RedEboe:

It is not 'a new trend', many guys also have steady girlfriends with multiple side chics. A woman does not owe you any real loyalty until you pay her bride price.

If a girl demands for money but doesnt reciprocate your financial gesture with $ex, don't give her money next time. Just go out there and look for other women that are willing to give you $ex in exchange for your money. I can recommend a few streets to you in Lagos, after dark.
Abi?

RedEboe:

Yes I have, my toddler boy knows the name of all the girls in his class. I'm in trouble!

RedEboe:


I can't, the bite marks and finger nail marks still hurt,11 years after.
LOL!!!!

Anyways, she was about 26 years old, and when I first met her,she was forming 'gangster babe' and all, when the D-day came and she revealed her virginity, you can imagine the shock I had to endure. So between both of us there were two firsts, her first time of ever having sex and my first time of a virgin. Both of us were totally clueless on what to do!

But we eventually sailed through...I still hate the sight of blood!

hugoart:
I agree partly with your answer to the first question.Still l think there should be more to dating than being in multiple relationships -the risks,the other party's jealousy, the open deceit of it all,the possible STI.The risks,RedEboe?

Were you ever in any of these "love triangles" or whatever shapes?How were you feeling then,if any?
It's not a pleasant experience.

RedEboe:


Funny enough, I did 'almost' fall madly in love with this Christ Embassy girl but she turned me down flat after one of her Pastors saw a vision that I wasn't the one for her. Today, she is a divorced single mum, heard she's planning to remarry soon-True Story.

Of course, i've been turned down/rejected by several girls I toasted in the past-it's part of the fun.

Yes, I slept with just two married women in the past, their wealthy husbands were based abroad. But i never maintained close relationship with them afterwards.

kunrazer:
Bro u be confirm. I use Litmus paper test for the "true player factor" nd e turn blue sharp sharp. Now my headache is this. I actually dnt want 2 do much of playing, but I want 2 test d waters before I walk "the one" down the isle, but how do you part PEACEFULLY with a girl who is so so into you? Were you ever in such a situation? Again, do you think your looks, if you have any, actually helped you get girls more easily

fadjnr:


Mehn I'm scared o cause I've not experienced sex with a virgin before. looking forward to it tho.

remsonik:
Well men boasting about their sexcapades as if its normal. Woe betides any lady who opens such thread on nairaland!! In short Op was once a stud. Thank God for your life Op

samflexxy:
Hmm interesting lemme ask ya a question











Snakie and moneyhungry who writes better sexuality story

Tashamania:
God, I love your replies...especially this

mymz:

My my! and here i was thinking this part of the world couldn't produce men like this one.
and so to you i raise a glass, Finally! a man worth having. it is rather unfortunate he already belongs to another.
Nevertheless, Bravo!
in another life maybe

RedBenson:


That aspect of sleeping with married women, how possibly can one initiate that and succeed in it? Not like am interested in sleeping with any married woman. Just want to know how possibly a young dude can initiate talk and woo a married woman into going to bed with him.

remsonik:

Well there's no wisdom in what I wrote but have you ever paused to think that underages do visit nairaland and some would want to try out op's experiences.
Also have you realised that most guys reading this points are not ready to change but rather improve on their womanizing skills. Have you also stopped to think that married men and women who are not getting enough sexual satisfaction in their marriages might want to take Op's route instead of working on their marriages and relationships. Have you people also considered that so many homes are at the risk of being destroyed and so many relationships are at stake.
Well to each its own
My own is that What works for A might not work for B and what A does and escapes B might do it and meet his waterloo.
Its for the matured to discern!!

RedEboe:


Married women are just like any other women,the ring on their fingers don't make them super-human. Married women also enjoy being complimented and admired by other men,especially their husbands. However,I'd encourage you to do all you can to avoid married women, they are bad market, trust me.

anssy:
am no kid, I am in my late 20s, I have a reason why I asked questions concerning a.NAL sex. Thanks for enlighting me, I am grateful.

moneyhungry:
as e dey hot. OP dey sound like guy wey gather orientation. sail on sir.

12inches1:
This bro reminds me of Tai2. Anyway my question is this. Im also a bad guy like u. But i started dating this lady that i have finally got stuck on. I may actually marry her. i met her a V .One prob i have with her tho is that she has some boundaries that i dont like. for example she wont give me bj neither would she allow me to go down on her. She says this things are dirty but in actual fact i think she just wants to deliberately hold back some things from. She also never lets me see her completely naked . its like she is hoarding some things abt herself and anytime i talk to her abt it,she will be like she cant give me everything that she is not my wife yet. Or that have i paid her bride price. Yet she expects me to give her alll of me. im actually getting very discouraged. What can i do?

RedEboe:


First of all, let me assure you that no two 'bad guys' are the same; you are you and I am me. LOL

You said you met her a virgin? So, I'm assuming that you've had $ex with her already or is it that she just told you that she was a virgin?
There are quite a number of women that truly do not fancy oral $ex, I have even met a few women that did not like or enjoy French kissing. I doubt if she's deliberately holding anything back from you because your statement suggests that you've already had $ex with her, so wetin come remain?
If oral $ex means that much to you, you had better sort it out with her before saying "I do". How? Come clean and tell her your $exual expectations from her if you guys end up getting married. Hear what she has to say and then decide.

RedBenson:


Why did you like the Penls aspect of it most especially?

RedEboe:


First of all, let me assure you that no two 'bad guys' are the same; you are you and I am me. LOL

You said you met her a virgin? So, I'm assuming that you've had $ex with her already or is it that she just told you that she was a virgin?
There are quite a number of women that truly do not fancy oral $ex, I have even met a few women that did not like or enjoy French kissing. I doubt if she's deliberately holding anything back from you because your statement suggests that you've already had $ex with her, so wetin come remain?
If oral $ex means that much to you, you had better sort it out with her before saying "I do". How? Come clean and tell her your $exual expectations from her if you guys end up getting married. Hear what she has to say and then decide.

ogaofficer:
Experience being your best teacher, pls is it advisable for a guy to move on immediately his heart was broken by a chic she loves so much? Though the chick was at her fault. 2. Whats the probability of that chic coming back to plead? 3. Does it make sense to have your ex pix in your album, and calling her?

Tashamania:


it isnt the 'Pen1s" perse I liked, what I liked was the tone in which he said he is a virgin because his pen1s looks the same. You people should quit misunderstanding me joor

RedEboe:


Married women are just like any other women,the ring on their fingers don't make them super-human. Married women also enjoy being complimented and admired by other men,especially their husbands. However,I'd encourage you to do all you can to avoid married women, they are bad market, trust me.