey pay for am.

Cheating is as old as marriage itself! To be honest keeping vows is so hard for humans....we are mere mortals n so infallible. And don't forget d devil is there looking to steal, kill n destroy. Every marriage needs constant prayers for divine strength against temptations of d flesh.
And don't forget d devil's incarnates roaming around preying on married men n women, all in a bid to break up their union. I know about self control n self discipline but it takes d grace of God....... May God bless our marriages n keep us faithful IJN
My humble submission

hayzed2:



Iwo ko lo ma so fun mi bin se ma jaiye, keep ya advise to ya self

owa lara e.konipe koto ye e.adiye to shu tio to ara e lo wa

okotv:
in other words, cheating a married partner is wrong but sleeping around can be tolerated as long as you are not married

That is what she is saying. A bad mentor!

SAMBARRY:
owa lara e.konipe koto ye e.adiye to shu tio to ara e lo wa

Foul wey shit wey piss for body, he dey ya body..... omo your yoruba is deadly fluent

Marriage is honourable, the bed un defiled. After we've done ALL we CAN, it is the Fear of God in our hearts that keeps us faithful and committed to each other and our vows.
My opinion.

rolled:
Cheating on your wife actually makes you love her more

Your head dey leak?

ferdimako:

chai @ Bible remaining static... na we dey change our ways...and dey pay for am.

What are paying?

Disaster, death and everything that you witness today has been there from day one.

greatgod2012:


thanks!
I'm humbled.

The marriage vow is endangered,some don't even know their status...walk away is the option or die trying to work on the marriage

ZUBY77:


What are paying?

Disaster, death and everything that you witness today has been there from day one.

if they are not paying...y the complaints? Some women on revenge mission get thrown out ...mbok.

Don't be a fo ol
Na ur mama you dey ask dat question

Joavid:


Your head dey leak?

Emmmh! So you guys think that when a man cheats, is either the wife is fat or has attitude problem, in other words it is the fault of the woman. Akuko! I guess same goes to the women, when they cheat, is either their husbands have attitude problem, small penis, inability to last long on bed or provide for the family.

hayzed2:



Foul wey shit wey piss for body, he dey ya body..... omo your yoruba is deadly fluent

ashe otie gbede
go brush up your yoruba joor.it sucks



if you are yoruba and you don't know how to type or communicate in yoruba shame on you


even non yorubas understand yoruba idioms fluently

SAMBARRY:
ashe otie gbede
go brush up your yoruba joor.it sucks



if you are yoruba and you don't know how to type or communicate in yoruba shame on you


even non yorubas understand yoruba idioms fluently

I will be back, Give me a month *angrymode*

okotv:
wrong...the bible only allows for divorce in case of fornication not adultery....read and understand the scriptures

i don't think he/she is wrong. There is difference btw adultery and fornication. Adultery is only applicable to d married while fornication is only applicable to d unmarried i.e A married man slping wt an unmarried girl commits adultery while d girl commits fornication. A married person can't fornicate but adultery (infidelity).
Now i think wht d scriptures is talking about is actually the ACT (sexual immorality) as both adultery and fornication involve one thing "Sexual Immorality". So in dis case d bible actually mearnt one can seek 4 divorce if dere is sexual immorality aside d wedlock. That's the ACT (sex to another other than d wife or husband). Shalom